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Having been in the lifestyle on and off for most of my adult life, exploring BDSM, Kink, and j
Female Submissive, 42,  Kansas City, Missouri

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 Submissive Female

 Kansas City 


 Willing to Relocate

 5' 6"

 210 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Having been in the lifestyle on and off for most of my adult life, exploring BDSM, Kink, and just my overall slutty nature sufficed to say I'm definitely not a newbie. 

I've had casual play partners and long term 24/7 and I definitely prefer long term. (That is where the meat and bones are)


However, I have a love/hate relationship with Bdsm. It is a difficult life at times but so much a part of who I am that ignoring it is like neglecting a huge part of myself and I'm learning to embrace the good and take the bad day by day.


Let's face it, once you've had a taste and liked it you're hooked for life. So here we go...


I'm looking for a Dom between 39-55 not married, who is good at life and equally good at enjoying it. A Dom who takes pride in his appearance and likes to be active. Strong and capable but kind and humble at the same time. A man who knows when to be gentle and snugly and when to push and expand boundaries.

I believe a stern look and a steady voice can be just as binding as rope or shackles. Outside the bedroom I fall more in line with traditional stereotypes, I am a woman whos strong enough and independent enough to take care of myself, but old school enough that I prefer to differ to my Dom as the head of the household.  Short term I want a partner that I can get to know, enjoy spending time with and explore our kinks together and see if they mesh. Long term I want a relationship full of mutual respect and honest communication free of judgement so we can grow together. 

I need structure and rules in my life even if I fight them occasionally. Knowing where I stand and what is expected of me is extremely important. Communication and openness creates an environment where I can feel free to explore and try new things and feel safe and free of judgement.

 Im picky as fuck! Lol but I am an equally strong and intelligent woman with a lot to give. I am a professional woman with various interests and hobbies who loves good conversation, great music and has a zest for life. I don't really have many little qualities minus one or two here and there but I find I flourish and am happier in a Daddy's hands.

Poly is never going to work for me so if you aren't looking for your special someONE then I'm not your girl.


Im looking for local but am willing to consider other states but not looking for just some online romance.


If you don't attach a picture or have one to view I will not respond! 

This site however never works right so if you have pics like I do on fet I'd be more than happy to look there too! 

My Fet profile is Wakingupred.  I have tons of photos there! 


-- If you voted for Trump or support alt-right politics, please do not contact me. I do not hate you and you can very well be absolutely right but, we are not compatible.

-- If you support mixing of religion and politics, like conservative Christian, or evangelical republican, or fundamentalist radical islam, again, more power to you, you could very well be right but, we are not compatible.

-- If you do not respect women's reproductive rights and individual reproductive and lifestyle choices and/or LGTBQ rights, again, we are not compatible.

-- If you believe in the superiority of one race over any other, we are absolutely not going to be compatible and you may be an idiot or just ignorant.

Again, if you fall in any of these extreme right-winger, Christian pro-life activist or jihadist categories, please, DO NOT CONTACT ME!

Journal Entries:
1/6/2018 12:01:29 AM
I cannot emphasize this enough.... NO PICTURE = NO REPLY

11/1/2016 9:15:58 AM
I know most of you don't read profiles let alone journal entries but I'm very serious when I say I WILL NOT RESPOND WITHOUT A PHOTO OR IF YOUR PROFILE PIC IS YOUR COCK! Have some class for Christ sake!

3/21/2016 5:20:44 AM
Shallow Vs. Attraction As a submissive woman I hear often from men online that physical attraction shouldnít matter. I beg to differ and in a big way! I am a thick, curvy, opinionated, wild haired woman and not for the faint of heart but believe me, my submission is true for the right man. There is a debate that submission isnít about looks or sex and to a certain extent, that is very true, but letís face it some of us are looking for more than potential and occasional play. Some of us are looking for a lifetime partner to share everything with, and by everything that includes sex. Sex is so important to a healthy relationship and if one or both parties are not physically attracted then it is doomed to fail no matter how much admiration and respect is underneath. While I also know that slight attraction can certainly grow into more over time there has to be an initial spark in order to light that flame. This may definitely not be true for all but it certainly is in my case and I donít feel its an unreasonable request to have at least a spark. So if Iím not your cup of tea, no offense taken and if you are not mine, please be respectful!

8/20/2015 7:44:06 AM
If you are married, don't actually have time for a submissive, or are unavailable in any way... DONT WASTE MY TIME!!!!!

7/6/2015 4:43:45 PM
Ok so this has come up a few times now so I need to say that I'm a bit of a peace loving Buddhist hippie who is uber liberal and if you are a republican gun nut we aren't going to mesh well!

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