Words from a Dominant male.
For people who wonder about a D/s relationship and often feel it is "degrading"
to the
woman, this should clear that up. True D/s involves much love, respect and
trust. Here is
what one Master wrote and I agree with it completely. To me, it epitomizes
everything that
should be in every D/s relationship.
"As it is often important and often even necessary for one human being to have
certainty and
a clear understanding of the intentions, desires, motivations, and needs of
another, I offer
this testimony in trust and sincerity.
I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any
superiority on my part
. Not because I feel I am more intelligent or wiser. I am not dominant because
of the
strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all
women. Yet
to you, I am Master.
I am your Master only after earning your trust, and I embrace your
submissiveness. I have
looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions. You
have thrown
away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and
body. You have
given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.
You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure
to be cherished
. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive
need to protect
, possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively
stronger of will
and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength
disperses my doubt.
Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.
We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other and make
each other
complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor