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My Adopt A Family Christmas project is up and running for 2017!  The toy list is up, and
Lavenderbabydoll
Female Dominant, 38,  Delaware

 

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Age: 71, Height: 5ft 8in (173 cm), Weight: 250 lbs.
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Last on 9/27/16 at 1:09 PM

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My Adopt A Family Christmas project is up and running for 2017!  The toy list is up, and being revised daily. Please see my latest journal entry for information.  If you are seriously interested in making a donation, email me asap and I'll be happy to send you the details!








Heads Up Boys!   I have placed a new photo back on my profile!  This is one not seen here before, from my collection.  If you are VERY good boys, I may add one or two more in the next few days or so.  DO NOT abuse this!  You know what happened last time.  If you don't, then read beneath this posting, as I left it here for those not in the know.  If I see the same sort of silly activity going on with this, then ......you guessed it......down goes the pics once again!  Now be good boys, enjoy the pic, and don't forget to thank me! 




NOTE:  Really want to show me some love, some gratitude for sharing with you?  Then take a peek at my wish list, and send me a little something.  No need to break the bank, but it's always nice to find surprises in my mailbox.  Good way to get my attention as well!






 






Attention....I have removed my pics from this profile.  When you boys start making your presence known to me, and stop continually coming here just for a good wank, then I will possibly put them back up.  I am sick and tired of seeing the SAME faces come here time and time again just for that purpose.  Never bothering to even attempt contact, much less offer themselves for service.  The best one is being put on your damn admirer's list, so you can in effect "bookmark" my pics.  You have not even spoken ONE WORD TO ME!  You "so called" Dom's  are even worst!  Just shows what this world really means to you, and it is definitely not just about sexual things.  I will for now, provide a pic for only a chosen few.  Those are my boys, and those of you who have enough respect to introduce yourself and strike up a proper conversation.  I don't mean "may I have a pic or two" in an email either.   Pics will go back up when I start seeing a little more respect from you so called submissives.  Otherwise, they can stay down forever for all I care, as I've just about had it with this site anyway.  It's merely an after thought anymore, and that's a shame.






Mistress Lavender Is Back!!


 


 


  I've been gone for a while, needed to take a real break from this site.  Going to try it one more time.  Pics are back up, and I will add more to this very soon.  Briefly, I am a FinDomme, very experienced, greedy, selfish, and totally in control ALWAYS!  I'm currently looking for one or two boys to play with, but only those who are serious and know how to please.  For now, cheers and don't forget to welcome me back, you little bitches lol.


 


 


Things I Am Into,


 




 


Tease And Denial


 


Mild CBT


 


Humiliation And Verbal Abuse  (My favorite)


 


Assignments And Tasking


 


Shopping Bitches


 


Light Feminization  (Don't want to make you into a female, but like subs who are into lingerie lol)


 


Foot Worship


 


Body Worship


 


You may ask about other forms of use, if it's not on my hard limit list.  There are a few other interests of mine, I know I am forgetting about right now.


 




 


Hard Limits


 


Children


 


Blood


 


Scat


 


Needles


 


Medical Play


 


Nothing Ilegal (This includes blackmail, which is totally stupid in my opinion.  Why?  Feel free to ask.)


 




 


If any of this interest's you, feel free to contact me.  I WILL NOT contact subs in general, unless something particularily stands out to me.  That doesn't happen often, especially on CM.  


 




 


Not interested in married men, UNLESS you can PROVE your seriousness to me, and show me I am not going to be just an after thought.  If I see you are trying to fool me, and believe me I can smell you a mile away, I will cut you off at the knees!


 




 


Not Interested In the Following,


 




 


NO PROFILE SHOWS LAZINESS, OR PLAYERS JUST LOOKING FOR QUICK FUN.  MOVE ON!


 




 


ONE LINE EMAILS, EMAILS THAT SAY NICE BODY, GREAT LEGS, ETC. ETC.  SHOW ME SOME INTELLIGENCE.


 




 


IF YOU HAVE PICS OF YOUR LOWER BODY PARTS, SEXUAL ACTS, ETC. ON YOUR PROFILE, PASS ME BY.  IT'S VERY OBVIOUS TO ME JUST WHAT YOU THINK THIS IS ALL ABOUT, AND YOU COULD NOT BE MORE WRONG!  THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TO THIS LIFESTYLE.  I AM NO ONES WHORE OR HOOKER, SO NOT INTERESTED!


 




 


NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE LESS THAN 35 YEARS OLD!  I MAY CONSIDER SOMEONE BETWEEN 30 AND 35, BUT ONLY IF YOU HAVE YOUR ACT TOGETHER AND CAN PROVE SUCH.  ANYONE YOUNGER THAN THAT, I AM JUST NOT INTERESTED IN.  


 




 


IF IT IS CLEAR YOU HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE, I AM NOT INTERESTED.  ASKING ME SOMETHING THAT IS ALREADY HERE TELLS ME THAT YOU HAVEN'T READ IT.  THAT SHOWS LAZINESS AND DISRESPECT IN REGARD TO THE EFFORT I HAVE MADE TO PUT MINE HERE.  PASS ME BY.


 




 


Anyone who strays from the aforementioned above, will simply be deleted and blocked.  Simple as that.


 




 


When you contact me, I MAY set up a chat time, depending on my interest, and MOST IMPORTANTLY,  what you say or do to impress me.  IF I am NOT interested, than be a big boy, show a little class, and take it like a man.  There are lots of other Domm's here.


 




 


Last but not least, please keep you opinions of my lifestyle, profile, pics, to yourself.  If you disagree with anything here, that's fine.  We all can't think alike.  However, rude and insulting emails will never be tolerated.  You will simply be blocked, and I'll just have a good laugh at your pathetic sorry asses. 


 




 


With all this said, I'm waiting guys.  Think you can handle a hard nosed and even cruel Domm?  LOL, very few of you can, but I'm anxious to find out.  Get a move on.


 




 




 




 




 




 




 




 




 




 




 

Journal Entries:
11/5/2017 3:30:13 PM
The toy list for the Christmas Adopt a Family program 2017 is up and running.  If you would like to chose a toy to donate, or make some other sort of donation, please email me.  I'll be happy to send you the information to do so.  Hope everyone has a happy holiday this year!

10/28/2017 3:29:02 PM
My Adopt A Family Christmas project is set to be up and running by the weekend, most likely Friday Nov. 3 2017.  I have been doing this for many years now, but this is the fourth year I am bringing it here to share with my friends and boys.  

If you SERIOUSLY do wish to be a part of this project, by making a donation of some sort, please email me, and I will be happy to send you the details.  

Just a heads up though, and I am really very sad to have to say any of this, but unfortunately it needs to be done so here it is.  If you email me with an intent to donate that's wonderful.  If you email me and say your going to donate, just to get a foot in the door and gain some attention, then that is a very big problem for me.  I take this project very seriously every year, it's just that important to me.  I don't have the time to play games about it, with you.

  If you contact me and say you want to make a donation, of course you will get my response.  What you won't get is endless emails, my personal phone number, sexting or calling, "just to talk about things" and long chats about BDSM and what YOU want and need.  This is about needy families, and doing something good for someone else.  Straight up.  We will communicate and work things out as I said, but honestly after  2 or 3  good communications, if you haven't put forth the promise of a donation, then I will cut things off and be done.  It's just that simple.

 I have found some really good people here, who actually do know how to go about doing things properly.  I have made some good long lasting friends because of this.  They know who they are, and they know how appreciative I am of their help.  They truly are the best, and because of them and their efforts every year, I don't have to settle for less.  

So please do keep all of this in mind.  Most importantly please please make sure your intent and your heart are working together when you contact me.  Don't use this as a way to play folks, it's really not fair you know. Actually it's also pretty tacky, and shows a lot about your character.  

Didn't mean to write a book here guys, but things just needed to be made clear.  I do hope all of you have a wonderful holiday season this year, and thanks so much for reading this.  Hope to hear from some of you as well.  

Mistress Lavender

9/20/2017 9:22:05 AM


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10/31/2016 1:47:06 PM
We are rolling once again!  My Adopt a Family project 2016 is up and running!  This year I am once again, hosting 2 families, with a total of 4 kids.  There are two boys ages 10 and 2, and two girls ages 6 and 7 years of age. I can't tell you how appreciative I am of the donations that were sent for this last year, it was a great year!  To those of you who did donate a toy of some sort, thank you so much!

For those of you who are not familiar with this, or how it works, feel free to contact me and ask any questions.  I am always happy to send you information to get involved.  This is a great way, to get to know me if you don't already.

I have set up the usual wish list at Amazon, containing toys, and a few items of needed clothing. The items vary greatly in price, so there is no danger of robbing anyone's purse.  ALL can find something to donate, and ALL will be much appreciated.  It really isn't what you spend, but rather you have the heart to do so.

A reminder also, that while this is going on, I will accept no personal gifts or tributes.  If you wish to introduce yourself  to me, you will be expected to add a donation of a toy to Santa's bag.  This is a wonderful way to break the ice so to speak, spark my interest, and more importantly do something good.

I really do hope to hear from some of you this year, especially those who know me, and have donated in the past.  I've been doing this for several years now, and it means so much to me.  It's what truly does make my Christmas.  So send me an email and request the link to this years list.  Make me a happy girl, feel the joy of doing something great, but most importantly, put a smile on a little child's face.  Happy Holidays to you all, may you find peace,  and nothing but good things!

Mistress Lavender


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