Very Dom Black Master with a brain, is looking for a slave(s) that ether knows their place or sincerely wants to learn where that place is. Im a fair butt firm Master, and I have that rare ability to do know when to turn it it off and be vanilla in certain situations. Like family outings. Understand that being a Master to me is NOT the same as just being an abusive asshole all the time. Know this right now, I fake NOTHING. I will expect nothing less of u. I design & make my own kink furniture, Im in the process of turning it into a side business, so yes,... As u'll find out, I am a highly inventive & creative individual.
While BBW's are a personal favorite, if u're willing to be honest about what you crave, u will get what u seek, butt ur limits will be honored butt tested. u just have to give Me and my thick 8" what I demand... THE thing most important is how much u want & will serve a true Master.
I want the COMPLETE & TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE from a female slave who is able to give all of herself in the pursuit of pleasure in the bedroom and be stable, comforting, and totally submissively obedient outside of the bedroom to the Master who owns her. This is a lifetme TPE relationship I'm looking for.
I have experience in using many things to stimulate you, from vibes to whips and Riding Crops, (ask me about "old southern" spankings!) butt if u want just to give up control and do what the nicely hung Black Man tells you to do, I'll be more than hard for u. being poly is a plus. Natural females must like spontaineous attention, being touched, and find u being sexually accessable to ur Master at all times when ur around him is a turn-on. .
I am looking for the slaves who are willing to be honest and REAL about themselves. Are you ready to surrender & serve?
By the Way, if ur one of those "slaves" who want "Funds" so that a "proper slave" can "relocate" to her new Master after only a 4 minute (...and even less!) time of chatting then ur going to be really disappointed with Me, because Im not EVER going to send money to someone I don't have complete trust in......and ur going to jump through a few hoops to get that much trust.....
3/8/2012 3:26:38 PM
I keep coming across subs & slaves who seem to think that they are going to move in with me and just be a part-time or play sub/slave and somehow Im going to change My goals to suit them just to have a partner...sorry, wrong answer.
Im looking for a needle in a very large haystack,... and I DO well know it... so Im asking u.... up front..
What are the differences between a bogus or bedroom submissive and a genuine one? ....Really? Its not My intent to be insulting, (yet!) BUTT which are u?
To me, the difference is a matter of character and nature. Some people play a submissive role. But some of us find that TPE submission reveals ur truest selves, ur deepest, most authentic nature.
Submission is NOT about what u DO. Submission is about who u ARE.
The acid test comes the first time a Master directs you to do something you really don’t want to do.
Many slaves are willing to play a submissive role temporarily—as long as she trusts that the Master will do exactly what she wants him to do to please her. There is nothing wrong with that. But it isn’t submission, it’s just cooperation.
True submission is complete surrender. Of course u want pleasure, and a good Master like Me wants that for u when u've earned it. But Total Power Exchange submission means completely letting go of ur own will, and trusting Me, without setting ur own pleasure or wants as a condition for doing so. For a true submissive, that very act of surrender IS the pleasure—that intoxicating rush of letting go and giving all of urself to Me. Whether its just u or there's more than u serving Me, ur level of service and devotion to service should not change because My Domination over u shouldn’t and will not change.
You may think it sounds passive and easy to surrender your will. TRUE Total Power Exchange is far from easy. It is a conscious choice u must make, over and over again, that requires a great deal of courage and inner strength. Saying yes to Me means that you must be strong enough to say no to everyone else, including yourself. True submission means having true power, and then giving it away. u must own ur own power, before you can give it away. Therefore Im not looking for a doormat, but if u are, expect to be treated as the doormat u wish to be within MY limits. (and I DO have some limits.)
An order IS an order....Whether its comes from Me to u from across the room, across the street or across the Atlantic....True submission is complete surrender.
Saying "no" to an order is not submission, and certainly not surrender, not online, not in person, not in chat or IM & not on a phone call....once u agree to be owned, even on a temporary basis, ur to follow every order I give, or u find a respectfull way to ask not to do it. Im not of the mindset to ever tell u to do something, "just because"...I have a purpose for telling u to do it. I will never mind telling u why if u respectfully ASK.
....Im not a play Master, Im not looking for play slaves...
"Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom...Mastering others is strength, Mastering yourself is true power."
This IS MY 24/7 life as a Master, If I cant Control Myself then I cant control u... So really? Total Domination isn’t about what I DO. My Mastery is about who I AM. I will expect u to be of that same mindset as a slave or at the LEAST truly willing to learn to be of the same mindset as a slave. But be honest and real about it....BECAUSE I FULLY AM.
Now if thats a bit much for u.... I understand....
Because Im going to be blunt force real with u from the very start.
(Thanks to a lovely sub for letting me use & add to a post of hers)