This is the second time I've had to reactivate my profile. Wish I didn't.
D/s and BDSM is more of foreplay to me.Receiving pain or being helpless and used or using someone as they are helpless sexually arouses me. I've discovered I cannot orgasm through just vanilla sex. I am a human being and like to get to know people before I even think about anything more! I also will not have anything with anyone over the age of 60. I am looking for like minded people but I make my decisions on who to serve based on the individual. I will usually try anything once and can go to extremes about things I like. I am fun loving, intelligent and adaptive so I get on with many different types of people. I enjoy dancing Modern Jive (ceroc) a couple of times a week and spend the rest of my time meeting up with vanilla friends, going to the movies or just chilling at home. I love books, films, a nice glass of wine I would just say that if you want to chat then drop me a line and I will try to get back to you.