We are a happily married couple, not swingers, non scene but keen to explore.

We both prefer the sub role but he is not interested in meeting others. She is keen to undergo education, training as a submissive to an experienced, sensible, patient Dominant male. He must be allowed to be present but only allowed to watch and not interefere.

We are a sensible couple, understand the type of activities which bdsm covers, we just lack experience. It is very important to us that a suitable Dominant understands the education aspects of introducing a new sub to the range of different activities. She wishes to be taken on a journey into submission but doing so one step at a time. Sorry but we will only be interested in a male who understands this process and can explain the different stages which will be required. She is not willing to be rushed into any aspects but is keen to be obedient to a suitable Dominant.

We would prefer a mature male, with his own home as we prefer this not to take place at our home due to family. We can easily travel at weekends, evenings but not available during the day. Distance is not a problem for the correct male who understands our situation.