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BeZed

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If you are looking at this, scratching your head, wondering Why did this guy just say hey or hello .. what are you expecting? My life story broken down into a 3 paragraph biography? What would you do if I came up to you at a munch or at a bar or someplace and gave you all that ination in a verbal montage? Youd look at me and wonder why I was allowed to be out in public without a white jacket with the sleeves too long.



I get that the online world is different than the real world but only because we allow it to be.



Who I am



I am a 53 year old Dom who is going back to school to learn to be a medical billercoder because photography, like crime, doesnt pay. I am divorced with no kids. I dont smoke and drink socially. I am attending school by day and work 4 ten hour shifts during the week.



What I am looking for

I am looking for a submissiveslave that is smart, has a sense of humor and is willing to relocate.

My brand of BDSM

One good thing about this lifestyle is that most everyone in it agrees that whatever dynamic that works for a particular couple is just fine with the rest of the community. No one has to con to a certain set of rules.

Having said that.. I dont go for Me Dom, you sub kind of lifestyle. Yes, Im the Dom and will therefore be in charge but that doesnt mean you wont have say in things you will be afforded the opportunity to give your opinion in most things. If you have certain skills and or knowledge about a particular topic, for me not to ask you about it would be just plain silly, dont you think?

That isnt to say that I will tolerate a lot of bullshit out of a subslave if she is wearing my collar to be frank, I wont no more than any vanilla head of household would tolerate.

A collared subslave would wear her collar 247 either a play or public collar. Also I would want to tattoo your slave registration number (in bar code) to your inner thigh (that may be a stretch for some and I understand and am willing to discuss this they make temporary tattoos). That may sound like a contradiction to what I have said previously but it is a personal kink, I like the idea of knowing youre wearing My brand.


I am wanting a 247 lifestyle commitment but that doesnt mean that we wont be out in vanilla society and functioning as a normal couple in their eyes. What they dont know wont hurt them.I am on Fet as OldTanker.

Results from bdsmtest.org 100 DaddyMommy 88 Dominant 83 Owner 83 MasterMistress 77 Primal (Hunter) 75 Brat tamer 74 Voyeur 69 Bondage giver 69 Degradation giver 62 Ageplayer 59 Experimentalist 50 Sadist 46 Vanilla 32 Exhibitionist 28 Non-monogamist 12 girlboy 6 Masochist 5 Switch 5 Brat 4 Primal (Prey) 3 Pet 2 Bondage receiver 2 Slave 1 Degradation receiver 0 Submissive 0 All-Rounder

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11/7/2015 1:25:03 PM
I won't move you here right away before we have even met in person. you can text but you can't call. And you have a receiver account with Western Union. Can we say "Red Flag"? My bullshit detector just went off.

7/19/2014 8:58:49 PM
You tell me you're interested but you totally ignore me.  I think you speak with "forked tongue".

7/13/2014 10:14:42 PM
I am mystified why dominant women are looking for dominant men.  Do they think that they can change us?  Maybe those that are switches at their core but still..

11/22/2013 6:28:06 PM

Just had a head slap moment - many of the women here select "Native American" because they were born in the US.   UGH!!!


10/2/2013 11:45:38 AM

I was just called a "looser" by someone who I told I was not interested in.  She confirmed my doubts about her. 


8/8/2013 7:42:41 AM
I don't understand submissive women who say they are seeking submissive men.

8/2/2013 8:38:52 AM
Why do people think it so chic to have pictures made of themselves flipping the bird?

6/3/2013 1:42:50 PM

I love looking on here and seeing all these women who have in their profile information "Taken"  or "Collared" or something similar yet they keep running around on here like nothing has changed.  If you're taken, then what business do you have on here? If you're His, then why don't you have each other's cell phone number?  Yahoo address?


Cyber collars don't weigh anything and cost less.



9/12/2011 4:08:27 PM

There seems to be a rash of 23yr 5ft 5in subbies on here.. all of them with none of their profile filled out.

 

I wonder where they get their pictures from.


7/18/2011 12:16:07 AM
Back from Minot, ND

7/9/2011 2:18:12 AM
Arrived in Minot, ND yesterday (Friday) for flooding; what a mess!!!

6/30/2011 8:13:01 PM

Back from Iowa with the Red Cross; so help me if I ever work another "pending flood" again, just shoot me.

 

That tour of duty was a lesson in politics that I never want to go through again.


6/10/2011 9:09:38 AM
Just got orders for Iowa.

6/8/2011 5:37:11 PM

Home from Joplin, MO.  Back to work at the local Red Cross chapter, doing shelter surveys and whatever else needs to be done.

 

I am a volunteer.


5/29/2011 11:31:47 PM
Last Tuesday I left Little Rock, AR and deployed straight to Joplin, MO with the Red Cross.

5/16/2011 7:07:11 PM

Flying to Little Rock, AR tomorrow.


5/13/2011 9:07:48 AM
Home from Alabama. Thinking about going to Memphis to help with relief efforts there.

5/6/2011 7:00:41 PM

Why are all these Dommes all of a sudden viewing my profile?


5/2/2011 2:28:05 AM
Currently serving with the Red Cross as a shelter manager.

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MissConstance
 
 Age: 27
 LA, California