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I sit quietly...

Wonder where to go next.

Wondering if I might find a slave here,

Or if I am like so many here wasting time...





I am not perfect. Hell I am perhaps as flawed as they come. I do however try to change the world for the better more often than not ...



Dont let perfect be the enemy of good.



Explore what you seek, do not fear its limitations.



Never forget youre not settling, if you get what you need, but everything you want.







so little hope that the people I talk to here will be real, and make it from on-line to off-line



















































So I hate the insensitivity of most people on-line. No manners, no common courtesy. Why do I ever even try? Why do I think it will ever be different?

So if you start a conversation, end it dont just disappear and never respond. For fucks sake people, be a person not some figment of your own imagination that messes with mine. Damn.
4/13/2018 4:23:05 PM
So I received a message that simply stated     "Ugh" and the person blocked me.  I will never understand this place nor the people who pretend to inhabit it.
4/13/2018 4:02:59 PM
www.snopes.com/fact-check/trump-supporters-navajo-legislator-legal/

2/24/2018 9:35:12 PM
ජනතාව සමඟ!
1/24/2018 8:44:57 AM
Was it my imagination or was that the cold shoulder... brrrr


no doubt now, eh (it is cold in here)
1/21/2018 2:28:56 PM
I have come to hate people in general.  I still have no clue as to why people act as the do.  You'd think at some point I'd have some understanding.
4/23/2017 12:36:46 PM
I wonder how many of these Lesbian Slaves, who violently shout "NO MEN!" repeatedly in their profiles are actually Lesbians or Slaves.  How many beautiful women, with no limits except men, truly exist. 

Oh in case you are one of these No Limits slaves who is an anti-male lesbian, where men are your limit, you're not no limits. 
4/17/2017 3:16:22 PM
Question: one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question. Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you.
4/13/2017 11:58:03 AM
No matter what
road I travel,
I'm going home.
3/13/2017 9:26:30 PM
It seems I need to be a pimp to get some of these ladies happy.  (At least four or more turned up in a search this evening, that's way more than usual.)
3/2/2017 5:47:48 PM
Okay, new fucking rule: This is for many of my friends, or people I thought would be friends. It is impolite to reply to many messages, with friendly replies, sometimes over the course of hours sometimes over the course of days; only to just stop all contact. CS is a fickle website, to say the least. Anyone on here for more than a few weeks has had the site freeze on them, and then not be able to return, sometimes for hours. It is difficult to tell, with a hopeful and romantic heart, if this is the condition of a conversation, or you just don't want to talk anymore. If you are not into me, just fucking say so, especially if we've chatted, flirted and communicated over hours or days, especially if we've gone off CS to Yahoo, or Google Hangouts,and share long hours of conversations. Just say something like "Hey, you're not for me." Sure I might get hurt, if I thought there was something there, but I'll get over it. It is way better than wondering what the fuck happened and me sending more than a few e-mails saying what's up for the next half a dozen times you are on before I can know for certain you've just flaked on the whole thing. Act like a friggin' adult, even if you are a 16 year-old-boy cat-fishing and trying to learn to be a dominant by copying my limited swagger (LOL). C'mon people, seriously...
3/1/2017 3:52:05 AM
¿ǝɯ ǝsɐɥɔ oʇ ǝuoʎuɐ ǝɹǝɥʇ sᴉ 'unɹ ʎǝɥʇ 'ǝsɐɥɔ I ˙ʎɹoʇs ǝɯɐs ǝɥʇ sʎɐʍlɐ sʇI ¿ɹǝɥʇoq uǝʌǝ I op ʎɥM
2/26/2017 1:18:52 AM
I just can't stop listening to her:  

https://youtu.be/-9pWXNi3EdU

I don't know why this song keeps getting stuck in my head
2/14/2017 9:32:43 PM
Well I survived Sepsis, so we'll see infection tries to kill me next.  I want to thank the writers of the ACA, it saved me a second time (insurance is better than no insurance).  4 days give or take in the Hospital; lots of Help,thanks to the good care at my local hospital.
12/24/2016 7:07:11 PM
So I got older, so what.
11/9/2016 12:42:06 AM
What the absolute FUCK!  How in the world did this happen?  Has everyone across the United States gone Bat Crap CRAZY!?
10/10/2016 9:43:09 AM
I still listen to this in YouTube mixes on occasion.  I can completely understand this entire song.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7RUeMCZL3Q&index=3&list=PLE8B2FF719E0A3FC9

I may no longer be young, but in many ways I am still an Anarchist, and setting the world on fire seems more and more reasonable as we approach Election Day.  I live in California though who has not had a say in an Election for perhaps ...ever.  Our votes have little to no impact.

(okay so I looked some things up, I guess California had a say in 1916 ... so ...)
10/7/2016 1:29:14 AM
I was in a bar one night and while you probably wouldn't call this an accident, because she was screaming...a couple were breaking up. She was yelling at him because he didn't want to buy her another drink, because lo and behold she was drunk and making an arse out of herself. To finish her tirade she scream in a high pitch annoying voice:
"...And every time we did it, I faked it!"
To which he looked at her deadpan and calmly asked:
"What makes you think I was doing you for your benefit?"
Drop mic. Walk off to applause and laughter!
8/30/2016 4:34:42 AM
So I message this girl .. her profile made her sound a little spoiled.  After two or three notes she asks for my Cell Number.  I ask her why, she wants proof I am who I say I am.  Now this is like the third message. 
I tell her honestly, that I don't have a cell phone.  It is by choice.  She calls me a liar and says everyone has a cell phone.  I choose not to have a cell phone.  I 've had one before, Hell I had one in the early 90's it's the size of a small folder.  I still Have it.  I had one when Nokia's were the big thing, unbreakable, hard little boxes of indestructible plastic. 
I never felt connected when I had a cell phone.  All my friends can't live without theirs.  I can't seem to find the need or want to have a phone of my own.  So I choose not too.
I also don't use my name in e-mails (more than my first name).  I have a half-dozen e-mail accounts even still an AOL e-mail.  So I am old fashioned, I even have a home line...
I just wonder why, some one thinks I don't have a Cell Phone I am not a real person.  I like to think I am more real, because when I am with someone, I don't have the constant need to check a Facebook, or Instagram or Twitter account (none of which I have). 
I like living this way. 
So sorry girl, I am still real, you are the fake plastic tree...
8/11/2016 12:02:13 PM
With the Olympics here ...
Wow ..just wow ...https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=17&v=2VX29jEkyhA
7/20/2016 1:50:10 PM
So admitting to having a sex drive can get you blocked.  It's not like the lady had any real cause other than her own misunderstanding.  When you try to talk intelligently and the woman just blocks you for conversation when you admit to enjoying sex ... what the hell ...
7/14/2016 7:49:46 PM
Saw this, thought people here might enjoy it as well

7/11/2016 2:26:17 AM
SO I asked a woman, I'd exchanged like two dozen e-mails over the course of months after she had asked to see me, I sent a photo, and then, when I asked to see her, desperate talk about wanking and pic collecting.  Really?  If I want to just get my rocks off, I will go to findtubes, and search for whatever I am in the mood for.  If I actually ask you for your photo, especially after you've received mine, I am not a collector.  Just wanting to see the face of the person I am chatting with.  I swear, so many here are so defensive.  I guess, I should know better ...
6/22/2016 12:48:58 AM
I wonder just how quickly the NRA would react to the gun problems if someone their offices were shot up by someone with a few too many guns.  Would that wake them up?  or would they still want everyone to be able to buy automatic guns without checks.  I am not advocating some one do this, I am asking if the problem hit close to home for them, would they still back guns for money for everyone?
4/11/2016 6:24:48 PM
http://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/news/court-hands-defeat-on-polygamy-to-family-from-sister-wives/ar-BBrCWST?ocid=spartanntp
3/16/2016 6:53:46 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kijpcUv-b8M
3/16/2016 3:23:17 PM
http://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/kinky-is-common-2016-3
2/28/2016 12:35:26 AM
another beautiful photo shared with me ... to share with my friends here

ancient body paint ancient body paint

1/17/2016 5:11:31 AM
A sleepless night turning to dawn with the company of music ... A song I had nearly forgotten about

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fD7fC0d3UY

1/17/2016 2:35:21 AM
Blue Cheese and Pineapple
Chicken, Mushrooms and Strawberries ... with a dash of brie
1/14/2016 11:12:05 PM
Saw this on MCS
thought my friends here would enjoy it too


12/25/2015 11:53:26 PM
There is a dull ache behind my eyes; it is a never ending persistent reminder of how much pain each day I accumulate.  This pain is not from a tumor; it is not from some viral infection coursing through my veins.  It is the dull reminder of every day life; a pain so powerful, yet familiar that I have nearly become numb to it.  I see the feigned sincerity on the faces of others, couples in love, who have not found their flaws in their mates, friends who some how ignore their acquaintances foibles.  A dull ache, persistent and enduring, never faltering to let me know I see the corruption, the relentless stupidity of trying to make a life worth living. 
It is like the day they turned down my thesis.  Now it is proven science, but when I offered the proof, it was ignored, scoffed and ridiculed.  Now it is heralded as the next steps in discovering the secrets of the universe …
It is like the day, when my own feigned sincerity, which I had given myself fully to the delusion of love … came crashing down upon me as she asked me to leave.  Forces beyond control pushed apart, and now decades later, the ache is just added to the building pressure forcing the pain to grow…
It is like remembering the first thought, the first real adult thought of your life, when you realized it is not just an illusion, but a streaming heaping pile of false faces persistently reminding us of our own mortality, our on finite existence in the face of billions of years of history …
It is like a thousand other similes, growing in weight and anger, never quite sharing the dull ache with others, just reminding of their own …
 
 
12/2/2015 1:34:29 AM

Anthropoides Ameriborealis

http://www.newsweek.com/sasquatch-and-bigfoot-meet-serious-science-87915

Holy smokes ...
11/24/2015 11:37:12 AM
So we found she is much more into the fantasy of being a slave, than the reality of play ...more or less actual service ... we'll be friends and fantasy indulgers, but not serious ... sorry sexy, you and I both know it isn't going to work out after this weekend ... I'll be here for you, when you need me
10/12/2015 3:31:32 PM
So ... Friday night we got together, we spent the night, and Saturday exploring.  We both hope that I can find another to join us.  Neither of us are sure that the two of us will get along in the long term.  We will see...


Took this test, some people ask me for my results, just editing this and saving the results here:

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Dominant
95% Master/Mistress
92% Rigger
88% Primal (Hunter)
87% Sadist
86% Degrader
84% Owner
69% Brat tamer
62% Daddy/Mommy
53% Experimentalist
42% Non-monogamist
41% Voyeur
26% Ageplayer
22% Vanilla
18% Exhibitionist
3% Masochist
1% Degradee
1% Girl/Boy
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Switch
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Submissive
9/21/2015 5:13:28 AM

So I sit here after having a long talk with a “slave girl” who wants to be used, and whore’d around.  She says, “I need many cocks to use me.”   Now is it me, or is that counter-intuitive for a slave.  If I wanted some one who just fucks around, wouldn’t I just pay for it myself?

When I asked her if she could be one man’s and please other women for him, she freaked out.  She actually appeared to get mad at me.  How silly is that?  I mean I understand serial monogamy.  I have practiced it most of my life.  I want something more.  My fondest memories are having two slaves in competition.  Sure I could be monogamous for the right slave… I have no doubt.  But mad because I suggest more women when you demand more men?

I guess another in a long line of mysteries on CS.  The woman who wants things her way who is a slave?

8/27/2015 8:04:50 AM
Its funny, I fall into too extreme for most, and no where near extreme for some of the really twisted here.  I find there are those who want simple bondage, sensual play, shy away from me, and the freaky people (who might really need counseling) and actually scare me, think I am tame. 
Seems a never ending struggle.
8/26/2015 3:00:40 AM
When will I learn.  So many people her wont chat more than a single day ... wont move past offers.  I should know better after the years of trying.


yet like a fool I keep trying, I keep coming back
7/20/2015 10:04:25 PM
Can you tell me why, conversations die?  and friendships fade?  Can there be a method to the pain and madness of this search, and its frustration?

This is not my Tumblr, I don't even have one.  I used this as a place to save this, and not even sure why.    http://degradingbitches.tumblr.com/
Kaykunt
 
 Age: 24
 O, Canada