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Profile has been modified, so if serious about chat and possible Ms relationship lets talk. I still have original profile in my personal documents. Although modified it still contains valuable ination.

I DO NOT SEEK MALE SUBSLAVESPROPERTY UNDER THE AGE OF 55. ALL MESSAGES WILL GO TO TRASH, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED.

DO I NEED TO CONTINUE THIS MESSAGE OR ARE YOU ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THAT IF I GET A MESSAGE FROM A 19 YEAR OLD MALE to 52 YEAR OLD MALE IT WILL GO TO THE TRASH , I DONT CARE IF YOU ARE AS WEALTHY AS BILL GATES, I AM NOT HERE LOOKING FOR MONEY, I AM NOT A GOLD DIGGER,

I am relocating and expatriating to Europe, by years end or spring of next year, so I am not seeking an AMERICAN slave as most will not expatriate nor can work overseas so you are no use to Me. If over the age of 60 retired, single, no children attached, can support Me and willing to move, then you may contact Me, otherwise no sense in wasting My time.
A slave mentioned after reading my profile that I did not list what I wanted, or what I was seeking in my slaves so I decided to voice my wants. I want and seek a loyal, honest, true, faithful, hardworking, educated, age appropriate (within the age listed) slave that knows how to please his Mistress, knows how to spoil her and care for her. Yes I want sex but I am turned off by wanting slaves wanting to clean and lick my ass I do not seek a slave that has been with 5 or more Mistresses, I am not excited or pleased to see cock pics as a profile pic, if you value your cock that much, you need to as the song says go love yourself, as that cock does not impress me as much as your brain and your intentions to please Me do. If you have questions ask.

I am naturally primal,I am the hunter besides being the Dominant Mistress I am, I am and always will be a Wolf. I lived among the wolves in Tx at the camping site where I was staying, they came at night to greet Me, to be by My side, to play with Me, I communicated with them and they knew I am one of them.

I am a high protocol MistressOwner, If unsure of what high protocol is research it.

I was asked to update my profile as there is some ination that needs to be removed and other ination placed into it.

FIRST I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A CHILD TO BE MY SLAVE IF YOU ARE BETWEEN 20-49 THAT IS A CHILD TO ME, I AM NOT HERE TO HELP YOU IN YOUR JOURNEY INTO THE LIFESTYLE,TO BE YOUR TEACHER, DO NOT MESSAGE ME SAYING I AM NEW AND LOOKING FOR A MISTRESS I HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUNGER MEN, I HAVE TO SAY THIS HERE AS NO ONE READS PROFILES ANY MORE. IF BETWEEN 30-52 STILL NOT INTERESTED. ALL MESSAGES FROM MALES 19-52 GOES INTO THE TRASH WITHOUT EVEN LOOKING AT IT
I AM NOT A MATCHMAKER, IF YOU CAN NOT BE MY SLAVE DO NOT ASK ME IF I KNOW ANY OTHER MISTRESS THAT WANTS YOU. DO YOUR OWN SEARCHING.

Before I go any further I am seeking a Owner property type relationship. Not a Ms, not a Ds, I desire a Ownerproperty type.

As with other types of relationship, although it is also written in my profile, an Ownerproperty type contract is drawn to be signed, as well as my Power of Attorney. ALL MY CONTRACTS ARE LEGAL AND HAVE BEEN DRAWN BY AN ATTORNEY. Someone asked me the difference between slave and property, this is my definition and by no means means that everyone will think like me, Sub has choices, slaves and property do not, plain and simple.

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4/16/2018 7:49:47 AM
ANY MESSAGES SUCH AS THIS ONE OR ANYTHING SIMILAR GOES DIRECTLY INTO THE DELETE MESSAGE PILE. I DO NOT PLAY WITH PEOPLE I DO NOT KNOW, I DO NOT ACCEPT  ANY MONEY FROM PEOPLE I DO NOT KNOW, I DO NOT WANT TO COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE WANT THIS.



dont know if your into this. Ill pay you 700 dollars if you will use me as a full ash tray or a full toilet.i can come to you.



I AM NOT INTERESTED. SO DO NOT MESSAGE ME ASKING IF INTERESTED.


4/2/2018 4:26:30 PM
Got a message from a slave who read my profile. I know for many my profile is long,  detailed and strict but I know what I want  and will not settle for anything other than what I want. I am not desperate so if it takes 2 years or more to weed through the mounds and mounds of bullshit slaves till I find one worthy of Me being his Mistress I am ok with that, if I do not find one I also am ok with that,  as except for the very few who I have met in person and became my slave, all the other seem to be  players, fakes, wannabes.....  I find it funny how they call me stupid, a cunt, a bitch when they are here to just play games. That is another reason I am not seeking an American for a slave. Very few American men have real balls to be a true slave.

So with a smile on my face, and laughing inside  I do what I do all the time to those that do not meet my requirements, I deleted and blocked him, I am sure I will hear about that my blocking him is my way of playing games and me being stupid but two can play, as a Dominant I have the right to choose who I want to chat with, I have the right to play the same game that those pretend slaves play. I know who the winner will be, and words and messages like the one that I will post now only makes me laugh, as I deal with stupid people on a daily basis and he is no exception.  
Here is his message
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  YOU FUCKING STUPID DUMB CUNT    YOU WILL BE SINGLE FOREVER ASSHOLE

So  a question what is so bad about being single? I rather be single than have to deal with assholes like this slave who sent me this message.Still laughing as it really is funny if he thinks that I got offended or even care about what he thinks or says.

3/23/2018 4:25:02 PM
We use to have a saying that went like this " if you want to see how fast a man can run , tell them you are pregnant". Well that seems to happen here a lot when those slaves that approach me saying they want to be my slave.

Been chatting with a slave from  a European country "Q", just using a letter not his name not his username , nothing associated with him, this will make so many wonder if this is him, and been chatting for almost a month and a half, seems everything was going well, we talked about him visiting, him getting his tattoos, his chastity belt, what to expect and the requirements he needed to present me, like his std testing with doctors card attached to the test in a sealed envelope, hey I know anything can be printed up on a computer and everything can be altered if you know someone really good at the computer, plus other papers I need to verify who he is etc , his ability to care for me etc etc.
Well he must have had his skates or running shoes on as I have not heard from him in over a week, not a 'hello", not "I am getting things in order", not a "will respond later". I AM A PERSON THAT BELIEVES ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDStype PERSON, IF YOU SAY YOU WILL DO SOMETHING I BELIEVE THAT LIKE MY MOTHER WAS THE QUEEN OF ENGLAND, BUT TELL ME, I HAVE A TICKET TO SEE YOU, AND YOU SCAN ME A COPY OF IT OR SEND ME CONFIRMATION THEN I WILL BELIEVE IT.

SO DO NOT THINK I BELIEVE EVERY WORD YOU SAY, OR ANY PROMISE YOU MAKE, SHOW ME BY YOUR ACTIONS YOU ARE REAL AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY. I DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCES TO ANYONE

3/9/2018 12:34:33 PM
A NOTE ABOUT MY PROFILE AND THE AREA REGARDING THE CYBELIAN LIFESTYLE.


Although the Cybelian lifestyle is something I am into, I am not 100% in favor of all the ects of the lifestyle. Yes I love the concept that my slave is property, like furniture, has no rights etc and is lowest of low on human scale but I would only marry if everything were in order meaning they can support me totally in the way I desire not paycheck to paycheck. I am not a gold digger but I have to think of myself, my future and I need assurances that I will be number 1 in every way. If everything works out then maybe marriage will take place but considering I want more than one slave/property marrying more than one is not possible. 

Second concept I am against is using my slave/property as a human toilet to eat scats etc. Drinking urine is one thing eating shit is another and I have to say that, that area is a hard limit for me. Feces, blood, fluids are hard limits and using my slave as a cum bucket for strangers to urinate on, make them take their urine or feces, blood is not ok with Me. I want my property to be Mine alone,to be used by Me, I will not mind my slave/property cleaning my lover off, licking his cum off him, but only if I have a clean bill of health on everyone I associate with. Plus they will have to be in chastity also to ensure they do not cheat on me.



2/23/2018 6:48:59 AM
Once again I must put this up as people do not know how to read, hopefully this being here will catch their eyes.

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOUNGER SLAVES OR SUBS, NO MATTER IF ONLY 2 YEARS UNDER THE AGE REQUIREMENTS I HAVE LISTED. I AM NOT DESPERATE, I HAVE NO NEED FOR YOU.  I JUST WOULD LIKE MY LIFE TO BE EASIER BUT IF I CAN NOT FIND A SUB /SLAVE THAT SUITS ME. I AM OK WITH THAT. 

2/7/2018 2:26:24 PM
I DO NOT LIKE GETTING MESSAGES LIKE THE FOLLOWING,I DO NOT APPRECIATE THEM, I FIND THEM OFFENSIVE, I AM NOT INTERESTED AND JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THEY ARE GET BLOCKED AND DELETED. I WITHDREW THE PERSONS NAME  HERE IS THE MESSAGE.
If you would like to be a California Mixed Hot Wife Orgasm Controlling
CBT Chastity Cuckoldress with an oral body worshiping
white subby hubby cuck; I would like to make your acquaintance.

"

1/24/2018 11:16:40 AM
I have opened my search to international slaves that fall into the age range requested,  as it will be easier for them to visit and be interviewed once I am in Europe, as before not looking for part time, or flings, I want real time, live in in time,  and someone who will sign my contract. 

11/22/2017 7:37:21 AM
READ MY PROFILE:


UNLESS YOU CAN COMMIT YOURSELF TO ME FULLY, UNLESS YOU ARE ABLE TO MOVE OVERSEAS AND SUPPORT ME OR SPOIL ME LIKE I WANT, UNLESS YOU ARE IN THE AGE RANGE I SEEK



DO NOT WASTE MY TIME, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A FLING, OR A PART TIME SLAVE 

11/9/2017 5:48:31 AM
Have no clue why my profile still has me in Co. I am in Louisiana for a while due to health and trying to get things in order for my move.

9/12/2017 7:17:45 AM
SEEMS I MUST ADDRESS THIS ISSUE AGAIN OF YOUNG SUB/SLAVES ADDRESSING ME.

I DO NOT CARE IF YOU FOUND MY PROFILE INTERESTING, AND YOU WANT TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF AS A POSSIBLE SUB/SLAVE, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN, I AUTOMATICALLY DELETE ALL MESSAGES ONCE I SEE THE AGE. 

I DO NOT WANT ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 55 BUT MAY CONSIDER SOMEONE IN THEIR EARLY 50'S, BUT DUE TO MY RELOCATING TO EUROPE I WILL ONLY TAKE ON A SLAVE ONCE I ARRIVE IN EUROPE.

SO IF YOU SEND ME A MESSAGE LIKE THIS 21 YEAR OLD YESTERDAY SAYING HE READ MY PROFILE AND HE IS INTERESTED IN BEING MY SLAVE DO NOT BE SURPRISED I DO NOT ANSWER OR IF I ANSWER USING NOTHING BUT FUCK YOU, AS I AM NOT HERE FOR YOU, I DO NOT WANT YOU, I WILL AVOID YOU LIKE THE PLAGUE AND BY ALL MEANS DO NOT THINK I AM DESPERATE AS:

I AM NOT DESPERATE, SO DO NOT THINK " OH WOW SHE IS OLD SHE IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE AND WILL TAKE ANYONE AS SHE DOES NOT WANT TO BE ALONE" THAT IS NOT ME, I AM STRONG, I AM DOMINANT, I AM NOT INSECURE, I KNOW WHAT I WANT, AND I AM NOT AFRAID OF BEING ALONE.



8/26/2017 7:05:19 AM
JUST A REMINDER TO ALL MAKE DOMINANTS WHO DO NOT KNOW ME:

My name although says "in bondage" does not mean I switch or am a sub/slave. My bondage is living in the vanilla world and abiding by their rules when I live this lifestyle 24/7/365 days in real life.

So if looking for a sub/slave keep looking as you will not find what you are looking for here.





8/15/2017 7:49:58 PM
I got a message from a local female "Dominant, basically asking me to take her under my wing to train her. I DO NOT TRAIN male or female'Dominants". Sorry one is born 'Dominant". and if you were not born that way, you are only playing that role, which may be fine with some but I do not wish nor have the desire to train anyone. Now if a slave is appealing to me and is the right age range I may consider training him to be my toy or slave, but due to health conditions and a move taking place I don't have the time or energy to search for a slave now.

7/31/2017 7:54:55 PM
Well plans are getting in motion for my relocation to Europe, still not totally sure where it will be, but thinking Spain. Have four choices lined up and will be there in December to look at flats or apartments for purchasing. I have contacted a MD ANDERSON CANCER CENTER in Madrid and having my records sent so they can start planning a treatment for me, might be a totally new treatment plan then what is going on now.

Hardest part is finding a place to live, as not sure if I will be looking at one big house for me and my kids, yes they are going with me and yes they are adults , but they do not want me living alone due to my health, so thinking about three apts in the same building so we all can have our own space,  have contacted shipping companies to ship my cars and furniture, talking to realtors in areas of interest, checked into banking options , cell phone, internet etc, all looking really good. 

I'm very excited

5/13/2017 7:42:59 AM
READ THIS IF YOU KNOW HOW TO READ:

IF I HAVE ON MY PROFILE I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 55, AND YOU CLAIMED YOU HAVE READ MY PROFILE AND YOU WANT TO PROCEED AND YOU SEND ME A CHAT REQUEST ASKING TO CHAT WITH ME AND I REJECT IT AS YOUR AGE IS UNDER THE AGE REQUIREMENT, AND THEN YOU SEND A MESSAGE, STATING THE SAME ABOUT WANTING TO BE MY SLAVE. DO YOU REALLY EXPECT ME TO RESPOND  IF YOU ARE SO STUPID, TO ASK TO BE MY SLAVE IF YOU CAN NOT READ OR OBEY? I AM DEAD SERIOUS ABOUT THE AGE REQUIREMENT I DO NOT CARE IF YOU ARE THE LAST SLAVE/SUB/MAN ON EARTH I WILL NOT AND I REPEAT WILL NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ANYONE UNDER MY AGE REQUIREMENT. NO EXCEPTIONS. I AM NOT SEEKING NOW DUE TO MY HEALTH (HEART AND CANCER). I AM CHATTING WITH A FEW FROM HERE BUT NO PROMISES HAVE BEEN MADE TO TAKE ANYONE ON AT THIS TIME. 

4/12/2017 8:05:13 PM
I am taking a hiatus from here but I am not retiring my profile, the reason for the hiatus is due to serious health issues not std related I am having at the moment and considering I know I will not find someone who will want to care for a Mistress that is ill, I have resigned  the search and admitted to myself the fact that I will have to deal with this problem and any others I may have alone or with the help of my kids.

After treatments are taken care of and I feel strong enough I will be moving, I have two choices, Spain or Canada. During my absence I will do some serious soul searching and meditations to find where I need to go. I would have liked to have found a slave to be with me, but considering the amount of time I have been on here and only having met about 10 in real life and nothing has come of it, I will keep my profile so that I may keep in touch with the few friends I have left on here.




3/22/2017 5:05:24 PM
Who gets deleted and blocked  from my viewing list without seeing anything other than name and pic if available. IN OTHER WORDS WHAT I DO NOT WANT.

Sissies, all females sub, slaves, cross dressers, gay men or lesbians, and even female Dominants, men in feminine attire, pictures of possible slave with a Mistress in them.

Names like yourtoilet, sissyinwaiting,  assabuser, ( just names I invented not real but you should get the idea) vile names are not acceptable, and will be deleted.

If  they are foreign, trust me , everyone wants to come here, why I have no clue, I am trying to get out, but none will ever come so it is a waste of time chatting.

Rude male Dominants who think they can make me switch or say I am a sub. 

Those under age requirement,  I have an age on there for a reason, not in age range, move on.

Those with just cock pics ( if all you have to offer is your cock, keep it, although I enjoy having one in me and using one for torture, it is not what I base any relationship on.

So I can go over my list of who has viewed me and within 4 minutes I might have 10 that meet my requirements. If I don't get a message from them in two days after they viewed me, they also get deleted.


2/9/2017 11:06:16 AM
A slave mentioned after reading my profile that I did not list what I wanted, or what I was seeking in my slaves. My thoughts were if I list what I don't want, then the person reading my profile would know what it is I want but seeing that is not happening I decided to voice my wants. I want and seek a loyal, honest, true, faithful, hardworking, educated, age appropriate (meaning within the age listed) slave that knows how to please his Mistress, while also knowing how to spoil her and care for her.  Yes I want sex but I am turned off by wanting slaves wanting to clean and lick my ass  and slaves with names like Mistress 's whore, clean your ass, etc. I do not seek a slave that has been with 5 or more Mistresses, I am not excited or pleased to see cock pics as a profile pic, if you value your cock that much, you need to as the song says " go love yourself", as that cock does not impress me as much as your brain and your intentions to please Me do. If you have questions ask.

1/10/2017 7:40:15 AM
Well I have changed my usual stance at viewing my " who is viewing me". Now everyone gets deleted if there is no message attached. if you like what you see, message me. Do you want me to waste my time sending you a message to see if you are interested?  Sorry not happening.

Of over the 100 plus that viewed me, about 60 were under the age of 30 they are just looking for free housing and an easy ride, so of course they automatically get deleted, about 5  were between 40  and under 50, 20 were from foreign countries looking for a way in, everyone wants to come here, why I have no clue but they try,  about 5 were female or trans, something I am in no ways wanting or interested in,and the remaining were in my age range, seemed promising, had nice profiles, but no message  so bam, delete button is pressed. I did message a few but getting no response from them gets them deleted and if they do responded weeks later automatic delete. My time is valuable to me, I check to see if I have messages if I cant respond right away I send a quick note, does anyone else do that NO, ALL I CAN SAY IS IT IS YOUR LOSS, I HAVE A SLAVE WHO TREATS ME WELL BUT WILL NOT PROVIDE OTHER SERVICES I DESIRE SO THAT IS WHY I AM CONTINUING MY SEARCH.

12/16/2016 8:54:22 AM
I get a message from a slave that wants a pic to ensure that I am a female, plus other requests. I do not send pics to anyone unless we have chatted a while and told him so.If you want pics yo look at check all the other Mistress on here and use them to jerk off. If you want real message me. So after my response do I get a response from him? No not a word, his profile looked promising, so that was the reason for my replying to his message, big mistake. As a Dominant I should have known better than to believe anyone on here is serious or real.

11/14/2016 7:47:45 PM
I will not accept nor agree to any offers from slaves asking me to do things to them like placing them in a dumpster, taking them to the forest and covering them with ants or anything like that you are blocked and message goes to garbage. So do not expect a response. Also if you are under the age requirement and you send me a message saying "you are seeking a Mistress" it goes to the garbage and you are blocked. So as above do not expect a response.

10/24/2016 4:44:39 PM
I am posting this journal of what I expect of my potential slave.  It covers varies areas of interest and explains what I want, and expect. If you meet these requirements and decide you would like to proceed then we will start chatting with expectation of meeting within one month. 

Well seems I need to add this bit of information as it seems I am getting many replies.

FIRST , although I am seeking live in, you will not be living with me anytime soon. I will not and do not let anyone into my home, especially if we have not been together for a long time. Before anyone moves in a criminal investigation will take place at your expense.  So if I decide that you may be the one I choose you would live with my other slave in an apartment with him. When I feel it is the right time then we would all move into another house.  My children own this house and I will not let anyone move in here. Documentation will need to be provided to verify you can take care of Me.

SECOND There is no easy ride, so you would be paying bills in addition to caring for me. On average my slave spends about 800-900 a month on me, you would be expected to spend the same, if you cant afford to pay bills and care for me , do not even message me. You are required to work, if collecting retirement or pension depending on income, I will decide if you must work but you must have at least $1800 for rent, utilities, your bills and Me. Again I will verify all income statements. I WILL NOT SUPPORT YOU IN ANY WAY.

THIRD, if you have any type of std  or illness , don't waste my time and message me, you can tell me you  are drug and disease free but you will be tested and required to take test before seeing me and after you come so I can compare the results. I have been in the medical field for 10 years so I can read results, if I suspect something has been tampered with, I will not proceed. Herpes testing is not done with other std testing, this is a test of its own and is required.  So expected to be tested twice at your expense. My health is fragile, and I will not expose myself or my family to anyone who is ill. This applies to whether you will be a sexual slave or not. I DO NOT HAVE ANY FORM OF STD ILLNESS, OR LIFE THREATENING ILLNESS BUT DO SUFFER FROM A BAD HEART AND OTHER AILMENTS, JUST TO CLARIFY WHY I SAID MY HEALTH IS FRAGILE.

FOURTH, considering you will be having to work I suggest you plan your interviews for when you come to visit Me. I will give you a list of placeS you can stay while here, also plan to wine and dine me during your visit. My slave on our first meeting read my 34 page contract, he signed it and we bought his collar that day. No I will not send or email you a copy of my contract so you can see it, so don't even ask.This can be viewed when you come to visit.

FIFTH, if you are a foreigner, meaning not from the US, it is most likely you will not get a response back from me, reason I know many seek to come here, then run as their main goal was to get into the US., I will not sponsor you, I will not employ you, I will not marry you and I WILL NOT SUPPORT YOU IN ANY WAY. Again you may tell me" I can support myself and you", documentation will need to be provided and trust me it will be verified. I will call banks, and all sources that your income comes from. I am not a fool and know that any document can be printed up on a computer nowadays, again I am protecting myself and my family. 

I will be adding more information as I see it necessary. If you have questions ask and I will reply unless you are not in the age group I seek.

8/23/2016 3:58:15 PM
To all male Dominants and male switches that top, listen to Me now. I am a Female Dominant. I have controlled my parents and elders from the age of 6.  I have been a Female Dominant since the age of 16 where I owned 4 male slaves. No they were not live in but were  within 5 minutes of my beck and call. 

My name says Mistresinbondage, that does not mean I like or enjoy being tied, or any form of bondage, I do not switch, I am and always will be in control even with an equal. So why  do I have this name if I do not like bondage or will ever be in bondage?  I live in a vanilla world, I have to abide by vanilla rules and people, and that to me is my bondage, adhering to rules made by vanilla people, when I live a world of bdsm lifestyle 24/7. 

So do not ask me if I like corsets, turtlenecks, if you meet me and run your hand under my dress if you will find panties and a bra, or if I walk into a room and there on the bedpost they have rope to tie me, and ask me what I think. as those scenarios will not ever take place, unless you want to be my bitch and slave.

7/1/2016 5:22:46 PM
To avoid wasting your time and MINE, as it seems all I do is have to delete so many from my " who's viewing me list". If you are a sissy, a trans, a female,  a couple, a crossdresser, wanting to be feminized, don't go any further or continue to view my profile as I automatically delete anyone who is female, a trans, a sissy, crossdresser, and with a Mistress in the pic, even though she may not be your Mistress, you still are deleted. 

SO  IF YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW TO READ I SUGGEST YOU LEARN,  AS THERE IS NOTHING I HATE MORE IS PEOPLE WHO CAN'T OBEY THE RULES.

IF YOU SEND A MESSAGE STATING THAT YOU THINK YOU ARE READY TO BE MY SLAVE MOVE ON AS THAT MEANS TO ME, YOU ARE NOT 100% COMMITTED TO THE LIFESTYLE AND HAVE DOUBTS. MY CONTRACT IS 30 PAGES LONG, LEGAL AND BINDING. SO DO NOT WASTE MY TIME IF NOT 100% COMMITTED.

4/16/2016 6:21:50 AM
If on your profile pic you are with a Mistress, wearing a collar, in diapers, if from another country or you are a female I automatically delete you. If you are under the age requirement I automatically delete you. I spend more time deleting people who do not meet my requirements then those who do. 

I have a slave now, but as always I seek more. My husband/slave is in rehab and gone for a year. 

Read my profile from the very start and you will see it says I do not seek anyone under the age of 55, save yourself and Me a lot of time by obeying this request, if you do then you may be worth my time reading your profile, if you cant do it, you are deleted.  

9/29/2015 12:22:20 PM
My husband/slave has gone missing, been 3 days now, not in mood to search for anyone now at present time, will check to read messages from friends but will be deleting all who has viewed me, as really most of the time they are just players.

9/23/2015 10:33:40 AM
SO FAR FOUR TIMES THIS WEK I HAVE GOTTEN MESSAGES AND THEN SEE" YOU CAN NO LONGER RESPOND TO THIS MESSAGE AS THIS USER NO LONGER HAS AN ACCOUNT".

GET REAL , IF YOU CLOSE YOUR ACCOUNT AFTER SENDING ME A MESSAGE DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU MEAN WHAT YOU SAID IN YOUR MESSAGE, STOP WANKING OFF AND BE A REAL MAN. TRUST ME, BY DOING THIS YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT EARNING ANY BROWNIE POINTS IN MY BOOK,  NO MATTER HOW WELL WRITTEN THE MESSAGE IS AS YOU GET BLOCKED AND DELETED. 







9/13/2015 5:33:02 AM
I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINE MESSAGES. YOU COULD BE BILL GATES LOADED WITH MONEY I WILL NOT RESPOND TO
"take me Mistress make me your slave".
" i so want to be yours"

Quit wasting my time if you can not even read my profile or do as my profile asks.


9/1/2015 5:52:45 AM
To WillYouOwnMe and others.

I view my "Who's viewing me list" sometimes 2-3 times a day. On there I see a slave's name, and below I see my name about a comment he made. Seems he was questioning my deleting and blocking  him and other why they were deleted and blocked. Well I must comment on why I block and delete people, here are the many reasons why I BLOCK AND DELETE PEOPLE.

FIRST REASON: 95% OF THOSE WHO MESSAGE ME DO NOT READ MY PROFILE. Most of the time they are not in the age range I require. I get 20's, 30', and 40's year olds claiming to wanting to be my slave. A 19- 30 year old are no use to me, they are just looking for a free ride and a place to stay, when they tire of obeying rules and not being able to be sexual they will just leave and vanish, so I am just saving them time to look for a fool to take them. Plus I do not want to have a slave close to my son's age. 

SECOND REASON: Again most that I delete are fakes, wannabees, wankers, sorry I am not here to be a fantasy to you, this is very real to me and I live this 24/7, have been doing so since I was 16. They were not live in slaves  at that time but the moment I turned 21 I had at least two live in slaves. I have a slave now he is my husband, but he is not as much into the lifestyle as I am so I am seeking another slave, possibly as a live in, sometime soon.

THIRD REASON: If we have chatted before and I keep a log book, of those that I have chatted with and deleted, and you stopped communicating with me for whatever reason, and then you start a new message stating you would love to be my slave, it gets deleted and you get blocked.  Why? Well if you could not continue the chat before, if you could not meet me before, what chances are there that you would follow thru now? Really, should I be excited after disappearing for 2 years , you come back asking and desiring to be my slave ? I have met several people from this site, one called red after 3 minutes of hand spanking, another was so skinny when I spanked him he was all bones I thought I had broken some bones after three whacks, another was just a fantasy seeker, another was so cheap he could not even buy me a softdrink. I did find a slave that did become my slave but he had to move due to family issues and his job We are still in contact and he is hoping to return to me, just not sure when. So if I get a message saying " Hi I am so and so and I have been looking for a Mistress like you" and we have chatted before and you dropped out of sight, you are deleted and blocked.


FOURTH REASON: If you can only write one liner messages, you are deleted and blocked, this proves to me you are lazy. Tell me why I should choose you to be my slave, most slaves/subs have blank profiles, most do not fall into my requirements, so why keep or stay in contact with them. I took my time to write my profile, I put effort into it, to be able to find what I seek. Do the same.

8/22/2015 7:56:27 AM
Well seems that as much as I would love to believe there are true and real sub/slaves/ and property on this site, I have to say that it is not that.

Typical message: Oh you are the Mistress I seek, blah blah blah, so I send a response asking what are they seeking in a relationship, and I ask several questions, like how long in the lifestyle, do they attend events, are they looking for FLR, TPE, long term , live in, part-time, then poof they disappear. So fucking frustrated to say the least,

IF YOU CAN NOT RESPOND OR DO NOT INTEND TO EVER RESPOND DO NOT MESSAGE ME.
I TAKE MY TIME TO READ THE MESSAGES SENT TO ME, I RESPOND USUALLY THAT DAY OR A DAY LATER, IF YOU ARE HERE TO WANK FIND SOME OTHER PERSON TO WANK TO.
I  AM READY TO TAKE ACTION TO PUNISH THOSE WHO ANNOY ME, NOTHING LETHAL, NOTHING ILLEGAL, NO BLACKMAIL, NOTHING THAT CAN GET ME IN TROUBLE, BUT YOU WILL KNOW THE REASON WHY YOU HAVE BEEN PUNISHED.

8/22/2015 7:56:23 AM
Well seems that as much as I would love to believe there are true and real sub/slaves/ and property on this site, I have to say that it is not that.

Typical message: Oh you are the Mistress I seek, blah blah blah, so I send a response asking what are they seeking in a relationship, and I ask several questions, like how long in the lifestyle, do they attend events, are they looking for FLR, TPE, long term , live in, part-time, then poof they disappear. So fucking frustrated to say the least,

IF YOU CAN NOT RESPOND OR DO NOT INTEND TO EVER RESPOND DO NOT MESSAGE ME.
I TAKE MY TIME TO READ THE MESSAGES SENT TO ME, I RESPOND USUALLY THAT DAY OR A DAY LATER, IF YOU ARE HERE TO WANK FIND SOME OTHER PERSON TO WANK TO.
I  AM READY TO TAKE ACTION TO PUNISH THOSE WHO ANNOY ME, NOTHING LETHAL, NOTHING ILLEGAL, NO BLACKMAIL, NOTHING THAT CAN GET ME IN TROUBLE, BUT YOU WILL KNOW THE REASON WHY YOU HAVE BEEN PUNISHED.

8/5/2015 2:43:53 PM
I got a message

John Blow 55, single , never married, living in Blah Blah. thats it. Really what do you want me to do with that information, get up, jump with joy, throw a party? Do I seem desperate to you that with that information alone it will make me consider you?

Get real, get a life, I have a slave/husband but I am seeking another one or two to fulfill the areas of the lifestyle he is not into. But I will not just take anyone, you must meet my requirements, as in time I want it to be a live in 24/7,TPE, FLR arrangement. 

So all one liners messages will be deleted,and if nothing is on your profile, block and delete.

7/7/2015 6:19:03 AM
I get messages from slaves that do not fit my criteria due to age, location, sexual preference etc, then they want me to allow them to place me as their friend. I will not accept any request as such as I am not be, one of many to whom you jerk off to. I am not here to seek male slaves as friends,  so if looking for a female Dominant as a friend and one to add to your list, look elsewhere as I don't have time to waste chatting with someone that is not going to be mine. I only befriend male Dominants who are my equal and I have only found 2 of the 1000's to be my equal and worthy of my friendship.

7/5/2015 9:28:31 AM
SEEMS READING A PROFILE DOES NOT HAPPEN ON THIS SITE SO TO AVOID HAVING TO CONSTANTLY DELETED MESSAGES FROM THOSE WHO I DO NOT WANT, DUE TO AGE , SEXUAL PREFERENCE, AVAILABILITY, LOCATION. I WILL SAY IT LOUD AND CLEAR NOW.

I AM NOT SEEKING A TRANS, SISSY, LESBIAN, CROSS DRESSER OR FEMINIZED MALE . IF YOU ARE A MALE UNDER 49 DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE AGAIN IT GOES STRAIGHT TO TRASH, IF YOU ARE A SISSY AND SAY YOU WANT A MISTRESS FIND ANOTHER ONE, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. IF YOU ARE FROM AUSTRALIA, INDIA, NOT WITHIN THE US DON'T MESSAGE ME AS CHANCES OF YOU COMING TO VISIT ARE NUL. I WILL NOT SUPPORT YOU SO IF YOU CAN'T WORK , THAT WILL NOT WORK FOR ME.
IF YOU CAN NOT SUPPORT ME, DON'T CONTACT ME. IF YOU CAN'T VISIT ME, DON'T MESSAGE ME.

SO SAVE YOURSELF SOME TIME, and if not serious, don't waste my time.

6/22/2015 10:15:48 AM
If you are going to send me a message, have an active profile. Two times this week I have gotten messages from people who when I go to read the message it says "you can not reply to this message because the sender does not have an active account". 

This tells me two things, one that the person is not real and only uses this site to wank themselves, and two this person has no intentions ever ever of being a real sub/slave and again their only purpose is self gratification. 

 I will automatically delete message without reading as it is a waste of my time.

5/22/2015 5:48:39 AM
If you live overseas and the only way you can come be my slave is by marrying me, that will not happen, I will not marry you for you to be able to stay. I have a slave/husband, so I am not looking for a second one, so don't waste your time or mine chatting with me, mentioning I am your perfect Mistress, if you now you will not be able to come without being married.



3/31/2015 10:01:43 AM
Here goes another venting....... 

I have a wolf mate/slave, he is wolf such as I am, we mate and he is my only mate, I may have sex with my slaves, but none will ever be allowed to release in me. My wolf mate is the only one allowed to do so.

First if you intend on being my slave and are not from here, start looking for a job and schedule interview for when you come to visit. Do not expect I will take care of you in any way other than what I am to do as a Mistress/Owner. I always hear "yes I can find a job", prove it, if you work from home show me your pay stubs. 

Second, if you are not local again, trust me I do not believe a word you say when you say I will come visit you, so far only 2 of the 1000 plus messages I have received have come to meet me. they did not work out as they could not service me sexually as many times as I needed it. So if you say you will come and do not after chatting for long periods, expect your life to change, and if you ever known what it is to have bad luck, trust me you do not want to cross me. Haven't ever had bad luck , then you will know what it is.




3/19/2015 7:11:21 AM
I have found another slave that will be joining my pack soon, I have met him from here, one of the few that I consider a real person, he called, he texted, he sent messages thru here, he showed me he wants to be my slave. Spent last night with him and I am quite pleased. 

My alpha is anxious to meet the new member of our pack. We celebrated last night with passion, and fierce mating.

I may continue to look for more but now I am happy with the two I have here with me now, plus the one I have out of town now, and if another should join my pack, great. 

I just mentioned I may continue, the same standards I set before still stand, I will not put up with crap, will not waste time on fakes or wannabees, if you message me, you better intend on coming for an interview, and I will not wait more than one month for interview. If you can't afford the interview or come to see me, don't even message me, I have little time as I am busy.

3/12/2015 6:31:38 AM
You would think that a sub/ slave in their 70's would be more mature and not be into playing games, making empty promises, make me spend hours detailing what I expect of them and what my contract involves to then say "I can't afford the trip". Grow up, if you have no intentions of being real or coming to visit for interview don't contact me. My life is way too busy to waste my time on fakes.

2/19/2015 9:37:45 AM
First things first, I am not here looking for love, or a lover, or romance. I am here looking for a slave or property to suit my needs, my desires, my wants. I have a slave but at the moment he is not here as he is taking care of family matters. I have another one that will soon be moving in with me, he is collared and wears his tags, but yet I still need another one so he can have a break from servicing me as much as he does. He is my alpha male and will always be first. I have one coming that may work although just a few years younger than I would like.

I got a message that said
 "WOW youre working yourself right out of a submissive who could fall in love with you ... all because of your ridiculous rhetoric that sounds like a bunch of bullshit... Do you really want to die alone you idiot".

I do not want a sub or slave for love. what he refers to as my ridiculous rhetoric is my desires , my wants, and what I will not put up with, which is a but of crap. Do I want to die alone? No not really but considering I have not ever found anyone with my time here, it may happen, if it does, oh well.  I am chatting with a few but again nothing has come of it, just talk nothing else. 

He then replies with this "Grow up and realize this lifestyle is about 2 people not just YOU>? there may be two people in the relationship, but it is about me, my wants , my desires, my being happy.  I have lived and married in the vanilla world, it is not Me, I need the control, I need to dominate, I need to micromanage, I need BDSM. I live this 24/7 with very little vanilla in my life unless with my kids and even then it is mostly lifestyle related. That I grow up? I have and I have learned not to take crap from anyone, if you do not like my profile, thats ok, stop reading, if you don't like my control my methods, my way of dominating thats ok, don't message me, don't like my philosophies on life or my ways thats ok, just go away and live in your dream world where you think subs and slaves are the ones in control.

Lastly I get this comment "Holy Christ you Dominant Woman are so STUPID!!" 
Yes there are some dominant women who are stupid, I have met many that fit that criteria, but unlike those,  I know what I want, and if I do not find it, thats ok. I will not falter, I will not crumble or fall to pieces, I will not have any regrets, I am a strong, independent, carefree, Dominant female in charge of my life who will not tolerate, rude, stupid, ignorant, selfish, uneducated, assholes rather sub or slaves, just so I will not be or die alone. 





12/24/2014 2:01:39 PM
First I am going to wish everyone a Happy Holiday, and a Happy New Year.

Second starting the New Year, if I have chatted with you in the past and I keep a log and you stopped chatting with me, and send me a message that you would " like to get to know me", or " I am the Mistress you have  been seeking", or  anything along those lines you are deleted. I  AM NOT WASTING MY TIME ON PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF EVER FOLLOWING THROUGH. YOU WERE THE ONES WHO DROPPED OFF THIS SITE , THEN COME BACK AND THINK YOU CAN JUST TAKE OFF WHERE YOU LEFT OFF.  SORRY I SAID I DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCES. IF I AM CHATTING WITH YOU NOW THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU. 

I DELETE THOSE WHO VIEW ME DAILY, I DELETE MY MESSAGES DAILY, IF I CAN NOT RESPOND THAT DAY I USUALLY SEND A NOTE, IF I CAN'T I DO IT THE FOLLOWING DAY. 

SO A NEW YEAR TO ME IS A NEW BEGINNING. I AM CHATTING WITH SEVERAL NOW, I AM HOPING AT LEAST 2 OF THEM WILL BE THE ONES I SEEK. SO YOU HAVE BEEN NOTIFIED OF CHANGES I AM MAKING AND DELETIONS THAT WILL BE TAKING PLACE.

12/8/2014 2:19:01 PM
In my legal document and on another profile I have states that if forever reason I were to take a slave or property I do not seek SUBS, under the age requirement that is set,   I will require castration. 

11/10/2014 7:57:12 AM
The other day I get a message from someone saying " slavery has been abolished, it is not legal". My response" Then why are you here?".

The purpose of this site is to connect potential subs/slaves to Masters/Mistresses and Owners. Some use it to hook up for sex and waste people's time. Some are players, some are wannabees, many are fake but among all that, they do have real people looking for their sub/slave/property. If you do not like the terms on which a person has on their profile or their responses to your message just do not contact them again, Its over and done with. There is no reason to act like this jerk did. I just laughed it off, but decided to post this in the event another fool under the age of 49 responds to my message or profile.

Then I just do not understand why people can not read and abide by what potential Mistresses/Masters are seeking. MY profile states  I AM NOT WANTING ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 47, PLAIN AND CLEAR,  But I am now changing that to 49.

Well I get a long message from someone age 37, asking about being my sub/slave. now it also states I am seeking slaves/property and I am very very very clear on my profile what I want, the conditions, what will take place and that I have legal contracts.

 I am posting his replies without the name and mine as well .

My  reply: "Sorry I am honored to have received a message from you, but your age is a hard limit for me, I seek slaves/property not subs, older than 49, really more in 50's age range. I am chatting with 2 potentials now which I most likely will sign my contract. Good luck in your search".

His reply:"Why should my age be a barrier for you. Being younger I have more energy and can do more for you?"

My reply : "Yes very true but I have my reasons, I am seeking someone in my age range. I am sure with everything you have to offer you will find the right owner. Plus I am wanting a TPE, with legal documents to be signed, and after reading your profile, you are not willing to sign what I have drawn. Good luck again ". At this point you would think he would get the message I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CONTINUING AS HE IS NOT WITHIN MY AGE RANGE, NOR WILL HE OFFER WHAT I SEEK, I WANT A TRE, FLR,  RELATIONSHIP,WHERE I AM IN CONTROL OF EVERYTHING. MY SLAVE/PROPERTY IS TO TAKE CARE OF ME, SUPPORT ME, BE BY MY SIDE, NO
QUESTIONS ASKED. 

His reply: Madam, Again you trip yourself up. I am prepared to sign documents and have done so in the past. I will only sign real and authentic, existing legal power exchange documents not silly billy play fantasy slave contracts which have no legal basis whatsoever. On lifestyle websites with 18 in 20 being total fakes it will and has been difficult to find any owner let alone the so called right owner! I too want a TPE because that gives all parties involved legal security proterction.

My reply

My financial contract is legal once you sign them in front of a attorney or notary.

I have another contract that is also legal regarding lifestyle as as long as they have a time frame attached to it, as long as it has an amount to be paid for services, as long as both parties are in agreement, and one other things, it is legal. Again must be signed in front of an attorney or notary.

The power of attorney is legal , it is drawn up and just needs a signature in front of an attorney or notary.

The will must be written when you come , it will state I am beneficiary of all your assets, it will be legal and irrevocable, meaning it can not at any time be changed without my consent, nor can it be destroyed.

You will be tattooed stating I am Owner, wife, although we will not be married and Mistress with your slave registry number going down your back. with a chain and lock tattoo. A true slave or property has no use for material possessions once owned or under contract. In my contract it does state that all slaves possession goes into one account, as time or years goes by if he is released by me, he gets most of it back minus what was used while under my service and a  small portion for me. 

His response I am still not wanting him, he is not what I seek, but his last message just blew me away. "You are after money not slave. Maybe the police should investigate any sudden deaths of men associated either you? I would pay my way but not give all my money to a cancer opportunist".

Well to reply to that response. YOU CONTACTED ME, I DID NOT CONTACT YOU, I STATED I DIDN'T WANT ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 47 BUT YOU PERSISTED WITH THE CHAT, I REPLIED HONESTLY AND WITH THE INTENTION YOU WOULD SAY OK AND GO. BUT NO YOU CONTINUED TO SEND MESSAGE AGAIN.  I HAVE CONSULTED A LAWYER, I KNOW MY CONTRACTS ARE LEGAL, I AM NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES. ON MY PROFILE IT ALSO STATES I HAVE A SLAVE, AND 1 ONLINE SLAVE, THEY HAVE AGREED TO MY CONTRACT AND DO Not QUESTION ANYTHING.

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SO IF YOU ARE UNDER MY AGE RANGE, INSTEAD OF REPLYING STATING THAT YOU ARE UNDER THE AGE LIMIT, ALL MESSAGES NO MATTER HOW BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN THEY ARE, THEY WILL GO TO DELETE MESSAGE , BLOCK PERSON.









10/12/2014 5:34:48 PM
Just a note to those who send me messages after going awol for two years or more. Do not think I am excited to hear from you, if you were gone that long, there is no need to contact me again, as I have a sub, I am in negotiations with several more and I did  not miss you at all then when you disappeared then nor will I miss you if you disappear now. Most likely I will delete your messages as really, would you expect a Mistress to allow you to start chatting with her after going awol? No second chances are given, ever. 

9/30/2014 6:40:14 AM
I got a message from a Pro Domme yesterday addressing me as slave, then she went on and told me I could contact her by looking at her profile or email address that was on her profile. Obviously the Pro Dommes do not know the difference between a real lifestyle Mistress who has been in the lifestyle since the age of 16 as a Dominant. 

Again although my name says in bondage, I do not SWITCH, MY BONDAGE IS LIVING IN A VANILLA WORLD WHEN I LIVE MY LIFESTYLE 24/7 AND I HAVE TO ABIDE BY VANILLA RULES. THAT IS MY BONDAGE.

9/29/2014 5:52:33 AM
If anyone plans on sending me a message such as this one, don't bother as after reading the first line it goes directly into trash and you get blocked.

My Dear Dominant Lady,

  

 

I have a serious proposal for you to consider.   I am seeking to become and remain a voluntary captive lodger confined naked, shackled and chastity restrained within a locked room within a household. I would sign a number of legal power exchange agreements and even a voluntary worker agreement in order to facilitate legal protection for yourself. I would undergo character reference checks and background checks at my own expense prior to commencing any tenancy agreement.

A photograph will only be provided when a future meeting is arranged not before. Frankly there is no point until then. Sadly, the majority inhabiting lifestyle websites are not life stylers and are here just to disrupt lifestyle interaction. Please do not tell me my profile cannot be found when here it is sent directly to you? Please do not make demands of me! We are strangers at this particular time.

 

I  do not seek sexual pleasure of any kind and I do not require  any Physical chastisement discipline unless you would wish that has part of the agreement.

 

I  would remain in isolation within the room engaged in stretching exercises and meditation with my genitals locked away to avoid distraction.

 

I would expect to be allowed out to do morning shower and toilet and shaving and to cook at least two meals a day for myself to then be taken and eaten in my room. My room should be sparsely furnished. A remote control camera could be installed for remote viewing of me when you are indoors and outdoors. That could include a speaker for communication are alternatively a cell phone placed in my room for communication.

 

I need little direct interaction and so would not be in any one else’s way and my time out of the room can be controlled for your convenience.

 

This situation would be for a rolling year and could then terminate are continue by mutual consent. Any family member are friend is welcome to enter the room and view me if they wish.

 

I have a private income and do not work and so can pursue my desire for restrained captivity and exercise and meditation in a safe and controlled environment.

 I am able to pay $4000 each month in advance and can either be released so you can accompany me  monthly to the bank for cash are it can be transferred to your account each month in advance. A 3 month deposit plus the first month’s rent.

 

My own home would be let out on a annual basis by appointed realtors.

 

I had this arrangement in Denver, Colorado for 7 years until April of this year. I resided with two female twins who were also lesbians and worked has school teachers. I saw them for at most 14 hours in any one week. Their Mother stayed home and checked on me every few hours. She developed a habit that I tried to discourage of securing me to the wall and then suckling my penis and then whipping the genitalia with a small whip are a ruler are slapping them severely. At times she hung weights from the genitalia. The daughters occasionally witnessed it but did not participate. They did entertain one are two men at weekends in another room for BDSM activities with them that never involved me. I was usually shackled to the wall and gagged during those occasions. I realize that some women get emense pleasure and fulfilment snd health enhancement from the consensual whipping of naked males. I have endured that in the past but am not actually seeking that unless the landlord herself requires it. Once again my primary motive is captive isolation to practice exercise and meditation.

 

but can and will relocate to be kept as a naked, shackled and chastity restrained lodger.

 

This is a genuine proposal and you can involve your own terms to expand upon what you  may wish to include in such a landlord and lodger arrangement.

 

Yours sincerely,


9/20/2014 5:28:09 AM
I notice that the same subs and slaves message me often, sometimes 2 years later and they expect me to be excited because they say "wish I was there with you", just got one I started chatting with him over 3 years ago, then he drops off the planet, contacts me again, I tell him I have a slave , his reply " wish it was me". Yea right those kind of players are as real and true to this lifestyle like I am Santa Claus. 

Trust me I know if I have chatted with you, I know if you have wasted my time with lies and broken promises, I know if you are real, a player, a fake, a wannabe, a wanker, and now all those messages will automatically go into the trash and you will be blocked. 

I chat with a lot of male Dominants this does not apply to them. 

8/23/2014 9:18:20 AM
If you wish to communicate with me about a possible M/s,D/s Property/Slave type relationship, make sure you read my profile in it's entirety, that you comprehend every word of it, read it once, twice, six times if needed before you contact me. If you have questions mention them first when you message me, I will reply and if I feel you want what I offer we will chat.

Read my journals it also has information on there, valuable information. I WILL NOT CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT MYSELF TO FIT YOUR NEEDS.

ON MY PROFILE IT SAYS I AM POLY, I AM , NOT MY SLAVES, NOT MY TOYS, I AM POLY, MY SLAVES , MY TOYS ARE ALWAYS AND ALWAYS WILL BE MONOGAMOUS AND ONLY BE SEXUAL WITH ME. IF YOU DO NOT THINK YOU CAN'T BE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP, DON'T WASTE MY TIME.

I have an alpha slave
, I adore him, he is treated differently, if you think you can't handle being one of many then don't message me. 





7/29/2014 9:35:56 AM
First I want to say I have a slave, we have been together for 1 year now, he is not live in or 24/7 yet as we want to move to another state before moving in together. He is everything I could want but in some areas he is not able to give me what I need. That is the reason for seeking more slaves. 

He will always be the Alpha slave, always will be number one, but I want, need, desire at least 2 more that can provide me with what he can not.



7/22/2014 8:42:53 AM
If I get a message requesting a pic of me and we have not even chatted once, that is not going to happen. First it is against my Native American ways. SECOND THEY HAVE SO MANY PICTURES ON HERE OF SUBS, SLAVES AND MISTRESSES mine does not need to be added to the thousands already on here. So if you request one and I say NO, and you send me a message back like this so called slave did saying' FUCK YOU", I WILL REPORT YOU. 

7/14/2014 5:01:25 PM
Getting a message like this DOES NOT WORK LIKE THIS FOR ME." i seek a wife" I WANT A FULL CONVERSATION AFTER YOU READ MY PROFILE. ALL MESSAGES LIKE THIS GO STRAIGHT TO DELETE.  

5/10/2014 1:03:29 PM

I have befriended a Voodoo Priestess to help me rid my self of all the lairs, fakes, players, wannabees on this site.  I was given a spell or curse call it what ever you like, to use to ensure that I am being told the truth. If I have been lied to , I will know immediately and I also was given a spell to use on those who have lied to me and those who have done so deliberately.

 

 


4/28/2014 9:17:43 AM

I get 2 messages yesterday from slaves I used to chat with on messenger. One is married and was telling me he is getting his divorce and will be able to be my slave. 2 years ago he told me the same story I told him, when you have your divorce papers in hand only then I will believe you are divorced till then do not contact me.

 

Another was chatting with me and I thought we would finally meet, then poof he disappeared, again 2 years since last contact, asking if I was ready for him to be my slave.

 

Was chatting with another one he said he was married twice, and was not marrying again as he was paying for 2 house notes for his ex wives, cars, and he had kids. then he tells me he is still married, and he can come visit.

OK SO I GUESS I HAVE TO MAKE IT CLEAR ONCE AGAIN.

I DO NOT WANT ANYONE WHO IS INVOLVED WITH A WIFE, GIRLFRIEND, DOMESTIC PARTNER, ROOMMATE, OR IF YOU HAVE ANYONE SPECIAL IN YOUR LIFE. IF YOU ARE GETTING A DIVORCE CONTACT ME ONCE YOU HAVE THE PAPERS, I WILL ASK TO SEE THEM AND THEN I WILL DECIDE IF I WANT TO GO ON.

I DO NOT SHARE MY SLAVES UNLESS I AM PRESENT AND NOT EVER WILL THERE BE SEXUAL TOUCHING OR SEX  OF ANY KIND WITH ANYONE OTHER THAN ME, UNLESS YOU ARE A MALE AND I WANT YOU TO BE FUCKED OR FUCK A MALE,  AND AS MY SLAVE YOU WOULD BELONG TO ME, SO I WILL NOT SHARE YOU WITH YOUR WIFE EVEN IF SHE KNOWS YOU ARE CHEATING ON HER, I WILL NOT SHARE YOU WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE THAT JUST DOES NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR NEED TO BE A SUB/SLAVE, IF YOU HAVE TO CHEAT GET A DIVORCE, I WILL NOT SHARE YOU IF YOU HAVE A ROOMMATE EVEN IF OPPOSITE SEX OR SAME SEX .

 

 


4/7/2014 9:58:41 PM

If you do not intend to have an active profile where I can leave a comment, do not bother to message me, I have gotten three messages today form people who do not have an active profile. I am chatting and in possible negotiations with a slave now, an considering the time I have wasted answer and responding to others and getting no where I most likely will not respond to many more messages as I am tired of the fcking games you so called slaves play.  he is on here and on another site and on that site he is under my consideration, plus with him and my toy I am happy now.


3/19/2014 3:36:14 PM

To the male Dominants that look at my profile, know this I do not switch ever, not in any way. Not even if playing with each other or teasing each other. If you have viewed my profile, I will on occasion look at yours as well but that does not mean I am interested in being your slave. I have been Dominant since birth, I controlled my parents from a very early age. Not by being spoiled but by laying down the law on who was in charge. By the age of 16 I had 4 slaves, and I have been living this since the age of 16, so there is no pulling the wool over my eyes.

 

If you are seeking an equal as a mate then we can talk, as I am seeking an equal as a mate, not a switch but a true Dominant such as I and trust me, I haven't me one yet who is truly my equal.

 

My bondage although it says Mistress in bondage is not that I enjoy being bound, as that is far from true, my bondage is living in a vanilla world, when I live BDSM 24/7 as a way of life.


3/13/2014 6:55:58 PM

Well my travel plans have been put on hold for the next six months as I have some issues that need to be addressed. I am hoping by fall or sooner to be traveling again with my employer. this saddens me to no end but I have to take care of these issues if I plan on being able to have my slaves.


3/7/2014 8:30:10 AM

I DO NOT HAVE TIME TO WASTE HERE ON COLLARME, TO AVOID WASTING MY TIME, IF YOU ARE A SISSY, A CROSS DRESSER, LIKE TO BE FEMINIZED OR DESIRE TO BE, OR HOPING SOMEONE WILL PAY FOR YOUR SURGERY,  IF YOU ARE A TRANS, OR SEEKING A MAMA/CHILD RELATIONSHIP,  OR IF YOU WEAR DIAPERS, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. ALL I HAVE MENTIONED ABOVE ARE MY HARD LIMITS. SO DO NOT MESSAGE ME, DO NOT ASK TO BE MY FRIEND, DO NOT ASK ME TO HELP YOU IN ANY WAY. MY PROFILE STATES WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR AND WILL NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING ELSE.


IF YOU HAVE A MISTRESS ALREADY, OR IF YOU ARE A PART TIME  SLAVE OR SUB AND DO NOT LIKE HOW SHE IS TREATING YOU, DO NOT SEEK MY SYMPATHY OR ADVICE, I AM NOT HERE FOR THAT, IF I SEE A PIC ON HERE  OF YOU WITH A FEMALE OR MISTRESS IN THE BACKGROUND YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY DELETED.


 PUTTING IT IN ENGLISH WHERE ALL CAN UNDERSTAND UNLESS NOT FROM HERE, OR THEY ARE JUST  TOO PLAIN STUPID TO COMPREHEND, WHICH  I FIND MANY OF YOU ARE, DO NOT BOTHER ME, DO NOT MESSAGE ME, UNLESS YOU ARE INTERESTED IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THE ONE I SEEK. I WILL NOT MAKE ADJUSTMENTS TO MY COMMANDMENTS TO SUIT YOU, I WILL NOT CHANGE MY BELIEFS BECAUSE YOU DO NOT LIKE MY WAYS OR BELIEFS, I AM WHO I AM AND I DO NOT NEED TO CHANGE.


1/18/2014 5:13:47 PM

Looking forward to my first visit to LA on Feb 1st, I know it will not be my last but the first time is the one that always makes the best impression.


1/8/2014 5:48:47 PM

Well another name has been added to my list of break their penis ritual as they have tried to played me for a fool again, they will not ever know what happiness is, what serving a Mistress is like, what is is to be wanted or have any of their dreams turn reality. So far this year the number is 8 wow and today is the 8th of January, there will be many broken and useless cocks on here by the end of the month.

 

IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF EVER MEETING ME, DO NOT MESSAGE ME. I AM FUCKING TIRED OF RESPONDING TO TIME WASTERS AND PLAYERS. 


So if you start conversations with me, better be sure you want a relationship out of it or you better just say I want to chat with you, I may chat if time allows but I will not waste any more time, with slaves who tell me "i am looking for someone like you, you are real, i need a Mistress like you, i need to be in chastity, looks do not matter"


GROW UP, BECOME A MAN, OR WHATEVER IT IS YOU SAY YOU ARE AS FROM WHAT I HAVE SEEN HERE, THERE ARE NO TRUE SLAVES, NO TRUE SUBS, BUT THERE ARE PLENTY OF FAKES, PLAYERS, JERKS, ASSHOLES, LIERS, AND I AM NOT ONE TO BE PLAYED FOR A FOOL


1/6/2014 5:13:51 PM

Well if all goes well on Feb 1st I will be heading out to Los Angeles for training for my new job. Will be there one week, after that I come home, than a week later I will be heading to my first destination which is still unknown.  Would be nice to meet someone from the local scene there, maybe have coffee, or dinner. 


12/31/2013 7:13:28 AM

Getting a message like this does not impress me at all, if you think I am a fool to believe things like this as the person who told me" go fuck yourself"

 

His message "Ill pay you 500 buck to tie me up. Pull my pants down just a bit an use me as an ash tray..

 

My response, do you really think I believe this? Like if they are going to pay airfare from up north to La. for a few hours of fun. Told him to find someone in his area.

 

His response" Go fuck yourself snob" Really?  Needless to say I blocked him, deleted his message and looking for a nice spell to use on him now. I am going to be very busy tonight casting spells on all those who have wronged me here.


12/25/2013 3:47:26 PM

Well I  have my spell done for the New Years where I will delete alL but 3 names from my read mail list, and who has viewed me list, all other will be gone those who have made empty promises will pay, suffer and know that I am not one to be played with. Oh what a wonderful New Years it will be.


12/25/2013 3:46:44 PM

Well I  have my spell done for the New Years where I will delete alL but 3 names from my read mail list, and who has viewed me list, all other will be gone those who have made empty promises will pay, suffer and know that I am not one to be played with. Oh what a wonderful New Years it will be.


12/24/2013 6:38:41 AM

SOMEONE TRIED TO SEND ME CHAT REQUEST, IT DOESNT WORK HERE , I HAVE TRIED SEVERAL TIMES, MESSAGE ME AND I WILL LET YOU KNOW HOW TO CHAT WITH ME ON YAHOO MESSENGER


12/24/2013 6:33:31 AM

Happy Holidays to those who celebrate the season, may what you are looking for be found, those in the service that you come home quickly and safely, as you are missed and loved. Tio my friends I wish you the best, those who have wronged me, you will pay in ways you never thought possible, I always win.


11/21/2013 5:02:16 AM

I have blocked him so now I will get the " oh how convenient to block me now" 1) he is not in my age range, 2) I do not take orders from him or anyone, 3) I have a right to deny or block anyone I choose, I just blocked the 27 year old male from Singapore.


11/21/2013 4:53:47 AM

Got a message from a slave yesterday from SoCal age 47, not his name but location is correct, with the following message

"You must be able to send me a photo of you before I commit"

my response "not interested",

get another reply "So convenient. to hide like that"

 

I just fucking put on my journal entry  the day before I am no longer searching and not interested in anyone here. I am here for my friends, I DO NOT HAVE TO SEND A PIC OF MYSELF TO ANYONE, I DO NOT HAVE TO ACCOUNT FOR MY ACTIONS TO ANYONE, THAT IS MY RIGHT, AS A DOMINANT AND AS A PERSON, IF YOU NEED A PIC TO COMMIT, GO FUCK YOURSELF AS I AM NOT GOING TO SEND ONE TO YOU OR ANYONE. YOU NEED A PIC, FIND A MISTRESS ON HERE WITH A PIC, THEY HAVE THOUSANDS TO CHOOSE FROM. NOW COMES  THE "YOU ARE NOT REAL " PART, I AM VERY REAL, I HAVE MET PEOPLE FROM HERE, I  WOULD ATTEND THE MUNCHES IN MY AREA, GO TO PARTIES, I JUST HAVE GIVEN UP MY FUCKING SEARCH. I DO NOT TAKE ORDERS FROM ANYONE NOT EVEN A DOMINANT MALE SO IF YOU THINK I AM GOING TO SEND YOU A PIC,  A SO CALLED SLAVE BEFORE YOU CAN COMITT KEEP WAITING,YOU WILL BE BALD, OLD AND DEAD BEFORE YOU GET IT.


11/19/2013 5:47:15 AM

                    MUST BE READ BEFORE CONTACTING ME

 

 

Because I have a few minutes before going to work decided to check some profiles, of slaves in my age range, to see what's available, not that I am interested as I have given up finding anything here.

As I read them, they all sound so "wonderful" lol, claiming this and that, like "will do anything" " can relocate"  "financially stable" and then I wonder, if you have all this to offer why are you still searching?  As if this were true, and you offered me your loyalty, your faithful, your devotion, your body to be mine, I would grab you in a heartbeat but all I have gotten in response is lies, broken promises, and players, you really had no intentions of ever following through. Yes I will get responses saying" I am real" "I just have not found her", " there are to many fakes here" Well all I can say is, " if you are looking for that model Pamela Anderson type Mistress here" you will find her, but 99% of the time she but if you look outside your shallow box, and look and read profiles and ask yourself, " am I what she is looking for" and if you are respond, you may get a reply back, but if you know you are not, don't waste our time My profile clearly states, I am not interested in younger men, and yet I get 26, 32, 42, year old men saying they are what I seek.  Really?

 

So, to al you sub/slaves out there, if you are real, show us that you are, trust me I do not believe a word anyone has told me so far about their intention, well I know of only one so far, but because of problems that have arisen, we are in the have to wait stage now.  


11/8/2013 6:11:57 PM

People and men in general wonder why I do not trust men or people, why should I trust anyone, every man I have met here or in real life has lied, has cheated, has tried to play me for a fool. I thought I found one that was different, I thought he was sincere, but once again all lies, all a show, all fake. So considering I will be pulling off my profile because of my new job, I will keep it on here one more week, after that, its over. I will no longer chat with anyone on here. I have my friends, I am chatting with one now, but I will not, again will not be taken for a fool again by trusting anyone on here as there is no ne real, no one sincere, no one that is truthful.


10/26/2013 6:26:36 PM

I WILL BE PULLING MY PROFILE OFF SOON AS WITH MY NEW JOB I WILL NOT LONGER BE ABLE TO KEEP MY PROFILE. I HAVE SENT WORD TO THOSE I CHAT WITH REGULARLY. ALL OTHERS SORRY YOU ARE TO LATE I HAVE FOUND TWO THAT I AM IN CHATS OR NEGOTIATIONS WITH NOW.


10/11/2013 5:23:32 PM

Just for the record, I am not in Colorado at present, I am in New Orleans, and will be here till my job contract ends. I have been offered a job in Florida and am considering the move there, to West Pam Beach area or Fort Lauderdale, not sure which. If you want to chat fine, but be in my age range or I will block and delete you as I always have. Things can change , so read my journals to find out where I am.


9/2/2013 10:07:17 AM

 

                   READ  IMPORTANT NOTE

I AM PAGAN, LEFT PATH THOSE THAT KNOW PAGANISM WILL KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. I WILL NOT AND I STRESS THAT NOW I WILL NOT EVER EVER CHANGE MY BELIEFS, NOR WHO I AM FOR ANYONE. SO IF YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH ME BEING PAGAN MOVE ON AND DO NOT WASTE MY TIME.

 

 I AM POLY, ALWAYS HAVE BEEN ALWAYS WILL BE, IF YOU ARE SEEKING A MONAGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP MOVE ON. I HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE AND ONLY ONE MALE HAS BEEN ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH ME. SO IF YOU THINK I WILL BECOME MONAGAMOUS BECAUSE YOU ARE AND I WILL CHANGE WHO I AM TO ACCOMODATE YOU, YOU ARE DEAD WRONG. I AM THE DOMINANT, I AM THE ONE IN CHARGE SO HEED MY WORD, I WILL NOT EVER CHANGE EVER.


8/20/2013 5:16:56 AM

I WILL NOT RESPOND TO ANY MESSAGE FROM ANYONE YOUNGER THAN MY AGE REQUIREMENTS UNLESS THEY HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER ME AND EVEN THEN THEY MUST BE CLOSER TO MY AGE.I DELETE YOU AND BLOCK YOU SO DO NOT TRY TO SEND A SECOND MESSAGE , I WILL NOT GET IT. IF YOU TELL ME YOU HAVE READ MY PROFILE AND THEN I SEE YOUR AGE, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. I WILL NOT ACCEPT CHAT REQUESTS EITHER. IF YOU ARE A SISSY MOVE ON, IF YOU ARE SEEKING ADULT/CHILD RELATIONHIP MOVE ON, IF A CROSS DRESSER KEEP GOING, IF YOU ARE A FEMALE LEAVE ME ALONE. I HAVE 2 SLAVES NOW, I AM HAPPY, I SAID I AM NO LONGER SEARCHING, I SEE THE ONE I HAVE CURSED IS LOOKING AT MY PROFILE AGAIN, HE IS DOOMED TO BE ALONE FOREVER NOW. SO DO NOT MAKE ME ANGRY AS I CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. LEARN TO READ, I KNOW THERE ARE STUPID PEOPLE OUT THERE BUT REALLY, ARE YOU THAT FUC..... STUPID TO NOT UNDERSTAND, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOUNGER MEN.


7/23/2013 5:15:54 PM

The fool just messaged me to say he found another Mistress and she is taking him , poor fool will be taken by her, will be left alone and miserable till his dying days and he will have company as misery loves company , as the same will go to her as well. I will not ever be second choice to anyone.


7/23/2013 4:45:41 PM

Well seems people here are still trying to take me for a fool, but I am having the last laugh trust me. A certain slave  (a doctor) kept telling me he wanted to be mine, he was coming, he was making the arrangements, he could feel my authority  and control in my voice, told me he would obey my commandments, and that he would contact me every day to let me know of the progress he was making in coming to see me.

 

Well unless he is dead I have not heard from him, I have left 2 calls, I have sent him a text message, I have emailed him, so now I have taken matters into my own hands. I will not turn back what I have done, he will be miserable, alone, and unloved, have nightmares, and have things around him always spying on him, watching his every move and if they feel like it attack him.

 

I warned him I was a  powerful Witch with friends that no one wants to ever cross, I told him not to betray me, not to make empty promises but he did just that. So he is getting his punishment, and if he says I don't believe in that crap, my slave overseas can attest to my powers as he felt me by his side punishing him for something he was not to do


7/16/2013 2:33:49 PM

HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO STRESS TO YOU IDIOTS THAT YOU READ MY PROFILE? OBVIOUSLY I NEED TO SEND A MESSAGE DAILY. SO HERE IT IS

I DO NOT WANT YOUNGER MEN, IF NOT OLDER THAN 50 NOW DO NOT APPLY. IT FUCKING IRRITATES ME THAT YOU SAY YOU ARE SEEKING A MISTRESS/MASTER/DOM/DOMME/

OWNER AND YET CAN NOT HONOR A SIMPLE REQUEST THAT YOU DO NOT RESPOND IF UNDER A CERTAIN AGE. YOU COULD BE THE LAST MALE ON EARTH AND I STILL WOULD NOT TAKE YOU, AS IF YOU CANT LISTEN TO WHAT I ASK OF YOU,WHICH IS DO NOT CONTACT ME IF NOT IN MY AGE RANGE, WHAT WOULD MAKE ME BELIEVE YOU WOULD DO AS I ASK IN OTHER TASKS I ASK YOU TO DO.

 


7/4/2013 11:00:46 AM

Happy 4th of July to those that celebrate, let us remember those in the military serving  and are away from their family and friends, and those who have died for our country as without them we would not be able to rest at night, and enjoy the few freedoms we still have. Thank you for taking care of our country and its citizens while putting your lives in arms way to protect us.


6/29/2013 11:58:56 AM

I keep getting messages from slaves saying "please take me, I need you ", I AM NO LONGER SEARCHING, I HAVE WASTED ENOUGH TIME SEARCHING TO NOT FIND ANYONE. I WILL NOT TAKE ANYONE ON. IF I FEEL AFTER I HAVE RELOCATED TO MY NEW PLACE OR COUNTRY AND I FEEL I AM IN THE MOOD TO SEEK AGAIN I WILL. SENDING ME MULTIPLE REQUEST FOR ME TO CONSIDER YOU WILL NOT HELP YOU IN ANYWAY.

A SLAVE MENTIONED NOT ALL SALVE ARE TRUST HOLDERS AND SOME ARE POOR, WELL THAT IS NOT GOING TO EARN YOU ANY POINTS AS IN MY PROFILE IT SAYS YOU ARE TO SUPPORT ME , NOT I SUPPORT THE SLAVE.

 

SO TO THOSE WHO CAN NOT UNDERSTAND ENGLISH, WHICH FOR MANY IS THEIR NATIVE TONGUE, I WILL SAY IOT IN 5 EASY WORDS FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND

 

 

I AM NO LONGER LOOKING.

 


6/11/2013 8:54:45 PM

First, if you are not in my area and you have no intention on ever coming to meet DON'T MESSAGE ME, IF YOU SEE THIS IN THE JOURNAL SECTION HOPEFULLY IT WILL KEEP YOU FROM WASTING MY TIME ON FOOLS LIKE YOU.

Don't message me saying you read my profile, you are the sub for me as really only 2 people from this site have ever met me in person 2 out of the 1000's of message I get from you so called subs/slaves/property and I have met 3 Dom's. You know you have no intention on coming so why lie, do you think I believe your every word? Hell no at least I don't as no one here has ever proved to be real. My saying is words are cheap, actions speak, but do not worry, I have learned that real in your world is not the same real as in my world so I now delete all those who view me except those few I chat with and I delete my messages daily, now I do not even read them as they are a waste of my time, energy and I am tired of the lies.

So you ask why am I here, I just said the reason I have friends here, some are on my messenger list others are not, those that are not I chat here with them.

I am no longer searching, I am making plans on moving, finally, I am packing up my stuff slowly as I still have to get back to Co to get my other stuff, but I will not take any body with me but my kids.

If I have not met you at a munch, don't bother me. As we both have different meanings for the word REAL, and I am not searching anymore


5/31/2013 4:37:31 PM

When signing on to the site today I saw an entry that read, and was in caps, it is not about what you want it is about what I want.  From a Mistress/Owner standpoint I feel the same way, who is the sub to dictate how the Mistress/Owner/Master/Dom needs to be? I had a sub ask me , will you be able to beat me every day? Hell no, if I am tired why should I have to spend my time beating you, his response then I don't want you. Fine move on. Another can you guarantee that I will be able to get out of my chastity when I want ?  No as in my profile it says you will be only released to service me, my online slave has been in chastity for 18 months now with no release. I could go on with the stupidness, I put up with on a daily basis.

 

So if you are putting demands on what your Mistress/Owner .master/Dominant should look like, how they should perform, how they need to do things no wonder you are still here, but then again 90 percent of the people here are just players, fakes, liars, and  wannabes and do not ever have the intention of meeting in real life.


5/27/2013 8:14:25 AM

To those who have served and are serving in the military, I thank you for your service. Wishing you a safe and quick return to your home, family and friends. Thank you for a job well done.

 

I feel that all those who have fallen have provided all of us a service beyond what words can express, but as long as anyone attempts to give their thanks in any way they feel they are conveying the message and they are understood and that is what counts. I also feel that anyone who has died should be remembered today.

 

I treated a Vietnam veteran to breakfast at Shoney's today to offer my thanks, his reply" no one `cares about what we went thru, we weren't welcomed like the soldiers that came back from WWI or WWII, the Gulf War, or anyone of those wars after us. We were just ignored." I could hear the sadness in his voice, I gave him a hug and said " thanks" I will always remember this day I met you. I made a difference in his life. So when you see a veteran, when you see they need help and you can't help them financially, just tell them thank you for your service and it will bring a smile to their faces.

 

 


5/19/2013 10:41:39 AM

Every week I check those who view me, almost every week they are the same ones, over and over looking at my profile. In the Home section the same, same names, same ages, same profiles, and so many who like to play the game of making promises not ever planning on keeping.

Nevertheless I am considering a slave who seems sincere, has not made any promises yet except to send me his key to his chastity belt, making me His Keyholder. I get messages from him daily, he gets on cam like I ask, and he makes Me happy. Will it last? Time will tell but till then I will enjoy him as much as I can.

As always I have deleted all those who visit m profile and leave no message, as well as I have deleted messages which I have responded to and gotten no reply.


5/15/2013 5:53:45 PM

I notice a lot of Dominant males look at my profile, perhaps it is because it says Mistres inbondage, by no means does that mean I bottom, switch, or in any way am in any other role than Mistress/Owner. My bondage is being and living in a vanilla world where I can not be me all the time, although my Dominance carries over in every thing I do, I still have to abide by the laws set forth by our society, hence that is my bondage.

 

Therefore I am Dominant always I am a Mistress/Owner and I seek slaves and property. Not ever will I engage with a male Dominant in any way other than his Equal.


5/9/2013 7:01:59 AM

I just deleted over 30 from my list of people who viewed me, my messages, sad to say only a few still stay on  my list. Talking to one now , who seems very intelligent, interesting, true to his word, so I may have found the one I seek. We shall see after our meeting.

 

If you are in your 20's, 30's I don't even read your message, you are blocked and deleted. Do not waste my time.

 


4/8/2013 10:37:41 AM

A brief history of who I am

 

At 16 I owned 4 slaves, at 18 I was speaking 7 languages needed 3 more to get me into the UN, but I was still to young to even consider a move like that. Now I speak 4 and learning Russian and Arabic, I lived and traveled to places that few could find on a map, as they( those that insulted me) would have no clue where the places are located. I attended some very nice private schools and am knowledgebale about some topics more than others because of interest.

As to work, I worked in a lot of fields, all men related from working offshore for almost 6 years to rebuilding car parts and being a mechanic, and going into car sales with no experience in an all male environment and becoming number 3 sales person out of 20 males. then my health took a turn and has progressively gotten worse.

 

For the record my health does not allow me to work, I tried for 2 days last year and ended up in the hospital for a week, I am helping a friend with translations but it is at my pace and not a real paying job, I live each day as if my last as really I know I am on borrrowed time, things can change, I know that but preparing for the worse makes it easy when something good happens, where as if I think of the good and it goes south my depression gets so much worse.

 

As to being uneducated in my 7 years of doing my undergrad I came out with four majors, one in Spanish, Anthropology, Latin American Studies and Geology, I also have a Masters in Business I hate business but at the time only thing really available to me, and I thought in time I would be able to work in that field.

 

Why did I write all this? Did I really have to do it? I did so for all the jerks out there that judge without knowing anything about that person they are judging, to answer the second part, no I really did not have to do this, I may delete it in time but I am so angry, so wanting to do a spell to make those that mocked me and called me names, so they can feel what it is like to be in anothers persons shoes, but I know the rule of karma, I know better, so I will let it pass now that I have vented.

 

Looks are not the only reason one should look for in a relationship but seems to be what most look for. To me someone who is knowledgeable in some of the topics I am into, and follows what I do , is more valuable to me.


4/8/2013 10:20:45 AM

WITHIN 5 MINUTES ON COMING ON TO CHECK MY MESSAGES I HAD A 23 YEAR OLD MALE AND A TRANS MESSAGE ME WANTING TO KNOW IF THEY CAN CHAT OR BE MINE.

 

HOW HARD IS IT TO READ A PROFILE? REALLY ARE PEOPLE THAT LAZY , OR STUPID THAT THEY THINK SOMEONE WILL DROP EVERYTHING AND TAKE SOMEONE THAT LAZY? IF YOUR BOSS TELLS YOU TO DO SOMETHING, DO YOU QUESTION THE WHY? NO YOU JUST DO IT, SO VIEW ME AS YOUR "BOSS", FUCK READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME.

 

AGAIN I HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUNGER MEN, TO ME THAT MEANS ANYONE UNDER 45 BUT IF ESTABLISHED I MAY CONSIDER YOU, I HAVE NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER IN TRANS, SISSIES, OR FEMINIZED MEN, OR AGEPLAY.

 

 

 

 


4/2/2013 6:00:33 AM

If you are in a pic with a female Dominant and  you view my profile you are deleted, as to me that means you already have one and you are cheating, or that is not you in the pic, or you go to pro Dommes, and if you go see them there is no use for me to even think of taking you on. I do not want to see red asses being whipped,  you kissing boots, your balls tied up, if it was from a long time ago, maybe a new pic needs to be put up, so a New Mistress can see you as you are now.  Plus we all know all Mistresses are not Barbies and that is all I see when I see those pics, so makes me think again, if you have a perfect Barbie Mistress, why are you looking at my profile as it states I am not a Barbie, so you are wasting my time


3/20/2013 1:17:28 PM

I am very angry and need to vent, as per my profile I am seeking someone loyal, honest, faithful and trustworthy. I was chatting with a potential slave, who said he had been married about 20 years to his wife I asked him this question , just like I ask all my slaves the same question, if he ever cheated on his wife. He got so rude with me like if this never happens, WELL BY MY EXPERIENCE AND OBSERVATIONS I WILL HAVE TO SAY I KNOW MANY MEN WHO DO CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES REGULARLY AND MANY WHO DO NOT, WHICH SIDE WEIGHS MORE, THE CHEATING SIDE. In fact this was his reply "Did I cheat on my wife? Who the fuck are you to ask that question?"

I am your potential future Owner and with an attitude like this trust me, I do not want you. So if anyone else will be offended if I ask this question, better not contact me, in this tone ever again, as I really will do somehing about it.

 

THEREFORE  if not serious about the lifestyle, if you can not answer questions I ask without lashing out, if you are not man enough to answer questions, in a normal fashion. FUCK OFF NOW


3/17/2013 9:04:23 AM

I am very angry and need to vent, as per my profile I am seeking someone loyal, honest, faithful and trustworthy. I was chatting with a potential slave, who said he had been married about 20 years to his wife I asked him this question , just like I ask almost all my slaves the same qiestion, if he ever cheated on his wife. He got so rude with me like if this ever happens, WELL BY MY EXPERIENCE AND OBSERVATIONS I WILL HAVE TO SAY I KNOW MANY MEN WHO DO CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES REGULARLY AND MANY WHO DO NOT, WHICH SIDE WEIGHS MORE, THE CHEATING SIDE. In fact his was his reply  "Did I cheat on my wife? Who the fuck are you to ask that question?"

I am your potential future Owner and with an attitude like this trust me, I do not want you. So if anyone else will be offended if I ask this question, better not contact me, in this tone ever again, as I really will do somehing about it.

 

Moral: if not serious about the lifestyle, if you can not answer questions I ask without lashing out, if you are not man enough to answer questions, in a normal fashion. FUCK OFF NOW

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


3/16/2013 7:40:45 AM

Well did my weekly cleaning of wannabees and useless slaves off my message and who viewed me list , gets easier every time I do it, no worries those that stay in touch with me you are not deleted but those I do not hear from after 7-10 days poof, into the pool of revenge you go. yes I know some have very very busy schedules esp if in the medical field, but all other, 5 minutes,you cant take 5 minutes to send a mesage? Really what a waste of time.  Going to need a bigger cauldron to place the names in soon, but my spells get better and better with time,  I am not to be toyed with , so many do not get that through their heads but maybe when they realize tha no matter how hard they try to get hard and it won;t happen, maybe maybe it could be you made someone mad, by making empty promises or you just are impotent out of guilt. 


3/15/2013 6:32:59 AM

Well did my weekly cleaning, deleted some 20 something slaves from my "who viewed me list" and my messages. If you do not respond to my messages I send  I assume you have no interest. Now if you have a super busy occupation such as in the medical field, I can maybe forgive not getting a message but if more than a week, in any other field, that is not acceptable as to me that shows me, if you can not take 10 minutes out of your day to message me, you are not worthy of being MY slave. as I mean nothing to you if I can not have your time.


3/11/2013 1:48:59 PM

Some of  the same people keep looking at my profile, we have chatted, they stop, then they look at my profile again and start chatting again, then stop, LOSERS FIND SOMEONE ELSE'S PROFILE TO LOOK AND RELOOK, IT IS A WASTE OF MY TIME TO HAVE TO CONSTANTLY DELETE YOU FROM  MY ""WHO IS VIEWING ME LIST. IF WE CHATTED AND YOU STOPPED CHATTING, I WILL NOT START THE CHAT AGAIN. I HAVE DONE SO IN THE PAST TO NO AVAIL, AS NO ONE WILL SEND MESSAGES AGAIN, AS THEY FOUND OUT HOW SERIOUS I AM ABOUT THE LIFESTYLE, OR THEY FOUND THE FAKE BARBIE MISTRESSES THEY WERE SEEKING.

 AGAIN IF YOU LIVE OVERSEARS KEEP LOOKING ELSEWHERE, EVERYONE I HAVE CHATTED WITH STOP CHATTING, AS THEY SAY, " OH YOU ARE TOO FAR AWAY" FUCK YES IT SAYS THAT ON MY PROFILE, SO WHY CHAT WITH ME IF YOU HAD NO INTENTION IN THE FIRST PLACE OF EVER REALLY COMMITTING? DO YOU THINK I BELIEVE EVERY WORD YOU ALL SAY?  ONLY A FOOL WOULD BELIEVE AND TAKE EVERYTHING YOU SAY AS TRUE. AND I AM NO FOOL.  WORDS MEAN NOTHING TO ME, ACTIONS DO. IF YOU SAY YOU ARE COMING, I DO NOT SAY YES, I AM PUTTING YOU DOWN AS COMING ON THE 23, I SAY " YEA RIGHT", WHEN I SEE A CONFIRMATION OF YOUR TICKET IN MY EMAIL, WHEN I GET A CALL FROM A LOCAL NUMBER IN MY AREA, FROM A HOTEL , THEN I WILL SAY. " WOW, SOMEONE CAME THROUGH ON THEIR WORD".

 IF  COULD WRITE THE NAMES OF EVERYONE IN JUST ONES MONTH TIME THAT HAS WASTED MY TIME ON STUPID PROMISES OF WANTING TO BE MY SLAVE THE LIST WOULD BE AT LEAST 3 PLAGES LONG AND THEY DO NOT ALLOW THAT HERE. SO AGAIN IF NOT SERIOUS, LEAVE ME ALONE.

 

ANOTHER THING I WILL NOT EVER SEND MY CONTRACT OUT FOR ANYONE TO VIEW AGAIN, THE ONLY TIME YOU WILL SEE IT IS WHEN  YOU COME SEE ME. NOR WILL YOU SEND A COPY OF THE SLAVES DUTIES.


3/6/2013 8:39:25 AM

Will not be on much today, going to the ER a I am in so much pain, which is not normal. I will have my phone , so if you are on messenger and message me I should be able to respond. If I am admited which may happen as it did last time I went I will try to keep all those who I am communicating with informed about my progress. If you did not add yourself to my messenger before, I will not take any new invites while using my phone so sorry you are out of luck.


3/5/2013 12:47:27 PM

To all foreign slaves, if you can not work in the US, my taking you on as a slave will not happen. I will not support you at any time, you must support Me. So if you are not able to work here, don;t bother sending me a message. Now if you say you are financially secure, you will need to prove it to me, by means of bank statements, trust information, what ever means you have to support yourself, it must be availabale to be viewed by me.  if you seek marriage to get into the country, move on.  This message will be written in other langauges for those who do not understand English as it is not their primary language

 

In Arabic

إلى جميع العبيد الأجنبي، إذا كان لا يمكنك العمل في الولايات المتحدة، بلدي تأخذك اعتبار أنه رقيق لن يحدث. سيتم دعم لا يمكنك في أي وقت، يمكنك يجب دعم لي. حتى إذا لم تكن قادرة على العمل هنا، لا تهتم بإرسال رسالة. والآن إذا كنت أقول لك آمنة ماليا، وسوف تحتاج إلى إثبات ذلك بالنسبة لي، عن طريق مصرف بيانات، معلومات الثقة، من أي وقت مضى وسيلة لديك لدعم نفسك، يجب أن أفايلابالي ليتم عرضه بواسطة لي.   إذا كنت تسعى الزواج للحصول على دخول البلاد، الانتقال.  ستتم كتابة هذه الرسالة في لغات أخرى لأولئك الذين لا يفهمون اللغة الإنجليزية كما أنها ليست لغتهم الأولى.

 

In Czech

Chcete-li všech zahraničních otroků, když není možné pracovat v USA, brát vás jako otrok se nestane. Nebudu podporovat vás kdykoli, musí podporovat . Takže pokud nejste schopni pracovat, don, t obtěžovat mi poslal zprávu. Nyní, pokud říkáte, že je finančně zajištěný, budete muset dokázat mi, prostřednictvím bankovních výpisů, důvěra informace, co kdy znamená, že musíte podporovat sami, musí být availabale být zobrazeno mnou. pokud hledáte manželství se dostat do země, dál. Tato zpráva bude napsaná v jiných langauges pro ty, kteří nerozumí anglicky, protože není jejich primární jazyk.

 

In Hindi

सभी विदेशी दास, अगर आप अमेरिका में काम नहीं कर सकता है, अपने आप पर एक दास के रूप में नहीं ले रही हो जाएगा. मैं आप किसी भी समय का समर्थन नहीं करेंगे, तो आप मुझे समर्थन करना चाहिए. तो अगर तुम यहाँ काम करने में सक्षम नहीं हैं, डॉन, t मुझे एक संदेश भेजने के लिए परेशान है. अब अगर आप कहते हैं कि आप आर्थिक रूप से सुरक्षित हैं, आप इसे बैंक के बयान के माध्यम से मेरे लिए, साबित करने की जरूरत होगी, विश्वास जानकारी, क्या कभी मतलब है कि आप अपने आप को समर्थन किया है, यह मेरे द्वारा देखा जा availabale होना चाहिए. अगर आप शादी की तलाश के लिए देश में मिलता है, पर चलते हैं. इस संदेश जो लोग अंग्रेजी नहीं समझ के रूप में यह उनकी प्राथमिक भाषा नहीं है के लिए अन्य भाषाओं में लिखा जाएगा.

 

In Italian

A tutti gli schiavi stranieri, se tu non puoi lavorare negli Stati Uniti, la mia presa tu su come un schiavo non accadrà. Io non ti sosterrò ad alcuna durata, tu devi sostenermi. Così se tu non sei capace lavorare qui, don;t infastidiscono spedirmi una comunicazione. Ora se tu dici tu sei finanziariamente sicuro, tu avrai bisogno di provarlo a me, da vuole dire di asserzioni di banca, informazioni di fiducia quello che mai ti intende deve sostenersi, deve essere availabale per essere visto da me. se tu cerchi matrimonio di ottenere nel paese, continua. Questa comunicazione sarà scritta nell'altro langauges per quelli che non capiscono inglesi come non è la loro lingua primaria.

 

 


3/5/2013 8:32:44 AM

As I always do, I am deleting those who view my profile and leave no messages as, why keep you on there if you have no interest in what I seek, and if you do and do not leave me a message, why keep you, so if you see I have viewed your profile, if you are not willing to relocate, if you have no sent me a mesage, poof you are deleted.


2/26/2013 6:46:15 AM

I have been getting a lot of messages lately, and I have responded to many. One thing I am going to let everyone know now, is I have two questions I ask all my potential slaves, if you can not answer these questions, you are not worth of MY time or being My slave. So to make it easier for you to decide if you should message me I will let you see the questions now. If you can't answer them in the message you send me, don't message me.

 

Question 1), What qualities , values do you have to offer me? What makes you different than any other slave on here?

 

Question 2) Why are you worthy of Me? Basically why should I choose you?


2/24/2013 10:44:37 AM

Just registered another slave on slave register. Seems like some are truly serious about wanting to be my slaves. One in Fl will let me know tomorrow when he will come visit me, jersey one not sure if he is serious or not, was so hoping, as I have not had a bull  in my stable in a long time.


2/22/2013 5:53:39 AM

Ok time to rant once more, I get a message like this name withheld "i am a single unattached white slave , .....yo , with experience as a slave . looking for long term real life slavery . true slavery with total control , no say , no rights ." , ok is there anywhere in my profile that says you will have rights? Does It not say I am offering real time, long term, slavery?  The fact that I have contracts, power of attorney and a marriage contract for that special one means I am serious about what I seek.

 

I look at your profiles yet, what I read means shit to me, why as if it is true that you seek this,  a real time, Ft FLR that is a TPE with no control, no rights, no freedom, you would message me, what you need to say and you will be noticed is I AM SEEKING A BARBIE MISTRESS, WHO WILL PLAY GAMES WITH ME, MAKE ME THINK SHE IS REAL, AND WILL TAKE MY MONEY"  Trust me , you will have 1000 of Mistresses looking at your profile as that fits 99% of the Mistresses  profiles here.


2/22/2013 5:33:42 AM

if you have viewed my profile and I havechecked yous that is the reason I am checking it now, as if you left no message it shows no interest so I am deleting you off my list, I am also deleting those that not say willing to relocate as I am not moving to you, so makes no sense in keeping you on my list either. I deleted over 30 yesterday plus my mail, should be doing anoher 30 if not more in the next ten minutes.


2/19/2013 8:42:56 AM

I had a person  once tell me your name implies you are the one in bondage, by using the name mistresinbondage. Well in a way I am, as my bondage is living in the vanilla world, when I ant it to be a world where I can live this 24/7 without wories, without problems , without breaking the law. So basically society is what is my bondage.

 

On another topic, if you are a Dominant male and you are looking for sub/slaves don't look at my profile thinking you will find that in me. I am Dominant 100%,  100% of the time, I do not turn it off and on, I am that way at home, in public, when I worked, with my family, in my social world of bdsm, and in the vanilla world.  I do not do it just part time, it is who I am and that will not ever ever ever change. All the male Dominants I have had for lovers have ended up serving me as slaves as most feared me, because of my dominance. Do not ever think I am anything other than Dominant as you will be so wrong  in your thinking.

 

 


2/16/2013 6:02:59 AM

I have been getting a lot of messages lately, and I have responded to many. One thing I am going to let everyone know now, is I have two questions I ask all my potential slaves, if you can not answer these questions, you are not worth of MY time or being My slave. So to make it easier for you to decide if you should message me I will let you see the questions now. If you can't answer them in the message you send me, don't message me.

 

Question 1), What qualities , values do you have to offer me? What makes you different than any other slave on here?

 

Question 2) Why are you worthy of Me? Basically why should I choose you?


2/14/2013 7:39:57 AM

I got a mesage from a college student age 23 asking if I would be his Mistress as part of a frat iniciation. I replied no as a23 is younger than my son and I will say it again, I HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUNGER MEN, NONE WHAT SO EVER.FUCK WHY CAN YOU ALL NOT GET THAT THRU YOUR FUCKING HEADS. H e replied back" we can make it work". I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU. LEAVE ME ALONE, IF I SEE YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER ME AND YOU ARE 42 I MAY CONSIDER YOU, BUT UNDER MY OLDEST SONS AGE WHICH IS 29, I WILL NOT EVER EVER EVER EVER CONSIDER TAKING YOU ON MUCH LESS CHATTING WITH YOU. SO DO NOT TRY TO CHANGE MY MIND OR TRY TO MAKE ME BELIEVE IT WILL WOR OR WE CAN MAKE IT WORK, IT WILL NOT EVER WORK AS I DO NOT WANT IT.


2/13/2013 9:25:19 AM

If on your profile it does not say willing to relocate why look at other profiles out of state? I truly get pissed off when I go check a profile  of those who viewed me and it does not say " willing to relocate", well if you are not willing, I am most likely not willing so why waste my time of having tto look at your profile then delete you? Just stay within your state, your city and you will save me  alot of trouble.

 

Then I see there are giys dressed in female clothing, well I can say I automatically delete you, I do not even bother to look at your profiles, you could be the most wonderful slave ever to walk the earth but I have no interest in sissies, bitchbois, trans, cd, and what ever may be called now a days. Just wanted you to know.

 

Then we have those that have nothing on their profiles, ummmmmmmmmmm, well when I think about it, my thoughts are 1) they are married and do not want to share information, 2) they are players , looking for some action, 3) they do not know anything about themselves therefore can't write anything4) they have nothing to offer so they just leave it blank. All of those get deleted to. I just deleted over 30-40 people from my who viewed me list.

 

I delete on average 20 a day,those I stay n touch with I keep them,  but the minute they stop, I delete them as well,some are exciting to look at, I keep those also, but everyone else deleted, as if you never existed and really you do not.


2/11/2013 5:45:43 PM

Well to those of you who may be coming to see me for an interview I am posting this now, you will need to have this chastity belt when you come see me. The package must be new, and unopened. I will put it on when yu are to leave , I will keep the key. My slave has one and he wore it for one year before I released him for his sexual release. he tried taing it off, but short of cutting his penis off, he was unable to get out of it. You do not need to buy ot from here but it is the only one I will accept.

 

http://www.extremerestraints.com/chastity-devices_26/the-chastity-cock-cuff_2435.html

 

In additions at night all will be wearing ball gaghow s to sleep, such as these

 

http://www.extremerestraints.com/mouth-gags_22/silicone-red-ball-gags_1587.html

 

In addition you will eb shackled to the bed or a wall post by shacKles or chain and locks.

 

http://www.extremerestraints.com/bedroom-bondage_337/under-the-bed-restraint-system_638.html

 

 

just to let you know what is in store for you


2/9/2013 7:42:38 AM

Getting a mesage from someone like this will not impress me, in fact it angers me, so before you send a message know what NOT to put in it, as I feel if you have so much hate toward a wife and you would leave your kids for you own personal desires,  How can you truly love a Mistress?

This is not teh type of slave or property I desire, hatred towards your kids, I will not deal with that. My Kids come first no matter what their age. Yours should also.

YOU ARE NOT THE SLAVE FOR ME. I have edited it, and will not post the name but heed my word, I am pissed, as many are trying to make a fool of me and I have had enough.

 

 

I'm 34.. I have been married for 14 years. And I hate my wife and my life . At 22 I found this lifestyle and started learning all I could about it . I have been with lots of doms and dommes that i have had to pay for . I'm looking to be a slave ... I'm looking to drop off the earth and become a full time kept slave . I would give you my whole mind heart body and soul ! Yes i have kids and yes i would leave them to be a slave .. I want this more than my love for them or my wife or anything .

 

 


2/6/2013 7:17:33 PM

I have had enough crap, to all those that say" I want this and need a Mistress like you," to those who have  wasted my time, with idleless chat, messaging me here and on messenger, making calls, and then say "not interested" after I tell you upfront that I am real, I do not play games, I live this 23/7/365 days a year, THAT THIS IS NOT A GAME TO ME, KNOW THIS NOW,

 I WILL NOT TAKE THIS CRAP ANY LONGER, YOUR LIVES WILL BE SHIT FROM THIS MOMENT ON, IF IT IS NOT NOW, YOU WILL FEEL PAIN, YOU WILL KNOW MISERY, YOU WILL KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO BE PLAYED, YOU WILL KNOW THAT PLAYING GAMES WITH ME, IS THE REASON YOUR LIFE SUCKS NOW AND IN THE FUTURE.  !

 

YOUR DAYS OF PLAYING GAMES ARE OVER, WHAT EVER SEXUAL RELIEF YOU GOT FROM PLAYING THESE GAMES WILL NOT EVER HAPPEN AGAIN, YOU WILL NOT EVER ACHIEVE PLEASURE OF ANY SORT, NOT BY SEX, NOT BY YOUR HAND, NOT BY BEING WITH A WOMAN OR MAN, YOU WILL NOT EVER KNOW PLEASURE AGAIN.

 

SO UNLESS YOU WANT TO BE DAMMED IF YOU MESSAGE ME , YOU BETTER BE TRUE, AND WANT THIS AS MUCH AS I DO, CAUSE OF IF I FIND OUT , YOU HAVE CAUSED ME PAIN AND GRIEF, THE PUNISHMENT WILL BE EVEN WORSE THAN NOT EVER KNOWING PLEASURE.


1/30/2013 4:42:10 PM

Ok deleting everone but about 3 from my list of people who have viewed me, if after you look at my profile and I get no message I have to assume several things:

. 1) I am way to strict for you, youi are not seeking a true RT FLR FT slavery, wanting to live it 24/7/365 says a year like I am offering, thats ok, someone somewhere is, and I will find them either here in the US or overseas.

2) you are seeking that Barbie Mistress and my age and fact I am not a Barbie does not appeal to you, thats ok, I have had many crawling back to me asking for me to take them back to give them another chance, as the Mistress they went to see took their money, were fake, and did not look like anything in the pic. But hey you can dream,

3) you were just browsing, thats ok, how would you know if you don't browse. I get many compliments on my profile saying it is one of a kind, and it is true, I am different than anyone on this site. I am honest, true, real,  I state the facts as they are and I know how to dominate and control. At 16 I had 4 slaves under my command.    But then again we have those 18 -20 year old that just discovered this site and all the fools that will pay them money and buy them things so why seek a real Mistress, you can have all those fakes out there,  they can fulfill any fanstasy you wish, and are pros at taking money and gifts.

4) Not what you wanted again thats ok, eveyone has their own way they want things this again applies to the reasons mentioned above.

 

So to all that looked thanks, to those who wil look after 2 days you are gone I will only keep those that I stay in contact with or they have a nice pic I like to look at from time to time.


1/30/2013 2:59:30 PM

About my pics. the first is my paddle, it is in braille and it reads after leaving the marks on the slave or property, ' Fuck this paddle hurts"

 

The second one has repaced my baseball bat and is called the "Tormentor: why cause it is made of steel cable wiring used on bike locks, it is heavy, it can break bones, it will remind you know always who the Owner/ Mistress is, in addition I carry it because it is lighter and easier to take with me places. Acrually I cut the bike lock with a saw to my dimensions so I could have it for a toy. Wicked and mean, just like it's Owner.


1/20/2013 7:36:59 PM

I have spent the last three days with My King, it has been bliss, we enjoyed each other as equals,and shared so much between us, we are now as one. Through our discussions we realized that we were together before in another lifetime, actually three of them and in each we were the Dominants we are now, with a stable of slaves. Now we are bringing our past into the present by once again taking our place as Owners and we are and will create our stables again. We are designing our ironing brand so once we posses the slaves they will be branded, tattooed, and marked as property with the branding iron.


1/8/2013 5:02:26 PM

I  have changed my original profile as at one time I was searching for a sex slave. I am now no longer searching for that as I now have an equal for a Partner, so just looking for slaves, really a couple but singles will do. I also dropped the age limit to 40 as he wants them fairly young. You will serve us both but he is searching for a female,and she also will serve us both


12/31/2012 11:33:42 AM

I have found my life long partner a Dominant that is my equal, so I am no longer searching for slaves. Together we are seeking a sub/sub couple or a slave/slave couple. Again we are not seeking trans, feminized males, sissies. He desires a female for play and torture, I seek a male for same purposes. No sex between subs or slaves will take place.I will be m,oving to be with him. I /we will reside still in Colorado.


12/24/2012 8:49:04 PM

I have no clue how many times I have to say this, chat here does not work for me. So if you send a chat request, I will not respond as it doesnt work. Plus if you are not in the age range why answer it. I have said it many many many times before I do not want younger men.

 

In addition I also have stated I am not longer searching. I now have a male Dominant as my equal , I am his Queen, together we are searching for a sub/slave couple under another profile on another site. I am just here to chat with my friends and those I choose to chat with.


12/24/2012 7:31:58 AM

Happy Holidays to those that celebrate, let us remember the true reason not the commerialize reason, let us remember the military that are overseas spending it defending our country and other countries for their beliefs, spending it away from their own family.


11/21/2012 5:19:22 AM

Tomorrow I will be busy trying to get things done and with the cooking. So I am just going to wish to all that celebrate Thankgiving  Day that they enjoy it.


10/27/2012 9:55:11 AM

I have finally decided to stop searching. When I joined this site I thought finding someone with the same desires I had about this lifestyle would be easy, years later and after 1000 and 1000 plus messages I find it is useless to even think this can ever happen.

 

I have given it my all, I have been honest about who I am, what I seek, what I desire, yet when a conversation starts the frst thing they want is a pic. That will not happen. I read profiles where they say, race does not matter, age does not matter, body does not matter but it does as if that were true, and you were real you would not be here still looking.

 

I do not have time to waste, I wanted someone to be with me to the end, someone I could count on to care for me. But seeing that this is a waste of time, I being the Dominant that I am have decided I can do it alone like I have been doing, from the start. wasting time on searching is insane, best be alone and happy then waste time on somene who has no intentions on ever following through on their promises, like the 100's and 1000's who said yes I will visit, yes I like your philosophy about slavery, I seek what you seek, and after 3 messages drop off the planet. All those who visit my profile will be deleted except those that know I will keep them on there to keep in touch with them.

 

In addition I am moving to Europe, as soon as my health allows. I am looking forward to living on the beach with the mountains behind me, breathing in fresh air and enjoying the beauty before me. I may search there as I find Europeans to be more loyal and truthful, more open and accepting. But really I doubt I will. I do have one there waiting for me as well, so I may take him in, I shall decide when I get there.

 

I have too many friends here to just close my profile,so I am leaving it open, I will respond to those friends who message me. I will not respond to ANY other messages recieved.


10/7/2012 8:10:39 AM

I have added a very important addition to my profile I suggest you read my profile in it's entirety as that addition I made will let me know how seriuos you are about wanting this relationship. I will add it here as well but be warned I am not playing when I say I will do what I say I will do.

 

VERY IMPORTANT ADDITION TO PROFILE

Before we actually sign the contract I will have you investigated, by a private detective to prove who you are and to ensure you have no criminal record, are not wanted, you are not a child molester or sex offender, and you are who you say you are. Medical records also need to be shown to see if there are any mental problems I must be aware of. Do I think this is to harsh? No I am protecting myself, my family and I need to know everything about you. Of course you will be paying the bill. Now this will also ensure that only serious minded people will hopefully respond and not all those who are players, liers and fakes.


10/6/2012 7:27:02 AM

Well did my monthly clean up, deleted about all of those who were viewing me and left no message and also deleted almost all mail from the fakes, players, and wannabees that messaged me , I responded to then they do not respond back. I have a kept a few beause of their profiles were interesting, and some because of their sexy smile.


9/27/2012 3:39:27 PM

Why would a Mistress let her property on a site like this and allowing them to communicate with others is beyond me.Once owned all slaves should be off all sites like this one, Alt or .  My slaves have no pc priveledges unless work related. as I feel as a Mistress/Owner I deserve all their attention, and by allowing them this priveledge, they are not dedicating themselves to me as they should.


9/21/2012 8:32:36 AM

Below is a list of my fetishes , tomorrow I will come back and underline the ones I enhoy the most by putting them in bold and also changing font size.

 

Fetishes

"don't you dare cum without my permission"

(everything to do with it), "I want it..give it to me..cum for me"

(everything to do with it), "shut the fuck up and bend over"

(giving), 24/7

(everything to do with it), anal chastity

(giving), ball stretching

(everything to do with it), bare bottom spanking

(giving), bare handed spanking

(giving), begging

(everything to do with it), being a stable owner

(everything to do with it), being woken by someone eating my pussy

(receiving), being woken up by your throbbing hard cock

(everything to do with it), belt spanking

(giving), beware: i spank on the first date

(everything to do with it), blindfolds

(watching others wear), bondage equipment

(everything to do with it), bow down before the one you serve

(everything to do with it), branding

(everything to do with it), breastfeeding

(everything to do with it), bukkake

(watching), bullshit free relationships

(everything to do with it), butt plugs

(giving), caging/confinement

(everything to do with it), candle wax

(giving), caning

(giving), cbt

(giving), chastity

(everything to do with it), chastity devices

(everything to do with it), clamps and clips

(giving), clothespins

(giving), cock and ball torture

(everything to do with it), cock slapping

(giving), collar and lead/leash

(everything to do with it), collars

(everything to do with it), consensual nonconsent

(everything to do with it), control

(everything to do with it), corporal punishment

(everything to do with it), crops

(giving), cuckold

(everything to do with it), cunnilingus

(receiving), cunt worship

(receiving), doing cbt in parking lots and cemeteries

(everything to do with it), drinking breast milk from baby bottle at work

(everything to do with it), eat my pussy now! you shameless cunt licker

(everything to do with it), erotic hypnosis

(everything to do with it), eye contact restrictions

(everything to do with it), face sitting smothering queening

(receiving), face sitting/smothering

(everything to do with it), fear

(giving), female supremacy

(everything to do with it), figging

(giving), flogging

(giving), foot massage

(receiving), forced to squirt over and over until immobile

(everything to do with it), fucked and/or played with while sleeping or half awake

(everything to do with it), genital piercings

(everything to do with it), genital torture

(giving), groping in public

(everything to do with it), handcuffs

(watching others wear), high protocol

(everything to do with it), hot oil massages

(receiving), ice cubes

(giving), keeping you on your knees

(watching), lactation

(everything to do with it), leaving marks

(giving), male nipples sub/slave or dom's

(everything to do with it), male submission

(everything to do with it), mall breastfeeding while others watch

(giving), massages

(receiving), medieverything to do with it), military interrogation

(everything to do with it), mind control

(everything to do with it), mind fucks

(everything to do with it), mistress/slave

(everything to do with it), multiple orgasms

(receiving), my slaves drinkng my breast milk at work

(everything to do with it), nursing while being fucked

(everything to do with it), obedience training

(everything to do with it), oh slave how large art thou balls

(everything to do with it), only grapefruit size balls allowed

(everything to do with it), oral sex

(everything to do with it), orgasm control

(everything to do with it), orgasm denial

(giving), otk spanking

(giving), outdoor bondage

(everything to do with it), outdoor sex

(receiving), paddling

(giving), passion, pain, and pleasure

(everything to do with it), poly ownership

(everything to do with it), polyamory

(everything to do with it), polyownership

(everything to do with it), polyslavery

(everything to do with it), protocol

(everything to do with it), psycholagny

(everything to do with it), public bareback elbow sex

(giving), pursuit, take-down & capture

(giving), pussy worship

(receiving), queening

(everything to do with it), remote-control devices

(everything to do with it), rituals

(everything to do with it), sacred sexuality

, sadism

(giving), saline filled grapefruit size balls yummy

(everything to do with it), scratching

(giving), seduction

(everything to do with it), sensual domination

(everything to do with it), sensual play

(giving), sensual/slave dances

(watching), sex

(receiving), sex in public

(everything to do with it), sex magick

(everything to do with it), sexual slavery

(everything to do with it), single tail whips

(giving), slave tattoos

(giving), sleepy sex

(receiving), spreader bars

(everything to do with it), sucking and licking pussy for hours

(receiving), suckling in the parking lot at cracker barrel

(everything to do with it), take me back to the bayou baby

(everything to do with it), tantra

(everything to do with it), tattoos

(watching others wear), teasing male dom's nipples with an evil smile

(everything to do with it), threesomes

(receiving), total power exchange

(everything to do with it), touching

(everything to do with it), verbal humiliation and degradation

(giving), wanting to fuck some of my nds

(everything to do with it), watersports

(giving), you can still smell her on your fingers

(everything to do with it).


9/18/2012 4:15:43 PM

I am in hospital so have not been checking messages. Limited  usage of mobile phone.


9/12/2012 9:51:51 AM

I WILL NOT EVER BE ANY THING OTHER THAN FIRST CHOICE EVER. DO NOT THINK YOU CAN CHAT WITH ME FOR MONTHS, THEN GO SEE ANOTHER MISTRESS WHO YOU WILL FIND OUT IS FAKE, THEN COME BACK TO ME EXPECTING TO TAKE YOU. THIS  HAS HAPPENED TO ME TIME AND TIME AGAIN.

 

I AM REAL, AND I WILL NOT BE ANYTHING OTHER THAN FIRST CHOICE. FROM THE VERY START I TELL YOU HOW IT WILL BE. WHAT I WANT, I SHOW YOU THE CONTRACT, AND THEN A DECISION IS MADE.

 

 

 


9/10/2012 9:05:59 PM

Well just deleted half of all the ones that have viewed my profile for either being too young, or not getting a message from them after viewing my profile. as a rule if you view my profile and I go to look at yours , if you have pics of a fem Dominant doing something to you, I will automatically delete the profile and message  Also have deleted all mail from my message list for same reason, I responded to your message I do not get a response back, deleted, you are not in age range deleted, if you are a feminiazed male, are  a CD deleted, a sissy deleted, I am not here for games.


9/1/2012 10:52:03 AM

Obviously people only read what they want to read out of my profile, so again I highlighted and enlarged the area of what I seek. Again it is about me, not you, so do not start by  "I am seeking" , I do not give a rats ass as to what you want. If you think you can abide by my rules and have to offer what I seek in my profile, approach me.

 

 I am not interested in sissies, cross dressers, trans, feminized men or men in diapers or anyone under the age of 47.Really how hard is it to understand this concept


8/26/2012 1:32:04 PM

Seems like I may be evacuating because of Hurricane Issac, so if I am not on for a few says that is the reason, all packed up, only thnig left is putting the pc, cat, kids, and me  in the car.


8/23/2012 1:46:12 PM

Au français sous à lequel je parlais je suis désolé mais j'ai été chargé, et regardait voir si vous étiez toujours sur, le mot que je cherchais est la sorcière et essayait de voir si c'était dans mon dictionay. Je suis désolé que nous avons été coupés. Bavardera sur le messager quand nous avons le temps


8/12/2012 8:14:29 PM

Something that really really really pisses me off is that once we communicate and you say you have an interest, and you give me your number to call and you have been chatting for weeks and months on here and on the phone, then I get no responses on here, no calls, no answer back to the calls I made, no text messages, fuck if you have found someone else tell me, yes I will be pised off after wasting my time with you, but trust me I can get even and will get even if you do not let me know.

I HATE PEOPLE WHO WASTE MY TIME. THERE IS NOTHING WORSE THAN A WOMAN SCORNED AND THE REVENGE SHE GETS ON THOSE WHO HAVE SCORNED HER.

 


8/3/2012 5:15:00 PM

OK I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO SAT THIS ANY CLEARER THAN THIS. CHAT DOES NOT WORK HERE FOR ME. IF I GO THE PERSON DOESNT SHOW UP, SO DO NOT SEND CHAT REQUEST.


7/14/2012 4:31:30 PM

I am back in the New Orleans area for a while, if you desire ti meet me, you will have to come here.


7/8/2012 9:22:12 AM

Putting Fl down as a new location as I will be spending time there now as well as in Co. Move not sure when it will take place due to health.


7/6/2012 8:28:39 PM

Word from a property I am now taking on as a fuill time, live in FLR, TPE, relationship. Must say, I am very impressed.

 

 

Do you owner hereby take this object to use to order to control and to dominate it for life?I Do
Do you object surrender it's life it's humanity it's freedom it's dignity to be enslaved for life?It does.
With the power invested in my I hereby pronounce you Superior and slave.
The object may now kiss the Superior's feet.

 


6/29/2012 7:38:34 AM

I do not befreind or chat with anyone from age 18-35 on average and less if you are as young as my sons, so do not send  friends requests,  messages, etc as they automatically go into trash.


6/28/2012 3:37:10 AM

I just thought I may have not mentioned this in my past journals but it should be listed in my fetishes I AM POLY, I BELIEVE IN THE POLY LIFESTYLE  BUT ALL MY SLAVES ARE TO BE MONAGAMOUS WITH ME. I BELIEVE IN POLY OWNERSHIP, POLY SLAVERY, POLYAMOUROUS. ANYTHING TO DO WITH POLY.


6/24/2012 2:01:44 PM

I just read on a profile" I am a submissive slave"

 

ONE YOU CAN NOT BE A SUBMISSIVE SLAVE EITHER YOU ARE SUBMISSIVE OR YOU ARE  A SLAVE. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BECAUSE IF YOU DON;T' IT CAN END UP VERY BAD FOR YOU. THERE ARE WAY TO MANY IDIOTS IN THE LIFESTYLE THAT CLAIM OH I AM A MASTER  OR MISTRESS AT 19, REALLY A MASTER OR MISTRESS?  WHEN DID YOU START YOUR TRAINING AT AGE 3?

 

 

DEFINATION OF SUBMISSIVE , A PERSON WHO GIVES OF THEMSELVES WILLINGLY  TO PLEASE THEIR MASTER/MISTRESS OR OWNER AND CAN NEGOTIATE THE TERMS OF THEIR CONTRACT.  CAN USE COLORS OR SAFEWORDS.

 

SLAVE, HAS NO RIGHTS , CAN NEVER SAY NO,  HAS NO NEGOTATION POWER , HAS TO TAKE BEATING OR DO AS TOLD RATHER THEY WANT TO OR NOT. NO SAFEWORDS EVER ALLOWED.

 

 SO WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE DEFINATIONS OR SUBMISSIVE AND SLAVE THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL ONE CAN SAY YOU ARE A SUBMISSIVE SLAVE, IT IS EITHER ONE OR THE OTHER.

 


6/18/2012 8:40:05 PM

When I say read my profile, I MEAN READ MY PROFILE, AND JOURNAL ENTERIES. ON THERE IT SAYS CHAT DOES NOT WORK, SO DO NOT SEND A CHAT REQUEST, I WILL NOT ACCEPT IT. ALSO ON MY PROFILE IT SAYS 47 AND OLDER TO ME 42 IS NOT THE SAME AS 47.  LEARN TO READ, LEARN TO OBEY AND MAYBE, MAYBE, MAYBE I MAY PAY ATTENTION TO YOU.


6/17/2012 4:34:36 PM

I must say I got the surprise of my life, as one of my slaves, was trying to get on his knees to ask me to marry him. It was the second time he has spoken of marrriage and has asked me.  Needless to say I was shocked, and told him I would let him ask me again at Christmas, by then  I will have an answer for him. of course I also told him I would still have my lovers , in addition to the one I have, but I will not search for more slaves I will keep only those I have now and those coming at the end of the month. He made me smile to say the least.


6/11/2012 3:32:42 PM

I always wonder why male Doms look at my profile, do they really think if I am a Mistress that they can make me switch and become a sub/slave? I would love to see them try as those who did try, are now my male whores.I have a total of three male whores

 

 

I do not switch ever ever, not even for my Dominant partner I am 100% Dominant been living this lifestyle since 16, not knowing there were others like me.  So if you are looking for an equal fine, if you want to get to know me fine,  if you want to see a well written Dominant profile that is ok also, but do not think I am weak, do not think I will switch or change who I am , cause when that happens, the sun will no longer be here, and according to scientists we have a few more thousands of years beofre that happens. In addition even if that happened I still would not change my being or Dominanace.


5/31/2012 9:36:35 AM

IF YOU SEEKS A MOMMY/BABY RELATIONSHIP, AND YOU WEAR DIAPERS,  OR YOU WEAR DIAPERS JUST AS A FETISH  DO NOT CONTACT ME, OR EVEN WASTE YOUR TIME VIEWING MY PROFILE AS I DO NOT WANT THAT TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP. NOR DO I WANT SISSY/TRANS/FEMINIZED SLAVES OR PROPERTY, SO WHY WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE VIEWING MY PROFILE.


5/16/2012 9:26:51 PM

When a slave tells me " oh I making reservations now,  I so want you" it is going in one ear and out the other. Till you get here nothing is true, do not ever think I will go to an airport and wait for you to come on said day, that will not happen.  If I do npt get a confirmation sent to my email, then again nothing is true all are lies. Why should I trust anyone here to be true? Everyone of the people I have spoken to have told me NOTHING BUT LIES FROM THE FIRST MESSAGE I HAVE GOTTEN .

 

 

Another one that I am adding to my list of players is Callum from Australia, oh what a player, I am coming I'm taking the bus, then bus broke down, taking a plane. nothing, did I believe him hell no, do I believe anyone here hell no.

 

So I have decided to just wait to I expatriate to find my slave as men here are just a waste of time, all looking for a fantasy, a Barbie, someone who is not real and inexperienced, and will take their money and run.  Good luck to you losers.

 

 

 

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5/9/2012 12:22:51 PM

Collared another slave last night, he spent 14 hours of constant suckling to make me happy without complaining, in addition to servicing me as needed. He lives 2 hours away but is in process of moving here to be closr to me, he will not  be a live in for at least 6 monhs , but he is collared, and will be tatooed by end of next weekend. My stable is finally coming together. I have another one coming tuesday if all goes well.

 

That will be 4 slaves and 1 Dom lover. Life is good.


5/6/2012 4:19:47 PM

BECAUSE IT SEEMS THAT NO ONE READS MY PROFILE I AM GOING TO STATE THE MOST SPECIFIC THINGS THAT I FIND IS IMPORTANT.

 

 

IF YOU DO NOT INTEND TO SIGN A CONTRACT DO NOT MESSAGE ME, I AM NOT GOING INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT A CONTRACT, IT IS TO PROTECT ME. SO IF YOU DON'T WANT A CONTRACT MOVE ON.

 

IF YOU ARE NOT WILLLLING TO SIGN MY POWER OF ATTORNEY OR OTHER DOCUMENTS , MOVE ON.

 

IF YOU DO NOT WANT YOUR LIFE MICROMANAGED , MOVE ON.

 

IF YOU DON'T WANT WHAT I WANT MOVE ON, IT IS ALL ABOUT ME, NOT YOU.

 

 

MY PROFILE IS IMPORTANT TO ME, READ IT BUT THIS IS THE BLACK AND WHITE FOR ALL THOSE IDOTS THAT APPROACH ME SAYING THEY WANT ME THEN WHEN I SAY YOU NEED TO SIGN MY CONTRACT THEY RUN. DON'T WASTE MY TIME

 

 


5/5/2012 4:54:54 PM

Ok seems like I am getting a lot of replies and long chats with several people and then they disappear, so to make it known who is wasting my time and are playees and lairs I am going to start listing them like I have on another site. Now I do know life keeps us busy, I watch a baby all day long for about 16 hours a day, but as soon as I wake up I check for messages and if I get any I reply then and there, or before I go to bed which is usually about 12 am or later. I sleep on average 4 hours, and with the baby , there are no breaks unless he decides he wants a nap so I check then also.I have a mom in a nursing home, I have kids of my own, my helath sucks, I have medical appointments plus keep the house , plus cook, do laundey, , do dishes,  go to the store, so if I am just me and I do all this and still manage to check my messages , why the f....k, can't you idiots have the decency to respond, I did not contact you, you all contact me, if you don't think we will match then f...k off. STOP WASTING MY TIME. I said from the very start this is not a game for me I live this 24/7, it is my lifestyle

 

Gnospecial, chatted with him for a day till about 12 am, sounded promising, thought he was sincere told me aunt was in hosipital so I gave it a few days, saw he was on here three times since we chatted and nothing, no messages, no calls, no emails, nothing ,big big waste of time

 

ChastityNDiapers, or the other way around, another one, we chatted, exchanged pictures, phone numbers what does he do , he gives me a fax machine number, I sentlmesssages, does he reply, no, although I am not into diapers I thought if he was worth it I would give him a try, oh I can come down on these dates, I can do this, well a..h..... I don't need you. Keep on looking.

 

Really I was expecting idiotacy from many, but really this has taken the cake. These are only two if I posted them all this journal entry would be so long it would make santas list look like a short memo.

 

I seriously doubt I will reply to any more messages I get ,will I believe anything anyone tells me again, doubt it,  even if they were face to face I doubt I will ever believe  or trust them again. I am nobody fool.  As all I have met here seem to like to play games, use us to jerk off, but I have come to a great conclusion the main reason I can;t beleive anyone is that they are just plain jerks

 .

 


4/13/2012 8:01:53 AM

I got a messgae the other day that said " get a job, you have been on here for years, whats wrong? You don't live the lisfestyle as you should".

 

Well for one thing this person does not read my journal enteries as if he did he would know my health is terrible I have had 3 major surgeries in the last 4 months.

 

Yes it is true I have been on here a long time, same with with all the players, fakes, wannabees, and jerks, that pretend to want something but will not ever committ. I am looking for real time they are not. Those I did meet were only after a fantasy, and seeking those Barbie Mistress that are in their 20's. Get real and realize not everyone will be a Barbie. I have said from the start keep looking if searching for that, don't waste my time. Thru the local bdsm community, and the socials I attend I have found my slave and Dom.

 

News update I have collared another slave, this now makes two, he will be signing my contract this weekend, again I met him at a local cbt social.  My stable is slowly starting to take shape, will be looking for a larger house soon, as I will need a room for each slave.

 

 

As to not living the lifestyle as I should, I am very very very active in the local lifestyle community, those who are a true part of the local community see me when my health allows at every event, party, social, play party, demo, class. Then there are those who claim to be lifestylers  but are only behind closed doors because of fear, They do not go to parties, they don't socialize with the commnity, they hide and will say those of us who do expose ourselves to the community aren't real.  Grow up. I live the lifestyle proudly,  my slave wears his collar when out attached to his leash, people stare but I don't care it is who I am, a Dominant Female Owner proud of who she is,  I tell people all the time I am in the lifestyle, I do not live it behind closed doors.

 

 

 

 


3/11/2012 10:51:21 PM

I have found a slave , he is on probation but seems he is working out well, just trying now to get his transfer here.  Very good chance at that, if not I will relocate where he is as it is still in CO. I have also found a Male Dom to be my partner. I will keep my profile  here as I am still desiring more slaves, and my relationship is a poly one, they are monogamous with me but I am still free to search and bed others.


2/14/2012 7:11:41 PM

I AM NO LONGER LOOKING I HAVE NOT FOUND ANYONE, BUT MY HEALTH HAS TAKEN A TURN FOR THE WORSE AND I HAVE NO ENERGY TO CONTINUE. MY ROFILE WILL REMAIN BUT I MOSTLY LIKELY WILL NOT RESPOND TO ANY MESSAGES SENT TO ME UNLESS IT IS FROM SOMEONE WITH WHOM I HAVE BEEN COMMUNICATING WITH.


1/22/2012 10:10:03 AM

To the slaves your version of what a slave is and to the subs that I do not seek, and who keep viewing my profile over and over again,  and still leave no message, MY PROFILE WILL NOT CHANGE, THE RULES WILL ALWAYS BE THE SAME, THE CONTENT OF MY PROFILE WILL NOT CHANGE SO WHY KEEP LOOKING AT IT?  IT IS A  WASTE OF MY TIME HAVING TO DELETE YOU CONSTANTLY OFF MY " WHO IS VIEWING ME LIST". If there is an update it will be  in my journal entry, so check that instead of viewing my profile.


1/7/2012 10:50:01 AM

As an annual ritual I tend to clean out all my old messages and keep only the very recent ones I am chatting with, so if yu messaged me and I responded but you lost interest in proceeding you have been eliminated. I do keep a list of those who I have elimiated so if you message me again  it will be deleted. As I always mention there are no second chances.


1/3/2012 5:58:52 PM

I thought being I was away I might get some mail, I am so disappointed. Guess that is the reason I don't put a lot of faith in finding a true slave.


12/23/2011 11:25:03 AM

I have been in the hospital for the last three days, went in fir a routine test and had to have a pacemaker put in. Drs were surprised as my heart rate was so low they could not get a beat Doing better now but now I will be going to see my family next week for about 10 days and I will not be accessing my account here. So going to wish all a merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all now.


11/9/2011 2:39:04 PM

Now my next topic. I am seeking property and if you come to meet you are required to bring documentation to prove you can support me.

 

List of papers that will to be shown are, your former tax forms, your bank statements, your pay check stubs, if you have an IRA how much you have in it, your insurance card, your credit card statements, cell phone bills, all assets, if you own property I need to know how much taxes  you pay on the property, if used as form of income amount you recieve every month, if retired how much retirement you get and SSI if collecting, I also will need to know if you still owe on the car or truck and how much the insurance is. and your payments are. if you have life insurance I need to know that also.

 

I will also need a copy of your drivers license, a list of family memebers and also a list of your co workers. I will need a list fo your expenses,  including car insurnace, house insurance, etc.

 

The reason for this is my property will not own anything, it has no need for personal possessions. My property is to take care of me and I need to be assured that they can.


11/9/2011 2:28:09 PM

Ok several things I need to vent.

If you put you are a slave then do not put you are submissive. THEY ARE NOT THE SAME.

 

A slave  or property has no rights, no control, no say in any situation, what the Owner demands is what is done. No safewords, no say, no rights you are nothing but a piece of furniture. Do not say male slave then say you are submissive. Slaves own nothing and I mean nothing  no property, no car, no clothing, no means of support for themselves, they will work and support me, if they have life insurance I will be the benificiary.

 

Submissives have some control and can negotiate, what they want to a certain degree, but in the end it is the Master/Mistress that makes the final decision. I DO NOT WANT SUBS, I DEMAND ALL THE CONTROL.

 

KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.

 

 

 


10/29/2011 8:33:34 PM

I as mentioned in another journal entry I do not believe the lies you sub/slaves tell me, one slave youngmman from california sent me a message saying he wanted to be my slave blah blah blah, we started chatting and he said he made reservations to come this weekend,  he was to email me the confirmation to my email and I did not recieve it, nor is he answering my calls which I have decided not to waste anymore of my time with this LOSER. Trust me I do not sit here waiting to see if anyone will show up, if they do great if not your loss not mine.

 

Why am I posting this I just want other Female Dommes/Mistress/Owners not to waste time with someone who lies, and does not follow thru with his intentions. He had my number, he could have called, he could have messaged me here or at my email address. if you don't want to come just say so, I do not want to waste time on losers.


10/18/2011 11:35:21 AM

I just want all you that send messages saying "Oh you are the Mistress I seek"" I can obey all your commandments", " I really need someone like you as a Mistress" "I will DO EVERYTHING YOU SAY WITHOUT QUESTION". those sentences, those words do NOT MEAN ANYTHING TO ME AS MOST ARE FULL OF LIES. 

 

If you truly want to prove you are Worthy OF ME, COME MEET ME, THAT IS THE ONLY TRUE WAY OF ME EVEN THINKING ABOUT BELIEVING YOU. 


10/10/2011 7:58:29 PM

I  RECEIVED THIS MESSAGE TONIGHT AND IT HAS UPSET ME AS I ON MY PROFILE WHAT I WANT AND WHAT I DO NOT WANT.  HOW HARD IS IT TO READ A PROFILE ? IS EVERYONE HERE ILLITERATE?

 

From:  LEAVING BLANK 

    Dated: 
 10/9/11 10:08 PM 
 

MESSAGE:  Do you like younger boys Ma'am HE IS ONLY 30

 

MY RESPONSE : 

mistresinbondage on 10/10/11 at 8:45 PM: 
 
 If you read my profile you would know the answer.NO I DO NOT WANT OR DESIRE OR AM I INTERESTED IN YOUNGER MEN.

HAVE I MADE MYSELF CLEAR?


10/9/2011 6:53:35 AM

I so hate when a sub/slave will say, looking for a Mistress, I will do what they want,  age or race or looks not important, that is one of the biggest lies I have ever heard. Be honest with yourself as we know that you are lying, and that is one reason I do not contact slaves that say that, as it is a waste of time.


10/2/2011 9:18:40 AM

Just went thru all my mail and dumped over 175 messages , I had contacted many of you after you had sent a message and if I do not hear from you within a weeks time it goes to delete status. Some had potential, why they didnt follow thru I wil not know but as I suspect they are still looking for that perfect Barbie Mistress.They had there chance , there are no second chances. I still keep my favorites on there, they know who they are but all other what a waste of time.


9/3/2011 6:12:20 PM

I often wonder if a sub or slave is owned why the hell are you still on collarme. If I were the Mistress I would not ever allow you to be on a site,  in fact you wouldn't even have computer privledges unless earned.  Such a waste of time to see who is here and  then to see I am owned by .... There is no such thing as I am here for chat and to find friends.


8/31/2011 9:35:13 PM

Someone has made a comment that they did not like my pictures that they were horrible. Well my thoughts on this is everyone has their likes and  dislikes, I like those I am a sadist, I enjoy giving pain,  I enjoy seeing my slaves suffer. According to my family tree my family fought in the Inquisition, I enjoy the medieval era and I enjoy the devices they used. I also have in my family tree Eqyptian and  I served Cleopatra, not as a slave but as a confidant, and advisor , so I honor her by using my Eqyptian pics, as I feel as  Cleo did, that slaves only purposes are to be used for pain, to serve and  to please.  So if you like my pics enjoy, if not don't view my profile again.

 

On another topic. I am going to expatriate to Europe, when exactly I am not sure  but it will happen. If I choose you know that you will come with me but you will still need to provide for me, if you have issues with leaving do not start a conversation thinking I will change my mind as I WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND ABOUT EXPATRRIATING.  if you think that you will come back to the US that will not happen unless you are released and if you are  the comng back is at your expense and you will need to find a method of raising the money.


8/8/2011 10:46:07 PM

IF YOU READ MY PROFILE YOU WILL KNOW WHAT IT IS I SEEK. YES IT IS LONG BUT IT IS  STRAIGHT TO THE POINT, I DO NOT PLAY GAMES AND HATE WHEN PEOPLE DO NOT READ WHAT IT IS I WANT. LEARN TO READ IF YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW, OBEY AND DO AS THEY ASK, AS WHAT GOOD IS A DISOBEDIENT SLAVE? DO YOU REALLY THINK I WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN'T EVEN DO WHAT I ASK WHICH IS THAT THEY READ MY PROFILE? IF YOUR BOSS TOLD YOU TO PREPARE FOR A MEETING AND TO KNOW WHAT THE MEETING IS ABOUT AS YOU MIGHT GET PROMOTED WOULD YOU NOT DO WHAT WAS ASKED? OR ARE YOU STUPID ENOUGH TO WALK IN AND SAY I HAVE NO CLUE TO WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT AND LOSE THE PROMOTION?  IF YOU ANSWERED WITH THE SECOND RESPONSE MOVE ON I DO NOT WANT YOU


8/6/2011 9:12:05 PM

I have noticed when viewing those who have viewed me that several switches have viewed by profile. KNOW THIS NOW, I DO NOT SWITCH, I DO NOT BOTTOM, I AM ALWAYS IN CHARGE, I WILL NOT BE TOPPED I AM THE OWNER, AND I WILL BE THE DOMINANT ONE . So if you come into this relationship it will be as a slave or property as your topping days will be over.  Many many male Doms have thought they could break me and top me, but have not ever been able to, but I have in turn have turned them into my whores.


8/4/2011 11:07:41 PM

My yahoo messenger under the name IamhisonlyMistress has been blocked for some reason, so I am unable to retireve messages or view my mail. If I have been chatting with you,  I can not do so now, so you will need to either email me at my email address mistress.in.bondage at gmail.com

, or add yourself to my other yahoo messenger name mistress_in_bondage at yahoo. I have been chatting with someone and am suppose to meet , but now not sure how to contact him , so I am hoping he will view my journal so he will know what to do.


7/17/2011 11:48:30 AM

CHAT HERE DOES NOT WORK FOR ME, SO PLEASE DO NOT SEND CHAT REQUEST, SEND ME A MESSAGE AND I WILL GIVE YOU MY MESSENGER NAME WHERE WE CAN CHAT.


7/17/2011 11:34:23 AM

I recieved  this message today and thought I would post it here as many base their realtionships on attarction, yes it may be worth something to many but a true slave and I mean a true slave puts their Owners/Masters/Mistress before what they seek.

 

His message mistressinbondage!!  Dont uou beleive that there has to be a strongphysical attraction involved to have this type of relationship really succeed?

 

My response:

No the need and the desire to please should always come before attraction, it may help, but to me it is about the willingness to please the Owner, that matters, I could have an Adonis, in front of me perfect in every way, but if he lacks the desire to please or make me happy what good it he? Or if I have a homely slave ,not very attractive but he performs 125% because he desires me happy and pleased going beyond what is expected of him, who would I chose, the second because he is putting me first about his own needs as it should be.

 

 

Looks are decieving, and many base their relationships on looks, attraction and emotions, if all three of these things are present then they believe the relationship will work  I base mine on willingness to please and making me the only thing that is important in his life.

 


7/9/2011 12:35:23 PM

It has been brought to my attention that my race or ethnicity is uncertain or not clear, so I will list it now, I am Spanish American, not Hispanic, but Spanish  from Spain I have dual citizenship and soon hope to expatriate, I will always claim Spanish first, then American, but when I say American I am referring to being Native American, I am  Commanche Shoshoni, I am Cuban, I am Celtic, I am Middle Eastern, to name a few, there are more but I will stop here. 

 

My blood line goes back to the times of King Fernidand and Queen Isabella in Spain, My Native American line goes back to the times of Louis and Clark, I am a descedent of one of the Famous chiefs.

 

So now my race and ethnicity should be clear.

 

 


7/4/2011 7:53:28 AM

I wish to thank all those in the military, those who served in the past, those who are serving now and their families for the service they provide for our country. Freedom is a right everyone deserves to have, a right to choose, to live free. Although I do not understand the tactics of war, or why we are always figting in other countries, I do honor, respect, and give thanks that we have you , the fathers, the mothers, the brothers, the sisters, the uncles, aunts, grandsons, granddaughters, there protecting our rights and those of the people in other countries in which you are fighting. I salute you, and say thank you.

A former co-worker sent me this link, about a thrid grade class that composed this song for our soldiers, it is sung by them, although I do not cry often, the words, the pictures, the honor, the loyalty, the soldiers show towards one another and their country is overwelming. I can see now why those who serve share a bond with each other more powerful at times than that share with a spouse or loved one. Thank you again and do hope you enjoy this link. I have no clue how to post links but it is on you tube

http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=5pfBUUZNbFM


6/22/2011 4:51:33 PM

Seems as if the search for a slave is hopeless. I am speaking to a few but none have committed to visit me yet. As a result I am now very seriously considering relocating to Europe, making my plans to move by Sept or Oct, by the latest. Should I find a slave before hand he will come with me but will need to have a job where he can work from home such as an analyist, or such. I am no longer wishing to waste my time looking for something I will not find here.

 

European slaves are more dependable, honest about what they seek, and do not put demands on what they seek, a true slave would not ever say i seek this, or i want this in the relationship, but should say whatever my Mistress or Master desires is what i seek. Point blank.

 

I will keep my profile up till I leave, I will keep my name but change everything in it to the language I choose to use overseas depending where I go. I will keep in touch with the few people who I maintain contact here but I am no longer seeking.

 

I feel I have  wasted 5 years here , and have  nothing but headaches as I have been lied to, been played for a fool, and jerked around by so many. I have no clue how others have put up with so much, but I no longer desire to waste my time. As mentioned I have a few I am chatting with now but I know they will not committ, maybe one will, but once he knows I am moving overseas, he may bail,  but I enjoy their company so I will stay and chat with them.

 

 

Those not on my list now no need to send me messages as I will delete them all if I haven't chatted with you before.

 


6/21/2011 7:54:31 AM

I am seeking a slave and property, it says so in my profile, if you are a sub I am not interested in you as you have limits. My property will be a slave with no linits, no rights, no freedom, no time ever for themselves as I am his only purpsoe in life.

Why is it so hard for subs and slaves to read what  the Owner/Mistress/ Master/wants?

Reply only if you meet all my criteria for property as my relationship as I have mentioned so many times already will be that of OWNER/property.

NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 45


6/9/2011 5:35:43 AM

As I look at my list of " who is viewing me", I constantly get the same ones looking at my profile, still not ever leaving a message or note. Every once in a blue moon there is someone different so young they could be my grandson, and I get so frustrated that I have to waste my time deleting them to see who is new.

 

MY PROFILE WILL NOT CHANGE, I MAY ADD ONE OR TWO THINGS TO IT, BUT THE BASIC CONCEPT OF WHAT I SEEK WILL NOT. NO MEN UNDER THE AGE OF 45, NO FEMALES, NO TRANS, NO CROSSDRESSERS, NO SISSIES. IF WE CHATTED YOU KNOW WHAT I WANT, IF WE MET AND YOU DIDNT LIKE WHAT YOU SAW OR YOU DIDNT CONTACT ME TO GO ON FURTHER, YOU LOST YOUR CHANCE. THERE ARE NO SECOND CHANCES WITH ME EVER. 

 I will put on here when I find my slave, or slaves but at the rate this is happening, maybe on day in the next twenty years it will say I have found my 3 slaves, but having to deal with all the fakes, players, liars, wannabes here, I would venture to say it maybe 40 years before this happens.

 

 

 

 

 


5/29/2011 2:11:52 PM

Because of all the players here, if we start chating , you must meet me within 2 weeks, a weekend is fine but we must meet within 2 weeks.

 

We will chat until the meet to see how serious you are about the relationship and truly wanting to be "owned". Once we meet you will be required to bring documents with you such as pay check stubs, banking information, std results, list of bills you owe, assets you have, at that point if you wish to continue, you are given the chance to view contract and power of attorney, drivers license,  list of family memeber, and all credit information must be brought also. There have been some to provide this to me, but the connection did not take place as they were scared, because this is VERY REAL TO ME, IT IS MY LIFESTYLE,

 

Only those who truly desire ownership will probably agree to this so if you desire a D/s, or a M/s relatonship this will not work as I am seeking Owner/property, Rt, LTR, TPE relationship. I do not alter my contracts to fit each slave not do I alter my power of atoirney, it is my way or no way and it is till death.


5/22/2011 6:16:33 AM

I have an update that needs to be added to my profile but being my profile is long I doubt many will even look at it. 

 

Although I am a Mistress I am seeking a Owner/property type relationship. if you do not know what this  type of relationship involves I suggest you do research as I am not here to explain what it is I seek, as my profile does that for me. 

 

So my relationship will not be a M/s , or D/s one but one that is of Owner /property. property as slaves DO NOT HAVE ANY RIGHTS, THAT IS WHAT I SEEK.

 


5/8/2011 6:03:47 PM

I am tired  so fuking tired of all the fakes on here I  have been chatting with a slave who wants a sadistic Mistress, had everything  lined up for him to come and then he writes me saying I am not coming,  I wanted to write the list of time wasters on here but the list is so fuking long, yes I know I am spelling it wrong.

 I am so fuking pissed now, I want to pull my profile but then if I do that I will lose track with the friends I have made here, but trust me I will not ever trust anyone on this site again. I glad I am on the other site as I actually have met about 12 slaves so far and making arrangements for 2 of them to become full time. So all you players, liars , wannabes, gamers, leave me alone and go find someone else to play your games with.

 This is a lifestyle for me, not a game, I live it 24/7 even in a vanilla household.


4/26/2011 7:31:26 AM

I have another profile on another site, apparently some subs or slaves doubt that I am a woman. I understand that can happen as we all know there are so many here that play games, lie about their gender, are just here to waste our time. I am not one of those. I am serious about my lifestyle. On the other profile I had a friend who was about to commit suicide and she is a manic depressive, so I make a comment asking the community here to take 5 minutes from their busy schedule to just think of those who are depressed,  as when depressed decisions are made that can truly harm either themselves or others as a result of their decision. I was told I am strange. No I am not strange, I am first a person , then I am a Dominant Female and as a Dominant you learn to care for your property and those of others. as well. 

 

If you have doubts of my sex, ask me for the name of the other profile, and you can contact all of those in the colorado springs area and ask them if I am a female, as 98% know me, some don''t go to the socials which I attend every week, some don't go to the parties that I go to, here the community has something going on almost daily to fit everyones needs.

 

Why do I not put a picture up? First it is my choice not to do so. I am Native American and I do not like my picture taken, yes I have some, but I do not like to show them. Two I am not a Barbie,  nor am I dog,  I know 99.999 % of you slaves and subs want that Perfect Barbie Mistress, so if you see no pic, unless you are interested in what I have to say thru my writing and my ability to dominate and control men, then you will move on and not waste my time. To me the brain and the ability to control is of far greater importance to me than looks, I rather a slave with meat on him, that is my preference, so if you are thin I don't look at you, if you are not within my age range you get delete, these are my preferences, just as you slaves and subs have yours.

 

 

 

 

 

 


3/17/2011 9:17:51 AM

Because  all of my fetishes are not listed here, I am placing all of my fetish here, I add something to my list daily so although these are listed more can always be added.

 "don't you dare cum without my permission"

(everything to do with it), "i want it..give it to me..cum for me"

(everything to do with it), 24/7

(everything to do with it), anal chastity

(giving), bare bottom spanking

(giving), bare handed spanking

(giving), begging

(everything to do with it), being woken up by your throbbing hard cock

(everything to do with it), belt spanking

(giving), beware: i spank on the first date

(everything to do with it), blindfolds

(watching others wear), bondage equipment

(everything to do with it), branding

(everything to do with it), breastfeeding

(everything to do with it), bukkake

(watching), butt plugs

(giving), candle wax

(giving), caning

(giving), cbt

(giving), chastity

(everything to do with it), chastity devices

(everything to do with it), clamps and clips

(giving), clothespins

(giving), cock and ball torture

(giving), cock slapping

(giving), collar and lead/leash

(everything to do with it), collars

(everything to do with it), consensual nonconsent

(everything to do with it), control

(everything to do with it), corporal punishment

(everything to do with it), crops

(giving), cuckold

(everything to do with it), cunnilingus

(receiving), cunt worship

(receiving), doing cbt in parking lots and cemeteries

(everything to do with it), drinking breast milk from baby bottle at work

(everything to do with it), eat my pussy now! you shameless cunt licker

(everything to do with it), erotic hypnosis

(everything to do with it), eye contact restrictions

(everything to do with it), face sitting smothering queening

(receiving), face sitting/smothering

(everything to do with it), fear

(giving), female supremacy

(everything to do with it), figging

(giving), flogging

(giving), foot massage

(receiving), forced to squirt over and over until immobile

(everything to do with it), fucked and/or played with while sleeping or half awake

(everything to do with it), genital torture

(giving), groping in public

(everything to do with it), handcuffs

(watching others wear), high heels

(wearing), hot oil massages

(receiving), ice cubes

(giving), lactation

(everything to do with it), leaving marks

(giving), male nipples sub/slave or dom's

(everything to do with it), male submission

(everything to do with it), massages

(receiving), medieverything to do with it),

mistress/slave

(everything to do with it), multiple orgasms

(receiving), my slaves drinkng my breast milk at work

(everything to do with it), nursing while being fucked

(everything to do with it), obedience training

(everything to do with it), oh slave how large art thou balls

(everything to do with it), only grapefruit size balls allowed

(everything to do with it), oral sex

(everything to do with it), orgasm control

(everything to do with it), orgasm denial

(giving), otk spanking

(giving), outdoor bondage

(everything to do with it), outdoor sex

(receiving), paddling

(giving), polyamory

(everything to do with it), protocol

(everything to do with it), psycholagny

(everything to do with it), pursuit, take-down & capture

(giving), pussy worship

(receiving), queening

(everything to do with it), rituals

(everything to do with it), sacred sexuality

, sadism

(giving), saline filled grapefruit size balls yummy

(everything to do with it), scratching

(giving), seduction

(everything to do with it), sensual domination

(everything to do with it), sensual play

(giving), sensual/slave dances

(watching), sex

(receiving), sex magick

(everything to do with it), sexual slavery

(everything to do with it), single tail whips

(giving), slave tattoos

(giving), sleepy sex

(receiving), spreader bars

(everything to do with it), suckling in the parking lot at cracker barrel

(everything to do with it), tantra

(everything to do with it), tattoos

(watching others wear), teasing male dom's nipples with an evil smile

(everything to do with it), threesomes

(receiving), total power exchange

(everything to do with it), touching

(everything to do with it), verbal humiliation and degradation

(giving), wanting to fuck some of my nds

(everything to do with it), watersports

(giving), you can still smell her on your fingers

(everything to do with it).


3/16/2011 2:20:20 PM

When you look at my profile, and we agree to meet, know that I am not going to meet you, you are to come to me, so if there is a distance of 20-100 and you are not willing to travel don't waste my time, chatting with me , as I said  I  AM NOT GOING TO MEET YOU. If you are a Dominant and say you want to submit to me, know I will NOT EVER ALLOW TO BE TOPPED. I have broken many Dom's I have  one who is now my bitch and whore and he will not ever be able to dominate or be a Dom again.

LEARN TO READ IT WILL SAVE A LOT OF MY TIME.


3/12/2011 10:20:28 PM

PLEASE LEARN TO READ, IF YOU DON;T UNDERSTAND A WORD LOOK IT UP, WHEN I SAY I WANT SOMEONE WITH NO COMMITTMENTS THAT DOES REFER TO HAVING A WIFE, I AM CHATTING WITH SOME, SO MANY MAKING PROMISES, THEN THEY DISAPPEAR, I KNOW SOME ARE REAL AND BECAUSE OF DISTANCE THEY HAVE NOT MOVED HERE YET.

 IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND YOU GET CAUGHT DO NOT BLAME ME FOR YOUR PROBLEMS, YOU ARE THE ONE THAT CONTACTED ME, I WILL NOT TAKE THE BLAME, AND KNOW THIS IF I WERE TO FIND OUT YOU CHEATED ON ME, YOU  WOULD BE FOREVER SORRY, AS I AM NOT MERCIFUL IF I COULD WRITE EVERYONES NAME THAT HAS WASTED MY TIME HERE THE LIST COULD BE 5 PAGES LONG, IF NOT LONGER.

 THERE ARE SOME I WOULD TAKE BUT BECAUSE OF AGE AND THE DISTANCE I HAVE NOT TAKEN THEM, BUT THEY ARE DEVOTED TO ME, IF IT WERE POSSIBLE I WOULD HAVE THEM HERE NOW.


12/31/2010 7:34:15 AM

HAPPY NEW YEARS TO THOSE WHO HAVE SURVIVED MY BURNNG BOWL CEREMONY THAT WILL TAKE PLACE TONIGHT STARTING AT 11:57 BY 12:00 ALL THOSE LOSERS WILL BE IN THE BOWL, THEY ALL HAVE BEEN BLOCKED AND NO MORE WILL I HAVE TO DEAL WITH THEM, I HAVE 12 NAMES ON MY LIST, MOST FROM OVERSEAS, A FEW FROM HERE IN THE U.S. THAT I STILL CHAT WITH  DAILY AND MY MALE DOM FRIENDS.


12/28/2010 1:59:55 PM

Just went through all my messages and went from six pages to one, I have saved several slaves that do keep in touch with me, and all my Dom friends but all those others  that have wasted my time will go into the burning bowl.  Wishing all you losers Bon Voyage.


12/27/2010 4:57:07 PM

I have come up with a new way to start the upcoming New Year.  I am placing  the names of everyone who has wasted my time here, and has played games, and made invalid promises, I am  also making a doll,  you guess what kind,  and placing the doll and all the names of those who made those invalid promises and wasted my time and  I am going to burn them.  Its called a burning bowl ceremony. Not all those who I have contacted will be in there but for the most part I have a list of over 150 names that will be going into the bowl.  Bon Voyage to those going into the bowl.

 


12/22/2010 5:46:06 PM
Just wanting to say Happy Holidays to all who have sent messages, and keep in touch with me. That the new year brings what you seek, whatever that may be.

9/25/2010 8:34:09 AM
After long time considering, if I should stay on or not, I am no longer searching. I have not found a slave but I am so tired of the players, fakes, liars here. Everyone wanting a Barbie Mistress. Trust me it is your loss not mine. I will wait for the right one, and he will show up when I least expect it.
I am not removing my profile, but will not be on as much, will check from time to time for junk mail, as most dont read my commandments or profile or journal ,so many of them just go unanswered anyway.
Those of you who have my messenger name may contact me there, you may leave messages, I will check but like I said so many just want the fanatsy, I will let them look for their play Mistress. I will not waste any more of my time playing games.

9/4/2010 9:14:27 AM

Still getting messages from slaves that do not read my journal or profile. So being I have to condense my profile as many will not read the whole thing will put it very bluntly and to the point.

FIRST NOT INTERESTED IN ONLINE IF NOT WITHIN U.S. DON'T MESSAGE ME, YOU CAN NOT SERVE ME IF OVERSEAS. IF YOU COME BE PREPARED TO HAVE VISA AND A JOB, I WILL NOT SUPPORT YOU I DO NOT WANT ANYONE FROM AFRICA.

2. NOT INTERESTED IN SLAVES YOUNGER THAN 45, MAY MAKE EXCEPTIONS IF 43 BUT YOU WILL NOT BE LIVE-IN, SO IF 20-30   STAY AWAY, 30-40,SAME, AND BETWEEN 40-45 MESSAGE ME AND I WILL SEE WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER



3 NOT INTERESTED IN  WOMEN, TRANS, SISSIES, CROSSDRESSERS , TOILETS, CAGED SLAVES, SWITCHES AS YOU MAY THINK YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TOP ME BUT TRUST ME THAT WILL NOT HAPPEN,  I WILL NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO TOP ME, I DO NOT WANT SWITCHES. CROSSDRESSERS I HAVE FRIENDS THAT ARE AND IF I MEET YOU, I MAY USE YOU AT PARTIES BUT YOU WILL NOT BE MY SLAVE.
4
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READ MY COMMANDMENTS, IF YOU CAN NOT MEET THOSE REQUIREMENTS THEN DON'T WASTE MY TIME

5. NOT INTO GAMES, I AM SERIOUS, I AM A SADIST, SO UNLESS WE SHARE SAME INTEREST  AND YOU MEET MY REQUIREMENTS THEN WE WILL CHAT. IT WILL BE A TPE, LT, RELATIONSHIP.
CONTRACTS SIGNED, POWER OF ATTORNEY SIGNED, M/S CONTRACT SIGNED. OWNED FOR LIFE




8/15/2010 7:02:29 PM
As I was reading today I came across some quotes , very interesting and very true. I would love to know that some slaves live this philosphy, that this is what they truly desire as I have found so many fakes here. Yes I have chatted with many that are true, and many because of age, or other circumstances are not able to serve me.
Here are the following quotes:

" Happy are those who dream dreams,and are ready to pay the price to make them come true"   Leon J. Suenes

"Men use thoughts only to justify their wrong doing, and employ speech only to conceal their thoughts". Voltaire.

" All dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them. " Walt Disney

Meaning of all the quotes  quit playing games and if you really are slave/sub go after what your heart says to do without putting obstacles in the way. Go deeper than the looks.

7/9/2010 6:17:28 AM
I have changed some interests on my profile. One of the interest I changed was my interest in diapers. I by no means am looking for someone wearing them or looking for a mama's boy, if I find you are worth it  I may consider you. It would be on a one on one basis.  If I know yo like them may have you not waer them as a punishment, if you don't like them I will make you wear them. All other rules stlll apply,  and you would have to obey my commandments , and you would have to provide sex, so if you can't follow my profile requirements,  have no interest in sex, then don't waste your time or mine

7/4/2010 11:58:39 AM
HAPPY FOURTH TO ALL WHO CELEBRATE AND TO THOSE IN THE MILITARY THAT KEEP US SAFE, I THANK YOU.

7/4/2010 8:01:51 AM
I am still here reading messages and chatting with those I feel merit it. Someone said Femdoms chatting with male Dom's is against female dominance and their ideology.  I am not a typical Femdom, I do not hate men or male Dom's, I find them interesting , knowledgeable, useful, and if they are willing to aid me into becoming a better Mistress then I welcome it. Should a male Dom try to get me to submit which some have they will find I do not submit, I do not surrender, I will not ever be anything but a Mistress. 

5/22/2010 7:22:08 AM
Things are going well, slave finally settled in, he knows of the rules, he is obedient, so things are as they should be.
The Springs  is a wonderful place to live, large group of lifestylers,  many meetings, events, gatherings, parties, met so many Dom's and slaves, I feel that I finally have found where I belong, here among all these lifestylers who don't play games, are not fakes, and life the lifestyle 24/7 as I am now doing. Some ask why am I still here, I am here only to speak with my male Dom friends who are not on my messenger. I am on another site as well, under this name with 2 ss, where it says all my fetishes, and groups I have joined.


4/10/2010 8:51:30 PM
Finally made it to the Springs, been very busy , so when I finsh I will give update.

4/5/2010 7:30:05 AM
Well my move takes place Thursday, quite excited, new people , new place, new bdsm activities planned. Met many people from the lifestyle there already, and all will fall in place very soon.

3/23/2010 9:11:41 PM

It's  official I am moving to Colorado Springs, will be moving by next month. In contact now with several people in lifestyle. Decisions have been made.  So now here to stay in contact with my fellow Dom friends.


3/17/2010 11:13:10 AM

Happy Saint Paddy's Day to all, who knows it could be a lucky day for some.


3/3/2010 8:39:17 AM

I just got a message from some white slave or says to be white and he asked me " what do you have against us africans"? That made me start to wonder if he is a scammer also. Well for starters they don't read, if I say I don't want anyone under the age of 45, and a 18-21 yo male african, weighing 85 sends me a mesage what in the hell do you think they can do for me? that pisses me off, one thingthey defied my commands and two they take me for an idiot. I AM NOT HERE TO SUPPORT ANY SLAVE. . When my slave is chosen, he will be cared for but he will work to earn his keep.
 Two we all know many from there are scammers, we see it here all the time, on our personal emails, they find ways to scam you, granted all may not be but I have encountered my share of them.
Three: They lie. Male Dom friend has the knowledge to track iep's finds the girl who says she is from NY is actually in Nigeria, posing as a white girl from NY.
This not only applies to africans, but anyone who can't read my profile. I said it once I click message look at age, location and no matter what type of wonderous message you wrote it gets deleted. LEARN TO READ, LEARN TO OBEY, WHAT KIND OF SLAVE./SUB  WOULD DISOBEY WHAT THEIR  POSSIBLE OWNERS WANT?
Dont waste my time, with stupidity.


1/2/2010 1:45:20 PM

If I see you are from Africa know that I will not even read your message, I do not want anyone from there, I am not looking to support you, you have nothing to offer me, you do not know how to read so why would I want you . If there is an age limit on my profile, I am seeking that age range, not a 20 year old. SO ALL YOU IDIOTS THAT MESSAGE ME FROM THERE, REALLY ANY SLAVE, SUB THAT MESSAGES ME IF YOU ARE NOT IN THE AGE RANGE MENTIONED TAKE A HIKE


1/1/2010 3:32:37 PM
Though I may seem to be here, I am off and on as I'm finshing my projects for school. Should be finshed soon, so leave a message , I will get back to you

12/31/2009 9:11:14 AM
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL
Tis the end if the year a time to let go of the old you, the old ideas we have, all the negative feelings, the loneliness.  An old saying "Keep doing what you are doing and you will have what you always had". meaning if you had nothing you will continue that way.

This coming year do something different, if you are a loner expecting your perfect slave/sub/Mistress, Master, Dom or Domme to walk thru your door, it won't happen. You need to make it happen.

We all have our wants, the perfect mate, slave,etc etc, but how can you want perfection if you, yourself are full of flaws.

So make your list of your wants, what you have to offer, your flaws,do you have what they are lookijng for? What I want in particular is someone who is honest, so when making your list be honest with yourself. No one wants a liar, a cheat, a fake, a player. you are only fooling yourself.

So HAPPY NEW YEAR to all,

12/26/2009 9:33:46 AM

12/25/2009 7:35:27 AM
I sent my greetings out yesterday to all, MERRY CHRISTMAS TO THOSE WHO CELEBRATE.
Between cooking, and setting table will be off and on today Hungry bunch of people coming.
Celebrate, enjoy each other as if the last time together as you never know if it will be.

12/24/2009 5:15:48 AM
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all, that the New Year bring, peace, love, happiness, companionship, and all we seek, for all. 

Feliz  Navidad y Prospero Ano Nuevo , que el Año nuevo trae, la paz, el amor, la felicidad, el compañerismo, y todo  los que nosotros buscamos. Spanish 

Bo Nadal e Próspero Ano Novo a todos, que o ano traer, paz, amor,felicidade, compañeiros, e todos que nos buscamos para todos
Galician
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عيد ميلاد مجيد وسنة جديدة سعيدة للجميع ، أن السنة الجديدة تجلب السلام والحب والسعادة والرفقة ، ونحن نسعى جميعا للجميع.  Arabic

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all, bu yılbaşı, ve barış, sevgi, mutluluk, arkadaşlık getirmek tüm hepimiz için arıyorlar. Trukish
i
Joyeux Noël et Bonne Année à tous, cette nouvelle année vous apporter paix, amour, joie, de camaraderie, et tous nous recherchons pour tous.  French

Vrolijke Kerstmis en Gelukkig Nieuwjaar naar iedereen, die het Nieuwjaar brengt, vrede, liefde, geluk, gezelschap en aller die wij voor iedereen zoeken.   Dutch

Frohe Weihnachten und glückliches neues Jahr zu allen, das, welches das neue Jahr holen, Frieden, Liebe, Glück, Begleitung, und alle wir für alle suchen. German

Buon Natale e nuovo anno felice a tutti, quello che il nuovo anno porta, pace, amore, felicità, compagnia e tutti cerchiamo per tutti. Italian


12/20/2009 7:43:07 AM
Tis the season, as many would say that families come together to share the holidays.Uniting in sharing and spending time together. For some this time of year is difficult to bear, for some may be because of  financial reasons, because of lonilness, because they chose and some for no fault of their own. This year as in the last 5 yrs it wil be just me and my sons. The year has been rocky, the economy hasn't helped, but my spirits are still high  and as a result I would like to extend an invitation to all those in the Ft Collins area to a Christmas dinner if you are alone. I have done this in the past with students that were from other countries and had no where to go, and could not fly back to their home, I had at times 30 plus people at my house, eating wth my sons and myself on Thanksgiving and Christmas. So if you are in the Ft Collins area or nearby and think you would like to come let me know here, we will meet somewhere so I can meet you, can give you directions, set down the rules, chat a bite and give you the details. I will not give private information here so I must meet you in person before doing so. This can go to any orientation, but if a CD please do not dress as one as in my house it is always vanilla. Because of my apt being so small  I can only have a limited number, and I must meet you ahead of time as I said.
Happy Holidays

12/3/2009 6:52:25 AM
WHY DO YOU NOT READ THE PROFILE, WHY WOULD I WANT A 20 YEAR OLD , AFRICAN WHO CANT WRITE, LOOKS SICK, DO YOU REALLY THINK I AM GOING TO TAKE YOU IN AND CARE AND SUPPORT YOU? DO YOU NOT REALIZE I AM SUPERIOR AND SEEKING BETTER. AND TO CALL YOURSELF A MASTER AND THEN SAY YOU ARE A SUB IS INSULTING TO THE REAL MASTERS AND DOM'S OUT THERE.  THIS IS TO A CERATIN PERSON IN GHANA THAT EMAIL ME . TRIED TRANSLATING INTO HIS LANGUAGE BUT OBVIOUSLY IS NOT AROUND.BUT THIS ALSO  APPLIES TO ALL THOSE IN THE 20'S 30'S THAT ALSO SEND ME MESSAGES.

11/26/2009 6:35:54 AM
Happy Holiday to all that celebrate this day, that we all appreciate what we have in our lives, our families, our children, friends, slaves, subs, Masters or Mistresses, Dom's or Dommes,for the worse torture of all is to be alone, with no one to share.

11/25/2009 5:44:52 AM
I delete all mail that comes to me with a femimine name, don't even open it. All people who view me same thing, if a woman you are deleted, if under the age of 45 deleted, if a trans, or sissy type deleted, if a switch deleted . I will not EVER EVER EVER allow anyone to switch or top me EVER.
You send me a one liner then look at your age and if younger than 45 deleted, even if older than 45 deleted, I want an intro message.

11/22/2009 12:44:12 PM

Seems once again yahoo has taken my name sexybondagemistress so if you were on that name you may need to be added on my other name. May be temporary but not sure .If I can get on msn will open an account there and let you know;


11/19/2009 7:49:12 AM
Seems many have an issue with English as they are not from here , so here are some countries, I get messages from that are not English speaking, maybe now they will understand what I am demanding
TO THE ARABAICS THAT CANT READ MY RPOFILEقراءة
، ملفي الخاص أنا لا أريد أي شخص دون سن ال 45. لا التقاه على الانترنت. لا تقوم به. إنني لا ألعب مباريات.. أنا لا اريد ان اراك على كام.
TO THE PEOPLE OF INDIA THIS IS HNDI OFFICIAL LANGUAGE IF DIFFERENT LET ME KNOW मैं नहीं चाहता किसी को नीचे के 45 वर्ष की आयु नहीं, जांच खेलों, क्या नहीं चाहते तुम पर सीएएम, मत कचरे मेरा समय देखने
 TO THE GREEKS ΔΕΝ ΘΕΛΩ ΚΑΘΕΝΑΝ ΚΑΤΩ ΑΠΌ ΤΗΝ ΗΛΙΚΙΑ 45, ΟΧΙ ΣΤΑ ΠΑΙΧΝΙΔΙΑ, ΔΕΝ ΘΕΛΩ ΝΑ ΣΑΣ ΔΩ ΣΤΟ CAM, ΔΕΝ ΣΠΑΤΑΛΏ ΤΟ ΧΡΌΝΟ ΜΟΥ
IN CASE THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE INTERESTED  IT SAYS I AM NOT INTO GAMES, NO CAM, NO ONLINE REALTIONSHIP AND ABOVE ALL NO ONE UNDER THE AGE OF 45

11/14/2009 7:40:42 AM

To all the idiots that send me messages without reading my profile. I AM NOT
INTERESTED IN YOUNGER MEN, DO NOT WANT TO TRAIN YOU, TALK TO YOU, SHOW YOU ANYTHING.YOUR NAMES AND MESSAGES GO TO BLOCK SENDER DELETE MESSAGES. STOP WASTING MY TIME

IF YOU CAN'T READ AND OBEY THEN YOU DON'T BELONG HERE.

ONE MORE THING IF YOU ARE OLDER THAN ME THAT IS OK, AS LONG AS YOU CAN SERVICE ME SEXUALLY AND KEEP UP WITH ME, NOT ONLY ORALLY BUT BY PENETRATION, I AM A NYMPH WITH A  SUPER HIGH SEX DRIVE, WARNING YOU NOW SO DONT SAY "I DIDN'T KNOW" ..SO IF YOU CANT HAVE SEX,  DONT MESSAGE ME


11/4/2009 5:58:00 AM

SEEMS MANY MESSAGE ME STATING "I HAVE READ YOUR PROFILE" AND THEN START CHATTING AWAY, THEN LOOK AT AGE AND WHERE IT SAYS NO ONLINE  RELATIONSHIP WANTED ON MY PROFILE " LOOK AT THE AGE REQUIREMENTS, IF 22  I DONT WANT YOU, IF 34 STILL DON'T WANT YOU. SO KNOW YOU WILL BE BLOCKED AND MESSAGES DELETED, LEARN TO READ AND COMPREHEND  WHAT IS BEING WRITTEN. AS SLAVES, SUBS, MEN ,YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR POTENTAL MISTRESS, DOMME, EVEN MASTER WILL REQUIRE OFYOU. LEARN TO READ.


10/24/2009 8:37:31 AM
I would like all to know if you are a switch and decide to message me, know this I  DO NOT SWITCH EVER, NOT EVER, WILL I GIVE UP WHO I AM FOR ANYONE.  You will always always be underme, and I will not ever allow you to think otherwise

10/23/2009 5:41:02 PM
I do not know why they can't put the orrientation next to the name. I can't count how many times I click on the name and see a sissy. They need to have their own orientation as it is quite annoying to have to click and see its not a male. Granted if it says sissymaid I don't click as I know it will be one but to see so many males dressed as sissies makes me wonder if there are any males here who are proud to be males.

10/18/2009 1:20:12 PM
I use yahoo messenger if you would like to chat there with me I will give my name but you still must be in age range requested.

10/13/2009 5:40:23 AM
Contrary to what other Mistresses do here ,I DO NOT PLAN TO MOOCH TO PUT IT BLUNTLY OFF YOU. If something is needed, you will purchase it, I will let you know what is needed and although it is a TPE relationship, contracts will be written, and joint accounts will be done in both names. You will have no control alone over money. If I decide to change the conditions of the agreement it will be done legally to protect me.

10/11/2009 7:48:16 AM

KNOW THIS, DOWN IN THE CREEK, CHERRIES CAN NOT BE PICKED OR TRUSTED. I GOT A CALL FROM A SLAVE AND MESSAGES CONSTANTLY THAT HE WANTED ME TO CONSIDER HIM AGAIN, FIRST HE WAS AWAY AT A MEETING THATS WHY HE COULDNT RETURN MY CALLS, OR MESSAGES, HE WAS SUPPOSE TO BE BACK FRIDAY, NO MESSAGES NO CALLS. DONT WASTE ANY MORE OF MY TIME.
I AM MAKING A STATEMENT HERE, I AM BY NO MEANS DESPERATE TO TAKE ON ANY SLAVE, I AM NOT A THROW AWAY MISTRESS, MEANING YOU CALL ME WHEN YOU WANT TO BE TOLD WHAT TO DO THEN NEVER CONTACT ME AGAIN,
I AM SEEKING A REAL FULL TIME SLAVE.
NO MATTER HOW HIGH MY SEX DRIVE IS I WILL NOT WILL NOT JUST TAKE ON A  SLAVE TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER.


10/8/2009 8:00:42 AM
KNOW THIS, NO SECOND CHANCES ARE EVER GIVEN.  IT IS YOUR LOST NOT MINE. NOT EVER, EVER  NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU ARE OR PROMISE TO BE, HOW SORRY YOU ARE, YOU MADE A MISTAKE, NOTHING . I KNOW YOU SLAVES ARE SEEKING MISTRESSES EVERYDAY AS WE ARE ALSO SEEKING SLAVES, IF CHATTING WITH SOMEONE AND YOU FIND SOMEONE CLOSER, HAVE MORE INTEREST IN THEM, LET US KNOW. WE DONT WANT SOMEONE WHO WE CANT TRUST. NOR DO WE WANT TO WASTE TIME.

9/23/2009 4:05:14 PM
KNOW THAT ONCE MARKED, COLLARED AND TATTOOED THERE IS NO WAY OUT. YOU
ARE OWNED FOR LIFE. I AM YOUR OWNER, TILL DEATH DO US PART

YOU WILL LOSE YOUR LAST NAME AND TAKE MINE, CONTRACTS WILL BE WRITTEN AND YOU WILL BE MY PROPERTY.

9/21/2009 4:15:27 AM
I do not want a toilet, nor ashtray, nor any men who do not read my profile and are in the age range requested. I will not give my number out for you to jerk off to on the phone, if you desire that look for a WHORE. I am not one so do not bother me with those messages. As I mentioned before not into scats, animals, children, so if you enjoy this also dont bother me. I am serious about looking for a relationship. Both with a Dom as a mate and slaves as the toys and property they are.

9/18/2009 8:48:56 PM
I often wonder when I read the profiles here more than half are always saying they are seeking a 24/7 TPE relationship, and yet when you message them saying you are offering that, nothing, happens.Granted I can't do the 24/7 at my house but you can still have a 24/7 if collared. branded or marked. 'Seeking Mistress," also can be seen on every profile well us Mistresses are seeking you subs and slaves and all we get is, liars, fakes, players, and gamers.
I give my number out leave messages once we chat,  and you get on messenger, I leave mesages, and call, yet after 2 responses, poof, like magic you never hear from them again. I must admit I have 3 slaves that leave me messages, just hoping a meeting can take place soon. Why be here ,if you say you want something but know deep inside it is a lie?

9/13/2009 5:57:32 PM
Well my slave has run off didnt have the nerve to talk to me, left a text message while at work where I couldn't respond, almost had a coronary  fell out of my chair, blood pressure shot thru the roof, they wanted to call the EMT's but said no,  after composing myself, went to the house, when he saw my car he drove off, to avoid me then had the nerve to say he was getting strong  that he was not weak, a strong person would stand up and speak to the Mistress about any problem as I gave him that freedom. His lost.  So now looking for a Dom as a mate and to stand by side, not ever to be his slave or sub and slaves for me , Still have some lined up and chatting with them, just need to have face to face contact, before making final decison. 

9/6/2009 6:43:21 PM
Seems I have been going at this wrong. So now I am seeking a mate a Dom/Master , someone of equal power to stand by my side.so I am seeking an equal. I do realize my power is hard for many to handle and even for a Dom/Master it may be  difficult but together we forn a bond stronger than steel. I know the search will be just as hard, but the rewards for both will be worth it.  Of course my mate will have to have equal sex drive as myself , which is higher than most women, as I am a nymph.So let the search begin.

8/28/2009 10:04:13 PM
I would like to make something clear once again, I am not into scats, children or animals , if you enjoy these activities then don't message me.

8/25/2009 5:56:48 PM
Well just went thru all the profiles that viewed me and eliminated more than half the list, also went thru my mail and did the same, left a few but have no clue why as I feel that so many just are here for games, maybe I will be proven wrong, but I am convinced that I am not. Some I feel might be real and sincere, but usually after one message they fall from the earth so not wasting time on them.

8/18/2009 5:10:41 PM

Know that if my profile is viewed and I view yours and see that you have a list of women on there I would not ever consider you because I Know commandment number 5 would always be broken as you would not ever be able to give them up to devote yourself to one  Mistress. Anyone needing that many friends or whatever, you are not matured enough for me.


8/17/2009 5:23:42 AM
If you are from out of town, or the country , know this although I am seeking a slave/sub, you will be required to work outside the home 
It is not a live in position yet, and having a vanilla life at home for personal reasons, there is no chance that working in the home will be possible any time soon.Therefore you will be paying your own expenses, by working I will just make your payments and you may be given an allowance if I see you deserve it   Your relationship with me will be a TPE realtionship and contracts will be written out by a lawyer to insure all are protected. I will control all aspects of your life.

8/13/2009 8:17:54 AM
Well once again I am here because I have to claify something.'
One : If you are looking for a small petite Mistress look through the pics, pick her and chat with her, some pics may be real other are not but you make that decision. I am by no means huge, obese, hippo type but I am average having a little in the middle,  But when I go to the clubs I see Mistress bigger than I am with slaves that worship and please them with devotion, makes me wonder where they found them obviously not here . So if you are looking for the perfect bodied Mistress look for her, find her, beg to be hers. I dont want you if you are basing everything on the body and not the mind, or my way of controlling. True slaves look for the control, and to please the Mistress, those of you basing everything on body, are a waste of time.  Good luck in your search.
One more thing I will not ever show myself, till the meet unless I truly think you deserve it, and for many there is no way that will happen. Slaves have no rights in my book , and as my profile states I am in charge, so you don't like my riules move on.

8/11/2009 7:33:41 AM
I am going to place some definations of words in plain English so you will know what I wil not tolerate.
Liar=A person unable to tell the truth .

Unfaithful=someone who fails to observe  and obey the terms of a vow, commandment, promise, committment seeking pleasure for themselves without thinking of the other person.

Cheater= one who seduces or decieves , charms, wines and dines  someone then deserts the person., one who has dishonest intentions.

Player=One who just uses people for fun , that does not intend to commit thats thinks the world revolves around them, their wants and needs not of the person on control
So I do not allow nor do I seek anyone who has any of these characteristics, and trust me , they will be noticeable.

8/10/2009 11:31:47 AM

Found the slave I was to collar messaging another Mistress, (me), and seeing that , needless to say he is not one to be trusted, no name needed  he will be found out eventually. He has no guts, if  he is truly a slub/slave he would know the rules of respect . Truly not my type of slave/sub material I desire. Nor should any other Mistress or Domme for that matter. Sorry I wasted my time on him.


8/10/2009 9:32:15 AM

I am shocked by the lack of respect these so call slaves and subs have, and yes am coming to the terms there are so many fakes out there as well. Not going to rule out all  as some are true but if I had to name names the list would go on for days. So for all of you out there one thing I am not a fool, we meet and right there if you do not plan on contacting me let me know, no chemistry let me know, not your liking let me know, will kick your ass out and no time is wasted. You have a say so untill I collar you,. You want someone young, keep looking they have a lot of fake Mistresses out there as well, want someone who looks 21 they find them, I am serious and do not want to waste my time with fakes. Cant name names but can name locations of where they are so  that may be on my next entry.


8/6/2009 12:04:59 PM

When I ask for a phone number I want a working number as I will call. If I get a  disconnected number trust me you won't get another chance as I feel I'm wasting my time,and personally that pisses me off.  So if you message me and say oh MIstress I want you, then prove it. 


8/3/2009 7:52:08 AM
Can't count the number of times I am invited to chat and told oh I am what you are seeking Mistress, please may we talk, ask for a number and bam no such person,just a  machine they never call back, or message me again. Stop wasting my time. If you seek playing games look somewhere else, hit the bars they have plenty of suckers there and I am not one to be played with. I do keep a list of those who have done this to me, if I get another message from  any of you it will be deleted and you will not get a  response.


5/30/2009 7:04:25 AM
Well seems that since I have updated my profile, like I thought the incoming messages would stop, glad to see that some finally understand and can obey. Hopefully now only slaves/subs that are serious will apply and respond.  If not nothing lost.

5/25/2009 6:46:29 AM

Seems harder and harder to find somone here that knows how to obey and is serious about their desire to please and serve .I knew that once I changed what I seek on my profile the response would be less, but I will not lower my standards or my desires. Still when I get a response they do not qualify cause of the age.  Which to me is very mportant. Please respect what I ask for.   


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Rossy4luv
 
 Age: 22
 Austin, Texas