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4/6/2014: Due to a recent run-in with one of those all-too-common nutjobs that we all encounter from time to time, I've decided to temporarily remove my photos. I'm happy to send them, once you've introduced yourself.

I'm an experienced dominant in MD/DC/VA area, seeking a real time femme sub/slave. I've been in the lifestyle for many years and am looking for a deep, meanignful LTR with that special someone. This is not just about sex, but about the mental and emotional aspects of sensual, erotic control.

Live-in is an option, but not necessary. 24/7 is as much about attitude as proximity and geography.

I like teaching beginners.

First, the personal stuff - I'm single, no kids, an avid flower gardener (and maybe edibles next year), bread baker and a fantastic cook. I make a chicken in white wine and mushroom reduction sauce (my own recipe) that is killer. I also like to do a lot of DIY stuff around the house. When I'm not doing that I enjoy being active, playing golf, bike riding, tennis (although I haven't played in years), camping and playing with my dog, Rusty. He's an American Treeing Feist - cute as a button, and catches a Frisbee like a pro.

Intellectually, I'm an autodidactic with a wide range of interests and a head full of semi-useful trivia. (I should do very well if I can ever pass the damned Jeopardy test.) Politically I'm a moderate/centrist who leans to the right on questions of federalism, fiscal policy, and national defense; I tend to lean left on matters of social policy.

Professionally, I own a small design/communications/marketing/PR firm and a second business in deregulated energy. I'm also a semi-professional singer and actor, and do a lot of plays and musicals around the area. For fun (and the occasional gig) I play guitar. Imagine enjoying a wonderful meal, and being serenaded by your own personal troubadour...and then he puts down his guitar, takes you in his arms, and carries you to the bedroom...where you are given a sound spanking, tied spread eagle to the bed and ravaged...repeatedly. (If you're a good girl, that is...)

And that's a nice segue into D/s, which for Me it is about sensual and erotic control. While the sexual aspects certainly play a significant part, the mental and emotional bonds of trust that are built while exploring, testing and pushing limits are equally, if not more, important. My focus is incorporating that sensual discipline and control into the fabric of our daily lives, so that we'll feel connected even when we aren't together. I'm not into extremes - nothing gross, dangerous, disgusting or illegal is how I define that. As far as specifics, I like to reinforce dominance by setting rules and taking charge of day-to-day things, and through bondage, discipline/punishment (although I feel with proper discipline, punishment should rarely be needed - and yes, there's a difference between discipline and punishment), stimulation/deprivation, display, control, humility, oral/anal/DP.
Everyone is different, so let's talk - feel free to email on AOL/AIM or message on AIM or Yahoo - I'm mstrxtz on both. Let's share what we're seeking with each other, and see if we connect. Don't be afraid to say "hi" - I won't bite...hard ;)

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LatexDomina
 
 Age: 39
 Wagoner, Oklahoma