I have been in this lifestyle for a long time - started when I was in my 20's and have never looked back. Over those years I have learned a lot about how to interact with people and more importantly what I prefer - and ideally it is a married woman looking to explore her submission or servitude in a discrete setting. Knowing it may start out slow but she will be constantly pushed to do more - but always knowing I will never interfere with her "normal" life and will just use that part of her life to create more intensity.
If you have thought about it and wanted to try but needed someone discreet but experienced to open you up to all new horizons, or to bring out a side you have always known is there but were afraid of it - now is the time.
The only question is are you ready?