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Anshar
Hetero Male, 47, Berlin, Germany 
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Anshar
Educated and cultured dominant male with substance and values looking for long-term ownership of female slavesproperty. Genuine, deep and extensive submissiveness is a requisite. A masochistic streak would be a plus factor.

Genuine, deep and extensive submissiveness means that you are docile, malleable, obedient, humble, respectful and passive at your core. Submission is not just a role you enjoy playing, but the natural expression of your true personality, which expands well beyond the sexual sphere. You do not submit because you suffer from emotional instability, low self-esteem, fear of abandonment or any other psychological condition, but because at a certain point in your life you came to realize that you are a born follower, and that being owned, led and developed by a dominant partner, serving him and being molded according to his needs and wishes, is just your natural path towards intimacy and inner freedom.

In the context of such a relationship you expect not only to be told how to behave, but also how to think. You do not merely submit to your owners will you strive to embody it. Conversely, passive aggressiveness, topping from the bottom or behaving bratty in order to get punished are all attitudes you consider disgraceful and below your standards.

According to Merriam-Webster, to submit means to stop trying to fight or resist something and to yield to governance or authority - quite a fitting descrip-tion for the kind of attitude one would reasonably expect from a self-professed submissive. In this respect, I deem it necessary to point out that assertions such as I am deeply submissive, but can be very bratty at times make as little sense as I am deeply honest, but will sometimes steal from your wallet. Submissiveness understood as meekness, passivity and a natural inclination to give in and follow must be a quality that you actually have, not one that you just enjoy dreaming about.

I define a slave as a woman belonging to a man and used by him to his own benefit, in any way he sees fit. The only limits are those set by law and plain common sense. Please take good notice that the expressions belonging, used, his own benefit and in any way are all meant in their most literal acceptation. This means that your whole life revolves around your owner and is shaped by him. This also means that your fulfillment stems not from the nature of the actions you are required to per for him, nor from the ego medals you incidentally get when hes satisfied with you, but from the very act of submitting. You consider your servitude a higher calling, and strive to excel in it the same way others do in their professional career.

At the core of such a relationship lies unconditional power relinquishment and complete abdication of the self. Therefore, if you intend to express personal limits, wishes or preferences, or expect any kind of equity or reciprocation, or need extrinsic rewards or ego gratifications such as romance, praise or pleasure in exchange for your submission, then you are missing my main point. Im looking for a genuine slave, not a metaphor.

As your owner I will take care of you with the same attention, dedication and commitment an artist puts into an artwork. I will sculpt you patiently, diligently, and youll be my prized work-in-progress. Ill put great emphasis on the correctness of your mental attitude. Although youll be expected to obey unconditionally, mere obedience bears little value to me if I can sense resistance or parasitical thoughts in your mind. I want you to be fully immersed in the present, with no regrets for the past nor fear of the future, free in the serene consciousness of being.

You should be somewhat younger than me, at least reasonably attractive with proportionate BMI, emotionally stable and drama-free, confident and comfortable with your identity, able to hold a conversation and voice your questions and concerns in an articulate way, and have no STDs or addictions. A cerebral mind would certainly make things easier.

I am honest, loyal and reliable, and expect to find the same qualities in you. Im also complex, rational, collected, focused and demanding. I admire seriousness, resolve and commitment, and cant stand lack of manners, brattiness, self-entitlement, unsound reasoning, emotional manipulation and excuses. Nevertheless, this doesnt mean that Im cold or insensitive quite the opposite.

I have a sadistic streak, but neither extreme nor cruel. However, I have no interest in BDSM attires, sessions, role playing or parties. Ive never been in the scene, and have no intention of ever dipping a toe in it.

Last but not least, I have five years of real life experience as an owner, my IQ is in the upper range, and my Female Bullshit Detector is on and fully operational...

If you feel you can relate to my profile Id be glad to hear from you. Meaningful inquiries and questions are always welcome, as are friendship requests from intelligent like-minded individuals. Patently unserious, illiterate andor idiotic messages will go straight to the bulk and remain unanswered.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I wish everybody good luck in their quest.
5/13/2014 1:14:32 PM: It doesn't happen very often, but once in a while you stumble across writings of a woman who really gets what slavery is about:'A master's deep responsibilities are constantly stressed in BDSM and fetish forums at the expense of the slave's obligations and duties. Or slaves demand such responsibility as 'payment' for their deep self-sacrificing service. But if a slave is not providing service for service itself--for the sake of the joy and feeling of rightness/fulfillment it gives her, if it's really such a sacrifice to her, then I don't think she has any business being a slave in the first place. If he is my master and I am truly his property, he can do anything with me that he wishes. Anything. He doesn't owe me any caretaking. He doesn't have to bear any responsibility for me unless he has decided for himself that is something he wishes. He has no need to put any work whatsoever into me. I'm not a fixer-upper home, a broken car, or a burdensome project, I'm a woman who wants with every ounce of her mind, body, and soul to serve and obey a man. That means that I, not him have a lot of hard work to do if I wish to be worthy of serving him.''I wanted to show someone that I could be his slave. A real slave, not a pretender. How could I have possibly done that and how could he have taken me seriously if I played the limits game, put restrictions on what he could or could not do to me, drew lines in the sand, set up those stupid safe 'boundaries' that all the people brainwashed by rather idiotic (IMO) modern psychological theories--even those who should know better--insist must be in place?''[...] I strongly advocate that women who feel a profoundly deep passion for slavery don't cheapen this admirable urge by trying to slyly calculate just how much responsibility or burden a man will assume for them, just how much work he will put into them, just how much attention he will give their egotistical selves, just how much they can get out of him of what they want, as not only does that make slavery a tawdry marketplace transaction but it transforms into a lie the pure, selfless urge to serve someone entirely for his sake not for your own. Not to mention that a man who would put up with that sort of scheming (or even worse, not see it clearly to begin with) is not a master. He's just another male dupe who is easy to manipulate. If that's what a female wants, fine--but she should be honest enough to not to call this low-level manipulation of a clueless male by the sacred name of slavery.''[About financial control, control of social and family life, isolation, etc.] Consider yourself deeply privileged if he's interested enough in you to want to take such intense control. A master who doesn't consider you good servant material won't waste his time doing that sort of thing to you--he'll keep you at a distance, he'll keep everything between you 'nice and easy.' Pleasant. Cordial. Polite. That's how you'll know you've been rejected as his slave, by the way.'slave Nina©humbledfemales.com

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