am very interested in finding a like minded partner wanting to play in the bdsm realm. Although I have both topped and bottomed I do not define myself in strict terms. I would much rather have open discussions with a partner and see where we best fit. It is important to me the you be clean, safe, sane, fun to be with in and outside the bedroom.I would be happy to exchange pics or chat on cam. Just not willing to post pics on here...