I identify as switch, but really don't like to be pigeonholed. I find that dynamics are all about personal chemistry. Depending on your personality I may want to switch with you, I may want to get all dominant and forceful, I may feel the desire to submit. For me, it's all about honesty, exploration, and spontaneously feeling out what wants to happen in the moment.

Call me old fashioned.

I favour the psychological aspects of kink over the physical. While a bit of sadism or masochism is fun, I prefer self exploration, mind games, roleplay, protocol, humiliation, control, power exchange... the kind of kink where you really have to know someone.

 I've still seen a lot of the weirder side of life and relationships and I'm always happy to offer advice, ramble on about things, share thoughts and philosophies and such.

Though I hate there being a need to say this, I'm not looking for quick fixes, cheap hook-ups or instant wank-fodde. rI'm up for meeting people in real life, but not 'casual' one off encounters. I'd much rather make friends than notches in my bedpost.

Anyway, I always love to meet new people. So if you want to know more, feel free to say hello. I'm happy to talk to anyone. :)