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Book a session with an experienced professional. Yes, your instincts tell you that this is very personal and you're right, it is. It is you exploring deep parts of yourself. Parts of yourself that you have most likely denied for some time. You are opening yourself up to being more vulnerable than you have probably been before. Why would you trust that to another newbie or someone that does not value their skills enough to require someone else that has already done the work to explore themselves? Someone that already basically knows that to be in alignment within a relationship they require someone with a dominant heart? You wouldn't if you know what is best for you.

A good dominant values themselves and that is why they will most often choose to engage in D/s relationships with those that are capable of giving them the submission that they crave. A newbie is not normally capable of this because they have not explored themselves. A non-professional dominant can decide to take on someone that is totally new but as we know, that newbie will almost always decide that they have learned what they want to from that dominant and then move on and the dominant that was hoping to achieve a long lasting relationship is left disappointed.

I as a professional have honed my skills and I value myself. I value what I have to ol the need for others to show me that they value me. Everyone that values themselves feels this way. In the case of a professional, we value our skills enough to embrace the fact that a good way for someone to show us that they value us is by providing us joy by compensating us for our skils and the training that we bestow upon others. Just like any other professional that has spent years honing their trade, we have too and we deserve to be compensate for our skills. For what we give to the world because what we give to the world is a great service. Especially to those that would not be able to explore their deeper selves without us.

We are healers, we are counselors we are vehicles that allow you to explore who you are as a submissive. We take from you because if you are a submissive it is in your alignment to give to give us joy. Money brings me great joy. It brings me food, shelter, toys, clothing, the ability to travel, go to parties an a plethora of others things. It also gives me the ability to be able to bring you the joy of service. There is nothing wrong with paying a dominant for training you. For making a fantasy come true. For giving you that longing of being of service to someone else. For giving you that space to explore your deepest, most authentic self.