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Hi! I'm Mike, and I'm in central Mass. First off, I'm single. Divorced actually. WELL over 10 years ago. I have no kids at home. I am NOT a switch! And no, I'm not 'seeing anyone' right now, vanilla or otherwise. Figured I'd get that out of the way first. I have pics I can send, but public posting is uncomfortable due to job and other issues. I want a serious partner. Yeah, a relationship. Real time. In person. But play is play. This is too serious with some people. You gotta be able to laugh! At me or with me sometimes. This should be fun. Maybe even buy a piece of gear and surprise me with it, saying use this on me kind of thing. If it's not fun, then something is wrong! Bondage with a smile! (I think some of the sexiest most enticing photos I see on the web are when the woman is smiling as she's being tied up. Just something about that... What is absolute tops though? When I see a video or photo set of a woman in bondage and there's a pause in the action for a kiss. And the woman just melts... OK, I'll admit it, that's an 'Oh My God' moment for me... And I want those Oh My God moments with someone I care about.) I want to be able to sit on the couch WITH someone after we're done and cuddle and hug, and maybe even laugh at some of the things that happened while we played. I want to be able to wake up on a Saturday morning in bed and be able to just spoon up and cuddle with someone as a thunderstorm booms outside and the rain pours down, and if something starts, it starts. Yes, I want MORE than just a piece of meat! I want the look in the eyes, looking at me with hunger for what I'm doing to them, knowing that the hunger is for me, and that my hunger for them is just as visible. I don't want someone that shows up for a 'session'. I want someone that is here for me, and I'll be here for her. Her pleasure is my pleasure, and my pleasure is hers as well. If I 'get off' and she doesn't, that's a huge disappointment and hardly satisfying. Seeing my partner, well, that's a large part of my pleasure. The 453 in my name doesn't mean anything. I used to use Mikey everywhere as my standard login, but seems everybody wants that. The 453 was just something a site added to my name. Been into this since I was a little type (are we allowed to say under 21?) By college I knew what it was, and how to play (somewhat, mostly just simple 'love bondage' games really), but it wasn't until I was divorced almost 15 years ago that I fully realized what it was. < style="background-color: #ff; font-size: 26px;"> </> I will say that I'm not interested in married. Someone married to someone else, that is. And probably not interested in separated, unless it's complication free. If we can't give each other our attentions, what's the point? I'm not interested in poly or groups, or sharing or being shared. Not into public play either. This is for 'us'. One on one! And mostly private. Ok, exciting things hidden under clothes, but collars and cuffs to have a al dinner at a nice place? Come on! Yeah, I realize some things can be exciting to show off, but most things should be hidden and private. Guest at my house won't see shackles hanging on the living room wall. And it's gotta have a 'click', or again, what's the point? In case there's any confusion, I don't want a short term fantasy, I want the real thing, where we get in each others heads and bond, hopefully for a long, long, time. I will NOT be someones 'Tuesday Night' That's not to say I adhere to that 100% I have had friends that were married, but then there's always the danger of it becoming more than friends, and it can be very tough to back out without someone getting hurt. Just added some photos this morning, Jan 12 (2011). I think the Mustang isn't gonna get out till spring! And yes, there IS a Jeep under that pile! It may be March till I can use the grill on my deck! And sorry, I forgot to change modes on the camera. I left it in auto mode, I should have changed it to one of the bright 'scene' modes. There's one specifically for snow in the thing. Didn't think. I'm still learning with it. And the rainbow. Always keep looking! (And yes, I did take the photo. On my vacation the summer of 2008. Went skiing and ended the vacation with a side trip up into the rain forest.) Mike I'm glad there's skiing as a choice! I ski 50+ times a year. My rainbow photo was actually taken on a ski trip! A few final things. I'm not into drugs. I drink socially, but don't get potted (not for years!) And to me this is a very sexual thing. I know there are people out there that treat dominance and submission totally off the sexual map, but that's not the case for me. It's VERY sexual. And very emotional with the correct partner. And that defines what I'm really looking for, a partner. I can't conceive of me being happy in a vanilla only relationship. Or any kind of relationship where the person I'm with isn't really a partner 'with' me. As one woman put in her profile... "If you're looking for a long term relationship with a nice, normal woman who happens to also like kink" yes, that is what I'm looking for. Not some 'image' that I can lead around with a leash at events, as some seem to think. I have to wonder about that. Yeah, it could be exciting, but for how long? I would much rather want something to last.</>
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3/1/2017 5:28:45 AM
I recently read a journal entry that clicked. The journal, not necessarily the profile. And as a result, I tended to wander off mentally and ended up wanting to post this. It was the kind of date you long for. Years ago. 40 years in fact. An incredibly pleasant memory. One that brings a smile, and also a bit of an empty feeling... She worked with the wife of a co-worker. I thought she was attractive and asked about her. One thing led to another and a blind date was set up for after work one night. A blind date with my friend and his wife. The four of us ended up going to a local hotel with a band in the dinner bar. Dinner was great, she was great, the music great. We ate, we drank, we danced... Suddenly the bar was closing and we had to leave. I thought it wasn't even 10 o'clock, but in fact it was well after midnight. The four of us left and ended up at my friends house. My friend and his wife ended up going to bed, but we stayed on the couch. Talking. Snuggling. Kissing. Groping. Eventually it lead to more. It was going pretty fast. Don't remember exactly how it went that way, but eventually my belt was pulled out of my pants and used to bind her wrist behind her to keep her from using her hands. But she bumped me onto the floor on my back and popped on top of me, hands still bound behind her back. Well, it was an incredible evening. We dated for a while, but there wasn't the 'click' on her part towards me, and that hurt. Eventually we drifted apart. Never heard from her again, although I did drop hints to a friend, but never heard anything back. Just recently I discovered totally by accident she's apparently married to a friend of a friend. Yes, while it brings back that empty feeling in one regard, it slso somehow makes me feel good. Good that she has a good relationship. But there will always be that bit of emptiness...

11/24/2012 5:18:37 AM

Ok, I gotta ask...  What's with the married women,  on here and other sites, who have read the 50 Shades books and are frustrated because they WANT their husbands to act things out but their husbands won't??  Are the guys that assinine?  That stupid?  That selfish?  Unfortunately, the answer seems to be yes!

 

And what about the guys with dick pics?  No, I don't go looking, but I see them as 'friends' of some of the women's profiles.  I realize I'm not their intended target, but when I see their primary pic and it's their hardon taken with a camera phone looking straight down with their pants pulled down, I just gotta laugh.  And usually it's a tiny little thing...  Oh well, something for everyone I guess.


8/17/2012 6:50:28 AM

Hmm, had something that raised my eyebrows happen the other night.

I was in the store and saw the paperbacks of the '50 Shades' books on sale. I figured I'd pick up the first one and see what all the fuss was about. Interesting... But I'll leave that for now. I've only opened the book to a few single spots and read a few paragraphs, but it seems I hit a juicy or two. But like I said, I'll leave that for now.

 Anyway, I was leaving the store, and they check your receipts (yep, it was a member only 'box' store) and the girl checking the receipts said "Are you reading that?" I said "Yeah, I was told to get it" She started in with how I'll love the thing. Then I told the real question was did SHE feel about it. (Ok, I'll admit, she was very attractive...) She then started on about how she loved the book but mentioned her husband thought it was blah. (That's when I noticed the wedding ring and was instantly disappointed.) Oh well.

 I wonder, is that the new way to meet attractive women? For a guy to carry the book around?

 


4/25/2012 1:05:53 PM

Wow, must be the new game here.  Send an email and before someone responds, block them!  

 

Do I need to learn how to play?

Naw...  


4/25/2012 10:12:01 AM

You know, I see all these post about liars and such.  And people who meet and say the other person wasn't at all what they led on to be.  How the heck do people think they can get away with that?  Do they think they have this magical personality that just because they got someone at close range their karma and charm will obliviate all the lies and misdirection?  

 

"Oh, you're so stunning! I don't care that you lied by 20 years and 100 lbs.  And I'll forgive that 3rd eye..."

 

Or do some of the guys here think that if they get someone within reach in a private setting they can 'force them' to see the light.  That they are the one true master off.  (Especially the guys with "Master" in their name, right?)  

 

No wonder a lot of the women here are so cynical!


10/29/2011 6:51:39 AM

ARE YOU READY FOR SOME SNOW!!!!!!!

 

 

I may have to take down my snow pics and put up new ones!

 


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lislynn
 
 Age: 22
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