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I am an experienced submissive bottom, and am in search of a female Top/Dominant (maybe even a
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Male Submissive, 59,  Albuquerque, New Mexico

 

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 bosquebottom

 Submissive Male

 Albuquerque 

 New Mexico

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 290 lbs

 59

 Hispanic

 12/05/16

 02/19/18

Actively Seeking:

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I am an experienced submissive bottom, and am in search of a female Top/Dominant (maybe even a switch) for either a LTR or to just be of service and a play partner on a non live-in basis. I'm single, mature, live alone in a quiet, private, semi rural home. I'm retired and have a very flexible schedule. I can be available most days and eves on fairly short notice. I'm seeking a Top that enjoys bdsm play on a regular basis. I am searching for a Dominant that is skilled and confident and I'm willing to have my limits explored and pushed.


 


I'M NOT INTERESTED IN (as in HARD limit):


24/7, slavery, cuckold, swinging


Humiliation, face slapping, female supremacists (man haters, name callers)


So called Financial Dommes (like I'm dumb enough to give you all of my money)


Watersports, piss play, scat, toilet play, diapers, rimming (I'm very, very selective as to whose ass I'll lick)


Fireplay, branding, cutting, blood play


Writing assignments from Dominant, for sex stories to masturbate to (really)?!


Age play, furries,


I'm not compatible with indoor smokers or vapers, so if you're a chain smoker it's just not going to work.


 


I'm aware that living in the Southwest means that kinky folks are spread out, but I love road trips and short non-stop flights and am happy to travel to visit you. I can easily drive within New Mexico and up to a 300 mile radius from Albuquerque. I can also easily fly to: Dallas, Denver, Phoenix, Tucson, and Las Vegas.


 


I'm interested in meeting a mature and experienced woman over the age of 48, with no upper age limit. I'd like to be compatible with my partner and enjoy her company. It would be nice to meet a companion close to retiring or already retired, as it would be nice to find a traveling companion. I'm a good cook, and keep a neat and tidy house. I enjoy gardening and am fairly handy around the house with hand and power tools. While I enjoy quiet nights at home making dinner, discussing current events, reading, or watching a movie together, I also enjoy getting out of the house for: live performances, theater, and music, a variety of cultural events, sightseeing, easy day hikes, going to the movies, exploring dining experiences (Asian, European, Mexican, delis, diners, humble walk-up windows, and nicer white linen eateries). I'm not a gambler and could care less about the newest glitzy casino, I don't drink alcohol or smoke, use recreational drugs, or use Rx pain meds daily. But I'm OK if you occasionally enjoy, in moderation, a few drinks or wine, or indulge in 420. But if you're daily drinker or enjoy getting drunk, or get high every day then I'm not the guy for you.


 


While I'm open to many aspects of SM, impact play is by far my favorite. So for me, it's primarily spankings (hand and with implements) followed by flogging. I've been trained as an ass whore and crave dildos and fisting. I also really enjoy providing oral service, pussy and anus (but you must be clean - no scat!), in that regard I can enthusiastically provide marathon sessions. I think I'm really good at providing enthusiastic and caring oral service (but I'm sure most guys would say the same too).


 


My dream woman would be a strict and severe Dominant that believes in regular training sessions and would push my pain limits. I've had a wide variety of s/m experiences that I've enjoyed bottoming for, but have found that I crave submitting to a Dominant that enjoys impact play. Someone that enjoys using her sub on a regular basis. If you aren't interested in blistering my ass cheeks red on a regular basis, then we probably won't be a good match. I long for the dynamic of a strong Dominant coaxing me to let go and suffer for her pleasure.


 


I'm open to and actually prefer a LTR, but an occasional/regular play-only friendship is OK too since skilled female dominants are too rare a treasure not to accommodate. Though for me, a live-in relationship is not something I enter into quickly.  I enjoy a wide variety of D/s or SM relationships, including play only-no sex or full on LTR that includes kink and vanilla. It all depends on the person and what we can give to each other. That said I'm NOT a candidate for slavery, swinging, or cuckold relationship. About finances, your money is yours and none of my business, but if you need to take over and control my finances you're a lazy thief and scam artist and you can just pass me by. I'm a traditional kinda guy and expect to pick up the check for dinner and entertainment. But if we're taking a two-week trip to Europe or Mexico then I'd expect you to contribute towards your travel expenses.


 


(Yes I need to repeat this) HARD LIMITS:


24/7, slavery, cuckold, swinging


Humiliation, face slapping


So called Financial Dommes (like I'm dumb enough to give you all of my money)


Watersports, piss play, scat, toilet play, diapers, rimming (I'm very, very selective as to whose ass I'll lick)


Fireplay, branding, cutting, blood play


Writing assignments from Dominant, for sex stories to masturbate to (really)?!


Age play, furries,


I'm not compatible with indoor smokers or vapers, and if you're a chain smoker it's just not going to work.


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