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fairydragonstar

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I am back after a break....



I am a natual submissive but but I am not a doormat If you can give respect to the submission offered we probably will not be a good fit.



what i can offer is you is someone who can do vanilla and easily switch to the not so much

i am devoted and loyal sometimes to my own detriment



what I am not is stupid...in fact quite the opposite so I require a Dom that actually works at captivating my mind and understands that a power exchange goes both ways I deserve respect and care



any thing else you would like to know just ask I am open to conversation

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10/10/2017 10:32:10 AM

Respect it is such a simple word but it is something that the universe has been pointing out to me. In one of the many D/s dynamic boards I am on a question came up about collars and whether it was appropriate to give a current submissive a former submissive’s collar…. most said it was disrespectful…but it got me to thinking about previous & current relationships.
In the past while I gave respect to my Dominates, I accepted less than that from them…as I look at the disfunction, I didn’t respect myself enough to say something about it. Part of it was based in fear, part was trying to fit in a box that I didn’t fit in. As I move forward on my path and as I grow I am seeing how important respect of myself by myself is. I have no control over others but I do have control over myself, by accepting less from a Dominate I am not providing him with good service, by accepting less from others I am not respecting myself
What it took was to meet someone that respects me for the things I bring him. I get told regularly how honored he is with things that I have brought to the dynamic…I also get told how proud he is of me in the areas where I have grown. I am in turn honored by the fact that it matters whether I have eaten…that he takes the time in a busy day to check on me….I matter and it helps me understand the areas that I have failed in the past…that is not a bad thing just part of learning and growth but I am enjoying the process and I am enjoying the attention he is giving to me.
Everyday I am growing in the careful tending of someone I can call Master…he didn’t get that title because of his ability to be the badest of the bad….but because he gave respect and encouraged growth and in turn received respect and submission.


5/30/2017 5:50:13 AM

Back after a break.....this is still what I am looking for 

 

 

I am a smart, interesting, intriguing and captivating sub, that at times can be quite complex ..I know what I am looking for and I am willing to relocate for the right person.

 

Having said that...I am very cautious and this will not be a fast process I am interested in someone that finds my mind as interesting as my body. I am not a door mat and while submissive, I am totally capable at figuring out my problems, what I do seek is a person that is willing to be supportive and can help guide when I need it. 

 

If you are not interested in talking to me and getting to know me as a person then I am not really interested. For those that need a better definition if the only thing you can talk about is sex and can not converse about other subjects in a logical and well informed manner.....move on. Also I am not a causal play type person ..... in other words if you are looking for a play partner and not a lifestyle partner I am not interested I can find plenty of play type partners close to home and it holds no interest for me.

 

And Please do not waste my time unless you are serious about meeting and building a relationship..... I am really not interested otherwise, and I am tired of game players.I am a lifestyle submissive 

 

If your behavior crosses a line then with me personally then I freely use the block button....I am not a doormat and I require respect.

 

 


5/31/2014 6:19:49 PM

Um just a few additional notes

 

  1. if you think after a couple of days I am going to trust you enough to allow you complete access and control over everything in my life...I really think you need to seek professional help and guidance because I am not that uneducated in the lifestyle that I think that is a good thing 
  2. If I tell you I am ill and unable to provide for your needs at this time and you ignore that...that is a huge red flag that you are not interested in a power exchange but a power dictatorship and have not read my profile


I am not in a rush or desperate to find anyone to be my Dom...and I have a few that I chat with on a regular basis that have lots of potential but like anything worth having it takes time and effort on both parts the sub and the Dom


5/9/2014 9:41:07 AM

control - determine the behavior or supervise the running of.


I love to give control over myself to someone who earns my trust, it seems like such a simple thing to do, but for me is says a lot about the respect that I have for the person I give that control too.


It might be something as simple as letting them choose my clothing I do that because I trust that they will take care of me and give me respect.


My Registration Number is 784-881-427


4/27/2014 9:34:04 AM

Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.


4/25/2014 7:44:43 PM

Honestly, If all you can talk about is how you can use me I am not interested....you want a door mat not a Submissive and Doms like that are a dime a dozen


4/24/2014 7:02:17 AM

I had already found that it was not good to be alone, and so made companionship with what there was around me, sometimes with the universe and sometimes with my own insignificant self; but my books were always my friends, let fail all else.


4/21/2014 4:30:26 PM

If your screen name is misogynistic I am probably not a good fit.....just saying I think respect is part of the power exchange


4/13/2014 5:34:45 PM

I am growing and learning every day. I have learned I need a little stingy when participating in impact play.

I also learned I need a Dom that has a sense of humor and loves to laugh


2/23/2014 9:27:31 AM
They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.

2/23/2014 8:53:53 AM

Spent some time at a submissive seminar learning more about who I am as a submissive. I really am not interested in Doms that have no clue about the lifestyle.


12/2/2013 3:53:29 PM
Do those things that incline you toward the big questions, and avoid the things that would reduce you and make you trivial.

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LUCKY1234
 
 Age: 20
  Texas