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When a Dom knows what he's looking for he has it altogether. When a submissive know what she's looking for she's a b****. Just because I have a voice and I know what I want out of a relationship doesn't make me less submissive. When a Dom is a bully I will speak up. Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I am a door mat. People in this lifestyle tend to forget their manners. You would never address your family friends or co-works in a manner that was rude or not sociable correct in the vanilla world so don't think you can address me in a way that is not politically correct. If you want respect you need to show respect. Not everyone believes you need to be humiliated, degraded and bully to make a good submissive nor does every submissive want it or tolerates it. This doesn't mean she's less or that's she's a switch it means she know what she wants plain and simply. If we all where put in the same shoe box it would be boriiiing. I am a lady first and formost. Submissive does not define me it's my title for the lifestyle. I'm sure you would like to be a gentleman first with Dom, Sir Master as your title not a bully and a A**. |
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K so I have to rant. I really wish you young Dom would get a grip. Do you honestly think age is but a number when your younger then my kids. Do you really think that we would have anything in common to sub stain a ltr relationship. You look lime you just want sex or a sugar momma. Not vwry becoming to a Dom. When you are told politely your to young take it like a good Dom would and and just leave. No bitter words. It called hard limits learn it first and for most show your control and leave. No bitter words needed. |
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Why why why??? Maybe I'm a little rough around the edges. Maybe I seem a little harsh and not so forth coming. In the vanilla world they don't jump to make assumptions. They talk get to know you maybe even share some back round. They don't have to judge and I don't have to tell them my history until I want too. I get choose what they know about my past. If it doesn't work out and we are not compatible I'm not label at b**** or bi we just go are seperate ways. In this lifestyle if I choose to protect myself choose to build my walls at first I'm labelled. I'm a switch because I chose not to give out my blind trust. I choose not to go into my history with everyone. I'm guarded yes for I do not have a Dom to protect me I am my own protector. We all if truth be told hide something. Some submissive like to be micro managed some don't does that make them less submissive. Some submissive can't talk to another Dom/man without permission from there Doms others sub can are they less submissive. Some submissive can't sit next to their Dom on the couch without permission some sub can are they less submissive. If it is what they agreed upon and works in their relationship is he less if a Dom. If he doesn't want or need to micro manage his sub is he less of a Dom. Does he love less. Is the relationship less. If she knows what she needs and want is she less submissive. In this lifestyle people jump to fast just my opinion to label others to fast. So back to why why why??? Why do I need to be something Im not. Why is it that after one or two messages you know me? Why is it you try and force me to give you my trust without you knowing a thing about me. Why is it you think you can label me without even know me the person or sub. Why is it ok for you to be mean to me because I know what I'm looking for in my Dom/man. All I can do is be true to myself. I have my wants needs desires dreams hopes and inspirations. Next time get to know me not my label. Don't judge me for I am just me not a label. Sometime thinking outside a box gives you the greatest rewards. LOVE HONEST AND TRUST. |
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Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. I want to know that feeling again. |
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