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I am a passionate woman. I enjoy all that life has to offer..hiking and enjoying the wild places, travel, fine dining, nights by the fire, reading, cultural events of all sorts, time with friends, teasing and tormenting my sub..oops how did that get in there ! I have a well developed sense of humor and also an intellectual side. I truly love the intimacy and beauty of a Ds relationship..nothing else can even come close. I believe in punishment when needed to guide and teach. As I am not sadistic, I am not into pain in the hurting you for my pleasure context. I would much rather that your interest is in pleasing me and avoiding punishment.
***Taking a sub to subspace with the bond and intimacy between us driving the experience is another matter entirely when it comes to pain ***As a Domme I am Firm, strict, loving or gentle as required. I believe a true Dominant is born not made and also feel that with leadership comes great responsibility to respect, protect and see that all my partners needs are met.I believe that submission should come from a place of strength within you, never weakness. You should believe this as well. I also believe that a true submissive is born not made or decided upon. If you have decided to try out being a sub you are likely not for me.I am seeking a long term serious lifestyle relationship with one worthy sub who serves all my needs. Must be single(not in a relationship), straight, professional (work), honest, intelligent, loyal and willing to serve in a monogamous relationship...I dont like to share. Those are just a few important things. I also admire humor, and alpha males ? mmmm.Photo available on request and in return for yours once a connection has been established
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I just had a sub with blank profile say it is on purpose that we prospective Dominants can write for info ! IF YOURS IS BLANK or close to it DON'T BOTHER ME. You must first capture someones interest before they will want to bother with you. Saying "write and Ill answer any questions" is ridiculous. Why would I have any? First you draw my interest with a well written profile that tells me we may have things in common. Then I write if interested! I get a ton of email. Why should I single you out for my attention from the rest? |
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So you don't waste your time here are some things I am not interested in:
I do not, by true definition seek a slave. Property with no rights, just there to serve. I am looking for a lifestyle that is built on the foundation of a loving friendship and partnership. Yes I enjoy a sub who can be slavelike at times in his service. I am turned on by intelligent strong masculine men. Why have an intelligent man and seek only slavery!
If you are mired in fantasy I am likely not for you. If your profile says things like "my only desire is to please you" "my needs don't matter...it is all about you" That is all complete b.s. in the real world of a sustainable relationship.
If your profile refers to you/men as weak, worthless, inferior, then you are not for me.
I am not into casual play online. I seek the one.
If you are younger than 40 Im not interested.
If you are a sissy..good for you but not interested. As my sub you may wear panties etc. from time to time to take you to the right place mentally..this is meant as a minor humiliation not a dream wardrobe choice!
Cuck? Never! I don't share my toys.
Blank written portion of your profile or one liner..do not bother I will not respond.
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Long distance is possible to overcome. The key is communication. Writing back and forth and chat take on a significance like dating....imagine being on a date with me...I ask you a question you promptly answer...then you just sit there staring at me saying nothing, I ask another, you answer then sit there staring....check please!!!!
I have this experience over and over..a sub contacts me professing interest I then I agree to a preliminary get to know you period and send some questions which are promptly answered and then the submissive sits "staring at me" not asking questions about me or even attempting to participate in a general good conversation.
Going forward, should I receive a message offering me nothing to respond to I won't respond. It boggles my mind that I even have this to complain about! |
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It is not about what I can get from you, it is about what we can be together.
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Ok I just cannot resist sharing some of the amazing messages I get..we all need a chuckle! I will post new ones here as received!
++++ this after a couple short messages: "Lets just get this over with. We all know men are dogs. Dogs like to sniff butts and so do men. Men are shallow in the beginning of relationship. Mistress,I am bluntly asking to see a photo of you butt. If it names me salivate and want to sniff it like a dog; I will beg to send you roses and ask to know more about you. If the animal chemistry is not there,then I will crawl along. You are welcome to request photos of me. I am sorry in advance for being shallow. I am a dog." +++ sent him a pic of my dogs butt..hey I own her so technically I complied!
8/10/14 Lol! Just heard from a sub offering a trip to san fran. He included pics of another Domme as proof the trip is real
Seriously! Wow..when I wrote calling that an odd approach suggested he try again with what interested him about my profile he wrote: "You asked, "Why would I be interested in you?" That sounds like an ingrate to me. Nothing bites sharper than the tooth of ingratitude. When you offer someone else a trip of 1000 miles, will you let me know?"
Darn I knew I should have just gone for that trip! The guy has money to spend..why should I need to know anything else! Lol
1/10/14*** had a sub contact me today who had been a bit crass in his approach previously. thought I would give him the benefit of the doubt and another opportunity to dialogue with me. I asked him what drew him to my profile ...trying to start a conversation ...he promptly wrote back a one liner that said because you live in Montana! Lol!
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Save Us Both Some Time ....
If you you are here to play and hide behind a CM persona pass me by. I am seeking real not online fantasy.
Before you contact me...
Be prepared to hold up your end of a dialogue to get to know each other. A give and take of information with both wanting to truly get to know the other. I am contacted by so many who dont ask one question about who I am and my interests. If all you wish to discuss is kink again, pass me by.
A recent example.. A seemingly intelligent man had the opportunity to chat with me. We start out talking about lifestyle/kink interests in quite an animated discussion..then when I turned to vanilla topics his answers back were suddenly one word or even one letter "k" and "ahhhh" he then admitted his dog was distracting him! LOL!! I sent him on his way. Can you do better? There are few like me on CM. Are you worthy? |
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A Note on CBT
I sometimes come upon a profile that lists CBT as a hard limit and this always gives me a chuckle! For the uninitiated yes of course by definition it can be an activity that includes higher level pain and torture..but it is all in the hands of the Dominant! CBT can also be more about sensation, tease and denial and thus, torture of another sort entirely. Extremely erotic rather than corporal pain. |
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