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I am from India (ergo, brown-skinned). Those who do not have a problem with that are welcome to read on.
NOTE: PROFILE PICTURE IS NOT MY PHOTOGRAPH. I FOUND IT ON THE INTERNET AND THOUGHT IT REPRESENTS MY PROCLIVITIES ACCURATELY.
I have been active in the lifestyle since 2011 and educating myself about it since 2005. Since that time, I have had several submissives, all of whom have been wonderful, interesting people, and I have learnt a lot from them. I thank them for helping me grow as a Dominant and as a person. However, at this point I am unpartnered and am looking for sub(s)/slave(s) who will fulfill my wishes and desires (as outlined below) and perhaps, if the circumstances are right, be my partner for life.
I do take some getting used to, as my friends will attest. It seems I puzzle (being polite here) most people, at least around where I live. Up for a puzzle? Here goes.
I am Dominant, Sadistic, yet a cuddle-bug. I read three news-sites every day and visit kink.com with the same amount of regularity. My house is messy, but my office is organized. I can do complex math in my head, but I can’t remember names. I can be arrogant, acerbic, cold and distant, but be very caring and loving to people I do really care about. I speak three languages, but listen to music in languages I do not understand. I can remember 16 digit numbers, but I have been known to forget an anniversary or a birthday or two. Or more. There are not many subjects in the world that I cannot talk about at length, but often, simple things stump me. I am a highly regarded and highly educated professional with an angular personality under a quiet, reserved exterior. I may come off as intimidating sometimes. However, those who take the time to get to know me usually experience a very rewarding friendship.
I am a gentleman. I open doors and pull chairs for my ladies. I am also an evil Dominant, with a penchant for extracting my pleasure from my submissive/slave.
Some indications of my tastes:
Drink - Yes (Single Malt).
Smoke - Yes (trying to quit).
Drugs - Never.
Religious Affiliations - NONE.
Favorite Pastime - Reading.
Favorite Music - Classical.
Favorite Movies - Schindler's List, Munich, Anything by Ray, de Sica and Kurosawa
BDSM Tastes, Likes and Dislikes
My 'scores' are as follows:
100% Degradation Giver
100% Dominant
96% Bondage Giver
96% Experimentalist
96% Master/Mistress
96% Sadist
96% Voyeur
94% Primal (Predator)
93% Daddy/Mommy
84% Brat Tamer
79% Non-monogamist
57% Primal (Prey)
54% Exhibitionist
38% Pervert
25% Switch
16% Girl/Boy
9% Vanilla
4% Masochist
0% All-Rounder
0% Bondage Receiver
0% Brat
0% Degradation Receiver
0% Slave
0% Submissive
I love inflicting pain. I love impact toys of all kinds: whips, floggers, paddles, canes, crops, sticks, belts and the like. But I love whips most of all, as evidenced by my handle here. The pictures shed light on things I find interesting. I love to see welts rising, the sub struggling to absorb the pain and eventually finding release in it. I love to see the submission in her eyes. And I love to leave marks. Electricity is also a favorite, particularly when applied to the sensitive parts: nipples, genitals, assholes, underarms etc. Metal electrodes are particularly interesting, for hard torture and punishment. Like playing with clamps, clips and zippers, fire and oh… sharp, pointy objects. I like bondage. I am learning rope-work, but am really taken by iron chains, shackles, spreader bars etc.
Apart from Sadism, I am very interested in sexual slavery. In an ideal world, I like my submissives/slaves to be available for sex with me, without question, at all times. Apart from that, they should also be available to please anyone I command them to please; male, female or any other gender orientation. Again, in my ideal world, I like my submissives/slaves to serve me domestically when required, with cooking and cleaning being a part of the duties.
Temporary Partners
In a temporary partner, I am preferably seeking someone local with a flexible schedule. Someone who is mature, drama-drugs-disease free, fun to be with, preferably bisexual and is interested in experiencing pain or has experienced it and loves it. I like playing in public (parties and gatherings), as well as in intimate settings. My play style includes sex, so while in public settings I may not indulge, in intimate settings I prefer to. I am very patient with newer people, and not at all averse to answering questions and pointing the questioner in the right direction if I do not have the answers. To that end, any temporary partner, new to the lifestyle or otherwise, is welcome to negotiate scenes with me, both public and intimate ones.
Long-term Partners
In a permanent partner, I am looking for someone I can have a really long-term, perhaps a permanent, relationship with. I am not looking for perfect. Nobody is. I am not. But I am looking for our mutual perfect. Looking for a lady with the intellect, savvy, grace and kindness to be my much-adored partner/wife in the vanilla aspect of the relationship, and the fortitude and absolute submissiveness to be my slave in the D/s aspect of the relationship. Preferably someone who is a professional, someone who has her own world she feels powerful in. Someone who understands D/s, someone who makes her way into my heart.
I would prefer her to be bisexual, and an "Alpha Sub". Someone who will be abjectly submissive to me, but will be Dominant towards other submissives/slaves I might have.
I AM NOT A LONG DISTANCE DOM. I do not do cyber. But I have no problem with starting a relationship long distance, and eventually moving to a point where she moves to me permanently. I have no problem relocating a submissive/slave. I am successful enough that I can maintain a household on my income alone, so it would be a negotiation between the submissive and me regarding her working. Please understand, if she is a successful professional and wants to work for self-fulfillment, I will do everything in my power to help her along that path. I will also do anything I can to ensure that she grows as a person, a slave and a professional.
If you think you might be interested in filling any of these roles, or have any questions, contact me.
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