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Only really posting here just in case. Cant stand how borked the site is. Seriously look me up on FL.

Me

Im a 34 year old with a boring career that allows me to have nice things. Sapiosexual. Really identify towards a Daddy Dom as I want to help you grow and protect while still having control. I have a house with two cats in the yard. I enjoy going to the movies, light video games, gardening, DIY, astronomy, LEGO, and cooking. I have a zero relationship with drugs and can measure my alcohol consumption in drinks a month. I hate our modern society with the obsession with celebrities, sports and vapid existence. Heavier than I should be but working on it. Im just an average guy that is lonely and hoping for a better future.

You
Relocatable or local to Minneapolis. CIS. In that age group where it wouldnt be too creepy. Im really open to what you identify as currently. I dont have a mold for you to fit in. I am fairly novice in most kink things but a quick learner so dont expect me to instantly know what you want. I want some meat on the bones but not the buffet. That being said I really am hoping for someone that isnt happy with themselves and we can jointly get better together.

Situation A Kinky wife
Either SAH or working depending on reality. Two kids or no kids. I really do see children as being major changing of the definition of reality in the relationship so we would try to get Paris out of the way. I really dont like the idea of being 60 planning retirement and still having a kid in high school so wed take some time but not too much. Really a situation where wed share responsibilities if both of us are working and be normal but some dress up and kinky sexy times. Id gladly do a childfree or DINK situation. Till death do us part.

Situation B Slave-Pet-Submissive-Toy-lg
This one is a bit harder to define as I dont know what you are looking for. Probably better as an short term experiment ( less than like three years) than a forever but we could try. Really a variation of A that you want me to make all of the decisions. I can only think of three that would be asked of you. There would be a list of expectations and however you identify would be expanded on. Would expect the household needs to be met. Costumes to turn fantasies into realities. I doubt many Ms relationships have putting together LEGO sets as a task )

Kinks
Really am an exploring type and would be willing to try stuff that I dont have listed. Really should kinda give a good example of the different types of stuff and where it would land.
Must Haves
Monogamy, Unis, Roleplaying, Bondage, corsetsLingerie, herbivore
Dreamy Stuff
ABDL, ANR, CNC, Medical Play, period play, anal, Collars, enemas, confinement, 1950s, king,
Paddlescropscanes,
Limits
Body Modifications, not a huge fan of tattoos, Drugs, Excessive Drinking, needles and cutting (mutilation), Fire play, knife

I decided at the beginning of this year that 2018 would be different. Good times was had, weight was lost and kinks explored. Really hoping a Hang the DJ situation where we compare notes and go head first into a relationship. Now that I have a decent idea what I want I thought Id actively search. If you think you fit my needs gladly poke me.