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Hola!
I believe a fulfulling dom-sub relationship is based on mutual trust and consent and that really means respect for each other's limits. For me BDSM begins with bondage. I have a strong fetish for handcuffs and metallic bondage. But I like spanking, rope bondage, spreadeagles, hogties, orgasm control + denial. I am experienced and I also do bondage photoshoots.
It has been a quest to find a long term partner as well for me, but haven't yet come across anyone other than those who want to try bdsm out of curiosity (mostly because of 50 shades) or because regular sex life with their boyfriends/husbands don't excite them. Also life's circumstances play a part in deciding on a long term partner in the end, but am willing to give it a shot if I find a willing sub partner through CS. But if it has to be a one-off thing, I am fine with that too.
For me, the experience begins with laying down several scenarios of what can be done in a bdsm session and then agreeing on a level of trust and subjugation from the sub. I love dominating, but sometimes, I let the sub try the stuff on me too. I like it spontaneous, with the pain increasing gradually till the sub cannot handle further (the safeword). And as it has often turned out in my experiences, my subs have been able to handle more than I myself could :p. Guess it's a woman's prerogative to be able to handle pain as it requires mental readiness and capacity more than physical ability to handle the pain.
About me: I am 30, an engineer based in Bangalore. I love people with whom I can connect with not just in our fetishes but also in interests and hobbies, of which traveling, long drives and a bit of adventure are what I count as mine. I look forward to hear from you. I am laying down three options for you to connect with me, should you chose to: hangout: lakshyamoksha@gmail.com yahoomessenger: lakshyamoksha@yahoo.com kik: lakshyamoksha.
Cheers! :)
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100% Dominant
100% Rigger
99% Master/Mistress
98% Owner
98% Sadist
96% Brat tamer
93% Primal (Hunter)
92% Degrader
91% Daddy/Mommy
76% Experimentalist
54% Ageplayer
52% Switch
36% Rope bunny
31% Non-monogamist
28% Masochist
24% Voyeur
18% Vanilla
12% Submissive
9% Brat
8% Exhibitionist
7% Primal (Prey)
6% Degradee
5% Girl/Boy
5% Pet
5% Slave
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