My personal beliefs are my own and need no validation. Name calling, mockery, and judgmental accusations only serve to show the shaky foundations those who sling such things have when confronted with ideas that do not align with their own.

Yes, this is in response to something recent. Such a user admired my profile, then, in course of discourse, became upset about why I choose not to reveal my birth name. Never mind that she had no reason to know it. It was a "red flag" for her, as if anything would come of our conversation being thousands of miles apart.

I will tell you, if you want to know my birth name, you will likely never know it. Even some of my close long time friends do not know what name was given to me at birth. In fact, if I could, I'd leave my profiles completely nameless because I believe a name is meaningless.

It is a person's actions that speaks to who they are.

Not only did this person try various acts of degradation of my personal beliefs because she, admittedly, did not understand, no was she willing to have intellectual discourse about it, but when I made it known I wanted nothing more to do with the conversation, she felt the need to drop not so subtle hints about it in her journal as if I was the crazy one. 

I really don't care what she thinks, or probably you for that matter. My personal beliefs are mine, and yours are yours. I will never berate a person for believing differently than I, just for being shallow, unintelligent, and narrow minded.

If you think you'll have a problem with me because of anything I said in my profile, feel free not to contact me. If you get upset and blow your top over people who have differing views than you, then please, do not contact me.

In fact, if I come back to use this profile regularly I think I'm going to make a very clear list on who should/shouldn't contact me.

I have recently had a number of comments about the arm candy in some of my photos. Let me be clear: I am currently single and unattached.

I used to do some club promotion work, and have worked as a photographer. Because I have usually been the person behind the camera until a recent change in my life, there are not very many photos of me.

It should be said that to assume someone is with someone simply because they are seen together can quite easily be mistaken for what it is not.

In fact I have been unattached for some two years this April, though not seriously looking either. However, should someone really exceptional present themselves... then perhaps that might change. I do not need anyone to complete me, and have no interest in someone who is looking for that, either.

Hello. How are you? Me? I've never been better. Lots to tell, lots to learn, but pleasantries out of the way because this place seems not the best of environments for legitimate conversation. Besides, we wouldn't want to give away all our secrets leaving nothing left to discover, would we?

I'm here, as I am many other places, looking for something. Something hard to define. Something that might only be able to be seen by the eyes of the blind. I am looking for a woman; but let me define what I mean when I say "Woman" because to few here seem to grasp the concept:

Woman - self confident, charismatic, comfortable with her sexuality and her choices. Capable of making a decision, and knowing that being a submissive or slave does not define her character - instead adds to it. A beautiful creature who knows there is strength in being capable of making decisions, asserting desires, and showing aggressiveness in the right context; who understands that self worth mean more that blind, weak minded, question-less submission. Any bitch can spread her legs or let a man (or woman) beat the piss out of her. That doesn't make you a submissive or a slave - it makes you stupid.

I could go on about what a woman really is, but, I digress, we would be here all night and I don't enjoy sounding like combative condescending ass - but this had to be said.

Me: I'm an attractive guy, and have a lot going for me. Business keeps me busy so it's hard to meet people, let alone someone who shares the passion and desire I seek. It's been years since someone truly stirred the fire inside, and I'm getting tired of chewing through people as deep as cardboard or as capable as a pile of bricks. I get "molding" someone, but for fuck's sake - have your own brain and desires! If I wanted a relationship with my thoughts, I'd be a complete hermit!

So if you're a strong, independent woman, then you'll get what I say here. Submissive, Slave, Dominant - you won't be offended, and, though I'm often busy, if you'd like to enjoy some conversation, then you know how to reach me. After all, let's be real, if we don't click with words, we probably wouldn't last very long anywhere else, and if you can't stimulate me in an intellectual way or in the vanilla world, then I doubt you'll be capable of being more than a masturbatory puppet.

Now, if you want to know some of the potential thrills I'd like to find outside of finding a woman to play the angel to my devil, for the sake of unconventional conversation starters I'll spill a few that I don't expect to become reality, but would be fun:

I'd like to spend a week dominating a beautiful lesbian woman for her Dominatrix in an exercise of humiliation. Treat her like an animal and an object spill my lust on. So if there's a Domme out there who likes the thought of her lesbian slave being humiliated and fucked by an attractive & intelligent man - even though everyone knows that she doesn't share an attraction to the opposite sex, then, by all means, we can talk. Though, I consider this more of an exercise in fantastical desire and practice.

I also wouldn't mind completely taking and doing as I wished to an attractive woman 15 years or more my senior. Some woman who wants to be dominated and used by a man who may even be younger than her own children. Again, a fantasy more for the thought exercise and rebellion against social orders, but still plausible.

That's all for now. I haven't much reason to share more at this time, but if we connect, who knows?

This site hasn't changed much from the cesspool I recall it once being before.

To few who are decent people here... and that's not even asking for much.

I've decided to post some of the ridiculousness I get here in my journal. I'm looking to meet quality people of all walks of life and all orientations. This nonsense is simply uncalled for.

Today I received a random email from a "Domme" by the name of "Ownyou143". It simply said "HLR" when I inquired as to the meaning, she said "HAIR LINE RECEDING" and blocked me.

LMAO It takes a lot more than that to insult me. Besides, she hasn't a clue what the hell she's talking about. I've always had a high hairline & a steep widow's peak.

Seriously, why is a so called Domme browsing Dominant profiles anyway?? Piss off. :P

Oh, and don't bother trying to pass off stolen photo's. There's this great little website I know of that will tell me if your photo is on any other sites, what the sites are, and how many sites it's used on. So if you've stolen another photo from LizVicious.com or off some pic sharing board, I'll know.

LMAO - I was accused of being a "collector" by a "girl" who was sending one line emails.

Yes, I ask for photos, I don't demand them. I list a specific way to take said photos because I want to know the person talking to me is who they say they are. I leave it to you to make a choice - for sending what I ask for is a sign that you are possibly interested in taking things further. You can make that choice I give you at any time. If you're not interested, be decent enough to say "this is to much for me."

Go vote for my photos by finding and clicking the LIKE button at each of the links below:

http://community.hipstamatic.com/submissions/95913

http://community.hipstamatic.com/submissions/95915

Share with your family and friends. I have a goal of exceeding 500 votes. If I win, I get nothing, but the satisfaction of winning, and to be a part of a special featurette in NatGeo.

Thanks.

Just needed to say it - but I've reached another mark and raised my FICO another 101 points in the last 2 months. Time to buy another property!