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	I am a young, self balanced and stable, dominant, open minded Man with many interests. I am looking for an old style relationship where Man is in charge and leadsand woman follows and obeys, i am a bit sadist, but i offer lots of passion and love. i am very kinky! I believe every woman should be treated like a princess.. i just like for there to be rules and structure.. and for the man to be in control. She will be my princess outside of the House and my slave in the House. I am in control of myself first and foremost, so thatI may better control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, I can cause my sub to cry real tears when punished and brought in fornt of her misdoings.But as the consummate and passionatelover,I will then after the disciplinary sesion hold you and kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.I seek a woman who understands that the man shallbe firmly in charge and making all the most important decisions and have the upper handI advocate a relationship where The man has the balance of power and control The mans control is consensual and welcome, he is caring, but firm, gives rules and punishes the woman if she does not obey them The women is strong and competent, not weak or wimpy doormat types Other thingsi require from my sub beyond this list to show her respect to her Master Always remember to serve him first when dishing up at supper time Sit on the floor at his feet when watching television in the evening Remember to offer to fetch him something if you are up, or check on him to see if he needs a beverage or the like Ask permission to leave the room. This doesnt have to be overt. A simple statement, such as Please excuse me while I run to the restroom and then waiting for his response will not seem out of the ordinary. Never raise your voice to him, even in a disagreement or argument. Use the utmost respect when expressing your differing opinion. Therefore, in seek a marriage where The husband is the head of the household (HoH), whilst the wife is submissive to her husband as he is her Lord The husband is to love his wife as himself, He is to lead by example. He is to lay down his life for her. The wife is to reverence her husband. She is to obey him, so long as his instructions are not in opposition her health and safety. The HoH has the ultimate authority in his household. The final decision rests with him, and therefore, the final responsibility, whatever the outcome, is his to bear. He is to be the head of the home. She is to be the heart of the home. He is not a dictator. She is not a doormat. He is not a overbearing Lord of the Estate, seeking to trample over his family. She is not some weak-minded lass, needing to be molly-coddled, or seeking to get straightened around. He has the responsibility for leading his family and is accountable for their well-being and development. He has the authority to spank his wife for disciplinary reasons, but this authority is taken quite seriously andfor serious offences, such as the Four Ds (Disobedience, Disrespect, Dishonesty, or Dangerous as in dangerous choices... reckless driving, disobeying doctors orders, etc). spanking is simply a tool, one method which is quite effective in strengthening the marriages, and improving the quality of the relationship. The husband will love his wife enough to patiently guide and unselfishly cherish her.The wife will love her husband enough to follow his leadership and trust his direction. Household Rules 1) At all times carry yourself as a lady. 2) Always respect the HoH. 3) Dress in the manner you have been instructed. 4) Always obey the HoH. 5) Never disrespect the HoH. 6) Do not gossip or waste your time. 7) Never question the authority of the HoH. Penaltys for breaking rules. 1) Over the knee spanking with hand, tawse or hairbrush. 2) Over the spanking horse for a cropping or strapping. 3) Toe touching for a caning. 4) Fastened to the roof hooks for a whipping. 5) Bedtime spankings for a set amount of days. 6) Sent to a disciplinarian for correction. 7) Corner time. 8) Loss of privileges. 9) Grounding. 10) Loss of clothing for a specified time. 11) Repeated bad manners and rule breaking will result in the person being expelled from the House. 12) The final part of all punishments will be the sitting on my knee and cuddled until tears subside and an apology has been forwarded. I desire your submission. Kneel before Master and let yourself go. The time has come to give in to fulfilling all of my needs. The power of submission lies not in the ability to to kneel before another, to give ones body or in the wearing of a collar. The power of submission can be found only in the heart of the heart of one who gives her love to another freely knowing what joy and pain will come from it. Ave atque Vale

9/14/2012 5:13:37 AM

on being the HoH:

For me being Dominant and taking action and responsability is not a game or just an erotic act, it is my way of being, of belief and of personal honour. I live by these rules and I demand whoever is living in my House to abide to them. for me it is a responsibility (a great, grave and paramount one) to be who i am and what i am every day. i work and provide for my family, i will protect and cheris and nurish my family and for me it is natural that this cannot be accomplished fully without the support and the submission of the right wife. and the role of the wife is also of extreme importance, being a submissive means she is below, but what is below is what holds everything else up, if the ground is not strong you can build the strongest house but it will still crumble. the Man is the House, He is the walls that give structure, the roof that protects, the warmth that allows to grow, the light that shines and leads the way, but this House is standing on the rock that is the wife and she must bring happiness, joy, softness, beauty and a strong ground to the House.

9/14/2012 5:08:55 AM

On male supremacy:

Not every woman wants or even needs to be equal to men. Some of them (the ones in the end that are truly happy because thei embrace their nature) appreciate and understand the difference there is between man and woman and that equation of equality exists when the two are unique and should be appreciated for those differences rather than try and reach some nominated level of equality. Some people are uncomfortable by being exposed to the influence of freedom which only serves to dilute their natural submission. The longer the exposure the less motivated and effective and more disillusioned they become.

The realities of life and the evolution of the species has created opposites and these opposites complement each other. Indeed they are each reliant upon the other in order to lead their lives to the fullest. One must rule over the other. Man is a leader that can motivate, protect and provide. They need and should be obeyed and respected but above all else served and revered, allowing them to use their abilities rather than have then wither and become bitter and angry because they are no longer useful. Women should lead a simple and focused life that gives them rewarding fulfilment in service and motherhood for the direct benefit of those they know to be their recognized superiors and to whom they give all due respect and complete loyalty and obedience and to whom they believe they naturally belong. This allows them their natural feminine qualities and families profit.

Men have a duty to care for their women. To think deeply on what is best for them and to treat them with kindness and respect. To guide women is their calling.

12/21/2010 8:54:25 PM

On maintenance spanking:

When a woman has not been punished for some time the memory of the painful spanking she received due to her bad behaviour will start to fade. Her attitude may change for the worse, with a regular maintenance spanking she is reminded of just how painful a punishment spanking is and that she is required at all times to act accordingly.

Another reason for the maintenance spankings is to re-establish the emotional and intimate connection of her and the HOH, bringing out the Masculine energy from the HOH and the feminine energy from her.

All women crave this energy. This energy is what couples feel when they were still all flowers and sunsets.
A maintenance spanking will also give her the much needed stress relief that has built up since her last punishment spanking, allowing her tears to flow hence relieving her stress.

Along with the stress release, a maintenance spanking will also benefit her by showing her you are committed to the relationship.

Regular maintenance spankings also provide to her that you care enough for her, that she is worth the trouble of regular scheduling spankings, and remind her that you as her HOH will enforce punishments when they warrant for her behaviour and attitude.

By spanking her on a regular basis will also serve as constant reminder of the love and commitment you have for her, allowing her to fully appreciate that you are the HOH and are in charge.

Remember that just as with a punishment spanking a maintenance spanking should be done long and hard enough to produce tears, allowing her to cry freely and release any stress she has built up, feeling the energy of your masculinity, and the love you both share for each other.

Always spank and let her receive with the love it has been given. Always share the pleasure of the pain, this way you will enjoy a trusting, obedient and respectful partner.