I have been a submissive for 13+ years. The last 10 has been with one Master who eventually also became my husband. Unfortunately he died last year so now I am exploring this lifestyle solo. I must say it has really changed since the last time I tried to connect with someone.
The last few months I have been able to do some exploring in the local BDSM community. I now realize that my masochist side is alive and well and wanting to experience more. Other than that I am not sure exactly what I am looking for. I know I do NOT want on-line only and since a very promising relationship was undone by being too far a drive apart I would prefer someone within a 3 or 4 hour drive.