You may call me UncleMega, all my friends do. All friend requests that are not accompanied by a personal message will be deleted. I'm the Dominant side of a DD/babygirl couple. We're married and usually play together but not always. We are open to many scenarios involving couples, single women, groups and select single men. If you contact my wife without letting me know first then that will be the end of things and you can plan on being ignored and possibly even black listed. We believe in respect and protocol. I love to share my wife but those who can not honor simple lifestyle courtesy are not the kind of people we mesh with. I am an independent member of the NLA-I (National Leather Association-International) NOTICE! If you choose to correspond with myself or a member of my house you will be held to the same standard I hold my house to. Public transgressions will be dealt with publicly. If my private interactions with you lead me to believe you are dishonorable or a threat to the community I live in, I will make the information I have public knowledge. I will not be a party of your lies, transgressions or crimes by remaining silent. Consider yourselves notified! If you're affiliated with **Las Vegas BDSM** or it's owner then don't bother contacting me. The intolerance and uncalled for judgement that stems from that group is not welcome in my circle, nor is anyone who is willing to look the other way. Hypocrites and haters GO AWAY! My theme song Ylvis - Trucker's Hitch [Official music video HD]: ://youtu.be/TUHgGK-tImY I'm a bonafide rope enthusiast. Aspiring Whipster (noun: whippersnapper; one that uses a whip) and all around student of anything Top worthy. "You know the most beautiful thing about bdsm is that when we're actively in a scene...we're 100% in the moment living life. Vanilla people don't get that as often as we do..They're dwelling in the past or preoccupied with the future. When I'm topping someone I like to think that as far away from the here and now my bottom can go is, "that felt great, or what's coming next". How wonderful it is to escape from the worries of tomorrow and the sorrows of yesterday." ~Uncle Megalomaniak~ Yes I just quoted myself, deal with it! **[Here is my Amazon Wish List][://amzn.com/w/3DGAW6J8BJ8M0]** To some I am called Uncle because I have strong Daddy tendencies that I wish to share but I will only let one call me Daddy. I wish to become a good Dom so to some I am a Top. Others may call me a play partner and to a select few I am a lover. The only submissive part of my being is my heart so if I bare it to you, please cherish it because it is fragile. I will play with most women provided that it doesn't effect the others in my circle negatively. I don't tolerate lying, sneaking or cheating and I don't want to be your secret. If you can't share me with your other partners then I don't want to be yours. I lean towards polyamory but I do get jealous when I'm excluded or neglected. I have a background in psychology with a focus on addiction and mental illness however, this doesn't exclude me from having emotional responses (sometimes adverse). I am here to learn and share. I am willing and enjoy sharing my knowledge and experience whenever possible. I do not offer counseling to those I am or wish to be intimately involved. It is a dangerous line to walk and I want to always be sure that my motives are pure. I do mentor when I can but mostly just share my opinions and experiences. Rarely is it formal. With other D/ types I call it sharing experience because I'm no expert. Some babygirl's have asked me to guide and look over them. If a sub or babygirl is listed as being mentored and/or protected by me then here are a list of minimum requirements from all suitors: She must ask my permission before any play, this includes sexting and telephone. If she wishes to meet you in person then it must be in a public place for the first meeting. If she is granted permission to play here are my guidelines. (some of these are negotiable) 1) No bondage for the first few encounters. 2) Condoms worn for vaginal and anal penetration. 3) Safe calls are a MUST until I say otherwise. 4) Scene-play must include pre-planning, safe words and aftercare (discuss hard limits first and edge play must be pre approved by me). 5) Always be respectful. 6) Make sure SHE is satisfied. :) Here are some silly tests I took. ://www.okcupid.com/tests/the-why-are-you-into-bdsm-test Your result for The Why Are You Into BDSM Test ... Protectiveness 73% Protectiveness! Your love of BDSM is tightly intertwined, or even caused, by your protective streak. When you see things that are weak or submissive, you want to protect them from harm. And the thing about protectiveness is that it's just a shade away from possessiveness. When you want to protect someone, you wish you could control all of the aspects of their life. BDSM allows you to do that, for chunk of time. People who score high in "Protectiveness" are almost exclusively tops, but it's possible for them to be switches. They are not often sadists, but when they are, it's because their protectiveness has leaned into the realm of possessiveness. Things that appeal to them are age play (as a parent), pet play (as the owner), and plain old dominance and submission. Your other scores are as follows. Check your next highest scores for additional insights: 20% Pain, 47% Sensation, 35% Thrills, 33% Drama, 25% Attention, 36% Humiliation, 0% Carthasis, 33% Anger, 38% Influence, 31% Sympathy, 68% Power, 46% Security, 15% Fun, 40% Exploration, 24% Vanilla Here's a link to my Kink Spectrum test results: ://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/results?quizzyid=7858398095148422161&userid=15207946448411079236