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This profile is currently under construction... (my old profile is now a journal entry)

I belong to someone. I am here for conversation only.

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10/8/2015 5:54:13 PM
It doesn't take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go. -J. C. Watts

6/10/2015 12:59:49 PM

time to reboot my profile...  this is no longer who i am...


i identify as a babygirl, but that is not an option here...

 

i am seeking my unicorn (you know the mythical creature)... 
*BLACKgentleman 
*Daddy
*understands Daddy/babygirl dynamic
*understands Predator/prey dynamic
*huge cock - i NEED a little bit of pain with my pleasure
*kinky 
*patient
*educated
*capable of and comfortable with disciplining me as necessary 
*disease free 
*local 
*capable of making a commitment - in my book if you are married, you are not capable of making the sort of commitment i seek 
*must LOVE sex and be ready at the drop of a hat - in a perfect world, sex would occur several times a day 
*no smoking, no drugs (that includes marijuana) 
*local (yes that is the 2nd time i have mentioned local)
*did i mention single?
*i am looking for "til death do us part", i need the whole package, a ring and a collar
*i would prefer an "open" relationship if ours was the primary relationship, i have zero interest in poly

i did say i was seeking my unicorn - now you know why... 
now for the portion of my profile that (for the most part) sounds as though it belongs on a vanilla dating website (after all, i am seeking more than a casual playmate, i am seeking something long term)… this is a work in progress (just like i am) and is subject to change (just like i will).

realistically.... my life is in transition. i have no idea where i will be (location wise) in two months. i am adjusting to life as an empty nester and beginning my second career. i am not interested in cohabitating outside of marriage, nor am i willing to be your plaything on the side. if you are married, engaged or otherwise attached, i am not interested. i seek a ring and a collar - til death do us part. i will not settle.

may you find your heart's desire…

1/7/2015 1:09:23 PM
Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is too precious, do not destroy it. Life is life, fight for it. ?Mother Theresa

2/21/2014 5:04:25 AM

"Be happy for no reason, like a child.  If you are happy for a reason, you're in trouble, because that reason can be taken from you. " - Deepak Chopra


2/10/2014 5:15:07 AM

"Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm." -Winston Churchill


2/5/2014 5:15:27 AM

"Champions aren’t made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them — a desire, a dream, a vision."

-Muhammad Ali 


1/22/2014 6:28:35 AM
The best way to predict the future is to create it.

1/21/2014 10:20:45 AM

what screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it is supposed to be...


1/11/2014 5:40:22 AM

"The human body is capable of amazing physical deeds.  If we could just free ourselves from our perceived limitations, and tap into our internal fire the possibilities are endless."

-Dean Karnazes


1/4/2014 12:39:51 PM

"You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be."

-Marrianne Williamson


12/11/2013 7:00:57 AM

"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music." -Friedrich Nietzsche


12/1/2013 8:06:57 AM
"A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying in other words that he is wiser today than he was yesterday." -Pope

11/30/2013 8:33:53 PM
A smooth sea never made a skilful mariner; neither do uninterrupted prosperity and success qualify men for usefulness and happiness.

11/28/2013 8:25:19 AM
"Gratitude is a mark of a noble soul and a refined character. We like to be around those who are grateful. They tend to brighten all around them. They make others feel better about themselves. They tend to be more humble, more joyful, more likable...." -Joseph B. Wirthlin

11/25/2013 5:33:16 AM
If comfort were the goal, no one in their right mind would get up before the sun and put their body through pain. However, comfort is not the goal, progress is. No matter how small.

11/21/2013 12:00:26 PM
"True wealth is the ability to fully experience life." -Henry David Thoreau

11/11/2013 11:37:46 AM

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on."

-Robert Frost


10/18/2013 9:07:16 PM

"The man of my dreams has almost faded now. The one I have created in my mind. The sort of man each woman dreams of, in the deepest and most secret reaches of her heart. I can almost see him now before me. What would I say to him if he were really here? 'Forgive me. I have never known this feeling. I have lived without it all my life. Is it any wonder, then, I failed to recognise you? You, who brought it to me for the first time. Is there any way that I can tell you how my life has changed? Any way at all to let you know what sweetness you have given me? There is so much to say. I cannot find the words. Except for these: I love you'. Such would I say to him if he were really here."

-Somewhere In Time



9/24/2013 7:46:39 AM
?I succeed on my own personal motivation, dedication, and commitment. My mindset is: If I'm not out there training, someone else is.? -Lynn Jennings

9/6/2013 5:51:28 AM
"The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will." -Vince Lombardi

9/5/2013 5:35:07 AM
"The first step towards getting somewhere is to decide that you are not going to stay where you are." -J.P. Morgan

8/26/2013 8:45:15 AM
"The greatest thing is, at any moment, to be willing to give up who we are in order to become all that we can be." -Max de Pree

8/13/2013 4:28:19 AM

"To be beautiful means to be yourself.  You don't need to be accepted by others.  You need to accept yourself."

-Thich Nhat Hanh


8/9/2013 6:12:12 PM

We think, sometimes, there’s not a dragon left.  Not one brave knight, not a single princess gliding though secret forests, enchanting deer and butterflies with her smile.

 

We think sometimes that ours is an age past frontiers, past adventures.  Destiny, it’s way over the horizon; glowing shadows galloped past long ago, and gone.

 

What a pleasure to be wrong.  Princesses, knights, enchantments and dragons, mystery and adventure… not only are they here-and-now, they’re all that ever lived on earth!

 

Our century, they’ve changed clothes, of course.  Dragons wear government-costumes, today, and failure suits and disaster-outfits.  Society’s demons screech, whirl down on us should we lift our eyes from the ground, dare we turn right at corners we’ve been told to turn left.  So crafty have appearances become that princesses and knights can be hidden from each other, hidden from themselves.


Yet masters of reality still meet us in dreams to tell us that we’ve never lost the shield we need against dragons, that blue-fire voltage arcs through us now to change our world as we wish.  Intuition whispers true:  We’re not dust, we’re magic.

 

-Richard Bach

The Bridge Across Forever.


8/7/2013 1:30:05 PM

"A man is truly a man when he wins the love of a good woman, earns her respect, and keeps her trust."

-Gregory David Roberts


8/6/2013 6:54:06 PM

"the real fairy tale is designing a life so amazing that you don't want to be rescued from it."


8/6/2013 8:14:03 AM
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

8/2/2013 4:58:45 AM
?We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.? -Aristotle

7/17/2013 4:44:57 AM

"It is our mind, and that alone, that imprisons us or sets us free."

- Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche


7/11/2013 8:20:55 AM

"If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance."

-George Bernard Shaw


7/9/2013 6:23:27 PM

"The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place." -George Bernard Shaw


7/6/2013 9:22:44 AM

"Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go."

- William Feather


7/5/2013 4:24:18 AM
?Every man builds his world in his own image. He has the power to choose, but no power to escape the necessity of choice.? -Ayn Rand

7/3/2013 11:02:18 AM

"A wise person once told me that if a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen, no matter what." -He's Just Not That Into You


7/2/2013 9:00:58 AM
"High expectations are the key to everything." -Sam Walton

6/28/2013 10:01:14 AM
“There is a sacredness in tears. They are not a mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition and of unspeakable love.” - Washington Irving

6/28/2013 6:06:47 AM

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein


6/24/2013 2:22:00 PM

"It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about." - Dale Carnegie


6/18/2013 5:47:22 PM

"the secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new."

-Socrates


6/18/2013 7:24:04 AM
"Movement is a medicine for creating change in a person's physical, emotional, and mental states." -Carol Welch

6/16/2013 10:04:47 AM
Happy Fathers Day to my friends who are man enough to be a father and not just a sperm donor!

6/15/2013 7:45:05 AM
?The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.? -Nelson Mandela

6/13/2013 9:11:12 PM
??if you always put limits on what you can do,physical or anything else, it?ll spread over into the rest of your life. It?ll spread into your work, into your morality, into your entire being. There are no limits. There are plateaus, but you must not stay there, you must go beyond them. If it kills you,it kills you. A man must constantly exceed his level.? - Bruce Lee

6/11/2013 6:31:20 AM
"Sometimes I think a soulmate is someone who will 'make' you be the most you that you can possibly be." -unknown

5/25/2013 8:14:21 AM
"One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today." -Dale Carnegie

5/24/2013 4:26:57 AM
"The expression a woman wears on her face is far more important than the clothes she wears on her back." -Dale Carnegie

5/20/2013 6:37:08 AM
"In life we do things. Some we wish we had never done. Some we wish we could replay a million times in our heads. But they all makes us who we are, and in the end they shape every detail about us. If we were to reverse any of them we wouldn't be the person we are. So just live, make mistakes, have wonderful memories, but never ever second guess who you are, where you have been, and most importantly where it is you're going."

5/20/2013 5:51:33 AM
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners to make our souls blossom." -Marcel Proust

5/17/2013 5:56:40 AM
?It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.? -Ursula K. Le Guin

5/15/2013 6:22:28 AM
"Some people feel the rain. Others just get wet." -Bob Marley

5/11/2013 6:42:38 AM
?Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.? ― Muhammad Ali

5/8/2013 10:32:02 AM
"If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves." -Thomas A. Edison

5/2/2013 6:26:43 AM
"Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them." -Orison Swett Marden

4/28/2013 9:56:14 AM

" The choice you make, makes you." -John Wooden


4/24/2013 6:23:37 AM
"The secret of CHANGE is to focus all your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new." -Socrates

4/22/2013 7:57:36 PM
"To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift." -Steve Prefontaine

4/22/2013 7:57:27 PM
"To give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift." -Steve Prefontaine

4/15/2013 8:11:03 AM
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius

4/12/2013 5:15:59 AM
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become." -Carl Gustav Jung

4/9/2013 6:07:07 AM
"I can't tell you the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone." -Ed Sheeran

4/7/2013 9:39:19 PM
"Optimist: someone who figures that taking a step backward after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha.? -Robert Brault

4/7/2013 12:51:55 PM
"My will shall shape my future. Whether I fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force; I can clear any obstacle before me or I can be lost in the maze. My choice; my responsibility; win or lose, only I hold the key to my destiny." -Elaine Maxwell

4/5/2013 2:34:10 PM
"Shall we not, like archers who have a mark to aim at, be more likely to hit upon what is right?" -Aristotle

4/5/2013 7:50:10 AM

"For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it."

- Ivan Panin


4/2/2013 7:36:51 AM
"Strength doesn't come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn't."

3/27/2013 9:44:02 PM
?Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.? -Dr. Seuss

3/26/2013 1:37:51 PM
“nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know… nothing ever really attacks us except our own confusion. perhaps there is no solid obstacle except our own need to protect ourselves from being touched. maybe the only enemy is that we don’t like the way reality is now and therefore wish it would go away fast. but what we find as practitioners is that nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know. if we run a hundred miles an hour to the other end of the continent in order to get away from the obstacle, we find the very same problem waiting for us when we arrive. it just keeps returning with new names, forms, manifestations until we learn whatever it has to teach us about where we are separating ourselves from reality, how we are pulling back instead of opening up, closing down instead of allowing ourselves to experience fully whatever we encounter, without hesitating or retreating into ourselves.”
-Pema Chödrön

3/25/2013 7:53:38 AM
"Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do." - Bruce Lee

3/24/2013 7:30:03 PM
"Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible." -Tony Robbins

3/23/2013 3:12:41 PM
?No man can tell whether he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich or poor according to what he is, not according to what he has.? -Henry Ward Beecher

3/22/2013 4:21:02 AM
"Trade your expectations for appreciation and the whole world changes instantly." - Tony Robbins

3/21/2013 7:07:39 AM
"Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindness, and understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again." -Og Mandino

3/20/2013 10:37:07 AM
"I have learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our disposition and not on our circumstances." -Martha Washington

3/18/2013 12:42:36 PM

"I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self-indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival." 

- Audre Lorde


3/16/2013 8:14:18 AM

do more of what makes you awesome!


3/15/2013 12:58:12 PM

"The greatest battles of life are fought out every day in the silent chambers of our own heart."
- Stephen R. Covey


3/14/2013 2:26:46 PM
"LIFE IS AN ECHO. What you send out - comes back. What you sow - you reap. What you give - you get. What you see in others - exists in you. Do not judge - so you will NOT be judged. Radiate and give LOVE - and love comes back to you."

3/13/2013 5:39:33 AM
"Here is the test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: If you're alive,it isn't." -Richard Bach

3/12/2013 6:55:30 AM
"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane take off against the wind, not with it." - Henry Ford

3/11/2013 7:01:08 AM
"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there." - Will Rogers

3/10/2013 6:39:11 PM
"Take chances. A lot of them, because honestly no matter where you end up and with who, it always ends up the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel. Always be you...and be okay with it." -unknown

3/8/2013 7:35:55 AM
"The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you." -Bob Harris

3/7/2013 8:28:56 AM
May you wake each day with gratitude in your heart.

3/6/2013 7:57:40 AM
The habit of persistence is the habit of victory.

3/5/2013 8:37:25 AM
"If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise." -Robert Fritz

3/4/2013 9:30:15 AM
"We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them."- Albert Einstein

3/3/2013 11:26:51 AM
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you'll be criticized anyway. " -Eleanor Roosevelt

3/2/2013 10:12:29 AM
"Our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world...as in being able to remake ourselves." - Gandhi

3/1/2013 6:27:28 AM
"Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced." - James Baldwin

1/5/2013 1:00:54 PM

"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."

- Marilyn Monroe


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LillyLilOne
 
 Age: 43
  Washington