it has been brought to my attention that maybe i wasn't so clear. i keep my puppies as pets only. they are normal everyday pets not kinky in any way, shape or form.

wow, what a whirlwind of a month! I got myself a new puppy, and i've planted my garden. both of my puppies have been sick, thankfully they are on the mend. found a new job, and it seems like life is in full swing again. sorry to the friends i've made, if i've had delayed responses, i truly hope you are doing good.

You do not impress me with requests to watch you masturbate. Sorry, it's really not that impressive. If it turns you on, cool, but not this chick. Hell if I wanted that I could watch a porn. lol I'm here to learn, to obsorb knowledge. Not watch some dude beat off to a camera.

Has anyone actually seen Brulesque yet? I love music, I've always loved music. From ballet to opera, to a good theater production, all will capture my attention. And trying to talk to me, is like trying to snap someone out of a trance. But oh wow.... the music and the costumes and the sex appeal! I couldn't take my eyes from the screen. the whirling costumes and lights.... part of me would love to drop everything and give the stage a go..... but for now, I'm sitting here humming the music in my head.

Sir/Ma'am

Both signs of respect. Respect which I will give upon first meeting. After I have learned more about someone, I will decide if they truly deserve the respect or if I have given it to them upon curtesy.

I have found the older gentlemen on this site tend to be the most respectful when venturing to email me. This is highly appreciated. There is much to be learned from an older generation.

The middle range has left soemthign to be desired in the form of manners. There being exceptions as always to every rule.

The younger generation is a mix. Some respectful and others overly confident.

Respect is given where it is due. Do no demand respect from me at first meeting. This shows me that you have no respect for a sub, and therefore you will never be someone I am interested in talking to. To whomever I spoke with early, I gave my respect willingly. To go back and demand I capitolize it. Fuck off. I served my country in the military. I have learned to respect those who deserve it, and those with a title. Because you're little stupid status says dom, is not a title I respect. I respect people on this site. And people alone. A dom is nothing without their sub. I AM NOT YOUR SUB. Get over yourself and approach me with respect. If you cannot I have found that you in no way, shape or form respect me. Or the life I have spent my time fighting for in the military.

In the future. Kindly do not make demands of me. I am under no obligation to serve you. Nor am I under obligation to feel bad if I do not choose to follow the demands you make.

I always wondered what caused a dom to be a dom and a sub to be a sub. I'll be honest, looking through the profiles on this site, a lot of the so called doms, are nothing more than ignorant brats who think the whole world revolves around them. Some of the slaves or subs on here are nothing more than insecure people who need a diva's attention and approval to feel complete. Shouldn't a real dom/sub relationship be one of mutral respect. Lets face it. A dom is nothing without someone to sub. And while sub's can function without a dom they find great pleasure in giving someone else pleasure.

Just a thought....

Still figuring out all the acronyms on this site. It's confusing. I feel like I'm learning a whole new language. Well in a way it is.. it's a body language. Please if you're going to say hello would you mind helping me out? I'm really shy and find it hard to start a conversation. Although when I warm up, I'm fine.

This is day one.... i'm really curious about everything. thanks to my neighbor for sharing stories. i'm really just hoping to find people willing to share good/bad experiences, and kinda help me understand. it's definitly different from what i'm used to. kinda nice to know not everything is taboo.