• Words from a Dominant male.

  For people who wonder about a D/s relationship and often feel it is "degrading"

  to the

  woman, this should clear that up. True D/s involves much love, respect and

  trust. Here is

  what one Master wrote and I agree with it completely. To me, it epitomizes

  everything that

  should be in every D/s relationship.

   

  "As it is often important and often even necessary for one human being to have

  certainty and

  a clear understanding of the intentions, desires, motivations, and needs of

  another, I offer

  this testimony in trust and sincerity.

  I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any

  superiority on my part

  . Not because I feel I am more intelligent or wiser. I am not dominant because

  of the

  strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be, dominant with all

  women. Yet

  to you, I am Master.

  I am your Master only after earning your trust, and I embrace your

  submissiveness. I have

  looked into your heart and mind and clearly see your desires and passions. You

  have thrown

  away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and

  body. You have

  given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor.

  You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure

  to be cherished

  . We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive

  need to protect

  , possess, defend and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively

  stronger of will

  and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength

  disperses my doubt.

  Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts.

  We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We compliment each other and make

  each other

  complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor
• is it

  degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each

  recognize and

  accept our worth and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

  You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as

  acceptance of inferiority,

  but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.

  You desire

  and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return, you present

  control of your

  body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You

  submit because

  I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.

  Because I have

  listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate

  your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have

  given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.

  What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman

  give a man.

  You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.

  Your submissiveness

  is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with

  humility and

  joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your

  body and soul,

  your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it. I dominate

  only because

  you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and

  heart you

  are raised above all other woman, and all the treasures of the earth. What you

  give freely

  can not in reality be bought."
  

  • is it

    degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each

    recognize and

    accept our worth and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

    You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as

    acceptance of inferiority,

    but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man.

    You desire

    and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return, you present

    control of your

    body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You

    submit because

    I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you.

    Because I have

    listened to your words with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate

    your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have

    given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you.

    What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a woman

    give a man.

    You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me.

    Your submissiveness

    is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with

    humility and

    joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your

    body and soul,

    your heart and mind. I dominate you only because you have allowed it. I dominate

    only because

    you have allowed me to and when I see your body kneel before me, in my mind and

    heart you

    are raised above all other woman, and all the treasures of the earth. What you

    give freely

    can not in reality be bought."

“The demon that you can swallow gives you it’s power, and the greater life’s pain, the greater life’s reply.”
― Joseph Campbell