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leazane
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| Just here to chat with friends really, but always turned on by engaging conversation.
Recent experiences have got me to explore topping and I'm loving it. I am much more an 'alpha sub' I'm told, but wanted to see what changing my tag here might open up. I have no desire to be a full time domme but am interested in exploring more flexible roles for a bit.
So far I've only been excited trying this role with women, sorry, but submissive men do little for me although I occasionally get the urge to torture a big cock lol. (I can be quite sadistic at times). I've also set my orientation to lesbian here to try to stem the constant stream of crap from men, although in real life I'm bi.
Some background: I broke up with my vanilla boyfriend at the end of last year a looooong time ago... and want to use my new freedom to explore. I've always loved looking at bondage porn and fantasies for years have been based around me being used and abused and kept as a slave, although as you can see exploring the top side of D/s is working for me now too.
As I said, I don't have much real life experience so I'm just trying to find out more at the moment, and learn. I'm very open to most things. I have extensive experience of roleplaying most bdsm fetishes in Secondlife but virtually no real experience. This means I'm actually pretty good at online things like setting tasks, creative scenarios, erotic writing, led masturbation and denial - all I stuff I love receiving and now am enjoying giving too.
I LOVE orgasm denial, often deny myself for days at a time, not chastity, but taking myself to the edge of orgasm and not letting myself cum. If you fancy trying that, and experiencing what it's like to be wet and aching and so horny you can't think about anything but sex I'd love to show you what I've learnt and control you that way.
Okay, overwhelmed by messages - just to clarify I'm only really interested in those under 40 I think, well for men anyway. And no, I don't want to chat if I don't know you. Thanks.
Good questions get responses, dull ones get blocked.
If you try to add me as a friend and I don't know you, you'll be blocked. If you start a chat without asking me, you will be blocked, and if you don't know the difference between 'your' and 'you're' or 'there' 'their' and 'they're' you will, be blocked.
Asides from that, have at it! ;)
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Her: My dom said the next time we have the house free he would treat me like a proper slave
Me: what, make you build pyramids?
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When you just don't know what to say...
Sometimes conversations can be more than uncomfortable:
Susie says:
can i be honest with you
Julie says:
of course you can!
Susie says:
since we have spoken many weeks ago
i have grown so fond of you i really have and yes i am falling in love with you, i did not want to but i cannot help it, i do love you
Julie says:
really?
Susie says:
YES
Julie says:
wow
i don't know what to say
One of two things is happening here, either Susie genuinely fell in love with me, after three weeks, and never having met, well, never having even been able to call and prove she was real; or she was using love as an attempt to control me.
I'm not sure which is worse, or more pathetic...
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Signs of a psycho:
Most fakes out there are just stupid and a waste of time, but some are genuinely dangerous...
If anyone demands you cut ties with other people early on, tell them to get lost - they aren't real, they are insecure, pathetic losers at best, dangerous fakes at worst.
No one who wanted a genuine relationship of any kind will require this until you've made real connection with them and are ready to make a real commitment - and even then, most good tops aren't threatened by you having contact with others. If they could base a relationship on anything but lies and fear it wouldn't be an issue.
Check out this recent conversation with what I can only describe as a sociopath:
Fake domme: Do you want me to be your Mistress yes or no
curiousjulieuk: I think so, but I think we need to talk first, it's been a long time since we did
Fake domme: well a few things first... you change your profile, and also back to a slave the we talk
Fake domme: take it or leave it
curiousjulieuk: we need to talk before that. I'm just heading out to a lecture but maybe we can speak later. It would be good to talk on the phone perhaps too. Sorry I have to rush off.
Fake domme: we will go no where
Fake domme: until your profile has been done
curiousjulieuk: why?
Fake domme: I said so
Fake domme: thats why
Fake domme: you want me you will do this
Fake domme: you do not want me then i go
curiousjulieuk: It's not that easy, I'm involved with someone now, it's a big decision. I want to talk it through first. If I do this it needs to be done properly.
Fake domme: then you get rid of them
Fake domme: easy
Fake domme: has any contrat been signed
Fake domme: between you and them
Fake domme: yes or no
curiousjulieuk: She's not a domme
Fake domme: and you will get rid of ALL subs and dommes
curiousjulieuk: I have to run, I will tell you more later, I promise
curiousjulieuk: she's not a sub either, well. ,kind of
Fake domme: i wil not be here sorry, we are not going to talk, you get rid of her and others.. then we will talk and on phonr not before...now if you have not signed a contract with her then it does not exist...you will get rid simple
Fake domme: i have 8 years of being a Mistress you have had 5 minutes.... now you want me, you do this
Clearly this fantasist is a nutjob, 8 years of sitting in their mum's basement wanking is all the experience they are likely to have. If you can stand back and laugh at people like this, then it's quite amusing, but if you're earnestly seeking control it can be all too tempting to go for something like this, despite your gut feeling.
BELIEVE YOUR INSTINCT - they are, and will always be, bad news (and probably fake if they claim to be female).
And remember, I can't say this often enough, if they claim to be female but can't cam or provide a photo personal to you (i.e. with a note that is obviously not fake) 'SHE' is a 'HE'
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Consensual blackmail - I want to try!
Okay, so my friend has a sub who has consented to being blackmailed, she's got her personal details plus contact details for friends/relatives. That, plus some compromising pictures means the sub is truly at her mercy, as if she doesn't do what she's told, the family find out all her dirty secrets.
I LOVE this idea. I'm very inventive and really want to try controlling someone like that. This is just about play though, nothing financial, it's about doing dirty, humiliating tasks for me to laugh at and get off on.
My preference is for other women as I've done lots of tasks myself and have the most ideas around that, but if you're a guy you can try to convince me.
If you're interested in the idea, no pressure, but drop me a message and we can explore the idea, as I really want to do this.
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Just wrote this advice to someone who just joined yesterday from my few months here now, thought others might find it useful, although it's all pretty obvious if you've been here any time at all.
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Here are some useful rules:
1. The majority of people here aren't real doms or subs, they are just after kicks, which is fine, until they pretend to be something they're not. There's a good article about the 'acid test' for that here that people have pointed me to a few times: http://www.askdollie.com/acid_test.htm
Hell, I'm not sure what I AM, but I'm upfront about it so I hope that's okay.
2. Most, and yes, I mean more than half, of the women on here, are actually men. Both subs and dommes, yep, it's fucked up, I have little idea why they do it, but in my experience it's easily that ratio.
Which leads to...
3. Simply don't believe anyone is for real unless they will prove it, personally I make them write something on themselves and send a photo. It's not 100% but that along with intuition is pretty good. Getting people to cam, if they will, is of course even more certain (but even then can be faked, get them to do something specific, like hold three fingers up). If they even suggest they don't have a camera or their computer can't do it for some bullshit reason, they are a GUY.
4. Keep your real life completely separate. Don't give people anything lets them figure out your real life details - because it can quickly go from safe messing around online to psychostalkerville. And people are SMART, it's not just avoiding giving your number or real name, it's stuff like which school you went to, or the university PLUS course you're studying - do that and suddenly they can, if they are nuts, find you. I personally avoid using the real names of any friends or family just in case they google them and got a hit. My advice, and what I've done is create a completely separate identity for collarme, i.e. new email address, messenger, etc
5. Use mail controls - I personally send all messages from guys to bulk mail, that doesn't mean I don't read them, just I get SO many each day from idiot doms and sub guys that they clog up my messages, so I send them all there to just keep a bit of control. You can now read messages in the inbox just by hovering your mouse over the top of it, which is great because if it's some shite, just tick the box next to it and delete it, and they get 'deleted unread' as it's status, which stops all but the most persistent arseholes. |
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So, topping is fun! I'm enormously enjoying my journey on the topside, have won myself an absolutely adorable milf slave who is everything I could have hoped for in someone to explore my dominance and in future, sadistic side.
I'm also taking a much more upper role when playing with my sub friends, which we're all finding quite amusing, and pretty damn hot.
If you fancy playing, nothing too serious, exploring your sub side with someone who doesn't care to much about rules but is loving exploring creative dominance and would get off on making you do things, hit me up. It'll be online with tasks set for real life on the whole - and girls are far more likely to get a response, already inundated with sub guys (and dom guys wanting to be sub to me, wtf is that about?)
Mwah
Julie xxx |
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Bored, and needing a cock...
...to torture.
It's been nine months since I last got laid and for some reason today the thought has crossed my mind that I fancy torturing one to make me feel better.
Some of my girlfriends think this is a great idea so I'm going to have a competition.
Prize: Some sadistic teenage girls will spend a good amount of time directing the torture of your cock, with you on cam.
We aren't interested in you, just your cock and you doing what we tell you with it. Whether your face appears on cam is up to you. It will be very painful and humiliating.
If you perform well we might even give you some pictures of us, but you'll have to be amazing. No, we will not be on cam.
How to win:
Sorry boys, size matters. We want a big one for this. Having toys to torture yourself will be a bonus, and we'd all love to see a chastity device in use. The fitter the rest of your body the better. If you're really fat, don't bother.
How to enter
If you think you have what it takes you need to take a picture of your cock with 'julie' written on it. Send that to me with 'Cock toy entry' as the first line and accompany your entry with why you think you'd make a good winner.
This is a one off thing but if we all have fun, who can say. And no, none of us want to be your mistress, slut.
Feminine TVs also very welcome! |
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Trying changing my tag to 'switch' today to see what happens. I've been told I'm very much an alpha sub, but that wasn't what I assumed it was. Here is the summary I was asked to find as a research task:
“What’s an alpha sub you ask? As easy as it is to explain, it is also difficult. We are not, as you might expect, the ‘leader of the pack’ of submissives but we can be. What we are, is in the forefront. We stand out. We make ourselves noticed. We are hardheaded, stubborn to fault, independent, yet needing firm control. We dont like decisions but we do want input. We challenge and expect challenges given to us. We have no qualms about stating our opinion, whether anyone agrees or not, or even if it is not our Sir’s thinking. But we will obey, we are not brats. We are intelligent, always wanting to learn, explore."
It sums me up very well. |
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like everyone i've been had by fakers, so if you are getting to know me PLEASE don't be offended by me asking for a picture proving you are who you say you are. I will happily do the same, but if you can't, i will believe you are fake. Sorry. Everyone has a camera nowadays. |
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ok, someone made the good point guys often need to be a bit older to be experienced in this, so if you are older that's okay but you need a pic, i'm never going to be into you if you're not fit, sorry
can i also add, loving to hear from women, i've only had a little experience in that but want more |
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Hi everyone, thanks for all the messages. Lots of people asked for my location so I've narrowed it down to the Thames Valley... and also I added a new pic. |
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| Age: 26 |
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