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Ebonystrongman
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HOTCHOLATE 51
I have gotten a lot of messages saying why I haven't wrote any thing on my profile
So I guess I will do just that.First let me start with this disclaimer. If you are a fake Dom this is for you.A real Dom will not get offended by this,but if you do it must be some truth in my words. First if you want to catch my attention sending a dick picture to say hello. You will not get a respond, I am old school I believe a Dom should always be a Gentlemen first if you don't respect yourself how can a sub respect you. Second I am not a golddigger if expect my Dom/Master to protect, provide and take care of me if we progress to that point. It is a Dom responsible to do those things for his sub after all she has just surrendered herself to you.Third be honest in what you do and how you feel, if the sub is not what you like or need tell her. Just don't stop all communication leaving her wondering what happened. This is a process of getting to know someone if that sub is not the one say so don't leave her hanging. The sub should do the same. Don't worry I got something to say about these fake ass subs to. The disclaimer applies to subs to if you are real sub you want get offended by what I got to say. First Subs quit trying to Dom from the bottom.Second have some respect for yourself, no real Dom wants to see a naked
profile picture with all your goodie on display for every Dick and Tom to see. Real Dom will request these kind of pictures from you plus if he wants other Doms to see you that way he will tell you so. Third be clear in what you are seeking stop playing games be real,and know what you are yes ladies there it is a difference between a sub and slave.
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Frustrations of a submissive, Am I the only submissive on this site tried of the bullshit. Yes bullshit have the fakes and wannabes taken over this site. How can you make a connection with anyone when you have put up with all the lies and bullshit .
If you want to play games go invest in a PlayStation or Xbox, quit wasting time of those who are in the lifestyle for real. This includes lonely married men and women that sign in to has something to do, knowing that you would never do anything outside of your vanilla comfort zone. While on the subject of married individuals if you are married say so. Give the chose to the individual if they want to be involved with you. That person might not want to be your dirty little secret. Being untruthful about being married is a waste of time to the Dom, submissive, slave so stop wasting our dam time.
I said I was frustrated, here to I want them all Dom. What do I mean about I want them all kind of Dom. This type you have to be real careful with and play close attention to everything he writes or says. He usually is talking to several submissives/slaves at time.You can usually tell because he will get you mix up with another or ask the same question over again. Usually by the time you catch on you have invested alot of time effort can I say frustrating. Yes because you have became interested by this time, and you realize you just wasted your time. Submissives are not exempted they do the same dam thing to.
Frustrations to three power is those who say I want a relationship but really don't but lead you on. Oh yes the play a convincing game with text messages, phone calls ,face time,and even planning a face to face. Then they become a candidate for the milk carton have you heard or seen this person, they will do a disappearance act on your ass. Leaving you frustrated and mad as hell. Just one frustrated submissive venting |
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It seems that my opening statement on my profile has drawn a lot of options some good and bad. I has been ask for more details of my views on the D/s relationship. My views on the Dom/ submissive relationship comes from over a twenty years of experience and three long-term relationship. Am I expert on the subject no, to say the least is there anyone. Why do I think this, because everything is consistently changing and growing. We learn to adapt to these changes and adjust our behavior according to these changes.
When I realized I was sub and came under instructions of my first Dom, I was taught that a mindless sub is a useless sub. To serve and obey a sub must be able to think freely, to problem solve within the guidelines you have given her. One aspect I come to realize is that I was never trained I was taught the ways of D/s relationship. Is there a difference yes to train you have to reinforce to maintain the behavior. To teach you give the sub the tools to adapt and adjust her behavior to your needs. A sub should always be thinking on how she can better serve and please you. Thinking is a learned behavior is comes from teaching not training
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I am in wondering stage. You ask what I mean by this statement? I am wondering why some many Dom/ Master are saying I am looking for a true a sub, slave, baby girl, etc. When there is so many real subs are just that real. I am wondering why you the Dom are misleading,lying and down right wasting my time and other sub time. I am not trying to be disrespectful but please get with the program. To many Dom are looking for that trophy sub something that look good but lack substance yes you can train her but she want have that same desire or that passion to serve you with that drive to learn your every mood. I am wondering do you really know a true sub psychic that undying urge to surrender and serve her Master. I am wondering do understand that a unower sub feels like she grieving a lost of something that she loves she craves that your control, your dominant ways its her drug she goes into withdrawal with out it. If this the kind of sub you want a true sub holla at me |
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It comes a time when you have to say enough is a enough. I have grown so tried of the fake, the liar,and the bullshit. It leaves me to wonder if there is any real people on this site |
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| Age: 38 |
| Baraboo,
Wisconsin |
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