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GentleDomSpanks
Pan Male, 68, Sikeston, Missouri 
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GentleDomSpanks
Update October 6, 2019. I am retiring my Dom self today. While I may peek at your profile, I no longer seek engagement. However, I will leave my profile up for now.

You park your car in front of my house, on a quiet old street in a quiet small town. You walk up to my front door, which I open before you knock. You are right on time. You remain silent, as Ive instructed. I have no need to speak yet. You can hear your heart pounding, wondering if I can hear it as well. As you step inside, I can see the pulse throbbing in your neck. I know. You are startled as I slam the door loudly behind you, and then you hear the distinct click of the lock. We are alone.

I place my hand in the small of your back and guide you to the master bedroom. The afternoon sun shines through the high windows onto my large bed, glinting off the heavy brass bedposts. You draw a deep nervous breath at the sight of the implements laid out there - an assortment of lashes, whips, floggers, straps, paddles. (There is a towel covering some other things. What might they be?) We have discussed limits. We know where this is leading.

Strip, now. You do not hesitate. Is there already a slight glistening between your trembling legs? Ill have to deal with that, but not just yet. I draw a line down your naked spine with my fingernail, and you try to contain a spasm while uttering an unintelligible mrmph. I lean into your ear. Hush, now. Sounds are for later, with the screaming. I gesture toward the instruments on the sunlit bed. Pick one, my pet, and well begin.

Im lacking in hands-on experience, late to this long-dormant dominant side of myself, but it already feels comfortable, like an old leather belt. I seek intelligent, willing, creative, hungry minds. Its not necessary that you know yet what you are hoping to find in a relationship. We can take that journey together. (Perhaps this is a good time to point out that I am not monogamous, and I will not engage in a 247 life with another person.)

I do not seek a sub to break - I want to guide you in discovering your deeper self, from within and without. My methods will not be effective with some, and those in need of more severe methods will may find their True Dom elsewhere on CollarSpace. (I suspect that many of the subs I minister will eventually want more than I am willing to provide. I believe, however, that they will have been well-served, well-Dommed, and will more easily adapt when they leave for a harsher Master.)

I administer physical pain because that is what I want and it is what you either desire (as a masochist) or it is what you accept because of your craving need to submitserveplease. It creates, then strengthens the bond between us. I will never spankbeatwhip you to punish or discipline you. My primary method of punishment is to simply withhold my attentions. Your shame will be the disappointment you see in my eyes when you fail me - when you fail us. I will determine additional disciplinary actions based on those things you fear - not by the things you crave. (But if I find you require severe corrective actions often, we will part ways.)

If you want my attention, you are going to have to quickly prove you are an engaging communicator. In my domain it is the subs responsibility to make first, respectful contact. (I hope that makes you nervous, but that you feel compelled to do so anyway. Yes, its a test.) I welcome messages from all, but I wont respond to one-liners or boilerplate messages. (well, unless its a really good line, or if you have a really intriguing profile). If you write a quick note to say you like my photo, my little story above, my even shorter journal stories, or to thank me for simply viewing your profile, consider this sentence as my thank you or you are welcome. Repeatedly sending short messages gets you blocked and reported as a spammer. And, no, I do not accept blind chat or friend requests. (Really?!) Im seeing a few subs adding me to their favorites list without messaging me to explain why they haveve done so. DONT DO THAT!!

One of the first messages I received when I signed up here was from a fellow Dom welcoming me to the dark side. I disagree. This is the kaleidoscope side.

I must add this note. This is NOT about sex for me. It is unlikely I will have you service my cock, as my sexual libido is nearly dead. But I will address your sexual needsdesires in ways you likely cant imagine.

A little still she strove, and much repented
And whispering I will neer consent consented. Byron
11/23/2021 11:41:03 PM: I am suprised and delighted to see the return of Journals.Did anyone miss me?

3/8/2018 11:34:01 PM: I see many Doms & subs say they value loyalty. I'm not so sure. How is loyalty tested? If your Dom or sub is disloyal, is loyalty broken? What does loyalty mean to you? Damn, I wish CS would add a feature to allow comments to journal entries!!

2/7/2018 7:54:26 PM: Respect is properly given, not earned! Contempt is earned! Got your attention? Good. Now for the fine print, the reasoning behind such an audacious statement that counters the sentiment I have read way too often on these sites. It boils down to this: If I don't know anything else about you other than that you are a fellow human on our shared road through life, then that's enough for me to respect you. It's automatic (or it should be). If you stumble, stranger, I will try to catch you. If you fall, I will offer my hand. It's what people do (or should). And if I don't, then I'm an asshole as I have tossed my self-respect and your natural respect for me (as a stranger to a stranger) right out the window. What is key in my argument is that I'm talking about the interactions of complete strangers. The instant I see your profile photo and screen name, I start to form opinions. My respect may rise or diminish slightly. When I further read your profile and journal entries my respect will almost certainly rise or diminish (perhaps diminish into contempt) further. When I read that first message you send, my respect may drop to zero or below, or it may soar. But please remember: Before we interacted, I respected you. If you didn't respect me before you knew me, then my respect for you is diminished. If you squander the respect I naturally have for you, you may be well on your way to earning my contempt.

1/31/2018 1:04:26 AM: I see SO many broken people here. I want to throw them a life raft, tell them that it might be all ok. But it may not be so. I may be salvation, but I also may be your ticket to hell.

12/17/2017 12:15:22 AM: I found this quote on another CS profile, and he found it on another profile. It resonates with him, and I find the vibe as well.'Submission is not a gift; it is an obligation!'

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