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What I am looking for in a submissive
Attitude how you approaches life, how you carry yourself. I am not looking for the weak. To the contrary, I want someone who knows who they are and are comfortable with it. Just because youre a sub you have to stand up for your beliefs, I like strong and intelligent women. You can be the CEO of a major corporation and still be that slut whore I desire you to be. Obedience Yes I am a Dominate male and I will take control you will give it up. It is essential to me to know, without any doubt, that when its important there will be no argument or defiance when I say it has to be done a certain way. (Yes you will be punished!) I will listen to ions and concerns, but final word is always mine, be it right or wrong (and I am not always right I know). BUT it will always be SSC. BE HUMAN! - I look for someone who has that special something that can make a Dom feel like he is the most important person in the worldat least to their sub. A sub also needs to be warm, affectionate, understanding, sensitive, someone able to openly and outwardly express their own emotions and communicate well. Respect and Trust OK this is two way. Trust needs to flow in both directions. Not only in the world of BDSM but many of us have vanilla lives and people around us that are not in the lifestyle, respect these boundaries. Building trust start at the beginning of getting to know your partner, learn to build a base to grow with, it may take weeks to get to a comfortable level of trust. Enjoy the experience. A Dom may take control of a subs life (or parts of it), but the sub gains access to a Doms life too. There is a complete balance between the two. Both have to know that they will not take that knowledge to harm one another, no matter what may happen. Once I have your trust you will let me run with it.
Communication Ask questions to the most detail. Ask again. Anything that is important to you should be asked. Before and after. (just not right after). To me this is the most important.
Commitment If youre going to serveit should come from within, go with it. If its for just an hour or a day or a week. I seek total commitment. Exploring You must want to explore and grow and learn new and exciting experiences. Though training and sessions you must want to open doors and progress deeper and deeper working your boundaries and limits to meet mine. Sexuality is a pleasurable experience that can be explored beyond your means, go with it.Limits - Everyone have limits. And as time goes on they will change and you are exposed to more experiences. Keep an open mind. Never feel that its beyond your means. Know what you want tofulfillyour desiresand I know mine. SAFE, SANE CONSENSUAL is that clearDo not tell me you have no limits or no need for safe words or signals (I dont care how experienced you are). If your hands are numb or something is not right you be able to let your Dom know and not worry about consequences. I want you to say something and tell meif I believe its not relevant, then Ill gag you! )
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