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curiouswife
I am an older experienced Domme . I am on the tasteful tomboy butch side. If you know what Old Guard or Old School is then I would like to hear from you. I looking for an elite submissive to slave who is on the femme side. I need someone who is smart, and motivated. I am not looking for anyone who describes themselves as "bitch" or "brat". I have a public life that requires someone who can pass for vanilla but remain in a submissive/slave space. I have found someone whom is wonderful to me. She is a service submissive. We are seeking a third for a thruple situation. I am also open to couples if both are submissives. ****************************************************** I am looking for a woman who takes pride in her ability to serve. I am even handed, clear with my instructions, reward or punish according to actions. I am not into edge play (as in knives), scat, water sports, children, blood, or animals. While ultimately I am looking for a long term placement/commitment, I am open to temporary transient encounters to help take the edge off. Photo's will be exchanged after I am interested in you and you voice verify. You must have Skype with a working camera if you are long distance. Gentlemen, thank you but no thank you. Do not waste my time as I am not wasting yours. That also includes cross dressing men, sissy boys, bisexual boys and anyone with a Y chromosone. NO ABSOLUTELY NOT will I ever submit to a male dominant. REALLY? Did you even need to go there? Cause you really are not all that... Disclosure: I travel for work quite a bit so distance, while a challenge, can be dealt with.
12/2/2017 10:19:02 AM
New question.... WTF with all the fallen or broken domes? Honey if someone broke you and you now bend a knee .... newsflash... you were never a dominant to begin with. The thought of bending a knee is so repulsive to me there are not words for it. Sometimes I am contacted by "domme's" who are looking to explore their submissive side...HUH? Yeah thats a hard no for me.If you have a submissive side to explore you are not a dominant. If you have to explore something I am definitely not the Domme for you.
11/30/2017 5:26:12 PM
ooooo hate mail..... I love hate mail! I got this today from a "submissive" named suzimay ...

Just to amuse myself while having breakfast i read your profile, what a self important bitch you are, seriously, and at 50 or so ha ha you should be well fixed upby now , and you probably voted for the other moron aka trump have a nice day hahahaha.ps noreply blocked. hahaha.

This is an example of someone who is NOT an elite well mannered submissive. I still haven't figured out what an upby is... oh well it isn't important.
11/29/2017 3:38:40 AM

Anyone who thinks edge play is getting someone to the "edge" of an orgasm and not letting them cum is called ... orgasm denial. {rolling my eyes at the putz's who think they what they are talking about.)

 

2/4/2017 12:49:47 PM
I am sick of the submissives and slaves who bill themselves as sluts and whores? Really cause I can go to the East Village and get a real whore for $100 who is much more skilled then you are. Sluts come with all kinds of diseases and attitudes.

I miss the days of sophisticated service from refined smart slaves who knew their place and took pride in their abilities to please their owner.
1/28/2017 7:35:02 AM
The latest source of peels of laughter for me.... shit you not this really is written in a profile by a self labeled slave...

"deal with it or move along I'm here for me and what is best for me not for you"

I am still rolling on the floor, laughing... kids today... so silly.... "slave"...

blahhhhh hhhhaaaahhhhhhaaaaaaa 
1/24/2017 6:58:03 AM
Oh how I long to make a list of all the males trying to pass on this site. Oh how I long to make a list of all the people who just want to cheat on spouses or just want someone to spin a cyber tale so they can wank off.

It really would be so much easier for all parties if people would just be forthright in their profiles. Oh but wait... alternative facts are all the rage these days.


1/14/2017 10:28:58 PM
so here is the latest that confuses me... why do submissive/slaves send notes to potential Domme's and when we reply they never read our responses nor do they accept chat requests. So the question of the day is... WHY THE FUCK DO YOU REACH OUT IN THE FIRST PLACE? I really hate time wasters. And then there are those who lack basic manner. Shit collarspace provides you with a simple button you can click that says thanks but no thanks. Sigh... I miss the days when if a submissive/slave was rude they were within arms reach and you could slap the  rude out of them.
1/8/2017 7:25:18 AM
Yet again I have to point out to those who swim in the shallow end of the gene pool... we Domme's do look at how old you say you are, how long you say you have been in the lifestyle and WHEN you join collarspace. IF .... and I know this is a challenge from you guppies out there... IF you DO NOT change your profile to reflect your age and experiences as you surf through Collarspace, it makes you look really really realy stooped... no seriously it does... for real.... yeah stoooooopid.

I just love the joined in 2010 and is STILL a college sophomore who just realized she was a lesbian and only wants Femme Dommes to guide her on her on line I never do web cams or give out my phone number explorations cause she has read so much about this life and is just dying to become a live in full time humiliation slut meat bag..... of course THAT does NOT scream straight white boy looking for wank material   :::::rolling my eyes:::::
12/10/2016 1:22:13 AM
In a spectacular moment of insanity, I accepted a chat request from someone who billed themselves as a "Dominant" lesbian. It turns out "she" has decided she is really a submissive and wants an older woman to guide her. When I replied, "Change your profile to submissive, :::::poof::::::::: gone from the chat room... children...
12/3/2016 12:25:22 PM
:::::::::::sigh:::::::::: I will never understand the male mind. If you have a dick and you are NOT transitioning do not list yourself as a lesbian BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT!!!!!!! And I have no interest in anyone with a dick {respect to MTF} so really I am going to block you when I know you have started talking with me from a LIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
11/1/2016 7:23:15 PM
I am most displeased with Collarspace Chat. I do not load in properly to be able to speak with people. So I will not issue chat requests you will have to issue them to me.
10/31/2016 8:00:37 PM
Stupid Male Note of the Day: A male dominant sent me a note that said "The hotel door closes behind us. I slam you against the wall and run my hand under your blouse. Do I find a bra?"

My reply: You find my knee in your crotch, your elbow being broken and you being slammed into the floor because you just grabbed a Domme with a black belt in Aikido. I toss a rear naked choke on you and tell you that you get to pick one bone for me to break. And I will pick the others that will be broken.

Yeapper... he blocked me... ooopppssss
10/12/2016 7:16:25 PM
The newest and weirdest stupid male move... Click on "Admire" but block the Domme from writing to you to say bugger off. So my Admirer section is now cluttered with dick pics that i have to go block the idiots so I can get rid of them. The boys never learn.
10/5/2016 5:04:22 PM
Don't you just love the people who suddenly go :::poof:::  sigh.... Why do people bother if they are not serious? I wish there was a box that people could check for "Hey I am only here to collect pictures and fantasy material".
9/15/2016 7:05:03 AM
sighhhhhh... I swear to gawd boys are really stupid...

Yes, lesbian means I am only interested in girls.

And NO you are NOT special! I will not make an exception for you. I have ZERO interest in your silly little dick much less an desire to play with it for my pleasure...

YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL!!!!!
9/4/2016 2:40:12 PM
And post number 3....

Really??? I exchange a few notes with you, you cannot write a complete sentence and I am hiding something from you because I refuse to send you a picture while you refuse to voice verify.

Ok folks here is the rule.  It is simple. Some of us have real jobs with consequences if bosses/clients found out about certain proclivities.  Ministers, doctors, lawyers, people in politics, therapists are all people in the lifestyle who do not put their pictures up on the internet. 

This lifestyle existed long before the cyber world.  Back in the day you actually had to walk into a a bar/club and meet people.  You actually had to be invited to a private party and have real conversations before anyone put a collar on you. 

SO NO I WILL NOT SEND YOU A PICTURE! I have a real job with a real life that I want to keep and your ass no matter how cute is not worth it.
9/4/2016 12:52:53 PM
HOLY SHIT?????

WHAT THE FUCK TODAY?  Is there something in the air?  

Are the stars aligning in some freak order? Or is fate just fucking with me.  

My mailbox is full with silly fakes, like I could not tell that you were a man and a pic collector in the first 2 sentences.

I never make journal posts and yet here I am two in one day to deal with the just plan silliness going on.

YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL!!! THE RULES APPLY TO YOU!!!! NO I WILL NOT SEND YOU A PICTURE! 
9/4/2016 9:28:02 AM
So here I am on a sunny calm balmy Sunday morning reading my mail, writing back to some interesting women when BLAMMMMMM "gentlemen" decide to send me pictures of their dicks.

Really?  Penis shots?  What am I supposed to do?  Fall on my knees and say oh my goodness your dick is sooooo lovely I must own it or submit to it?

Listen very careful "gentlemen".  I promise you my dick is bigger.  My dick never tires.  My dick does not need the little blue pill. Anddddd..... I get to change the size width, length, color and shape of my dick when ever I want.

So seriously there is absolutely nothing special about your dick in any way shape or form.  YOU are not special.  YOU are not exempt from the rules. Now run along and stop bothering the adults in the room.
kittykelis
 
 Age: 34
 Melbourne, Australia