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If you don't have a picture to send me, don't email me.
Just Don't.
READ THIS ALL *BEFORE* EMAILING ME
Note: Please do NOT contact me if you are above 45. If I want to talk to you, I will. I do NOT want You for a friend, either.
Note: Please do NOT contact me if you are under 26. You may be cute to look at, but I'm looking for a Man. I find it hard to be submissive to a boy who's only had this in his adolescent dreams.
I *am* searching for:
~A serious D/s relationship.
~Men who know WTF they are doing, and it doesn't matter if this knowledge is gained from 20+years or 6 months.
~Someone looking for a committed relationship, and not to just play around.
~Girls to play with, but owned or not, I am not interested in letting most Males watch. I want girl time.
Yes. I am picky. But who isn't? Especially in O/our world.
I am willing to hold out and wait for a Man/Dom/Master who looks and acts how I prefer, rather than just playing with/f*cking everyone who comes along.
I seek something serious. Why be serious with someone who isn't everything I want?
I smoke.
I drink.
I want to get married.
I want children.
I want a house.
I want Love.
Yes, I like girls. I enjoy them in bed, I enjoy watching my partner play with them.
I DO NOT WANT A MAN WHO CANNOT BE SATISFIED WITH JUST ME.
I am not looking to join a D/s couple.
I am nothing special. I seek someone who begs to differ.
Not actual begging, btw.
P.S.~ In one of my pictures is a man. We are nothing other than friends, taking a picture together. That's it. Really. I can't believe I had to explain that. If he was my Master, I WOULDN'T BE HERE.
Note: If there is no Picture in your email, it will be deleted, most
likely without me even reading it. Call me shallow if you want, but I'm
unwilling to start this with someone I find unattractive, and no
picture make your very unattractive.
Note: If I don't respond to you, then PLEASE leave me alone. Do not
follow up with 10 emails asking if there is anything you can do to
change my mind. Do not follow my silence with insults, either. That
attitude is what kept me from speaking to you in the first place. Some
letters I just get bad vibes from.
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Picture of your penis. Picture of something obscene. Picture of a girl. Picture of a movie star.
With this, I know exactly how Dominant you are.
Keep up the good work.
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Someone asked me today 'Who is meant to be pleasing who in this dynamic of yours?'. My response: A Master should be pleasing to his sub as well as her to him. Looks, personality, sexually, ect.
Also,
should a sub not receive pleasure from her Master at all? Even in
humiliation, she is pleased to have someone who can do it right.
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Added new Pics. Should be up later today. Come back and see them!
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Got this email today: You write write no one under 26 while you are...20+ years OR 6 months ? You have to be kidding...It appears then that for you to be serious...('has everything you want ?') he has to 'interview' or 'apply' to meet all of your life's goals before you'd
even meet ? He'd might have to fawn all over you as some say 'kiss her
ass' to get an email.1000's come here who have a master and in their pics too.You know there are some profiles...'many just get bad vibes from ?'Good luck...you won't need it to get emails but you'll need it to get a man. D~~~
My Answer::\
No where does it say I need an interview, or they have to kiss my ass, I certainly do not need to be fawned over as I like to DO the fawning.
Thanks for the wishes of luck. Sorry to see that you are just another sore reader.
20+ or 6months worth of knowledge meaning I don't care that they 'have 16 years in the scene' or 'only ever tied up my ex girlfriend'. The knowledge, look, application of toys, and ect that *I* would like can come from anyone.
I have been in a serious D/s relationship. I have been in a TPE relationship. I have also been involved a fun switch, and a few poly families.
Some people just give bad vibes. Anyone who have ever met someone they didn't like right off the bat can say the same.
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Looking for yummy girls and yummy Doms in the area to be friends with! Girls to play with, Doms to show me if there's anything worth calling a nightlife. Email me :D
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Off to NC I go! I won't be on here for some time, but feel free to
leave messages. Don't get mad when I don't read or answer, I just
haven't been checking my mail.
Maybe I'll meet someone while I'm there! Wish me luck <3
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And, STOP sending me copy/paste emails! It's tacky! When you clearly don't fit what I'm looking for(age, ect is an obvious if you've even read HALF), you just look like silly.
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Changing my Primary photo. It'll prolly be approved tomorrow so come back! :)
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Gonna be in NC starting this Sat. For as little as a week, to possibly more. In Charlotte.
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Got a 'Reply' from the Dom mentioned in my last entry: I saw your response, nice try. Of course submissives can select their Doms by their own standards. But you A) State your standards in an insulting & rude manner B) Still never mention a single thing you have to offer a Dom. Nothing. All insults, nothing to offer. That's your definition of a "sub?" Nice try. ~~I'm Still blocked, so I can't send him anything. He will be blocked now. What I offer is myself. If everything that makes me ME is not enough, not submissive by your standards, to high maintenance, or even just to aggressive- JUST DON'T EMAIL ME.
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I received this email today:
Submissive? The person who wrote that profile? Ah, no.
That is a list onf insults and demands. And not a single submissive interest listed in the text.
You'll spend the next year wondering why you can't find a suitable Dom. Then you'll look in the mirror and see that its you.
~~My Reply(I would have mailed him, but he had Blocked me):
All submissives should know damn well what they want, and be willing to search for just that. Be willing to wait for Him to find her, to rescue her from the long search. She should take PRIDE in herself and KNOW what's inside herself. How can a Dom take pride in her if she can't take pride in herself?
You, sir, are a sorry excuse for a Dom if you think what makes a submissive is to be a doormat.
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..and email or two did NOT mean I wrote everyone on collarme. I wrote to (and i looked in my sentbox) 3 people.
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I sent out an email or two.
Here's to hoping they get answered.
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Well.
I'm living in NYC again.
I'm also back to being single.
And, I'm bored.
I have no internet yet, and I need to find work.
And, I am lonely.
Same rules apply.
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Please don't write to me to tell me you are the exception to my opinions. I'm not interested :D
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I am a woman. And just like any woman, my wants and desires cannot be defined properly outside of my own head. I cannot put to words what the Perfect Dom for me would be like. I want so many things, and some of them would obviously not work together. What I want most is someone who can help me find the specifics. What I find handsome varies more than anything, from eyes to height, to skin coloring. It is different for every individual I lay eyes on. But I can tell you what I find unattractive: An assumption that I am to strong willed and outspoken to be a proper submissive. I am young, and I am free. I seek love and romance. I am playful and the youth inside of me loves to jump into puddles, as the woman in me loves to dress up and be taken seriously. If you are not a man willing to keep up with my own mix of Youth and Maturity, then please don't bother saying so and just move on.
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Please don't copy/past a letter to me. I know it's well written, and I know you put your heart into it, but it's tacky.
Write to me, specifically. Even if it's just a line or two. If it's long, that's fine, but make it personal. Mention things I've spoken about, pictures I've put up. Show that you care, and about more than getting your rocks off.
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Hay, anyone play WoW? Let me know!
~EDIT~
Apparently, I have to be clear? WoW= World of Warcraft. I'm a geek. I play MMORPGs. I go to Renn Faires, I play D&D, I even play Magic the Gathering XD.
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Hay, if you live near Philly, and know what/where Nocturn is, let me know! I would love to meet up sometime!
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I'm moving to Philly on Feb. 3rd!
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If it makes you feel better with my rejection to call me a 'dude' and tell me to 'have fun jerking off', thats fine. Just leave me alone :)
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I am tired of the men here that decide to write to me when i don't respond to them.
They write to me with mean words, insults, trying to provoke me into saying "fine i'll talk to you, just to prove i am who i say i am"
If I do not respond to you, i am just not interested. thats all. sorry if it offends you, but that's all it is. do not write to me again, cursing, annoyed, telling me maybe I am a guy posing as a girl for kicks, that i am rude, that i am bad.
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I am not a Domme, nor do I want to top. My profile reads the way it does because I know what I want, and I am unwilling to settle for less.
I will not be walked all over. I will not be taken advantage of. I will not be taken for granted.
Well, the taken advantage part may be subject to discussion, lol.
My point of this is, I am very submissive. With the Right Man. With the Dom that can inspire me to want to serve and submit.
A Dominant title online is not enough to gain my respect. That is earned, thru work. Chat, friendship. Remember that dating thing I spoke of in a journal entry? Yeah, that, too.
Do not write to me and tell me I have a bad attitude, and should change it or my role.
I know who and what I am. I also know what I am not, and what I will not be for anyone less than the Dominant Male I seek.
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-=kicks collarme=-
Approve my main picture, dangit! You approved all the other new ones yesterday!
>.<
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I GOT MY NIPPLES PIERCED!
And now my body hates me.
I'm gonna go be sick, goodnight.
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I don't even think anyone reads the journals...
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To good to not use, An answer to my "I do not want a man who cant be satisfied with just me" comment in my profile; Someone asked me "Are you not satisfying?". I answered thusly:
I think I am, but the last D/s relationship I was in consisted of me
and a Dom who sought his pleasure, fun, love, and playtimes elsewhere.
We tried a poly relationship with a girl a little younger than me, and
it worked for a little while. But, I was slowly edged out as her
comfort levels changed.
I need to be with someone who just wants me, as I just want him.
In
my heart of hearts, I would love a poly relationship. To be with a Dom
and for us to find others, or to join an existing one. There are
feelings and desires I have, and fantasies, that leave me wanting a man
and a woman with me. The strong powers of a man, the soft yield of a
girl.
But I have yet to find an existing relationship or a
partner that can treat myself and the other as equals. A poly
relationship to me is equal. I would have a boyfriend as well as a
girlfriend, as would she. He would have two girlfriends, in the most
simplest case.
What I meant when I said I don't want someone who
cannot be satisfied with just me is I need someone who can be loyal.
Unattached to anyone else. Alright with the idea that there may never
be another person involved.
It's just rather hard to find any of this, and makes me all grumbly.
/end rant
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I really need to learn how to write a better "hallo, I'm interested in you" letter.
...at least I don't write one really long on and copy/paste it for every guy I see. I get at least 3 of the same one from diff people every week.
But, apparently, my lack of long winded puff up your ego and dance around my point is keeping me from getting responses.
At least I talk about the first thing that interests me, may it be your looks, or a story. Shows I actually read something.
Blah, I'm just jaded.
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Added some new pics, so it doesn't show I have one at the moment. Just give it a bit :)
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Attach a picture to your email to have a better chance of a response. I may still not answer because I am not attracted to you, but it'll give you a better chance. If I don't know what you look like, I won't talk to you. Why would I? Get to know you, we match perfectly, only to find out I find you horribly unnattractive? That would suck.
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READ MY GOD DAMN PROFILE BEFORE EMAILING ME! IF YOU ARE SOMETHING I HAVE STATED I HAVE NO INTEREST IN, DON'T SEND ME ANYTHING. Not a hello, not a 'nice pics'. Not a 'hey lets just be friends'. I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!!!!!!!!!
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Deleting all journal entries. Males on this site Suck and only read what they want to read. Read everything, or nothing.
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Here's a new journal entry for you to chew on. I am *not* looking for a potential Dom. Yes, I want a serious D/s relationship, but like marriage, much has to happen first. I seek someone, a Man, who I am compatable with. We will chat, then date. After a few dates, we will step the relationship up to the next level. And so on and so forth. Up and up the ladder we will go, and then achieve O/our goals. Just like you would date, be engaged, married, then children, I am looking for the D/s equivalent. If you are looking for a potential sub or slave, go look elsewhere. If you are what I seek, and you also are looking for someone who knows there is more to life than BDSM at all times, then maybe we can talk. I will only submit to you if you are worth it, just as if it were normal sex. If it's going to happen, many levels have to be achieved first. Gah, why doesn't anyone understand.
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READ CAREFULLY!
I WILL NOT TALK TO YOU IF YOU:
1)ARE OVER OR UNDER MY AGE REQUIREMENT. I DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER, OR HOW MUCH YOU LIKE ME. THE ONLY EXCEPTION I WILL MAKE FOR THAT IS IF I FIND YOU FIRST AND SEND YOU SOMETHING. DON'T BOTHER TRYING OTHERWISE, YOU JUST BOTHER ME!
2)DO NOT HAVE A PICTURE, EITHER IN THE EMAIL OR ON YOUR PROFILE!
3)ARE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP
4)ARE A DOMME
5)ARE JUST ANNOYING!
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You know, one day, I will meet someone on here who can talk to me for more than 5 mins before bringing up BDSM.
There is more to life, you know. Get to know me, have a date with me, wait until we are better aquainted, *then* we can talk kinky.
I need to know that we can see eye to eye on Vanilla basis before I can let you get that intimate with me.
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I'm dying to get out of NY. Yeah, I grew up here, but it's not for me anymore. The weather, the people, the atmosphere. All of it bothers me, not annoyance but a kind of boredom. I hate living somewhere I dislike. I'm opeing up my profile to willing to relocate.
My lack of time to chat with interested Doms is begginning to screw things up. Everytime I get in contact with someone interested, I have no time to sit around. Then, annoyed, they take off and I never hear from them again.
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The man with me in one of my pictures is NOT a former anything, he is a friend from NYRF. And thats all.
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Look. I'm sorry I am never around to chat. I have this thing called Life. I have to work to pay my bills, 5-6 days a week. When I am not working, I sleep or I am trying to have a shread of a social life.
When I have time to have fun, you will know.
Don't take it personally. If I wrote to you, then you know I am interested. I just don't have the time to show it.
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Friendship leads to Relationship.
Relationship leads to Commitment.
Commitment leads to Life.
I would like a friendship first. To see it blossom into more, into the desire to be togeather. D/s aspects can be introduced then, I have no want to 'play' with a mere friend.
Love and closeness to follow, as well as 'play'. There are levels of trust that simply cannot be achieved without Love.
We cannot be anything if we cannot be friends first and foremost. Get to know me as I get to know you, and if things work, there are only clear skies ahead.
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| Age: 32 |
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