It appears that I have misled myself once again by joining another site that is catered to a group of individuals that are looking for perfection, yes I do understand that everyone wants exactly what they want, but in my opinion, sometimes sacrifices must be made in order to complement yourselves or give yourself a chance at happiness. Please don't get me wrong, I have met a few nice people on here, but I believe I can count them on one hand. I have read many of profiles and most women on this site claimed that they wanted a true dominant man, yet, when you meet some of these women there total agendas change and yet the same ones that I have read about, have been here advertising their selves since the day I joined this site so what does that tell me about either the site or the people?
What most people need to understand is very simple, there is no silver bullet for a perfect relationship, everyone and everything in our day-to-day lives are flawed and no matter how complex or fluid relationships will never come gift-wrapped and it will never come with instructions, relationships are something that are created through a mutual understanding and hard work.
I've also noticed that people expect a certain standard of respect and hierarchy from the moment they make contact with each other, meaning they expect for you to call them Sir or slave or something of that nature and then there are those guys that jumped right out of the gate and call you bitches or whores etc. now I understand if a person gets upset when approached for the very first time in that manner, however, if a man/Dom approaches a woman with respect you automatically gets labeled in a category less than what they are looking for.
In hindsight after writing this journal I've come to believe that many people on here really don't know what they want and I say that with much respect to those that do but a lot of people don't know what they want on here they're looking for a magic bullet which they cannot find on a site like this.
Am I blowing off steam? Of course I'm not, my opinion is that purely of an analytical point of view.
I will leave my profile on for one week for those of you that would enjoy nothing more than to slam and ridicule my opinion and I will read every comment and take your opinions into perspective. However, your bellicose opinions does not mean that I will change my mind about the way this site and its followers interact. |