I tend toward sensual depravity rather than being abusive or angry. Very much looking for a connection and enjoy giving and receiving kisses caressing and massage but am into rough sex some biting choking hair pulling and using directing a girl however it pleases me. 

If not a hard limit Giving enemas and anal sex anal vibrators and inflatable butt plugs as well as vacuum pumped nipples and labia. Sharing and directing her once in a blue moon at swing clubs and house parties, making porn we can watch and share. Ideally be sweet kind yet want to feel used like wet trash once in a while but loved for it. Caring and connection makes corruption hotter and more wrong.

Caring and inquisitive are pluses but be equally down to turn off your head and be my filthy wet mess as needed. Not looking for a bimbo trophy because I prefer cute and quirky women with a penchant for wit and an interest in food gardening and sustainability in general. I designed and built my own home without a mortgage after paying off the raw land and enjoy living miles from paved roads and city or town lights noise etc. The loudest things at night out here are owls coyotes crickets and of course monsoon thunder followed by the deafening chorus of frogs. I am retired and creating ponds and orchards on the property. Have an attached greenhouse, ducks and enjoy being outside working with my hands. If you want to turn off your head and be a bimbo trophy sometimes that can be hot but between that and a nerdy naturalist type who likes plants and bugs, I'll court the nerd.