Unfortunately some here have made the following necessary: Guys, most of you have made it so obvious in your initial messages that you are not a true Dom, much less a decent vanilla that anyone would want to date. On other social media I am actively helping to bring people like to you the surface to less experienced subs by helping them navigate these murky vetting waters. So please, keep messaging me and I'll keep logging your information, using your disgusting advances as examples of what subs who are just finding their footing need to avoid.

Now that's out of the way, I hope those of you still reading get a better idea of the kind of person I am. I care about people, probably more than I care about myself. Everything I do in my life, career, personal life is all to help people either in the areas of mental health and emotional wellness, drug addiction recovery, to helping people find their strengths and weaknesses to better help them on their career path, I also teach people how to cook for themselves and their families.
Some have asked what I am looking for, the type of Dom I want. I really don't know how to answer that other than to say that being a natural submissive I need a natural Dom. I want a natural relationship, I don't have to be trained, I need someone to learn who I am naturally and let me be me. I have always been submissive and serving in my relationships, and as a result I was taken advantage of and treated badly. My submission has to come from me, not pulled out of me. I will know when I am needing to give control, when He has demonstrated that I can and need to trust his lead. That's what D/s is for me, it is leadership in the form of control out of love.

He should be between the ages of 35 and 50 and not want any (more) children
He should be intelligent, because I cannot feel that I need to dumb myself down and I want to learn and be in wonder of my man and the things in which he has an interest and passion. He should have a sense of humor and take life on a balanced scale of seriousness and humor. I am a goofball who loves a deep conversation. I need my brain stimulated before anything else can be affected.
He should be spiritual or at the very least accept that I am Buddhist and all that entails in terms of my journey of enlightenment and wholeness.
He should have his own life together for the most part. I am a single mom and cannot/will not get involved with someone I will have to support financially.
He should be a man someone like me can respect, admire and trust.
He should be patient with me because my walls are high, I am a real person, and this is real for me.
He should be honest - the kind of honest that is embarrassing to admit because He doesn't even know how to tell a lie anymore.
He should love food. Picky eaters not apply.