I've been here before. Mostly here to chat. The chances of finding someone here who isn't fake, deletes their profiles, or lies through their teeth are about the same as me hitting the PowerBall and sleeping with Shakira and the US Women's National Soccer Team all in the same evening.
And look, if you're here looking for a 'financial' situation, I'm going to kick your ass off real quick. If you're here because you're some sick twisted twit into daddy/little girl stuff, you have serious issues, and you need to go elsewhere for them.
I've been in this lifestyle for 20 years. I'm much more laid back than most people, and I have a different approach to the lifestyle and the people. I give as much respect as I am given. I don't kiss anyone's ass because they claim to be a dominant, a lord, a king, or whatever. I am extremely kind, open minded, and easy to get along with, until I see games getting played or silliness ensuing.
I don't believe because a woman is 'submissive', that makes her a slave. I don't believe because a woman is a 'slave', that makes her a doormat that should be beaten half to death, stripped of her skin, and tossed in a box when I'm done with her. I'm also not into this 'new age' crap of guys, or women, figuring, hey, I'm an asshole/bitch, I can just treat another person like shit 24/7 and be as rude, evil, and fucked up as I like, and it's normal in this lifestyle. No, it isn't. It just means you're an abusive type personality who can't figure out a relationship, vanilla or D/s, involves 2 people, with mutual respect on both parts to make things work. But most of you quit reading at 'ensuing', so I highly doubt you'll understand the rest either.