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I Know and practice the True Lifestyle Dynamic.
I seek long term. So many fakes and dishonest people here with bad attitudes. Im very experienced and not a bully nor am I about games. Never imagined even finding good conversations would be so rare. This journey has taught Me so much about Me.

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4/3/2018 3:08:45 PM
Finding Real is extremely difficult.

4/2/2018 6:01:26 AM
A Healthy Connection is very Important to Me!

2/14/2018 3:44:42 PM
I'm very Chivalrous and respectful in My Dominance and Control. Opening doors yes and even running your bath water; including fool body and soothing foot massages! Why; because I take service amd one's submission as very special thats My Responsibility to nurture and protect.

2/11/2018 2:09:46 AM
So many indecisive woman here. A vanilla relationship does not work for Me at all and to pursue such would be unfair to the other person. I need a Relationship that has a healthy well balanced component of life and Lifestyle that keeps Us growing together and not apart.

2/2/2018 4:21:07 AM
Never imagined I would be single and not in a serious D/s Relationship. Tried vanilla and it don't work for Me. However;I refuse to settle for less or entertain games and drama. I'm the Man who knows what I Need with plans to keep it a Healthy Lifestyles Relationship that is all encompassing.

1/22/2018 6:03:28 AM
Rare indeed is it in finding One who is first Honest with themselves about who they are and are actually open to share and learn. Far too many with preconceived ideas of how it should be and will be.

1/13/2018 2:09:44 AM
Respect given and Received is Mandatory!

12/23/2017 12:36:38 PM
I know what I need and I know who I am. Vanilla does not work for Me at all thus I seek A True Lifestyle Relationship that embraces a healthy mixture of both life and Lifestyle.

12/14/2017 5:35:03 PM
The best way for one to move forward in a healthy way is for one to step away from, " Self."

11/30/2017 3:34:27 AM
For Me a Major turn off is, " a indecisive person."

11/29/2017 5:00:17 AM
What is your purpose? Are you consistent? How is your patience? Do you have preconceived ideas of how it will happen and how that person will be or are you open to new which will be undoubtedly not who or what you've been used to?

11/7/2017 7:25:11 AM
Chivalrous Intellectual Insightful Strong hands Protective Dominance filled with good guidance and teachings

10/14/2017 10:41:54 PM
I strongly caution any woman entering the Lifestyle to learn the difference between one who is controlling versus one who is into Control. One who is controlling is all about me, myself and i. One who is into Control will be all about creating and protection for Me, you, us and ours. One has selfish self centered expectations where the other is about sharing.

8/21/2017 6:10:59 AM
The power of positive thinking will give access to new opportunity with new choices with greater chance to create new.

7/25/2017 5:43:53 AM
I'm a Man that says what I mean and mean what I say!

7/18/2017 8:35:03 PM
This has been quite a journey for Me.

7/9/2017 5:43:43 PM
Vanilla does not and will not work for Me. I've tried it for years and it brought immense dissatisfaction to My overall self and life.

6/12/2017 4:59:56 AM
So much of Our life's experiences are based on Our choices as well as how We utilize time. With each choices comes consequences and it's imperative that We do all to make choices with consequences that We can live with and grow from as much as possible.

5/8/2017 3:53:56 AM
Honesty is very important to Me in giving and receiving of it. The first Honest question I ask is how honest are you being with yourself in what you seek and ask of another? If one is first not honest with themselves then they will be blatantly dishonest with Me. I've noticed a huge trend of people who verbally say what they want and need but are not mentally or emotionally prepared for such. Yes, I understand you've been through some dissapointments and deep hurt, however have you reached a point in your life where you are not allowing your past to dictate your present actions and more importantly are you judging Me based on him? Hmmm

5/3/2017 12:25:06 AM
Ask yourself the honest question which is, are you and your life ready for what you say you seek and Need?

3/10/2017 6:40:24 PM
I will come into your mind and create a pleasure filled bond between both your mind and body that will Tickle your imagination and create desires that will keep you smiling inside and out.

3/8/2017 4:58:36 AM
I seek unique. A woman whose mind and heart is ready to be lead out of her comfort zone and into the unknown. Yes, I know she will be afraid and doing so will require her to do and be what and who she's never been before but in doing this is will stand beside and with you each step of the way giving ingredients you consistent positive reassurances in word and action.

2/13/2017 5:56:05 AM
Far too many come to this place with firm expectations on how it will happen and the way it will happen. In actuality one should come to this point in their life with a open heart and mind seeking new. Much of life is not about nor gonna be the way we feel it should be versus being the way it's designed to be. The old didn't work so do all to embrace the new with a renewed open mind.

1/27/2017 5:19:46 AM
My Dominance is respectful and very attentive.

1/27/2017 5:19:44 AM
My Dominance is respectful and very attentive.

1/8/2017 6:24:09 AM
(Fact) Keep your legs closed and make him find another way to get inside you.

1/6/2017 12:12:18 PM
I like to laugh and I'm constantly told that I smile all the time,why because I'm calm in spirit, at peace and do all to see the best and not focused on the otherwise. I'm very encouraging and understanding.

1/6/2017 12:07:42 PM
Be honest with yourself first before expecting anything from anyone else. Before you seek out a Lifestyle Relationship, how is your life? Is it in order? Are you past or actively working on getting over the hurt and dissapointments you've had in both your past and most recently? Do you have a pattern of holding things in and will dissappear? These are personal questions that must be considered and actually answered before seeking any type relationship. A healthy relationship particularly a Lifestyle Relationship should be based on active teamwork and mutual understanding created through fluent mutually open conversations and quality time. Otherwise that cycle of lies and dissapointments will continue.

1/6/2017 11:58:53 AM
(Never) imagined finding good meaningful conversations would be so scarce.

12/30/2016 5:33:41 AM
I've discovered that there are two things things too many people are running from which are themselves and their lies.

12/28/2016 5:41:49 AM
Say what you mean and mean what you say or don't say anything at all.

11/5/2016 6:25:21 AM
If you are not ready to move from then and step into Now you have some deep soul searching to do. Far too many walk into today fully clothed with yesterday and the many days prior to that which handicaps their ability to fully see and be able to step into the newness of now. Also putting those who are part of The Now at a huge disadvantage because they are unfairly being greeted with and judged based on then.

10/26/2016 4:02:34 AM
My Dominance is equivalent to that of a Maestro who is the leader of a specific orchestra that plays a specific type music. He is responsible for the overall direction and tone. His leadership must be consistent with excellent listening and communication skills. He also must have a huge respect for their time and opinions. His biggest role is to earn their trust and with that He will bring out of them what they never imagined and make sure they feel great in doing so and are lovingly rewarded. I will earn your trust.

10/25/2016 5:32:37 AM
Letting go of the past.. That's not easy but it must be done if you have any intentions on moving forward into a new a better life.

10/13/2016 3:14:29 AM
I refuse to settle or lose hope that I will find that one who is genuine, loyal, honest and ready to serve and live that powerful Dynamic you crave.

10/8/2016 7:33:29 AM
My Dominance is Mentally encouraging and Mentally erotic. My Dominance is Consistent and very patient. My Control is Mentally encouraging and mentally erotic. My Control is very patient. I am a Man of Substance and good character with a plan that will involve both and a major part of My plan is to make sure you feel and know you are safe in being your True self with Me and free to be and feel.

10/4/2016 5:27:39 AM
Be honest with yourself first; Do you have unresolved issues in your personal life and are you really over your ex or most recent past relationship? How much did they destroy your trust and are you really ready to move forward or are you here just to see how far you can go and will poof dissappear if you don't think you're getting what you need? Better yet do you know what you need and whether you do or don't how serious are you in being honest with the other person and putting in consistent time in finding out? When your first honest with yourself only can something good happen and continue to happen. Otherwise confusion and misunderstanding will come in and prevent you from getting closer.

9/24/2016 6:52:39 AM
I've been Lifestyle for quite awhile with many experiences and from each I've truly learned. Now it's difficult to grasp that this site has become a haven for the same people doing the same thing. It's difficult finding good consistent conversations here and way too many are harboring resentment and disdain based on prior incidents which is totally unfair to those who didn't do those things. My intent is good and I'm honest and will continue to be. I won't ever do vanilla again and what is seek is genuine. I'm amazed.

9/18/2016 1:59:17 AM
( About Me ) My kinks are Control. My Dominance is Mentally erotic My guidance is filled with patience and understanding Good open, consistent communication is very important to Me Honesty is a must. Mutual honesty

9/7/2016 6:48:31 PM
I will explore your True self and submissive nature with patience and understanding.

7/30/2016 4:08:39 AM
The journey into finding real is unbelievable.

7/11/2016 10:30:41 AM
My mind and soul are in a very good place which is at peace and peaceful.

6/15/2016 5:15:23 AM
A woman in heels and dress or skirt dressed just for Me is the Ultimate.

6/10/2016 5:54:31 AM
I Am a Disciplinarian : I enjoy giving spankings, yet My spankings are not just to inflict pain, My spankings will motivate and encourage you giving you better focus.

6/3/2016 5:26:55 AM
Take the time to work on both your physical and mental health. This comes through taking time to get a better focus on who you really are and what you really need and being honest with yourself.

5/31/2016 7:41:53 AM
Amazing!

5/17/2016 12:32:12 PM
Has this become site for liars and fakes as well as those who've been so abused that they're now the abusers?

4/10/2016 9:12:11 PM
I will patiently guide, teach, train and reassure you.

4/5/2016 3:21:15 AM
I've been in Lifestyle for quite awhile and I'm seeing a ugly trend which I'd Lifestyle has many of the same issues as vanilla and becoming a haven for far too many people coming in automatically assuming roles and titles absolutely clueless to the True meaning and practice of Lifestyle /Bdsm. True Lifestyle/Bdsm has very little to do with physical interactions. It's about capturing Ones Mental Attentions and caressing One's mind in ways that will create understanding and relaxing. That can ONLY be done with quality time and Attentions. One must be able to create cognitive imaginings that draw the other closer causing them to crave more because you've not just touched their mind and heart, you've also touched their soul which will relax their mind and allow them to feel beyond time or place ME...

3/25/2016 6:01:22 AM
I've tried vanilla and failed miserably and will never do vanilla again despite being alone. I need that Connection which will keep us closer and give you that final freedom to be your True self with Me at all times and finally feel and be.....

3/25/2016 5:50:16 AM
I awakened this morning wondering how is it that I awaken every morning alone and that night I slept alone. Why am I not awakened with her snuggled closely under Me. Wht am I not able to reach out and draw her even closer to Me so that her head on My chest makes the sound of My heartbeat her calm. I kiss her forehead and she smiles. Then......

3/16/2016 6:05:44 AM
Many are here with unrealistic demands that they are not ready to follow through with and way too many are here with deep unresolved hurt and pains from prior or recent relationships causing them to unfairly judge or have preconceived negative thoughts or ideas based on those things. You need to really look in the mirror not for a second but just stand there looking yourself in the eye and be honest with yourself in asking are you seriously ready or are just so not sure that you don't know what's gonna happen or you don't know what you're gonna do. If this is the case then time away from here and seek help or get more involged in positive activities. Don't hurt yourself and be more cautious in hurting someone else too because unknowingly the abused can become the abuser. Respectfully.

3/2/2016 5:31:05 AM
My firm hand on your naked ass,your anticipation of what's coming.....

2/11/2016 6:31:08 AM
I am way more than what you read here and always ready to do more.

2/10/2016 2:15:39 AM
Vanilla does not and will not work for Me. Been there done that and compromised the real Me and vowed never again. It's been very difficult finding One who is serious and Consistent. Long term is My goal with a healthy balance in both life and Lifestyle. We've all been through something but do not judge Me based on what was done to you and I'll definitely do same. I have found that too many come here with totally unreasonable ideas of what they want from someone knowing they have no intention of doing what they want someone else to do to and for them. Now how fair is that? Yes I'm very Dominant and take charge but I'm not a bully.

2/9/2016 5:04:49 AM
Once you look into My big Brown eyes you will see and feel My power.

2/7/2016 5:36:30 AM
Is this the new trend to start a conversation and then just dissappear without a word?

2/7/2016 5:34:50 AM
I am beyond ready for a serious long term D/s Relationship however finding one serious is difficult.

2/7/2016 5:33:15 AM
Way too much focus is placed on the physical, Lifestyle is about creating that deep never felt mental connection which comes through capturing ones attention and Stimulating their imagination through good Stimulating conversation through shared quality time.

2/6/2016 6:42:57 AM
I will make your most hidden and kept secret fantasies exciting reality.

2/3/2016 3:59:51 AM
I believe in the laws of attraction, which first begins in one's mental connection. When a good mental connection is established that will create good understanding of who we are and if our needs are mutual. That can be done through good mutually beneficial conversations based on not impressing each other but opening up to each other. I'm not nearly as concerned with the size of your body, I'm more concerned with the size of your heart and intent.

1/20/2016 6:35:04 AM
How important is good mental and physical Health to you?

1/13/2016 3:45:52 AM
Quality time and attention are crucial in establishing a healthy connection and understanding before anything else can be done.

1/13/2016 3:43:11 AM
How can one who calls themselves a sub or slave come with so many commands and demands about what will and won't be done saying in harsh words that severe consequences will be taken if these things are not done the way they say it must be done? A True Man and Dom will be very hesitant in contacting you because those are huge red flags that you have a solid wall up and very defensive putting anyone who comes to you at a unfair disadvantage because of preconceived false perceptions of The Lifestyle and open quality time and communication which are vital in establishing connection and building Trust. Hmmmm

12/14/2015 7:09:58 PM
Many say what they want with their mouth but their heart and Attentions are elsewhere. I'm not only listening to what you say I'm more so watching what you do. Are you more consistent or inconsistent. Do you open up or hold things in. How loyal or misguided are your loyalties. I'll you keep disappearing.

12/12/2015 5:46:28 AM
There are dangerous people that are in the Lifestyle these days, both male and female who have no problem playing with other people's feelings and heart. These people are vindictive and cold hearted based on the prior abuses they've suffered or still suffering. There's a enormous difference between a controlling individual versus a individual able to take control. Before one can even talk about giving control over another one must first check to see if that person has control in their own lives and more importantly how much personal self control do they have in their own lives. Being a slave, submissive, baby girl etc is beautiful however done with the wrong One can be a very ugly experience damaging your Trust. Good conversations and the ability to stimulate your mind is very important before any type physical relationship can develop. Take your time, be patient and follow your 1st mind yet don't deny your True self. You came here for a reason.

11/23/2015 5:24:57 AM
I have strong hands with firm discipline and structure, yet I will reward you in Amazing ways.

11/19/2015 1:38:20 AM
I'm a Daddy Dom with Strong presence and personality that lives a well balanced life both personally and professionally, meaning I know the value of Quality time and attention and being able to hold good intelligent conversations mean a lot to Me. No, in our initial conversations I won't be commanding you or talking about sex, instead I'll ask you about you and tell you about Me thus making sure We have enough in common to go any further rather than assume and ultimately eating each other's time. Time and talk are very important to Me, consistent. I do Long term, distance is not an issue to Me as long as you're honest and committed to keeping communication open and honest with intent of going further to real time. Yes, I have many kinks and I'm very kinky. My Dynamic is mental Control with structure and balance plus sensual everything. O yes, I'll Definitely spank that ass, tie you in ways that will give you never experienced pleasure and also take your body as My canvas. There's more.....

11/13/2015 5:51:17 AM
Consistent communication is very important to Me as is honesty and being real in what you seek.

11/2/2015 3:28:40 AM
If you think that in reading My journal you will be able to decide if I'm a match then you're shallow. These journals are glimpse into the thoughts of me, however there's far more to me than this writ. I have found that many come to this Lifestyle with unreasonable demands and selfish intentions knowing that whatever they ask for from the other they have no intentions of doing themselves or at least try. Also Far too many are judging based on their negative experiences. Each negative experience /relationship you've had was based on one common denominator that was present each time, and that was you. Have you taken the time to examine yourself and find you first or are you depending on Me to do it? I'd love to take the find to explore the True you but question is ,are you ready or are you still living in the past and in denial? Hmmmm

10/18/2015 3:52:33 PM
Far too many people are first interested in sex when there is much more to True submission and Dominance than sex. 

10/14/2015 4:56:38 AM
The Look that says, "Come here Now!"

9/28/2015 3:09:54 AM
What's written is an idea of who we are, to find out who One really is takes time and Consistent communication. Are you Ready for that?

9/8/2015 3:54:28 AM
Taking you to that place where you will have Consistent mental and physical Freedom to Be. ...

9/7/2015 3:27:19 AM
Don't allow your most recent or past most negative experience to define who you are or how you feel about yourself. Undoubtedly you did all the right things but with the WRONG person. Allow yourself mental room to grow. You will know when the person that's best for you will come into your life.

9/1/2015 1:42:10 AM
Is it fair to Expect from others what you're Not willing to give or do?

8/7/2015 1:15:29 PM
I see you peeking.....

8/5/2015 2:47:02 AM
" Unique " Being One who is Not afraid to step out the box and make their fantasies and desires Reality. Has the Unique ability to stand despite the many pressures and remain true to their Nature. Is......

7/19/2015 3:39:56 AM
My intent is Honorable. My goals are Unselfish. My guidance is Consistent. My Dominance is mentally Stimulating and erotic.

5/20/2015 4:20:35 AM
                     "  Broken Promises "
Her heart is like a little girl's.  She is emotionally fragile and scared, she needs that special attentions and affections that keep her smiling inside and out.  She needs Consistency. She has this Strong desire to please and serve.   Most see  her Adult self and are Clueless to her little self.
If you make her Promises keep them otherwise you will do harm not just to her Adult self but to her Precious little.

5/4/2015 9:59:54 PM
Marvin Gaye
The shadow of your smile.
       Listen to it.

5/3/2015 4:19:41 AM
The same people are here a majority of the time. Very few new faces and why so many bad attitudes and lack of patience?

3/31/2015 4:27:19 AM
" Control vs controlling " Controlling is about one who lives by the words and practice of , " I, me and mine. " They will isolate you and seek to break you down with constant ridicule and bemoaning. Control is about One who does all to create a environment where all can benefit and maintain a Balanced mindset. Their purpose is to do so based on words and practices of, " Us, Ours and We. "

3/22/2015 3:07:51 AM
Mental Bondage: There's a craving you have that far exceeds anything physical, what you crave is that Mental Connection that gives you freedom to be yourself and freedom to completely feel minus judgement or ridicule. To be heard, to be felt and led to a place that makes you feel like you've never been before. You find yourself smiling inside and out. You find yourself holding on to My every word. You find yourself feeling My words. You've learned that your submission and surrender is not a handicap but a special need that requires Special attention and affections. You've learned that I am VERY attentive to your thoughts and feelings. You're way more relaxed than you've been in a long time. You find yourself calm and having these increased desires and cravings for more of Me. The thought of Me makes you smile and you feel like I've touched you in a way that is different yet it feels so good. I've taken the time to get to know the Most neglected and overlooked part of you.. " Your mind "

3/9/2015 6:25:22 AM
Good health must be a priority in establishing a Healthy Lifestyle Relationship. What do you have if you don't have good physical or mental health? Therefore One quality of a Leader should be to also be that Constant strong voice of reassurance towards your good health.

11/16/2014 4:19:57 AM
                                       In My Care;
I Will Keep you on a Tight Mental and Physical leash, safe and protected.

11/1/2014 5:02:55 AM
                     Question of the day:
Why do so many say what they want yet are so indecisive ?

10/6/2014 11:14:28 AM
The Dynamic of The Lifestyle is about Freedom to be and sharing.  


9/22/2014 2:58:25 AM
2 days ago I lost My sister in law to cancer. We were close as is My brother and I, her husband. Time is for us to work with and not against.

9/7/2014 6:48:16 AM
I have a very nice Collar, now I need one to Collar!

9/4/2014 4:03:51 AM
Dominance is about moving forward in one direction together.

4/12/2014 6:26:32 AM

It's apparent that for many this is about kinky sex and kinky talk as well as playtime.  


3/30/2014 4:50:50 AM

Finding that one who is Serious about being in a Serious Lifestyle relationship is difficult. 


2/23/2014 10:38:08 AM

I am a Nurturing Dom....


1/17/2014 7:39:14 AM

I seek that connection that'a all encompassing which is the mental and emotional that will make you feel like you have been touched without My psychically touching you.


1/14/2014 3:36:39 PM

I am single and have a Strong desire To Own that one but I am not gonna settle for one less than what I deserve.         It is amazing to Me how many subs/slaves are experiencing hurt and pain from so many Doms/Masters. Obviously these so called Doms/Masters have no clue to the Dynamics of The Lifestyle thus leaving the subs/slaves wondering and wandering.


12/14/2013 8:48:37 AM

To subs/Slaves;

 

Upon approach the first red flag is when emphasis is on sex or the physical.

Expecting you to treat as your Master .

Not taking time to get the you behind your sub status.

 

 

This lifestyle is not about sex adventures. 

It;s about capturing one's mental attentions and creating new thoughts that bring smiles 


12/14/2013 8:20:45 AM

Being Dom does Not mean be cruel or harsh

Being Master does Not mean be cruel or harsh

 

Being sub does Not mean you don't have a mind or thoughts

Being slave does Not mean you don't have a mind or thoughts

 

For a D/s -M/s Relationship to be healthy and Progressive there Must Be mutual Respect

 

Surrender and Submission must be earned and cherished and from there will come...

Greater understanding and Deeper Meaning.


10/7/2013 5:28:48 AM

I seek that one who is seeking based on her inner self consuming her thoughts and as such she seeks the calm that I as a Man of good intent can and will give with consistent patience and understandings. 


10/7/2013 5:26:01 AM

You come with curiosity and probably doubt. 

My Role is to ease your fears and give you freedom to be yourself with me.


10/7/2013 5:24:37 AM

The 1st step to a nice time is a nice Conversation and from there will flow nice interests that will lead to even nicer times.


5/8/2013 5:09:51 AM
True love is touching her heart without ever touching her body.

4/29/2013 5:17:20 PM
Surrender and submission are best given when trust has been earned and the best way for that to happen is when mutual respect has been established as well as open honest comunnications. Those vital areas once addressed will create mutual understandings and help establish a enjoyable bond.

7/18/2012 11:23:45 AM

 



"For a woman there is nothing more erotic than being understood."


7/15/2012 4:04:07 PM

"Pain is life, the sharper the more evidence of life.     -Charles Lamb


7/7/2012 11:30:51 AM

 




Intimacy and Passion=


6/25/2012 6:38:41 AM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Patience has tremendous


 'Rewards'


6/14/2012 11:10:47 AM

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It Takes 2


6/11/2012 6:13:29 AM

Drink plenty of water


Do some type of exercise


Check your negative thoughts


Watch your negative influences



All =better peace of mind



6/1/2012 2:02:33 PM

Obviously many Doms/Master's have no clue to the proper treatment or release of their

 

                             Subs/Slaves

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's way too many unanswered questions among them 

 

 

True surrender is a gift

 

True submission is a gift

 

 

And must be received and treated as such

 

 

 


5/24/2012 7:07:25 AM

Starting to wonder       Is there anyone serious anymore about M/s -D/s


5/18/2012 12:32:22 PM

Despite one's lack of experience

 

One's true desire to serve can be greatly rewarded


5/10/2012 8:46:56 AM

Mental Bondage is when


your mind is captured and bound with excitement


You feel Me in the presence of and absence  of


I make you feel good in anything you do


I make you feel good in anything you do for Me


You know you belong


You know you are accepted


You know you are understood



You can't wait to please me without Me asking you to


The pain u experience with Me gives you pleasure


5/10/2012 8:37:48 AM

Allow your experiences



To become your guide and teachers


In becoming a better you


5/10/2012 8:34:46 AM

        Solutions to gaining peace



If you can't change it




Don't worry about it


5/10/2012 6:50:03 AM

The act is what's done to touch the body

 

 

The art is what's done to reach and touch the mind and heart


5/9/2012 8:52:35 PM

Good conversation is a beautiful thing

 

 

But so rare


5/8/2012 9:19:33 AM

    

Pleasure  in Pain


5/2/2012 11:48:16 AM

U reach out and u want to be taken

 

 

U speak and you want to be heard

 

 

U want and you want to be felt

 

 

U need and you want to be needed

 

 

U hope to be understood

 

 

U desire to serve

 

 

U want it hard

 

 

U want it soft

 

 

U want it deep

 

 

U want it long

 

 

 

 

 

                                          The steps to  belonging


5/2/2012 11:33:47 AM

Many can reach out and touch the body

 

But few can reach out and touch the mind and heart


4/19/2012 8:30:21 AM

There's a huge difference in sex vs intimacy


4/9/2012 12:05:22 PM

 

 

                               The common denominator must be







                           Open communication


               Respect


               Understanding


                


               Honesty


4/9/2012 12:02:18 PM

 

 

 

 

 

 

                           Take the time to put in time

 

 

 

Quality time

 

 

 

                           Otherwise that can easily turn ito

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wasted   Time!!!


3/28/2012 11:10:53 AM

 

 

 

 

 

                                 AMAZED!


3/23/2012 11:40:55 AM

In full support of the Martin family and this fight against ignorance!


3/19/2012 8:57:04 AM

Seems to be a pervasive trend of Doms and Masters letting slaves and subs go at will...

 

That's not a good practice at all and one that cause great concern and should...........

 

 

 

 

 

 

When a slave/sub gives they give unlike the vanilla world and will.........

 

 

When a slave/sub gives they give from deep withing the heart and soul...

 

And the sub/slave will also surrender themselves from deep within their heart and soul..

 

 

The sub/slave will love long-loyal and deep as well as allow you into their innermost....

 

 

 

 

 

Those are some of the goals and practices that are the primary responsibilities of the Owner.

 

 

All else will be given as more trust is established.......

 

 

 

 

Those are all good things ,however............................

 

 

 

 

 

 

The flip side to the sub/slave surrendering themselves and trusting is that ..................

 

 

The sub/slave should not be abruptly let go without proper closure and understanding..

 

 

 

 

That can cause the sub/slave to hurt deep and hurt long and hard and cause a 

 

constant state of confusion and insecurities. Trust was given. Surrender was given and 

 

those things should never be taken lightly!

 

 

Never!

 

 

 

 

Positive is the word and choose the path to peace


3/18/2012 7:41:21 AM

 

 

Choose the path towards peace


3/6/2012 11:00:44 AM

Serenity is  well worth the pursuit

 

Peace is well worth the sacrifice

 

 

 


2/8/2012 10:47:26 AM

                     Allow what's behind you

 

 

 

 

 

                     To push you forward


2/5/2012 7:33:48 AM

                                        Dreams do come true;

 

 

 

 

                                        If you believe..............


2/1/2012 5:51:13 AM

                                    A  True man won't need quantity

 

 

A  True man will seek quality.


1/31/2012 11:48:53 AM

I am a man of many talents

 

One of which is my ability to listen and make one feel so relaxed in unusual ways

 

I am a natural leader and a natural alpha male

 

Able to take you to kinks and make you enjoy doing so

 

Giving you that balance that you need and that ownership you crave

 

 


1/8/2012 10:40:07 AM

                                            THE LIFESTYLE

 

WHEN DONE CORRECTLY AND WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE WILL BE HEAVEN ON EARTH

 

 

                                            NO ISSUES ON

 

 

WHOSE IN CHARGE/WHATS EXPECTED/CONSEQUENCES OF/ORDER

 

 

 

                                            CONSTANT

 

 

GRATIFICATION/UNDERSTANDING/COMMUNICATION/SATISFACTION

 

 

                                             THERE WILL BE

 

EXPLORING YOUR MIND -BODY AND SOUL

 

 

                                              TAKING YOU

 

 

TO NEW HEIGHTS AND LEVELS OF SATISFACTION AND PLEASURE

 

 

                                              MAKING SURE

 

 

YOUR NEED TO SERVE IS WELL RECEIVED AND APPRECIATED

 

 


12/22/2011 3:29:32 PM

I'M NOT YOUR AVERAGE DOM

 

I'M A TRUE ALPHA MALE

 

ABLE TO MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE


12/13/2011 5:31:44 PM

                                    UNDERSTANDING'



IS WHEN WE CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING 


IS WHEN YOU ARE GIVEN PATIENCE


IS WHEN YOU SEE AND FEEL MY GOOD INTENT


UNDERSTANDING IS WHEN...................................


12/3/2011 4:10:37 AM

I will penetrate your mind b4 i penetrate anything else


I will create an open forum of free expressions for you


I will establish a bond that transcends time and talk


I will make you my object of creativity


I will give you the patience you need


I will seek to give you the understanding you need


I will enter the chambers of your heart and explore


I will find your unspoken cravings/passions


                 And at  that point......................'WE'



Will explore together.................................'U'




11/29/2011 4:52:36 AM

Anyone can reach out an touch your body......................


But reaching out an captivating your mind is the deal...


And penetrating your soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


11/27/2011 7:38:36 AM

I am absolutely amazed at the amount of hurt that the average 


woman here has endured and the effects that  its caused.....


Why would one want to hurt you and abuse you versus be good 


to you is beyond me.......The lifestyle when done correctly is the 


most happiest and fullfilling experience on earth.........


With order and understanding.......................................


11/23/2011 4:17:24 AM

            They all wanna touch and explore your body...................


But whose gonna touch and explore your mind!!!!


11/22/2011 7:21:41 AM

The time should be quality time.......................


The talks should be quality talks.....................


The level of understand should exceed the norm


The hurt thats given should be hurt that will enhance not take away from..........................................................................................


The pain must include gains not losses.......................................


The lessons will be a desire to venture more into you................


These will increase your desires and your anticipation.............


To do more.....To be more......To want more...............................


                 "OF -THE JOURNEY-INTO-U!'






11/14/2011 12:42:58 PM

                            'DADDY'


Finds you and not only tells you but shows you..........................


                     ' U-R-APPRECIATED'


Gives you freedom to ......FREELY EXPRESS YOURSELF.............


Leads you and Guides you IN WAYS  that will put you at ease....


Is UNDERSTANDING of you////PATIENT with you//HONEST too....


Able to hear what you're not saying and see you as you...........


Can make u feel o soooooo SPECIAL..........................


And will take you to MENTAL and EMOTIONAL PLACES.......


     YOU ONLY DREAMED OF!!!   


 Make your day brighter by a mere thought.......................


                       

                            'DADDY!!!'


11/10/2011 10:13:43 AM

I will slowly penetrate your mind before i penetrate anything else..........

 

Then i will gently yet cautiously  enter your innermost thoughts..................

 

And i will then ease into the chambers of your fears and begin to................

 

                                   "Massage"

 

And caresss

 

And hold

 

And firmly grasp            "You" 

 

At which point you will feel at ease........You will feel and know that you can finally  

 

                                       "Relax"

 

And be you and be understood and properly led and taught to be the true          

 

                                         "You"

 

 My "Baby-Girl!!"    "Special"    "Appreciated"  Given that so needed balance 

 

 

You can and will finally be able to  immerse yourself into me and know

 

That you are finally..................................................................................

 

 

 

 

                                     'HOME'     'HOME'   'HOME'


11/3/2011 11:29:54 AM

 emotional    orgasms..................

 

 mental and intellectual stimulation...........................

 

 open and stimulating conversation.............................

 

  intense listening..........................................................

 

  smiles/laughter.............................................................

 

                                        then..........................................

 

 


11/3/2011 5:01:12 AM

little or no order=disorder           little or no understanding=misunderstanding

 

 

little or no communication =miscommunication

 

 

unanswered questions=more questions                

 

little or no quality time =time wasted

 

  all these things =confusion                             

 

 

                              seek the truth/  seek honesty/be honest

 

 

                                save the drama for the stage

 

                                 keep-it-real-or keep it moving

 

 

                      positive  is the word


11/1/2011 12:50:09 PM

      never imagined vanilla would closely equal the lifestyle based on how people act 

 

and their mindset.    in vanilla so much confusion is based on the lack of perspective 

 

roles and true leadership/guidance.     in the lifestyle/home there should be no 

 

questions asked on whose in charge and whose the head. in the lifestyle/home

 

things are expected to be in order and any questions the head is to know about it.

 

now looks like in the lifestyle theres a tremendous lack of true leadership based on

 

so many subs/slaves with the same stories of lack of understanding-emotional scars 

 

and unanswered questions.....................................the lifestyle is about quality added

 

to those who are participating in the lifestyle. going beyond and living up to. .........

 

 

           challenging-fulfilling..............................................one-love!!!   

 

its an art being able to enter the mind and control and guide your thoughts and take you......................................................................................................

 

its not alll about the act its about the art of guidance-leadership-communication and......

 

 


10/30/2011 11:20:56 AM

I'm mysterious.................Yet completely open.........I  listen.................

 

I'm extremely patient.....Very understanding.......Easy to talk to...........

 

Able to lead........Able to guide.....................Able to provide balance....

 

 

I am very self confident [but not arrogant]       Able to take you beyond...........

 

 

 


10/27/2011 6:22:05 AM

    Anybody can touch you physically...............

 

 

   But takes a special person to touch you emotionally and and be able to show you reality

 

 

 

     Stimulate you mentally.........................................

 

 

 

    And continue to do so....................................................


10/26/2011 6:45:23 PM

You meet............you vibe........you talk deep with real talk..........talk so real and so deep 

 

that he makes you feel so special and seems to already understand you................

 

 

You look forward to his time and talk.............................

 

 

 

 

 

 


10/26/2011 6:30:29 PM

distance vs. connection                                          control vs. controlling                  

 

 

submission vs. humiliiation                                     real talk vs. impressive talk  

 

 

 

 

 

 

                             whats the diffrences in such???


10/25/2011 9:08:47 AM

.................................I-AM-HE!!!


10/15/2011 3:34:26 PM

seems so many subs/slaves have been scared by the role players and pretenders to the point of uncertainty and hesitation.                                 so many sub/slaves are beyond genuine and based on being so have been preyed on by the no-good-unreal liars and thats really not fair to life and the lifestyle.       not understanding why so many would rather lie versus keep it real.                         then again how do u know when you're lying when you're used to living a lie?                   hmmmmmmm                                                                     


10/11/2011 12:02:37 PM

something inside you has been making you feel like no matter who or what theres something lacking. and as time progresses you feel like you're not adequately progressing with it.  you've thought it over and tried to talk it over but no one understands. that inner craving is becoming more intense with time.    theres nothing wrong with you. the issue is your psyche is such that its craving leadership. your psyche is craving guidance. your submissive side is ready to be discovered and explored.   your submissive side is ready to be shown the path to happiness and freedom. freedom to be who you really are and who u need to be.          wellllll                                                


10/7/2011 10:50:02 AM

Seems to be a pervasive issue of location. Finding someone is not the issue.  Its the location and the distance. The distance can be an issue but what happens when theres more than an connection between the two??   I'm extremely patient and very understanding.   The issue is are you??     And if not are you ready to learn?


10/6/2011 9:34:19 AM

this is not alll about sex. sex is an act......intimacy is an art.  there must be a connection beyond at at times before the physical. its the ability to take the time and talk and listen to whats being said. not what you wanna hear. its being able to make that other person relax and be receptive to you and wants and needs. 


10/1/2011 6:52:01 PM

before any submission can be remotely expected there must 1st be time taken   to talk and talk openly about who we are and what we want as well as what we dont want. to expect anything beyond is setting the tone term for  failure........................


9/25/2011 2:26:07 PM

before anything can properly get started there must be real talkand that means minus the pretense. looking to enhance 1's life and add to their most dreamed of experiences with 


9/25/2011 2:24:03 PM

so i've come across supposed sub/slaves here. i find the common denominators are not sure. others base their negative experiences on you . if you are serious about being active in bdsm 1st search who you are and what you want in that otherwise you'll be totally confused. and in your confusion you will block reality versus the false.   


8/19/2011 8:24:38 AM

Find so many role players. Theres the element of the unknown thats a part of daily life. The issue is what are you gonna do about it??


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