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snarkylilredhead

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If youre bratty, curious,or playful, well get along just fine.

Im a regular professional guy with a creative streak.

I guess I sort of walk the line between vanilla and kink, punishment and pampering. Lets build what you want to build together. If theres a little dark side to it, ill find my place. Im cerebral. I enjoy texting to get to know people, I use yahoo. I can use whatever.

I work extremely well with people that are looking to try new things.

Just because Im not shouting dominance, that doesnt mean its not there. Confidence is quiet, insecurities are loud. Lets get to know each other as humans first. Im here to meet a real woman. In the real world. People in the real world have flaws. I take the good with the bad, and want to build something real, and complex. Mental connection is everything. Not that I wouldnt be open to a little playtime if the right opportunity exists.



Im single, never married, no kids, no drama. Honesty is 1.



I keep your secrets locked in an invisiblesafe, on fire, at the center of the earth. Trust is 2.



Be somewhat fit, within reason. You dont have to be perfect. Attraction is 3.



I would ideally find someone who was very vanilla-kink. Vanilla enough to live out our day to day, and enjoy life as a couple, with some subtle day play perhaps... And also very kink. Someone who, once we build our foundation, will want to push and explore. Im up to go as far as youd like, as hard as you can handle, minus the very extreme. Really, Im like a stage awaiting an acrobat. Im stable and safe, so we can throw you all over the place)

11/14/2015 5:33:30 PM
Why I sent a message so far away... I see everybody on the site looking for a local person. The truth of it is the intellectual connection I find is a lot harder to maintain than the aspect of physicality. What I'm looking for might not be what I'm really looking for. We all change or discover something new. I'm open to anything anywhere and who knows where that actual spark that's perfect is gonna come from. The farther I cast the more chance I find it. Where we are right now isn't usually where we will be in the future you never know, so be open to anything. My work is flexible where I'm living today might not be where I'm living tomorrow. Dare to dream big. You're worth it and you're out there and I'm looking for you.

11/1/2015 5:46:57 PM
I know my agenda, we can talk about it day one, I won't hide it, or play games. I know what I want, I won't waste your time. I'm stable now, emotionally and financially, and I'm not wasteful with either. I've learned from mistakes, I won't be making them with you. I don't chase a dream, I know my role, I'm good at it. I've learned to refine my personality to suit life, not the other way around. I'm not trying to be with more women, I'm looking to bring one closer. Play games in bed, not with heads.

10/16/2015 11:12:08 AM
On meeting someone from the site for the first time:

Met a girl from CS yesterday.  She was funny and smart and ridiculously cute.  We didn't get the immediate click from our lifestyles lining up.  However, it was awesome to know there are real people out there, and that I will eventually find someone to share all that kinky energy with.  Life is good, but life feels VERY good today. 


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MissKathrynSpank
 
 Age: 24
 Lake charles, Louisiana