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Longing for a serious, committed, female-led relationship. This may not be what society says is "The Way Things Should Be," but it is what I crave, need, and want. This is not because I cannot make decisions for myself or need someone to take care of me. Quite the contrary, I own my home, have an outstanding career, and am generally looked at as a leader in most settings. But, oh, how I wish to surrender to the control of a strong, loving, Dominant Woman who does not mistake my submissiveness for weakness, but rather can see it as simply another way for a Woman and a man to love each other. Under Her guidance, according to Her needs and preferences, and with Her happiness and contentment as my highest goals. I am neither a masochist, cross-dresser, nor wish to be treated worse than the family dog. This is not to pass judgements or speak ill of anyone. It's just that for me, this is a way of expressing my intense desire to treat her like the Queen that She is, to show Her the respect that Women deserve, and to make Her Dominance and control over me part of a beautiful, caring, deep, intense, and mutually satisfying love. Some may think it corny or old-fashioned, but I'm seeking a soulmate. Someone i can love and who can love me on the most intimate of levels. I have no laundry-list of activities that She must indulge me in. This is rather about me indulging Her in Her favorite activities, needs, desires, and pleasures. To me, to submit is to place another's needs above your own. Her happiness comes first. This is not to say that i don't hope for my own happiness and needs to be important to Her. But i understand that my place is to first focus on Her and what She needs. It is Her perrogative to judge my efforts and to decide whether they merit reward or punishment. However, the hope of reward or fear of punishment are not what would motivate me. It would be the burning desire to see Her as happy as it is possible for Her to be, and to know that i played some part in assisting Her in reaching that state. As for sexual mattters, I agree with, and believe fully in, the concept that She will be in charge here, too. What She prefers and enjoys the most, is what we will do. What She disapproves of will be abolished and forgotten as if those acts never existed. And i believe it is Her right to use Her "Womanly Wiles" to tease and seduce as just another tool in Her arsenal of achieving the degree of control She desires. A woman is entitled to access to Her man's body, but he can never be "entitled" to anything where Her body is concerned. She will share it with him if and in whichever way it may suit Her. I seek intelligence, warmth, caring, honesty, trust, integrity, intellectual discourse, fun, laughter, joy, shared interests and activities, in short, a life together, just based on her being Queen of the Castle.
My short-term goal is to become the beloved submissive boyfriend of a Wonderful Dominant Woman. My long-term goal is, hopefully, to be married into a lifetime of blissful, devoted service & submission to a compatible Woman of class, distinction, and character. Thank you for reading my profile!
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