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Regardless of how snippy my profile sounds, if you happen to take a look, I welcome emails from all those who are polite and respectful of me as a person and as a woman.
While I am the F in a MFM triad, This profile mostly covers me, because it's an older one, recently adapted.

I apologise in advance if the following sounds a bit snarky, but I've had enough negative experiences to feel it necessary:

1. Before you message me, read my ENTIRE profile, please.

2. Be literate and able to read and write English, not this cyber-shorthand crap.

3. Emails or IM's that begin with "U R hott" or variations thereof will simply be ignored, as will emails or IM's that have no substance.

4. Be prepared to tell me something about why you messaged me, and PLEASE have at least SOME profile information available. I will extend the same courtesy to you.

5. I'm only interested in Dominants as potential FRIENDS.... NOT potential PARTNERS. I have tried that road, and submission is a mental sidestep that is closed to anyone but my Alpha. End. Of. Story.

And finally:

6. Something else I guess I need to spell out:
I. Do. Not. Do. MARRIED. If you're married, don't bother contacting us. I may be many things, but homewrecker is not one of them. I will not help you cheat nor will I be your discreet plaything on the side. End. Of. Discussion.

Furthermore: I am disabled. The large black dog in my pictures is my service animal. He is as essential to my wellbeing as a seeing eye dog is to his handler. Deal with me, and you have to deal with him as his is by my side at all times. I have also recently added a second service dog, one who is much smaller and less intimidating when we're in public. No, I do not have sex with them. No, I won't allow you or your slave or anyone else to have sex with either of them.

If you can follow these simple requirements, please do read on.
I am the female in a MFM polyfi V, one of whom is a healing Dominant, my wonderful and loving Alpha, the other is mostly vanilla and has health problems. :( My Alpha brings out the submissive in me, but he also makes me feel at ease with the more dominant side of my personality. We operate as partners when playing as dominants. My Alpha takes the lead, but we are both dominant when playing with another.

Phoenix has short dark brown hair and wonderful expressive whisky brown eyes. He's the cutup and smart-ass of the Family. He really ought to be doing stand-up, as he regularly keeps us in stitches with his improv humour. I'll be getting a photo of him up one of these days.
Jamey is very, very vanilla, and the quiet, serious one. His photo IS up here, posing with me.

I am a Witch.


After several years of abuse (some pretty brutal) within a "lifestyle" relationship, I need to shovel clear a lot of shit that got piled into my head. My tastes aren't exactly vanilla, but I need to rediscover the joy the lifestyle used to give me. I found a partner and friend, lover and playmate, who can help me to find that joy again.


We hope to be the proud Owners of nkedslve69 very soon. I consider myself to be truly blessed to have him in our lives.

I still enjoy sense play, and I am a sensualist, not a sadist. I enjoy all that is pleasuarable, sensual... massage with hot oils, steaming hot baths and being washed by a gentle hand... my hair being washed with massage to my scalp... :) and my play style is similar. I love to blindfold and play with those other senses. Touch (is that a sharp knife, or a REALLY cold butterknife?) *FYI, since I don't actually do knifeplay, it probably IS a REALLY COLD butterknife* smell, taste, sound... I can and will play on all of them.


I am open to suggestions for other play, so long as it remains within the sensualist realm.


If you're not close enough to meet in person eventually, don't bother. I'm not interested in cyber or that most frustrating of situations, LDR's.

I'm generally relaxed and easygoing, and love to be around people, though often too shy to talk to 'em. I'm something of a free spirit. I enjoy doing unusual things. I'm not into the typical bar or date scene, preferring a kayak tour or a ghost walk to the standard movie.

I'm creative, emotional, a dreamer and a closet romantic. I enjoy walking, especially if water or a historic area is involved; long talks over hot drinks, and just being with the people I care about. I hope some of this strikes a chord of interest. I'd love to meet people who enjoy getting out and doing things!

YIM: feral_justice (but please tell me who you are here when sending your initial IM)

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5/16/2014 4:50:41 AM

You know what pisses me off? Women who say they're looking for Dommes, or Dom/Domme couples, and when someone like me who operates in tandem with a Dom as a fellow Dom emails them, they just IGNORE you.

 

Not even a thanks, but no thanks.

 

It's rude and inconsiderate.


3/18/2014 7:09:49 AM

This is so not FAIR! I keep getting perved by people I'd LOVE to meet/get to know, and they're all so far AWAY! Up North. Texas. West Coast. Even the UK and Oz!

 

This sucks.


3/16/2014 2:54:04 PM

Okay another pet peeve: people who want to add you to their circle of friends when they don't even know you!


3/10/2014 8:21:36 AM

Okay, people. I am only going to say this ONCE:

 

IF YOU DON'T READ MY PROFILE, AND YOU MESSAGE ME, I WILL BLOCK YOU IMMEDIATELY.

 

How will I know? If you ask a dumbass question which is answered in my profile/


11/17/2013 7:22:27 PM

Thank you, guys. All of you. I can’t say this enough. I was raised by a Marine, so I know what your service is worth. I’ve loved and respected you guys all my life for the courage you show by putting on that uniform. 
What I never understood, until tonight, is the much greater courage you show when you take OFF that uniform and return to the civilian world that’s become an alien landscape to you. I saw some programs tonight that highlight the difficulties returning vets face. Families who have become strangers. Children who only know you as a photo Mommy hugs at night and cries. Friends who have moved on and forgotten who you were, and don’t understand who you are now.
Guys, I salute you. Your immense courage has been highlighted for me tonight. The real, very real, risks you take. Not only of dying in combat, but worse, of becoming strangers to your own homeland. You humble me.
You deserve so very much more than the simple thanks we give you each year. However, because we as civilians simply can’t understand you, we call you heroes, and we thank you as best we can. 
Families, I should not forget you. The parents and spouses who stay home and mind the fort, never knowing when your loved ones will come home, or how long they can stay until the next deployment. Siblings who may not understand, but who still give your support. Children who still love Mommy or Daddy, no matter what. Thank you, also, for the sacrifices you make, and may all your loved ones come home.
Thank you will have to serve, to all of you, for a sacrifice we can’t grasp, and a lifetime you have lost in just a few years. Bless you, and may the Divine hold you and keep you sane. May your faith never be broken past redemption, and may your memories never fade in our hearts. 


11/24/2012 2:07:10 PM

Hell for that matter, these days I don't even manage once a week, it may be a couple weeks between email checks.... so just hang in there and bear with me! No 'net from the house... kinna sux and during the holidays, the local college library's hours are ALL mucked about! ARGH!


11/27/2011 11:43:16 AM

For those of you who email me and don't get an answer right away: I don't check my email daily. Sometimes, due to circumstances, I only check it once or twice a week. So if you don't hear from me, just be patient. I'm not ignoring you.


4/12/2010 5:23:01 PM
You know one thing that irks me (and I'm sure, other submissive women as well!) to no end?

So-called "Dominant" asshats who can't be bothered to read a girl's profile before sending her a cookie-cutter bulk email.

If you, D-type, are that desperate that you're firing out bulk emails to every semi-submissive female profile you see, then you are SO not the Dominant for me (or any other submissive woman).

Show some confidence in yourself, read the entire profile, and for Gods' sake, write a personal, personalized, REAL email! You might find yourself getting more replies than the basic "Screw off" response the cookie cutter emails get.

2/21/2010 11:56:34 AM
You know what's REALLY frustrating? Everybody I look at who looks interesting has "ass play" in either lives for, loves or likes... and it's MY hard limit. 

Damn.

4/11/2009 2:58:19 PM
Recently released from my collar. NOT INTERESTED IN AQUIRING ANOTHER!!! Show some respect, folks, and don't even try.

8/9/2008 12:52:47 PM
Is there ANYBODY in Augusta? Augusta, Georgia, that is. Anybody around here who wants to get out and do something? Who's like me and hates doing stuff alone? Who'd like to get together and just hang out, do stuff?

6/25/2008 9:12:57 AM
Hope is what gets me out of bed in the morning, and helps me sleep at night. It's the one thing I can always count on not to abandon me or forget me.... it's in the cold heart of winter and the tyrannical heat of summer. It's in the new green shoots of a tentative spring, and even in the last falling leaf of autumn. Hope is what I cling to when all else is gone, in the depths of the seemingly endless nights. Hope is the light that gets me through the darkness of my despair, and hope is what never lets me forget that there is good in the world. Hope keeps the breath in my lungs and the beat in my heart. Hope is why I continue to risk loving, even when I feel doomed to fail.

5/24/2008 2:38:58 PM
You know something that baffles me? All the subs out there saying they want an "real", or an "authentic" D-type to serve. My question is, what's real? What's authentic? I'm a switch and I know I pull off Dominance well, but only in the short term. However I know D-types who treat their pets like people most of the time, and only as pets in the bedroom. Is this any less real than one who treats you like nothing 24/7? What is "real"?

4/22/2008 2:19:10 PM
I really wish people would make an effort to have at least a minimum of profile available before they bother other users. It's quite, quite annoying to get a email (usually 1 -5 words) and check their profile in hopes of finding more, only to discover they can't be bothered to put up anything that might make me think that responding to them would be worthwhile. Why do they even bother?

4/12/2008 9:55:02 AM
Have you ever stepped outside to go check the mail in a summer rainstorm, and DANCED on your way to the mailbox?

Have you ever danced on the beach to the rythm of the raindrops during a lightning storm? Raced the wind along the sands? Felt the thunder of a horse bareback beneath your thighs?

Have you ever laid on your belly in the grass and stared into the heart of a dandilion? Watched a parade of ants and wondered where they've come from? Chased minnows in a mountain lake?

Have you ever sat outside on a summer evening, and listened to the frogs sing in a nearby pond? Ever wonder what they're saying?

Have you laid on your back in a open field, and lost yourself in the stars? Watched a barn owl hunt? Dreamed you could fly, yourself?

Have you ever wondered what really is at the end of the rainbow? Watched a sunset in silent awe?

Do you remember what it's like to see the world through the eyes of a child?

4/12/2008 9:53:38 AM
I GOT THE JOB I GOT THE JOB I GOT THE JOB!

4/10/2008 3:22:23 PM
I just got done with my third and final audition/interview for the hotline job yesterday. It went VERY well, the lady gave me excellent feedback, and I really enjoyed what I was doing. I did my usual thing of reaching past the surface and seeing things nobody else picks up on, which was Good For Me.

YAY!

*happynekkidpagansnoopydance*


2/25/2008 8:00:24 AM
I will always remember those rescue workers who died going UP the stairs, some a 2nd or 3rd time, into the Holocaust that was the World Trade Center on 9/11. They were heroes, not because they were just doing their jobs, but because of the jobs they chose to do.

They chose to stand on a line, to become the wall between us and harm. There's a quote from "A Few Good Men": "Because they stand on a wall and say nothing is going to hurt you tonight, not on MY watch"..... except they don't stand on a wall, they ARE the wall. They place themselves, their bodies, their lives, between America and those who wold cause her harm.

I started this post thinking of the WTC and other rescue workers, but I think it applies to ALL who serve in and out of uniform. There are rescue workers, SAR volunteers in the Rockies who get no pay.... our military, police, and firemen, ambulance workers and medical personnel... they all deserve to be remembered. By all of us, each and every day, not just when the news reminds us of them.

And for their courage, their sacrifices, I salute, support, and remember them. Forever.

1/28/2008 12:58:05 PM
Still smoke free, WEEE!
I passed a major test last Wednesday. I got stuck at the Atlanta bus terminal for FIVE DAMN HOURS! I was pissed, I was stressed, I was not a happy camper, but I DIDN'T have a smoke.
I kinna wish someone had offered me a snort of booze, though. My poor nerves were SHOT.

12/26/2007 8:55:54 AM
I QUIT I QUIT I QUIT!!!!!   

It's been a month as of the 29th of December since I quit smoking. *happydance*

12/24/2007 11:35:27 AM
From my journal on another site:

In response to To those who do not reply to messages...

by husker_dude

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IMPORTANT! After several weeks on this site, I feel the need to say this... If I send you a message, not a "woo", but a real message, that means I have actually read your profile and found something to
comment on. It also means I have compared our answers to things, and that you are a high percentage match to me, not just a pretty face. For you to not acknowledge that effort in any way is just rude. So what if I'm 5, 10 or 15 years older than you? If that bothers you, then hit the reply button and say "thanks but no thanks" That's all it takes. Like Ben Harper & The Innocent Criminals say in their new song, "I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not." (Climbing down off of soap box)
OTOH, I agree with him. A simple "Not interested, sorry" is only POLITE. At least if the email is obviously an effort made and not one of those damned scam bulk mails.
It annoys me, too, to send a message where I make an effort and I just get ignored. This time of year I tend to cut people slack because of the holidays but it REALLY irks me when I send an email, not a woo, and I can see where they've looked at my profile and not even bothered to tell me no thank you!

11/23/2007 10:34:33 AM

Some thoughts on submission I worked out a couple of days ago:

Q: What is submission?

A: Different things for different people. For me, I think it's a desire to be protected and guided, on a deeper level than a lot of today's independant women desire. I have a deep need for guidelines, rules. I need to know exactly what is expected of me, to have it spelled out. Submission is also about respect, mine for him and his for me. It's about being accepted for what I am, and being taught what more I am capable of being.

Q: Why do you submit?

A: For me, I'd have to say it's.... the sense of safety and comfort in knowing the rules and consequences. All my life I've been subject to rules and consequences that shift on a whim. I like knowing that once the rules have been agreed on, they won't change just because Red wants to. I submit out of love, as well as respect and a desire to be taught, trained and molded into being someone we're both proud of.

Q: What does submission mean to you?

A: Submission means a chance to explore my self, in ways I can't do any other way, a safe place to release control to another and allow him to guide me, to teach me that my limits may be there for a reason, but that even so they can be safely stretched. To be with someone who understands my limits, why they are what they are, and how to approach pushing me past them in a way that doesn't terrify me.

9/15/2007 10:12:48 AM
Well, after almost two years with my Sir, whom I love deeply, it is becoming apparent to me that he has some desires it simply isn't in me to meet fully. I DO try but. You know how it is. Therefore, I"m seriously considering seeking a playmate. A painslut who really enjoys anal sex would be perfect. My Red is simply.... well, a bit on the sadistic side and he really loves anal. I haven't really decided yet, because while I want his needs met, I"m VERY leery of sharing because of some history. So.... we shall see.

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mistressolivia4
 
 Age: 32
 Madison, Wisconsin