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Letting it all find it's own level, it's own pace. All in good time.

I am not dramatic, nor am I a sadist, yet I wish to live a full, rich, and complete life as Master and slave. I think I am very approachable, since I don't feel a need to act like a Dominant all the time.

I see M/s as being like a dance, perhaps a tango...slow some times, vibrant other times, but always sensual...two bodies moving together as one, eyes locked, with one leading, the other following, but joining together to a rythmn and beat that pulsates through their bodies, becoming something that neither could be without the other.

I won't force anything on anyone; I will help you to be what you feel you need to be in your deepest thoughts.

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2/22/2018 12:28:56 PM
I'm closer than ever to realizing my dream of returning to Colorado.  I have started a new profile, "ColoDomGuy," and I'll be populating that with some of the best stuff from this journal and profile.  I encourage any Rocky Mountain female slaves/subs to drop me a line.

6/8/2015 3:12:08 PM
A Dominant should be aware of unintended consequences.  Often, you will meet someone who has that quality that you find so rare... perhaps it's a freshness, an eagerness to learn, a willingness to trust.  A positive spirit.  In teaching, in training, it's possible to take that person down a path, quite willingly on both parts, that fundamentally changes or supplants that trait that you found so fetching in the beginning.  How can you recover innocence?  Undo certain experiences?  Re-affirm the original paradigm?  The Dominant must bear this responsibility, for the sub or slave is trusting in him.  Self-indulgence is a tempting path that should be walked like a minefield. 

9/19/2014 3:27:44 PM
No.  I'm not a sadist.  I have a sadistic streak, and can BE sadistic at times, but no, I'm not a sadist.  This is not a limit... it's not a failing.  It's not even a deficiency.  It's a choice.  I choose not to be limited to one frame of mind.

So I'm sorry that you won't be able to order up a particular scene you have in mind as if it were room service.  I'm not sure that I'm really here just to meet your needs where, when and how you prefer.

I'm really here for an actual relationship, not a page from a poorly written pornographic paperback novel.


4/29/2013 8:28:55 AM

Why do we all forget that there are multiple meanings for the word "discipline?"  The root word is from the Latin disciplina, which means "instruction."  It is also the root word for "disciple."  A subject in school is called a discipline.  It means teaching, instruction.  Not just scenes or role playing.  Not just pain and abuse.  It's more about real teaching and training, not gratification.  Yes, it means those things too, especially here in our kinky little world, but it also means much more.  And it's the teaching that more closely defines the Master's role than mere play or punishment, or self-indulgence.

 

And what word better characterizes a devoted slave, than "disciple?"  But that's another entry.

 


12/5/2012 4:57:50 PM

Why is it that so many people on CM are in such a hurry to take a picture of their phone, they can't even take time to get dressed first?


1/24/2012 1:20:56 PM

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,

there is a field.  I'll meet you there.

 

When the soul lies down in that grass,

the world is too full to talk about.

Ideas, language, even the phrase each other

doesn't make any sense.

 

From Essential Rumi

by Coleman Barks

 


3/3/2011 9:47:07 AM

Why does instant gratification take so damned LONG??

 


12/13/2010 12:11:46 PM

The Smile

 

came to me as I thought of you,

a random, fleeting thought

of your voice, the feel of you

in my embrace.

I thought of you today, a

thought quick as a moment

with the feel of a lifetime.

I thought of you,

and I smiled.

 


12/13/2010 12:11:29 PM

The Smile

 

came to me as I thought of you,

a random, fleeting thought

of your voice, the feel of you

in my embrace.

I thought of you today, a

thought quick as a moment

with the feel of a lifetime.

I thought of you,

and I smiled.

 


10/3/2010 11:39:17 AM
We speak of deep, heavy emotions.  Passion, fear, awe.  Yet perse has really taught me about the simple, sort of everyday feelings, such as delight.  She is a wondrous delight, and I'm so impressed with how earnest and sincere she is.  There are many slaves, subs, or Doms with whom a person can have a heavy relationship, intense scenes, but not so many with whom you can share easy, day to day feelings with... spiced with deep passion and play.  I continue to feel so very fortunate.
 

3/23/2010 10:56:55 AM
The hammock

sways languidly in the
barely there breeze as it
curves around us.

Sun and shadow dapple us
and she presses closer
in a slow rythmn as she
sleeps, breathes, dreams.

I lay, content, holding her,
in turn being held by
the taut swinging canvas.

In the air, there
is the scent of lavender.

12/23/2008 1:39:41 PM
"I've decided to make up my mind
about nothing, to assume the water mask,
to finish my life disguised as a creek,
an eddy, joining at night the full,
sweet flows to absorb the sky..."

Jim Harrison, CABIN POEM

9/23/2008 4:26:29 PM
So often I see a profile that says "just here to make friends."  The question is, of course... make them do what?

6/19/2008 8:18:01 AM

"Reality is an illusion, albeit a persistent one."--Einstein


6/2/2008 12:01:21 PM

“Dress me,”

 

she said, standing in the

bedroom doorway,

one hand raised, touching

the frame, one knee bent,

her foot resting on her toes.

 

“Please.  Dress me?”

she asked, standing in the

simple camisole slip,

the fabric shiny even

in the soft light.

 

I rose and followed her

into the bedroom.  She’d

laid out her things, a

sensual rainbow

of lace and silk.

 

Stockings, slips,

and more lay strewn

on the bed for Me to

choose from.  She stood

quietly, eyes lowered.

 

I smiled and stepped to her,

looping a finger under one

slender strap and slid it

slowly off her shoulder,

and then the other.

 

The slip fell from her

and she stood there.  My

finger looped now in

the light chain she wore

around her neck,

 

and I tugged gently,

raising her face to mine

and I bent to her lips

kissing her softly, clothing

her in My kiss.

 


10/18/2007 3:40:08 PM
I want to care for the slave within the collar, without forgetting the woman within the slave.

8/14/2007 2:48:53 PM
As I've stated, I do seek a slave, one who surrenders completely.  But I should say that I do believe in always giving a slave the last word..."Yes, Master!"

5/23/2007 5:03:36 PM
I've never cared for the term "bbw."  I also think that sometimes women are applying it in a sort of defensive way... sort of a first strike.  But for myself, I think I prefer the word "voluptuous."  It doesn't apply only to a woman's bustline, but can be related to her figure as well.   And so I shall use the term "voluptuous" from now on, as appropriate.

2/5/2007 3:32:36 PM
Peace is underrated.  Power without peace is like a boiling pot with no lid... the energy is dissipated into the either.  Power with peace, inner peace, peace as a personal value, is like a steam engine, all energy focused.


 Likewise, the gift of peace is also underrated.  So much frantic searching and seeking and running... being able to calm the waters, to soothe another... to be a quiet pool in an otherwise turbulent sea... these are great gifts.

1/24/2007 10:41:11 AM
Often, HOW a thing is done... is more important that WHAT is done. 

This attitude applies to my work, and certainly applies to what I am seeking here.

1/15/2007 9:16:10 PM

As a follow up to my previous entry, I'll say that Mark Twain said that man is the only animal that blushes... or has reason to.


1/3/2007 1:11:05 PM
The French poet Paul Valery' said that "one should never go into the self unless armed to the teeth."  What he meant was that we all have things we are not proud of, things we don't like to think about, sides or parts of ourselves we wish were different. 

We all have baggage; the goal is not to get rid of it, but to try to pare it down so it will fit under the seat in front of you or in the overhead bin.

I understand all of this.  The slave I collar will have things about her that she is sensitive to, walls that are up, or closet doors firmly locked.  But I want to own her fully, I want her to give these things to Me, as her Owner, and accept them at the level that I place on them.  she need not be ashamed of being human.  she need not question her worth.

Nor should any of us.

12/20/2006 1:55:02 PM
Saying "I'm only human" should be a goal, and not an excuse.


11/28/2006 9:46:21 PM
Two things...

I enjoy giving pleasure and not just taking it.  Besides, not permitting a slave to orgasm is denial, not control.  Control is in being able to give AND take as *I* will.

The other point is that I am a big believer in aftercare.  So often a slave needs help with reentry from subspace, and even if that's not the case, when she has done well it's not too much to hold her and let her know how she has pleased me, how proud of her I am.  I gather from discussion that many do not believe in this, so I wanted to go on the record that I do.

**gets off the soap box and puts it back in the corner**

8/16/2006 10:45:11 AM
An online collar will not substitute for commitment any more than sex will substitute for intimacy.

7/18/2006 11:20:04 AM


Is there anything better than Chris Isaak's "Wicked Game?"

4/19/2006 8:06:34 AM

The Hunt

by

Rumi

The Lover comes, the Lover comes!

Open the way for Him!

He's looking for a heart,

let's show him one.

I scream,

"What you came to hunt is me!"

He says laughingly,

"i'm here not to hunt you, but to save you."

 


3/28/2006 1:14:24 PM
I would like to think that one thing that makes me different is that I know that "dominate" is a verb, and that "Dominant" is an adjective, and sometimes a noun.

There may be a test later.

2/13/2006 5:55:23 PM
"slave"..."surrender"... I am reminded of what Inigo the Spaniard says to Vizzini in "The Princess Bride: "You keep using that word -- I do not think it means what you think it means."

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