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leashedgirl
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TheInstrument
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thatboysslave
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Brooklynite
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FunLondonGirl
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nicknloulou
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| Like you, we don’t update our profile often.
So when we do update, it’s quite an event in our household. These precious words don’t just tumble out of our heads, no sir!
We’ve delicately crafted together a narrative to manipulate you into reading our full profile and liking us. If you think you can resist our manipulative efforts, read on.
I’m Rich “hi!” and this is Ski “Labas!” (that’s Lithuanian for hello). Together, we are “RichAndSki”. Rich is 31, runs his own business, and leans towards the dominant dark side. Ski is 32, from Lithuania, is an architect, and leans towards “stuff that’s hot”.
We’re generally young, in good shape, and easy to be around. However, we’re the pickiest of pickled peppers about the people we play with. We like people youngish (under 40), attractive (the more symmetrical the better!), and with something in their personalities that we find interesting.
We’re open to subs, doms, switches, couples, and females…especially you females. We love alternative types, but it’s not essential. Shy corruptible types are fun too. Just have something about you that is mind-blowingly awesome, that’s all.
If you’re drop-dead dying to meet us, your best bet is to send us a message on here outlining your plans for world domination (more fun than a boring intro).
Alternatively, head out to the Camden crunch. You can usually find us on the dance floor (often on our own, curiously enough)…or not on the dance floor. We also go to the London U35 munches, both at the weekend and during the week.
If you're still reading this and foolishly believe you could tolerate us for a few more hours, get in touch.
Good luck. Seriously.
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In Melbourne at long last! |
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Currently in Washington, D.C. |
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Well, this could be a disaster. I feel like after beating back the hordes I'm now lighting a welcoming flame.
So, here is the deal. The wonderful Ski and I are a couple. Yesireee. A genuine couple. We sleep next to each other, have private jokes, hold hands and sometimes engage in devious behaviour.
However, even though we are a couple, sometimes...yes sometimes...we have kinky interests apart. Ski (an integral, unpoachable, member of this beloved couple) would like to find a dominant lady she can play and explore with.
Now, that dominant lady, might well be you. And if it is you (you wonderful sane, attractive, naturally dominant lady you!) then you're welcome to contact us.
This isn't a 'I have to be there watching for her safety' deal. It's an wonderful offer to be dom to a gorgeous girl.
It helps if you're attractive, assertive and have a nurturing demeanor about you. It also helps if you're fun, friendly and easy to get along with.
So, if this is you, and you want a young, cute, curvy, lady to play with - then get in touch. |
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We don't respond to a lot of the messages we get on here. We don't mean to be rude, we just don't want to have conversations with people we don't think has the potential to develop into a real relationship.
If you're outside of our age range, you're probably not going to get a reply. If you're a dominant or submissive single male, you're probably not going to get a reply. If your message is very short or uninteresting, you're probably not going to get a reply.
This isn't to suggest we're any more important than any of the above. It's that our time is limited, we only want to use that time with people who take an equal amount of time and care in their own approach.
We still love many of you, we just don't want to spend hours replying to every message we receive. Sorry. |
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Fantasies and scenarios.
Occaisionally we chat to people that have fantasies. That's cool, so do we. The problem we're running into is when these fantasties have developed into fixed scenarios. We don't want to be interchangable characters playing out a scenario you've created. We like to play based upon the personality and spark we have with you.
Is that clear?
For example, we don't do knife play or needles. Just not our thing. If you only want to do needles/knife play - we're not going to get far. However, if your fantasy is really about intense emotion, fear and trust then we can build upon that. We can develop that into play that involves those elements better than your scenario could.
In short, fantasies are great - fixed scenarios are bad.
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Have you heard the news? Collarme has just published some new rules:
1. You can't be owned by someone you haven't met in person.
2. You can't own someone you've never met.
3. People with usernames that include the words, princess, teenage, nigeria, xxx, financial, will be automatically escorted out of Collarme.
4. 18/19 year old submissive girls with just one photo will be removed.
5. The uglier the photo, the more likely the person will be real.
6. Anyone claiming to be from the UK/Europe with a photo showing American plug sockets will be publicly mocked.
7. Couples contain two people. These two people must have pictures of themselves - together!
8. If you're using professional pictures it's probably a good idea to say you're using professionally photographed pictures.
9. You can't talk your way into being a sub/dom to another. Either you're what they're looking for or you're not. If you get a rejection move on - plenty more profiles in the sea.
10. When someone gives you their e-mail address 'Google it'. If you can't find anything be suspicious. If you find they're not who they say, be even more suspicious.
11. Anyone giving a kink e-mail address ("HotMistress55 {at} yahoo {dot} com") rather than a normal e-mail address ("sarahSmith {at} yahoo {dot} com") is almost certainly a fake.
12. There will henceforth be a seperate category for professional dominatrix types and those willing to pay for them.
13. It's far better to reveal the names of people whom are genuine than the fakes.
14. They are a fake until they can prove otherwise.
15. YOU are a fake until you can prove otherwise.
16. The worst time to message a newcomer is when they're new. They're bombarded with messages. Wait a week..or a month.
17. A referral from someone you know is real is the best way to meet someone.
18. You may no longer delay a real time chat (phone, mic, cam etc...) for more than 72 hours.
19. You must now spend 5 minutes on every message you send. Each message must be completely personal to the person you're writing it too. Mention elements in their profile.
20. There is no chance you're going to move abroad to be with a someone you meet here, nor will they move over here. It's pure fantasy.
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Just moved to Notting Hill, drop us a line if you're local and want to meet up sometime.
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It seems a trend to list people that are fake. That's not very helpful is it? How about we instead discuss people who are real?
Here are a few we would vouch for (we've met them, seen them on camera or spoken to them via phone/voice).
- Bondageharem
- b4myperspective
- ageofhysteria
- Ryo3
- Meeper
- NewlysubmissiveF
- couple2babused
- ViolentDreams
- KarenDomme
- suprnova44
- thatboysslave
- Violently
- JohnandChi
That's all for now.
There are about another 50 we're 'very certain' are real. But we're being very strict with this criteria.
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Life is beginning to settle down a little in the last few weeks. We've found a place in London's Notting Hill to live and will be moving in at the end of February. Which also means we can accommodate from the end of Feb.
We also recently had a great meeting with a Domme (from another site, unsurprisingly). It wasn't our first time meeting someone as a couple, but it was our best experience so far. It was perhaps the first time we got the balance of personal connection with a great match of interests.
Keep your messages coming, it's great to hear from so many people. We're finally getting a core group of people we're chatting too on a frequent basis about kink - which was really the whole purpose of this anyhow.
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Beginning to doubt we will find anybody to meet while we're in New York.
In more positive news - NEW PICS!
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We'll be in New York City from June 29 to July 11. Drop us a line if you would like to meet.
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Moving back to the UK this in July.
Looking forward to being back.
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We're both back in the country, for now.
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I (Rich) am away in New York for 3 months on work. My girlfriend has always wanted to experience being submissive to another female, so I'm happy for her to pursue that.
So if there are any dominant women (up to about 30) looking for a very cute submissive girl to play with, then get in touch. She has a mic/cam and we can both prove our identities.
Bear in mind i'm in NYC, so there's a 5 hour difference for me. She's sill in the UK. |
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Another frustrating day. Someone we really liked has changed her mind.
Isn't anyone really interested in meeting up?
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Five sure-fire ways to spot a fake. It's not an exact science, but this might help.
1. The person is new to the site, between 18 - 30, with a single posed photograph which simply isn't a 'normal' photograph. Typically, any picture of a young girl that looks too good to be true, is too good to be true.
2. You have to 'earn' pictures (Usually via some sort of 'cam' performance)
3. Their name begins and ends with an 'x'
4. They struggle to send any vanilla photographs.
5. Refuse to chat on a microphone, or on the phone, or use a webcam. |
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Please don't arrange a time and a place to meet us and then not show up. It makes us very sad :(
It's perfectly ok if you change your mind, or perhaps even if you come up with an excuse for not meeting. But just not turning up, and not answering your phone - well that's just not nice! |
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It's really quite simple, just everyone seems to be making a hash of it.
So here's the deal, this site exists to connect people with an interest in bdsm (and sell advertising - but lets ignore that). The purpose of this website is that you can meet someone. The sole benefit is that you don't risk getting laughed at, or a slap, by suggesting it with a girl you know from the pub. Instead, you want to meet someone with the same bondage interests. That someone is someone you need to connect with. Maybe not sexually, but there has to be a connection there. This connection hopefully leads you to both exploring your shared interests.
Now, instead of focusing on telling everyone about your interests, why not focus on developing that connection. Begin building a good dialogue up, find out what the person is about, what they like (not in bdsm), what they enjoy, are they married? Do they want to be? Act like you've just met a friend of a friend and you're looking for a way to build a connection.
Got the connection? Great, now secure it with a lovely meeting (it should go without saying, but in a public place). Maybe a pub or a park. Have a sandwich, talk about yourselves and each other, find out what you're both looking for. NOW - begin talking about bdsm. Yes you might both get horny here.
The truth is that you might well 'get lucky' just trying to jump straight into play. You might get slapped about a bit and it might be great. But the odds are rather slim if you hardly know each other. However, if you find a great connection or two, then you're almost certainly onto a winner.
Have a nice day. |
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Ok, some quick advice. Don't message us with a massive list of all your bdsm interests/likes/dislikes/experience..and certainly not with nude photographs. Yes that stuff is important, but not as important as who you are. |
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I'm already doubting we'll find what we're looking for on here, but i'm hoping not everybody is like the first few I wont mention. |
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| Age: 20 |
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