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bunsteel
Hetero Male, 58, Tampa Bay, Florida 
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bunsteel

FLR is an immersive psychological experience in which I enjoy empowering my mate to become the primary decision maker. I am a stable man who feels that opening doors and looking out for your comfort is an honorable duty, like a soldier or a knight rather than a groveling dog. I remember reading a post saying that foreplay was everything that a man did for the past 24 hours. I've learned to share happiness by giving massages and doing chores for the sexy woman who rewards me with words and touches of affection, not always soft or gentle. I place high value on respectful conversation and admiration for each other as friends, without these submission and dominance become a chore whereas I am looking for fulfillment through dedication. If you don't have your own self in order then you will not be able to direct me.

I can switch my mindset as you wish, I can be serious about my tasks yet at the same time I like to flirt and be a little goofy to see if I can make you laugh. I list myself as Switch because for several years I was a bondage dom until my wife expected me to comply all the time yet still dominant her in the bedroom. Yes I do switch from masculine gentlemen in public to your obedient yet self responsible subby at home any time you wish. If you wish to be a bottom sometimes without submission there are ways to make that work. You can change shoes to switch me into total submissive mode.Wanting sex is my strong motivator while my top desire is to serve how you want to indulge in pleasure. Control using chastity allows me to constantly feel committed to you by switching the power of erections from the physically stronger man to the mentally stronger woman. By preventing masturbation this training tool works best during the times we are apart.

I will flatter you with love and obedience if you will flatter me by talking about why you selfishly choose to claim me for youself. Men are visual learners and motivated by achieving goals, I have been most happy with a woman who uses this knowledge to direct me through life. Progress towards shared dreams, no matter how hard the work becomes, is very satisfying for me when my partner has convinced me that submission to her is the best way to live my life. This is not easy for most women, but for someone who needs to feel real control over her partner outside of the bedroom I may be who you are looking for. It doesn't hurt to ask, it's why we are here.

If your fantasy is to have a smart and fit man who is responsible and caring become your personal servant, you can trigger me to become more obedient by working out how we can mesh into a lifestyle. My fantasy is to become unable to choose to resist your leadership through emotional and sexual attachment that is built on trust and sexual dependence upon you. Significant portions of my life have been controlled by a caring partner to whom I dedicated myself to, but so far few have tried to lock me full time. Denying ejaculation increases my dependence on you no matter how often you choose to grant me release.

I'd like to meet someone intelligent with a sunny demeanor, able to smile at the little things that go wrong, who flirts with words and tempting looks. Please include the word Spandex in your note so that I know you read this long profile. I am not in a hurry, I've made that mistake before. Most guys run from a competitive or manipulative woman, I'm hoping you will write. Your sparkling personality is what matters most to me, everything starts with conversation and finding out about interests and dreams. What motivates you?

3/9/2024 9:44:25 AM: So strange for the males on here... while I spend the time to write and edit a polite reply to a message I receive, I get blocked by the lady who wrote before I can send it. I guess I should consider that a lucky flag.

12/18/2023 4:10:26 AM: Some dommes think they can put on sexy clothes and flirt their way into what ever they want, if that is you keep reading.You like being able to be in charge all the time but at certain times you feed your greed for power by binding your partner because it amuses you to create a little suffering for him.You may want to enjoy sharing sexual energy but no longer want frequent penetration or you want your man to feel that intercourse is a treat to be earned through submission. I'd like to be able to let you know I am horny for you while at the same time be prevented from thinking I can just grab you, strip you and throw you down to fuck. I've learned how to shape chastity belts for practical comfort so that you can star in my every sexual thought. Everyday life becomes an adventure when control reaches any distance.'What is sexual in a high heel is the arch of the foot, because it is exactly the position of a woman's foot when she orgasms... So putting your foot in a heel, you are putting yourself in a possibly orgasmic situation.''Shoes are just a pedestal. What interests me is the power of the woman who wears them.'-- Christian Louboutin

9/27/2023 3:47:52 AM: I like my job but now I have to travel to Penn regularly. During a tour of an English castle I saw a number of old restraints on display. From then on I was fascinated with cuffs and chastity as a way of enhancing sex activities but considered myself a freak for thinking that way. I finally grew out of being the runt and my body started getting noticed by the girls, although I was still shy about anything sexual. I had begun trying to build chastity devices because I was embarrassed by my large out of control erections in class when the cheerleaders wore their costumes on game days. Then a beauty on the cross town swim team boldly asked me to go steady and I was unable to say no. I shared my interest in cuffs with her and being a Scorpio she was interested in the sexual power they represented. When she asked me to pose in a swim team speedo with her best friend for a photo project I was scared to say yes because I knew that I would not be able to hide my excitement from them, so we joked about chastity as a way to prevent that. From that point forward, I kept dreaming about being locked up by a possessive girl proud to show off my body to her friends. Looking back, I now realize the whole idea of getting me to pose was to expose me for their curiosity, we were virgins and still learning about our sexuality. She was not able to explore with the guys on the team but felt bold with me, someone who would keep secrets because of distance. Then I left for college and had no money for dating so no more bondage games for many years.After finishing college and divorcing a cheating wife, I had a shop at home where I began to experiment with building chastity belts. By now I had figured out I was no longer the ugly duckling and that my body was attracting attention, so I built an artistic belt for a camera bikini girl as my model. She got me to finally become comfortable with nudity and broke me out of my shy shell by challenging me at her pool parties to show off, eventually getting me to strip at friend's birthday parties. This revelation took me down a new path, I began wearing bike shorts confidently while riding along the beach. Being in a tourist town, some women were not shy about approaching me about my extremely fit body. When I started playing music in public then got invited to beach parties, I wore swim suits that were very bold and while most people did not really approve, the women that did were very open about what they liked. I started having great fear of unwanted pregnancies because Magnum condoms were not yet available, regular ones broke way too often so I began again to dream of chastity for safety. I started bringing up my interest in bondage early after meeting someone new, no point in wasting time if no long term potential. Now my bravery changed into the openness to talk about chastity soon after meeting someone, telling them I preferred to wait for sex. This allowed us to flirt while avoiding the pressure to hook up quickly, this also lead to many deeper friendships than I would otherwise have developed. I still dreamed of a BDSM relationship but no longer gave into impulse opportunities. Some of my new female friends were able to talk about their take on men and dating very honestly with me. Then I took on a submissive who was a former co-worker down on herself after being dumped hard, at first I only wanted to help her out of depression but over time we became sexual after we started drinking outside of work, never having felt sparks before then. She started out she like I had, unable to feel sexy and trying to hide under baggy clothes, not even owning a bikini. Being very direct and outspoken, she gave me new perspectives on how a woman enjoys sex differently than a man. We explored bondage enthusiastically but she absolutely rejected my attempts to put a chastity on her. Having some lack of trust about cheating, my interest in chastity was divided between wanting to wear one and wanting my mate in one. The artistic design of chastity belts was more of my interest than actual control, chastity was only a play toy until after she decided that she was really a dominant lesbian, which motivated me to design something I could wear full time and to find someone who would appreciate that. I thought I had become ready to submit full time as a lifestyle.

5/1/2023 4:24:31 AM: These things fill my submissive dreams:My partner wants to lead a relationship based on a happy friendship and sharing positive feelings.My partner enjoys using chastity to satisfy her need to possess her lover. She enjoys being center of attention when she wears clothes that men cannot ignore, especially me. She wants a partner who submits to her excitement for taking control physically using locks and keys.She would like to use her man's sexual energy to teach him to obey her. She want license to be persuasive on her terms.She is willing to take time to acknowledge my service with little erotic rewards even when she is tired. Words are enough.She is interested in putting mutual health activities into our shared routines of life for which we are both responsible.I'd be happy to do yoga, massage and connective breathing as our most frequent intimate activities.I enjoy being appreciated for my sexual arousal as a compliment to you at the same time I enjoy being denied sex as sincere submission to you.I'd like to demonstrate my experience with turning arousal in chastity into the intense desire to make you happy in non-sexual ways.I feel loved when locked in chastity but still want to make love when you decide to take it off. Please lock it up when you are done.I want to believe that you require chastity to prevent masturbation so that I stay fully erect when you want me to be.I am enchanted to believe you like chastity because it prevents anyone else from tempting me, that you now own me without question.The chastity does not need to eliminate having sex, but to control when. A woman who blocks male masturbation is never lonely. It is an easy way to encourage a man to give more hugs and better kisses if he is thinking about sex but cannot touch himself anymore.

1/15/2023 10:20:43 AM: As a late bloomer through high school, I felt like an ugly duckling so I avoided romance by focusing on science and sports. After college I met a free spirit who encouraged me to wear revealing swimsuits, even pushing me to strip for her friend's birthday party. Having women go gaga over me and ask me to wear speedos was mind blowing! However, this shifted my thinking from being a shy nice guy to being someone who could deliberately seduce just to satisfy my urges, making me feel guilty and even fearful. Then an older friend a hippie doctor convinced me that mental chastity was healthier than chasing bikinis or jerking off. She claimed that I suffered from PE and that Tantra taught how withholding ejaculation during intercourse was best for both partners. She knew I liked bondage so she began tempting me into accepting domination because she discovered she liked the power that my jingling keyring gave her after having escaped an abusive marriage. Sometimes she put me to work in her garden and cleaning her house while she teased me with words and costumes. I stopped looking at sex as hormonally necessary and starting seeing submission as respect. But after a year without normal sex and no actual device to enforce my agreement to stop masturbating, testosterone won so I neglected my commitment and wandered off feeling very alone. Thankfully she taught me a lot about my self which likely saved me from some serious life disappointments. I think I gave her enough confidence to begin dating again so I hope I also helped her heal.

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