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| I am looking for a strong woman with the force of personality to seduce me into submission.
Demanding, powerful women are sexy. I want to find a beautiful woman who likes control, enjoys being both strict and sensual, relishes mischief with a touch of cruelty, and most importantly is almost impossible to satisfy.
I am open to a switch and am comfortable being in charge and assertive; I am that way in my normal life and have been with the women I've dated.
That said, I am really here to explore my submissive side. I have a strong desire to serve something outside of myself. Submission provides me with a strong sense of purpose. There is also a subtle (sometimes overt) humiliation in submission which I find erotic. I love/hate it but that almost doesn't matter because I'm powerfully drawn to it.
That said, I'm not here looking to be treated poorly. I'm looking to be challenged to please a woman who is beyond worthy. Submission for me is about desire to please. This comes from a deep connection and strong attraction to a personality. I want someone who can get in my head. It is more about the dynamic created between us than what demands are made on me.
That said, once the chemistry and trust have been created, the physical can be whatever we make it. As the dominant partner you would be in control of that. If it gets a little rough or a little kinky, well, for the right woman I'd follow her just about anywhere. ;)
Some other things that I should mention:
I like women of all ages so long as they are mature and sane. Prefer people who are committed to being healthy and active. Of course, connection is paramount.
I would like to find someone for a committed relationship but that can be elusive. In the interim, I would be happy with a discreet or open relationship (or both). I will accommodate for the right person.
I would like to be able to step outside of the D/s dynamic occasionally. A relationship and sex without defined roles can be really fulfilling and fun and, I think, adds to the sustainability of a relationship. Ideally, I would find someone who is the same, even if for only fleeting occasions.
I am not looking to have my submissive side become common knowledge for the world. I'm not saying it would have to be only "behind closed doors" but the degree to which we let it out would have to be something that we decided together beforehand. Honestly, it probably wouldn't be much of an issue since I am extremely attentive to women I date anyway.
Not sure what my limits are as I haven't had much experience. I have some kinky fantasies. Nothing gross, nothing dangerous, and probably nothing with me in a small confined space are good rules of thumb. Getting physical, being tied up, a little pain, I could probably handle. I leave it up to you to push my limits. ;)
Would also be open to a relationship with a submissive woman who is looking to be in a relationship with another submissive; we could find someone to worship together. ;)
Thanks for reading. Please let me know if you have questions.
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