It begins and ends with control. This is the foundation for everything else I do in this life. Some want to control; and, some want to be controlled. My natural inclination is to exercise total control and domination. While I thoroughly enjoy and want total control, I am perfectly capable of functioning in a conventional lifestyle setting if that was my choice. I simply find it unsatisfying in every way. I tend to like the extreme; and, control allows me the freedom to explore that in so many different ways. As for my interests beyond control, I do not confine myself to any particular aspect of BDSM. Each offers its own kind of fulfillment. In some cases, the denial of such fulfillment can be equally enticing. I seek a female submissive or slave age 18 to 40. While I will not rule out a short or limited term engagement completely, I am primarily searching for long term engagements. Any arrangement I make with a potential candidate will operate on the underlying theme of control and a dominant/submissive context. I am respectful of hard limits, but I will push you to reach and discover new interests. I have many fetishes and fantasies, and toys for us to play with. Bondage, master/slave, daddy/daughter, forced sex, public humiliation are just to name a few. I look forward to hearing your own fantasies and experiencing them. I understand this kind of trust takes time to develop, and do not expect it to happen over night. Submissives are fragile creatures and must be cared for. That is my job as a dominant. In return for your loyalty and servitude I will take care of you, teach you discipline, and make you stronger through submitting. If I sound like the dominant you have been looking for, please feel free to contact me.