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Whipem
Hetero Male Dominant, 60, Escanaba, Michigan 
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Whipem



Ive been in the lifestyle since 1981. Im poking my nose up to see what is going on and to find a sub or slave. Im single, live alone and have no children of my own.


I have a fair bit of experience, within the lifestyle, I have been a guest speaker at several human sexuality classes for local Universities. Ive taught throwing whips, using floggers and the like. I do have a love for needles and some of the more taboo types of play. I have participated in Ms, BD, SM, and Gor. I started in 1981 out in California where I was attending secondary school for electronics while in the Marine Corps. I have learned both good and bad from everyone, Top, bottom, Dom, sub, Master and slave alike. Yes, a slave can and does teach her Master. If you arent learning from everyone around you no matter their station you need to get out of the lifestyle.

I am a Sadist. Im considered a R.A.C.K. (risk-aware consensual kink) the old school term for consensual non-consentand edge player. Id like to think Im well rounded with wide and varied interests both in and out of the lifestyle. I have noticed no one speaks of safety anymore, that is worrisome! I do believe in safety at least a safe as my activities can be. I believe in politeness, Yes a Master can be polite when speaking to a sub or slave. A dominate doesnt need to be domineering, that just shows a lack of self-discipline and ignorance. Verbal abuse does have its place WITHIN different scenes, and race play just not as a general rule.


I can tell you I will hurt you, mind fuck you, and drive you nuts but, I WILL NOT HARM YOU. It makes no sense for a Dom Master to play with and not care for his property, aftercare physically and mentally is a priority. This includes medical care for cuts, bruises, and mental distress. If I have to stay up all night talking to remedy anything mental so be it. Aftercare is as important as any scene. Its the Masters responsibility to see his property is taken care of and well managed.


A little bit of what I am looking for. A girl who has the willingness to accept her role as sub or slave (I do prefer slaves). She has the need, wants and desires to fill her role, following rules, accepting of correction, and expanding her horizons. Where looks are great Im more concerned with the fire in her belly and need to serve. These are very basic guidelines. I am not looking for a kinky sex hookup! This lifestyle is not about sex! Sex is great and certainly a part of the lifestyle just not the main part. I expect the final outcome to be TPE 247 LTR.

Dont expect me to come on like I already own you, not going to happen. I respect this lifestyle and all that it encompasses. I will get to know you as a person before I will learn you as a slave. I prefer to leave the CS messaging system as quickly as possible, its slow and unreliable. I do have other avenues to communicate, Skype, Kik, Line and good old email. The Phone is by far to quickest and easiest. You dont have to worry about an idea or message being misunderstood or mistaken. Im also finding that profile pictures are unreliable, eventually, I will ask for a selfie to prove you are who you say you are and will in turn reciprocate. I dont send dick pics you want one go message Anthony Weenier.

I have tried to be thoughtful in my profile. It answers most basic questions you may have of me. Do not be afraid to ask questions! Im an open book to a potential sub or slave. If I dont have an answer Ill say so and if it at all within my power I will get you the ination you seek or try to put you in touch with someone better versed than I. Be prepared to answer questions from me, I will have many. Ill end with a favorite quote, unfortunately, I dont know who to give credit.

"I would rather be hurt with the truth than devastated with a lie"


Looking forward to hearing from you!


Jim














2/5/2017 8:15:22 PM: Thank you Aidree for letting me copy this from your profile!The Touch of the Master's Hand   It was battered and scarred,And the auctioneer thought ithardly worth his whileTo waste his time on the old violin,but he held it up with a smile. 'What am I bid, good people', he cried,'Who starts the bidding for me?''One dollar, one dollar, Do I hear two?''Two dollars, who makes it three?''Three dollars once, three dollars twice, going for three,' But, No,From the room far back a gray bearded manCame forward and picked up the bow,Then wiping the dust from the old violinAnd tightening up the strings,He played a melody, pure and sweetAs sweet as the angel sings. The music ceased and the auctioneerWith a voice that was quiet and low,Said 'What now am I bid for this old violin?'As he held it aloft with its' bow. 'One thousand, one thousand, Do I hear two?''Two thousand, Who makes it three?''Three thousand once, three thousand twice,Going and gone', said he. The audience cheered,But some of them cried,'We just don't understand.''What changed its' worth?'Swift came the reply.'The Touch of the Masters Hand.' And many a man with life out of tuneAll battered with bourbon and ginIs auctioned cheap to a thoughtless crowdMuch like that old violin A mess of pottage, a glass of wine,A game and he travels on.He is going once, he is going twice,He is going and almost gone. But the Master comes,And the foolish crowd never can quite understand,The worth of a soul and the change that is wroughtBy the Touch of the Masters' Hand.   ~Myra Brooks Welch

1/21/2017 3:48:44 PM: What a shame this is what the lifestyle has become!Is there anyone here that is real? Do I have sucker written in my profile somewhere I'm not aware of?Rudeness abounds!A couple of messages back and forth and then poof gone not even the decency to send a message there no longer interested.I really am feeling that it is time to go back underground and dig even deeper never to lift my head up again.

1/7/2017 5:53:38 AM: First off I'd like to thank the few people I have met that have been polite and have known what they were looking for. On the other hand, most of whom I've met don't even have the decency to write a simple message that they aren't interested after several messages back and forth. I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I try to be polite. It appears being polite is seen as a sign of weakness. The idea of acting as if I owned a sub/slave on an introductory message is absurd! There is a huge difference between Dominance and domineering. Anyone can be domineering, frankly it's a character flaw or an act, eventually, it will catch up to them.

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